Faisal | Unrecorded Date Salaamu Alaikum, my sister in Islam. I think it is terribly nice of me to look for a Somali muslim wife for my future--Insha-Allah and this is the subject of this mail. I am 28 years old,5'7'tall,60k, Somali brother, strictly sunni muslim, well mannered,broad minded with some what average body frame and physically fit.I live in Europe and I am undergraduate student, International business science. I try to practice Islam in all aspects of my life as well as praying five times a day.I had never drink and smoke, chew or eat a jaad my life.I would like to start my marriage based on mutual trust, respect, and friendship. I feel that I have a lot to offer emotionally, spiritually intellectually,and physically who experiencing the beauty of the fruits of the spirit:patience, forgiveness, compassion, acceptance, release, tolerance, faith, honesty, surrender and unconditional love. in other words, a person who is able to authentically admit mistakes faulties, and mishaps. I feel that I'm ready to endure relationship and value marriage over career future husband Insha- allah but do not object to having some activity in the wider community.I believe relationship require work not just rule and to be obeyed to keep every one his place. I love, honour and respect a women for the mere qualities that ALLAH(swt) created them for but not just based on her beauty, degree's title's, universities attended, prestigious jobs. I will try to fulfill the duties of a muslim husband to the best of my ability Insha-allah. My objective in this life as well as the hereafter is worship of the ALMIGHTY ALLAH sub hanah wata' allah, and practice Quran and Sunnah as away of life. I am looking for a soulmate with a very strong iman and has a lot of taqwa(PIETY). A mate who does the right thing for the sake of Allah not because she has an image to uphold,an idol to revere or needing others to make her decisions.The other qualities which my future happiness lies, are being that: --You should be an islamic minded person,a strong sunni muslim sister who wears Hijab and Jilbab,because it is fundamentally part of worship,she must practice and follows Quran and Sunnah;and is always striving to learn more.I myself am in the process of learning more about Islam and would hope to marry a girl who will help me to learn more and put into practice what I learn --Insha-allah. --A partner who is obedient to her husband as Allah(swt) and his prophet Muhummed(pbuh) stated but not his wishes or her imagination. --Someone who values relationship and marriage more than materialism and money. --Woman who can express her feeling (whether happiness or anger), accept, and listen to other feelings and move behond her when the need prevails one to do so. --Someone who is willing to endure the happiness and pains of self discovery of who you are!A woman that would stand by me no matter what happens to us. --Someone who is patient and able to forgive herself and others when she realizes her weakness's that typically are revealed in real intimacy and relationship. --A mate who is not emotionally distant or run away emotionally when the weakness of others are revealed. --I like a partner who is kind,caring, sensitive to my needs while being true to her own satisfaction. I prefer an equal relationship rather than a one sided one. --I am interesting in a girl that is capable of returning the same kind of love and support that I am willing to give her. A woman that will be faithful to me. I am not asking you that you should have to possess all of these qualities but there must be driven desire from yourself to Allah (swt) to commit to personal growth.I am sure if you are good muslim girl who you possess this criteria. You should have to be less than 23 years old. But do not forget that my first important point is to be good at our GOLDEN RELIGION and practice it. I have gone through trails and tribulation to prepare and encourage me to develop these qualities which I solely require. So It seems that I wrote same thing over and over, please forgive me. I hope you can understand why I wrote this long letter. Please if you possess the above mentioned criteria, do not hesitate to contact me or if you have any question you would like to ask me ,please feel free to do so! Anxiously awaiting your reply. Faisal. Asaalum Alaikum |