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BETWEEN TWO CAUSINS "HELP"

SomaliNet Forum (Archive): Somali Women's Forum: Archive (Mar. 2000 - August 2000): BETWEEN TWO CAUSINS "HELP"
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MULKI

Monday, July 17, 2000 - 10:26 pm
MY MOTHER IS TELLING ME TO MARRY HER BOTHER'S SON AND MY FATHER IS TELLING ME TO MARRY HIS SISTER'S SON, TELL ME WHAT SHOULD I DO? I NEED YOUR OPINION GUYS AND PLEASE BE POSTIVE

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Anisa

Tuesday, July 18, 2000 - 01:27 am
Hi Mulki, I think you are the only one who can make such a dicision, you have to decide which one of them can be very close to your conditions in men, and ofcourse kindness counts a lot in relationships. I think you should be with whoever you are happy with and not just please your parents cos tommorrow/future you will be the only one who will deal with those marrage situations your mum/dad can't do much when it is too late. So I suggest you take your time and not to rush into it unless you are so sure about it well.

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channels

Tuesday, July 18, 2000 - 01:57 am
Hello Mulki.
Mother's advice is important, but also you are the one to decide what's best for you in terms of prosperity and your happiness.
if you don't see that into them, talk it over with your parents and fine your man.
peace

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UBAX_89

Tuesday, July 18, 2000 - 04:31 am
MULKI,

SEEMS LIKE YOUR PARENTS ARE OLD FASHIONED, AIN'T NOIN' WRONG WITH THAT, BUT OLD FASHIONED MARRIAGE, WHICH IS SETTING UP THE COUPLES, IS NOW THESE DAYS NOT WORKING AS YOU CAN SEE. YOU ALSO NEED TO BE MORE SPECIFIC, DO YOU WANT TO MARRY ANY OF THESE COUSIN'S OF URS? IF NOT, I SUGGEST YOU TALK TO YOUR PARENTS RIGHT AWAY BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE. IF YOU ARE CONFUSED ABOUT CHOOSING WHO TO MARRY I SUGGEST YOU OR ATLEAST I HOPE YOU PICK THE ONE WHO YOU ARE GONNA BE HAPPY WITH AND THE ONE WHO IS GOING TO MAKE YOU HAPPY.

WELL, WISH YOU ALL THE BEST OF LUCK.
PEACE.

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girlInjeans

Tuesday, July 18, 2000 - 06:38 am
Mulki

Find out which one has a BMW car,Three major credit cards,good choice of cologne,dress nicely,good looking,good personality,major brains,and fun to be with...then ...marry him.If they dont have those qualities- hit the road JACKY-it aint worth it..lol..lol

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kamal

Tuesday, July 18, 2000 - 07:12 am
Mulki, forget about them. marry me instead. i'm 29, 6'1", light skinned, 190lbs, i finished college, i pray my salaat, i'll treat you like a queen. tell me about yourself.

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Real Kamaal

Tuesday, July 18, 2000 - 07:30 am
Real Kamaal,,

That is not me mulki,,,

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channels

Tuesday, July 18, 2000 - 07:34 am
To Mulki.
girlinjeans is a material girl how many times she changed hands of men, God knows, don't listen to her sorry ass,she don't have the guts to be your place I mean lucky enough to choose between 2.
so fellow your Religion, culture and heart, remember your family advice is best for you..'

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kamal

Tuesday, July 18, 2000 - 08:30 am
real kamal, what do you mean it is not me? i asked the lady to marry me. you did not. so leave the lady alone. if she is a good looking lady and one who is ready to get marry, i want to get to marry her. mulki, tell me what you look like. do you have long hair? i like to wash the hair of my wife. do you wear the hijab? how tall are you? by the way, is your mother and father from the same tribe? if they are not, that means you are open to marry someone who is not from your tribe. i do not care what is your tribe. i live in new york city.

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MN man

Tuesday, July 18, 2000 - 04:27 pm
MULKI

Marry both so u can make both of'em happy. but whatever u do don't disrespect ur family.

whichone do u wanna thoe?

Good luck whit tha family

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MN man

Tuesday, July 18, 2000 - 04:37 pm
Girl in jeans or peeny hoes Whatever

I can't believe ya saying stuff like that .
Then thiz 90s u gotta believe everything.
BMW, Three Cridit Cards,Good looking?
Is u a digger or lover i can't tell.
So don't misguided tha sista. If no one want ya ass then don't playa hate.

Good luck

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MULKI

Tuesday, July 18, 2000 - 09:51 pm
MULKI

TO ALL OF U WHO ANSWERED MY POST I WOULD LIKE TO THANK U PERSONAL AND THE ONES WHO MAKE TO JOKES THANKS GUYS, I THINK I WILL MARRY KAMAL WHAT DO U THINK GUYS GIVE YOUR OPINION IF U DON'T MIND? LOL.

TO UBAX_89,
SIS I DON'T WANNA MARRY NIEHTER OF THEM, THEY ARE MY CAUSINS I CANN'T MARRY MY OWN CAUSIN,IT'S KINDA WEIRD IN MY WORLD I DON'T KNOW ABOUT THE OTHER SOMALIA PPL. I AM TRYING TO FIND MY OWN BATTLE,LOVE,PRINCE CHARMING, ON MY OWN WAY I JUST HOPE MY PARENTS WILL UNDERSTAND THAT

TO MN MAN
U KNOW I CAN MARRY BOTH OF THEM AND MAKE MY FAMILY HAPPY, BUT THE Q IS AM I GOING TO BE HAPPY?

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waaniye

Tuesday, July 18, 2000 - 11:55 pm
Mulki

since you got no personal preferace of your own and your only purpose in life seem to be that of pleasing your two parents.

I suggest you should marry both of them, that way you could make both your parents happy. Btw, you don't have to marry both at once. try one after other.

I'm sorry i have to be so graphic of how to do this. cuz I reckon you are too thick to figure out on your own.................................


bye

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kamal

Wednesday, July 19, 2000 - 03:49 am
mulki, if you marry me, i'll treat you right. our love for each other will grow each day. we will have beautiful kids together. by the way, did you say you are beautiful lady with long hair that reach to the shoulders---a virgin girl who has never been married before or a divorce lady--do you shave your arm-pits--do you have good hands that do massages(back rub)---do you have affectionate and lovable personality? if you are, then you and i will create nothing but beautiful music together. your parents will be happy for you that you married me instead of their choices. think about this tonight and know that your dream can come true with me. please consider my proposal for marry. we will live together happly ever till death do us apart.

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UBAX_89

Wednesday, July 19, 2000 - 04:25 am
KAMAAL AND REAL KAMAAL: GET A LIFE, BOTH OF YOU. I MEAN THE GIRL ASKED A QUESTION ABOUT MARRYING HER TWO COUSINS, NOT A QUESTION ABOUT "WHO WANTS TO BE MY HUSBAND".

MN MAN, A.K.A..."MN BOY": WHAT YOU MEAN "MARRY THEM BOTH SO YOU CAN KEEP THEM HAPPY". SEEMS LIKE YOU ARE NEW TO NORTH AMERICA OR WHEREVER YOU ARE.

MULKI: SO I SUGGEST YOU TELL YOUR PARENTS HOW YOU FEEL RIGHT NOW..BEFORE YOU GET YOURSELF INTO A SITUATION YOU DON'T WANNA BE IN.

PEACE.

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kamal

Wednesday, July 19, 2000 - 04:36 am
ubax_89, the girl did not asked which one of her cousins she could marry. all she said was the sitiuation she was in. she asked us what she should do; not which cousin she should marry or which parant she should listen and accept his or her choice. all she asked was this: "TELL ME WHAT SHOULD I DO?". i told her that she should marry me and forget about the two cousins.

so, ubax_89, as you can see, you are the one who mis-understood mulki's question. then, you are the one who needs to get a life.

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Gube

Wednesday, July 19, 2000 - 09:10 am
Mulki........../
Before I give you any advice..I've one question I need to ask you...

ARE YOU VRGN? You know what I mean.!

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MN man

Wednesday, July 19, 2000 - 09:40 am
Mulki

If ya wanna marry that Kamals am all for it. I mean tha real kamal or tha other kamal.
Confusing huhhhhh

Good luck

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Kidu

Wednesday, July 19, 2000 - 11:47 am
To: Mulki,
What a lunatic chick you're!!!!!!!!!!!. How could you just marry the Greyhound (blood sucking kamaal, which you just met on the internet?..You damn fool, cheap, filthy ...

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kamaal

Wednesday, July 19, 2000 - 12:29 pm
and how could you call kamaal whom you just met on the internet a "blood sucking kamaal"?

how dump, fool, imprudent can you be, kidu.

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Amaani

Wednesday, July 19, 2000 - 02:01 pm
Kamaal..
Is finding a unique name very hard here..or are you lacking some creativity.
Stop begging for love ... its only earned.

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channels

Wednesday, July 19, 2000 - 02:01 pm
To GUBE..
what kind of stupid ugly Q is that........?

To Kamaal excellent Q.. lol

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najma

Wednesday, July 19, 2000 - 02:20 pm
hi mulki

i have great idia for u don't choose one of them
they are your causin,they are like u brothers.

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Real Kamaal

Thursday, July 20, 2000 - 05:53 am
Hey guys remember this is not the real Kamaal...

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Kit-Kat

Thursday, July 20, 2000 - 06:15 am
GirlInJeanz loooool am with ya on dat..No money no show !!!

Mulki
listen gurlie.....why settle for less marry both aight....see which one is good in da kitchen....i mean who is really good at cooking da realy food not so called canjeero ok...see if which one of da cousins is good at cleaning da house....washing da dishes....why have one when u can have two....one in da chicken n one in da bathroom ...Since there's no love here why not take advantage of it

Ofcourse keep da bald one in da bathroom..n da one with da big friendly belly in da kitchen..he'll do all da greetings ..n u wlc

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kamal

Thursday, July 20, 2000 - 06:26 am
Amaani, i don't think no one has monopoly on names. there is no such thing as a unique name nor is anyone lacking creativity by named after himself a name that is common to many somalis. i love myself; i'm not begging for love; i show love.

thanks, channels.

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kamal

Thursday, July 20, 2000 - 06:52 am
Amaani, i don't think no one has monopoly on names. there is no such thing as a unique name nor is anyone lacking creativity by naming after himself a name that is common to many somalis. i love myself; i'm not begging for love. i'm offering love.

thanks, channels.

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MULKI

Thursday, July 20, 2000 - 08:43 am
TO KIDU, FIRST OF ALL I AM NOT FOOL AND SECOND HAVE U EVER HEARD OF SENSE OF HUMOR OR JOKES AND HAVING A GOOD TIME IN THE NET AFTER ALL WE ALL SOMALIA AND WE CAN DISCUSS ANY THING WE PLEASE THAT INCLUDES WHO U CONSIDER TO MARRY,

I WAS JUST JOKING WHEN I SAID I WILL MARRY KAMAAL, I DON'T EVEN KNOW HIM BUT SINCE HE TOOK HIS TIME TO ANSWER MY POST WHY NOT ANSWER HIS ITS JUST JOKE SIS SO GET TO THE GAME WHICH IS ABVOUSILY U DON'T HAVE CLUE ABOUT IT AND THANKS FOR ANSWERING I ENJOYED READING IT

PEACE OUT

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MULKI

Thursday, July 20, 2000 - 08:47 am
TO GUBE, I AM 21 YEARS OLD NEVER BEEN KISSED, SO U CAN TELL I AM VRGN

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kamal

Thursday, July 20, 2000 - 08:52 am
mulki, you can not believe how happy i'm to hear that you said----you have never been kissed at age 21. how lucky will your future husband be to have you as his wife. i just wish i was him. :)

by the way, mulki, you are right. kidu did not just get the joke.

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Basra

Thursday, July 20, 2000 - 08:57 am
mulki

abaay with all undeserved respect,i think you are disgraceful to throw your laundry on air like that without censorship.Girl,your busines is your business..ok.I can't imagine your shameless display.

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MULKI

Thursday, July 20, 2000 - 08:57 am
TO OTHERS WHO ANSWERED MY POST I JUST WANNA TELL U THANKS FOR ADVICE,SOME OF U ASKED ME IF I WANNA MARRY NEITHER OF MY CAUSIN AND THE ANSWER IS NO I DON'T WANNA MARRY NEITHER OF THEM, I MEAN THEY ARE MY OWN FAMILY AND ITS WEIRD TO MARRY YOUR OWN CAUSINS THANKS AGAIN FOR TAKING YOUR OWN TIME TO ANSWER MY POST.

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kamal

Thursday, July 20, 2000 - 08:59 am
i would love my lips to touch a lady whose lips have never been touch by another man. please mulki let me be the first one to do the honor---in a halaal way, though. just say yes that you will marry me. :)

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kamal

Thursday, July 20, 2000 - 09:04 am
basra, no one knows someone else's business. everyone here is anonymous. it is you who is doing censorship. there is nothing to be ashamed of here. she did ruined her image. i think she is a sport and one that is respectful.

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kamal

Thursday, July 20, 2000 - 09:06 am
i mean she did not ruined her image.

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REAL Kamaal

Thursday, July 20, 2000 - 11:07 am
Basra,,,,,,

Good point...........

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anonymous

Thursday, July 20, 2000 - 12:17 pm
REAL Kamaal,

What point?

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Anonymous

Thursday, July 20, 2000 - 12:26 pm
Look here, every 1.... I neba wanted or wanna now, to marry a women who don't know how to kiss da... whad's this kinda joke... guys wake up no one has a time to teach a kiss da.. .. she must be train and semi professional 4 dat... for me I am looking some one who's really some thing on bed who make me go around...........

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kamal

Thursday, July 20, 2000 - 12:43 pm
look anonymous, would you like fresh and new things or used things? most people prefer brand new things. if you want professional woman who has training in her belts, there are good places to find them---and those places are called whore houses(prositution houses). i would like to teach my wife everything there is to know about intamacy. i prefer her to be not used by another man. it is okay if she has been married before (divorced or widowed), but if she fooled around with many different guys who used her like a used tire, i do not want her.

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Anonymous

Thursday, July 20, 2000 - 07:16 pm
this is the first time you are making any sense kamal. there is hope for everyone after all.

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MULKI

Thursday, July 20, 2000 - 10:07 pm
TO ANONYMOUS, AND BASRA, I AM NOT ASHAMED CAUSE I NEVER KISSED A GUY,INFECT I AM PROUD OF MY SELF LIVING OTHER COUTRIES AND CONTROLING YOUR SELF IS HARD FOR THE MOST GIRLS I KNOW ( NO DISRESPECT LADIES) BUT I REALLY LIKE WHO I AM AND I DON'T CARE WHAT OTHER PEOPLE LIKE U THINK, AND IF I AM NOT MISTAKE I THOUGHT WE WERE FROM SOMALIA AND WE SHOULDN'T BE ASHAMED OF SOMETHINGS LIKE THAT BUT AS I CAN SEE U GUYS CHANGED ALOT AND I REAL FELL SORRY FOR U GUYS.

BY THE WAY ANONYMOUS, WOULD U CARE TO TEACH ME HOW BRO?
NEVER MIND KAMAAL IS HERE FOR ME HE CAN TEACH ME HOW, AFTER ALL HE IS THE ONE WHO HAS RESPECT FOR THE LADIES.

GUYS I DIDN'T MEAND TO DISRESPECT ANY BODY I JUST HAD TO ANDSWER SOME Q.

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kamal

Friday, July 21, 2000 - 03:20 am
Anonymous, i do not know what you are talking about. what other times did i not make sense to you? i always have hope.

mulki, kamaal is here for you and likes your attitude already. i respect you too.

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Anonymous

Friday, July 21, 2000 - 10:50 am
Mulki..
with my respect to you as a girl and going to be a women.......but I reall have no time to teach for eg,, How to kiss..? how you going to keep your man ... if you don't kiss passionately and remarkably.....as I said...women is a women .. whether Virgin or from the call-girls...

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kamal

Friday, July 21, 2000 - 03:43 pm
Anonymous, are you saying that you would like to have as your wife a girl who is a call girl, a girl who learned how to kiss passionately and remarkably? you do not have time to teach your wife who to kiss, therefore, you would let other men do it for you!!! if a girl like mulki marries me, a girl who has never been kissed, i'll keep her. she does not have to know who to kiss. i'll be her only maestro in that department.

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buulaay

Friday, July 28, 2000 - 11:10 am
suspicion:

I suspect some of you are blowing kisses to HE/SHE

I am not sure? just guesing.

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Anonymous

Saturday, July 29, 2000 - 09:51 am
buulaay
helo uusleey

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