     Amina | Saturday, August 19, 2000 - 10:24 am
First of all hi and secondly pls no negative messeges.....thnx.
Brother and Sisters it all starts when i have clicked on the chat button, loged on to Canada, and found him for the first time.
He welcomed with such a welcoming note i have ever had{i know it sound corney.....but its true}anyway, we got chating about everything.
I wasn't honest...to be honest now...afterall we were in public room ...even in PR....so i felt a bit weary to give out more info.
He gave me his e-mail after i refused him mine, so I e-mailed him and he replied long time afterwards when I fully forgot about him.
He would send me these beautiful greeting cards, that made me feel all warm and fuzzy, I had also send him some notes ....this went on for a while.
And one day it stopped ...no wornings and no goodbyes......i was not suprised at first...so i send him a note saying that it was fine if he felt he did not wanted to go on, and on that I left it.
Few weeks ago i got a note from him saying he loved me and wanted to meet me here in London {he is from Canada}.
I was shocked and double shocked, he told me that he was coming to London anyway to see his family and that he would love to meet me. I was a little apprehensive at first.....but agreed with him.
On the week that he was to fly here he called me an told me which flyte he was goin to be on and where he was staying.....that was 2 weeks ago....I have not heard from him, and not recieved any note.
Ppl I know I sound silly and paranoid.....do i worry ?do i forget about him? WHAT SHOULD I DO......HELP!! |
| HWADAAG | Saturday, August 19, 2000 - 10:37 am
Amina: Just go to the chat another guy! |
| HWADAAG | Saturday, August 19, 2000 - 10:40 am
it sould have read "and find another guy!" |
| Sweetgirl | Sunday, August 20, 2000 - 03:27 pm
I think you should forget about him, he is so unreliable from the way he keeps on taking off, and the fact that he told you that he loves without seeing you tells me that he looks like something out of the night of the living dead. Who on earth loves a person that they didn't see. |
| Anonymous | Sunday, August 20, 2000 - 07:39 pm
Sweet:
Surf around enough time and u'll see how ppl fall in love without ever seeing each other.
Hope to chat with you after a couple of years. |
| ceelgaab | Sunday, August 20, 2000 - 10:24 pm
Amina:
I logged on to my network and on to the net everyday,
I learned about e-mail messages and "cute" greeting cards,
I then stumbled on to the chat rooms and started chatting with ppl I never met,
I liked this intelligent, warm, always knows how to calm me down girl in those chat rooms,
I arranged a real world meeting with that nice girl,
I met with a Serial killer instead,
I am now DEAD ! ! ! |
| hebel | Monday, August 21, 2000 - 04:03 pm
U should look for him.
.
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U should try him at Infoseek or Yahoo...Keyword: looking for my FREAK! |
| Dunya | Monday, August 21, 2000 - 08:35 pm
Sis , chatting with someone through this window is talking to an indiviual with a flawless personality, you wil build up this illusion that he is this and that kind of person but when you get some reality check , everything breaks down before your eyes cause its very different.
You are reading words with no expresions, no feelings , no sound. You read them like you would want to read them.
The words are more like watching a person dancing with no music at all.... how meaningless dont you think.
And if you watch somone dance, you can make up any song for his movments, thats how you see a person's words in the net, your own tune.
I hope i make sense to you .. and salaam |
| Basra | Tuesday, August 22, 2000 - 05:03 am
Amina
Your apprehesions are reasonable.You dont know the guy,the guy is technically a stranger(despite his somali) the point is,you can't just meet the person from the net?You cannot.Basic rules of common sense.If your relationship was telephonically involved,that would have been different,cuz u can tell alot from a telephone.My advice:stayyyyyyyyyy awayyyyyyyyy from him.Merci. |
| layla | Saturday, September 02, 2000 - 01:06 am
sweet girl sis i dont wanna be rude but u SHALLOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I mean if u fall in love with a persons looks then thats just u cause remember that 30 or 40 yrs down the line that person would be/going bald
with dentures lol or something
i mean sis looks change all the time but people dont whats inside hardly eva changes |
| Amina | Saturday, September 09, 2000 - 08:07 am
Hi everyone, and thnks to al ur positive comments, SWEETGIRL,DUNYA,BASRA,AND the rest.
All ur comments were very helpfull, i was evpecting negative notes.
Dunya u made a very good point,about words with no expressin are nothing but meaningless, and u r right.People do tend to forget the reality and slip in to dream world from time to time, i guess to I slipped in to that coma myself.
peace and love. |
| Luul | Wednesday, September 13, 2000 - 09:34 pm
To Amina
Amina it's clearly the guy was a loser,and one thing you should never do is look for a loser when you can do so much better,in my life time i lost alot of loser's and now iam older and wiser,boy am i glad i lost them.See one thing you should know about the guys who live in here Canada is 80% of them are loser's so take my advise and just leave them alone,the ones in your country are much better,because i used to live there too. |
