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SomaliNet Forum (Archive): Somali Women's Forum: Archive (Mar. 2000 - August 2000): HELP!!!
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Jamiila

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I'm trying to break up with my Boy-F, but I don't know how.Now some other guy asked me our today and I told him to let me think about it.Right now I don't know what to do so please HELP!

Thanks

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Mike

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To.Jamiila

You lady just do it . maxaa culees aan jirin isku saaree waxaan ku dhahdaa cadow I get another one that is oll.
Bút you can we be friends
Hadii kale adaa kahela miyaa miyic miyicda dumarka.

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Alwatan

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When you were fucking with him whose permission did you get.You get what you deserve nothing more nothing less.

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Anonymous

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jamiila,

go •••• them both, they both deserve it.
with this falling in love with a crazy bitch like you!

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MAD MAC

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Jamilla
Aside from the deep and insightful advice of my other colleagues here on the net you might consider:

A. How long have you been together? More time together makes a break up more difficult.
B. Where you sexually involved? If you were in your culture then you need to seriously think about the repurcussions.
C. How deep was your emotional involvement? How deep is his? If this was a casual dating thing then you should be able to sit down and explain that the chemistry just isn't right for a lifelong committment and it's time to move on. On the other hand, if the committment was serious then you need to examine exactly why you want to break up. And if the reasons are valid then explain them to him.

If the reasons are not valid then maybe you should reconsider. Every relationship goes from being new and exciting to more routine. That is inevitable. You get into habits, like we are all wont to do, and things seem boring. No matter who you hook up with this will happen. So be prepared for this transition with your next boyfriend and if this is the reason you want to move on then I would recommend you reconsider.

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CiiseRooti

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They call it Sex in da 90s....go and have fun both with....good luck

CiiseRooti

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CiiseRooti

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They call it Sex in da 90s....go and have fun with both....good luck

CiiseRooti

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MN man

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To JAMILA

Don't ever listen to KUFAARS advise. That's all i gotta say.

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