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salma

Tuesday, September 26, 2000 - 10:57 pm
I have this white american boyfriend ,
is that makes a bitch or something
for the only thing i care is the religion and thank god he is muslim.

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NG

Tuesday, September 26, 2000 - 11:31 pm
Hi Salma,
I think our people do not like WHITE people, but i think personaly it doesn´t matter what color is the person you love (If you love the guy Salma)id he/she is white, yellow, grean or black. What matters is the respect between you two and how true you love each others and care for each other.
Tell me here Salma when did he become Muslim? Or was he born as Muslim?


Till next time take care
NG
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salma

Tuesday, September 26, 2000 - 11:48 pm
To NG

he became muslim 3 years before i mat him

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NG

Wednesday, September 27, 2000 - 12:06 am
Salma,
Ic, so i advise you to be aware and don´t do something you will regret it in the future. If he is serious about this i wish you good luck and don´t worry about anyone else but yourself.
what about your family? What they do think of it?

Peace and love
NG

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salma

Wednesday, September 27, 2000 - 12:16 am
to ng

you have been great supporter thank very much you,
He's nice guy who realy care about me and also my family. Most of my famaliy had except him like my mother and my father well he died long time go but knew him well enough he would except him but my sister brothers and the somali community are giving a hard time.

thanks again

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the top dogg

Wednesday, September 27, 2000 - 02:14 am
salma hi.how are you.i'm fine and you know what is funny is you are in love with a white guy and i'm love with a white lady.so mine she isn't moslim but i wanna make her if is in possible.i hoop is in possible.take care and we are in love.he loves you.she loves me.i love her.you love hem and that is the most inportant thing.


bye bye

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SOMALI

Wednesday, September 27, 2000 - 02:38 am
Salma

let us assume, that the man you are in love with was Somalian (midgan) would you consider him for the job?


how come we call our Somali brothers Midgans and we don't marry them Just because of tribal issues and when we come to the west all we care is religion?

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a fact

Wednesday, September 27, 2000 - 03:14 am
To the top dogg. If all you care is love then you are going to regret for the rest of you life.

let me tell you why 1st you are a Somali person so whatever you do it matter to as you understand.

Because you are giving a bad name to the Somalis'
and when we go back to the country that's only if you are planning to go back. Your family will have a hard time to deal with cause all you care is love. So your children do you think they going to to be happy about it you know a white mummy not ofcouse you know why because they will miss a lot about Somali culture because they mum happens to be a white.

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abdiwali

Wednesday, September 27, 2000 - 03:19 am
abaayo dookhaaqa adaa leh cidaad doontid ayaad la saxiib kadhaa lakiin shardi hduu yahay muslim , bayfiend maxaad ula jeedaa ?ma mustaqbal ayaad karajeyn iyo guur mise waa arinkale taas diinteeno ma oqala somaliba hanoqdee hadii aad guurka rabtid waankugu raacsanahay lakiin waa ridkaana in aad adeecdid haday kuu diidaan waa mid meesha ku jirta salamu caleykum

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Invisible women

Wednesday, September 27, 2000 - 04:16 am
I love somalian-guy, they are most sweetest people on this earth. Daimon in this world they break when they come to this world. Nothing compared to them They are everything to me, the only one for me. And everythig that I do is for you. I can't breathe without somalian guy without my life. They are special, my heart and soul I'll always belong to you. Baby, to me you're everything. Somalian-guy are like angel, they must been heaven sent. There's nothing I ain't gonna do for somalia-guy, i will die them. Loving somalian-guy is a like a song, beautiful melody of devotion every night. Be grateful having brother like somalian-guy. Be patient and kind i am sure they will treat you like queen.

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Muriidi

Wednesday, September 27, 2000 - 07:17 am
Salma

I do not object to your choice of a white Muslim guy, however, I just wanna remind you that culture plays a vital role in human communication and understanding, the way the two of you are brought up is totally different, besides, how about your people, how would they react when you bring him to them, the least they do is frown upon your relationship with the white boy. On the other hand if you are strong enough to overcome all the hurdles and obstacles that will face you through your community, I'd say GO 4 IT & GOOD LUCK

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Anonymous

Wednesday, September 27, 2000 - 07:45 am
salma you are a whore

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afra

Wednesday, September 27, 2000 - 09:29 am
SALMA WHAT IS IT ARE U LOOKING FOR APPROVAL FROM US AND WHY SHOULD THIS MATTER BE ANY OF OUR DAMN BUSINESS, HELL I SURELY DON'T CARE WHO U LOVE AND IF U LOVE HIM GOOD FOR YOU. AND IF HIS A PRACTSING MUSLIM IT'S ALL GOOD, BUT WHAT IS YOUR POINT HERE
REMEBER U ARE FREE TO LOVE WHOEVER U CHOOSE TO.

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Luggoyo

Wednesday, September 27, 2000 - 10:22 am
Salma

Have you heard about the Somali minister who visited Russia when they were our pals. This minister was dumb as were all Barre's ministers, he was sent for a seminar, when he went there, he met with the Somali students who were studying there and asked them if they could hook him up with a Russian hoe, they brought him one who was from Siberia, he took her to a room and when she undressed, she was as white as a sheet of paper, no color whatsoever, the Minister couldn't stand this sickly pale woman he vomited and ran out cursing those who arranged and anybody with that skin color.

Now, have you seen the white guy naked, if so, how could you stand the colourless white assss!

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NG

Wednesday, September 27, 2000 - 10:38 am
Asalaamu Caleykum All


To Anonymous
Keep the insult to yourself please!


To SOMALI
Being midgan and being non somali is two differnt issues dear. The issue is not being white ot black but being non somali. That´s what it´s about. He could be arab you know, not just westeren.


To Salma
Sista you will always have all my support as long as you are doing what is right. Keep in mind that you will meet lots of people who won´t accept the ideá. It´s good to know that your mum don´t mind him, but your sister and brothers will accept him in time inshallah.


To All sisters and brothers,
I wonder why it´s OK for the somali men to marry another race and NOT for us (women)??? Am not saying a non-muslim thought i mean someone Muslim, but not somali!


Love you all
NG
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Guilty

Wednesday, September 27, 2000 - 11:09 am
Do we care lol.

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salma

Wednesday, September 27, 2000 - 07:22 pm
to somali
the issue here is not about been in love with somali guy o.k and i realy don't understand what u meant by, would you consider him for the job?

and one more then religion is first thing O.kand we should care

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salma

Wednesday, September 27, 2000 - 07:25 pm
the top dogg and NG

thanks guys

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salma

Wednesday, September 27, 2000 - 07:27 pm
thanks to every body who had been a great supporter about this issue
the rest what can i say, you guys proof that you are a beanch of loosers

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TALO FIICAN!

Wednesday, September 27, 2000 - 09:52 pm
to: salma

I HAVE NOTHING TO SAY BUT TO SUPRISE!!! HEY, DON'T BRING SUCH ISSUES TO OUR SOCIETY. MY SISTER, I WAS THERE AND DONE THAT AND I WAS 100% LOOSER! (I COME BACK WITH EMPTY HANDS). HELLO! ARE U WITH ME? IT 'S YOUR CHOICE BUT DON'T CARRY LATER!!!

TO:UNVISIBLE WOMEN

YOU ARE THE BEST OF ALL. THANK YOU SISTER WE KNOW AS WE SOMALI MEN, WE ARE NOT 100% PERFECT...NOT EVEN CLOSE!!! BUT SISTER KEEB HOPE ALIVE, AND STICK YOUR OWN RACE( PEOPLE). IT'S VERY HARD TO ADOPT IN TERMS OF CULTURE, RELIGION, TRADITION, FOOD TO MARRY ANOTHER RACE! MY SELF, I WAS THERE AND DONE THAT ( MARRIED ANOTHER COLOR), BUT I REGRETED AND CARRIED LIKE A BABY.

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DIDI

Wednesday, September 27, 2000 - 09:56 pm
beanch of loosers loooooool
GOD DAMNED IS THIS ANOTHER I WANNABE MARRY I'M IN LOVE WITH A NON-SOMALI etc THE LIST GOES ON
SALMA GIRL PLEASE GROW UP AND STOP FANTASIZING ABOUT WHITE MEN,I PERSONALLY DON'T CARE WHO U GO OUT WITH READ MY LIPS I DO>>>>NOT>>>>>>CARE.
JUST A LITTLE REMINDER (GIRL ITS BUNCH NOT BEANCH)HOW DO U GUYS COMMUNICATE IN SOMALI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!??????
Somali GOOD POINT BROTHER A SOMALI-MIDGAN CAN BE UNTOUCHABLE WHILE AN UNCLEAN WHITE MAN IS DESIRABLE...DOUBLE-STANDARD.
ONE LAST THING HOW COME EVERY NON-SOMALI GUY WHO DATES OR WANTS TO MARRY A SOMALI LADY IS A MUSLIM MAN IN NO TIME!!!!!!!1

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MN man

Thursday, September 28, 2000 - 08:00 am
Salma
None Somalis are not good for u any ways. But if u love thiz man and he is muslim am not talking bout wanna be muslims am talking real muslims go for it.


In Minnesota we have thiz white kid name Bashiir hes marry to thiz girl. they have baby together. and he left her ass.

So becarful.

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!

Thursday, September 28, 2000 - 08:32 am
And!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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salma

Thursday, September 28, 2000 - 05:53 pm
MN man

thanks bro, i'll

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Anonymous

Thursday, September 28, 2000 - 06:18 pm
Islam does not believe in this boyfriend/girlfriend stuff. I think the source of your wisdom and reasoning is right between your legs where most people have it above their shoulders. How can you muslim and have a boyfriend. I bet if he commands you to lay down, your only question will be which way he wants it. If he is muslim and planning to marry him, why ask ppl of this forums to advice you. I say to you make between your legs a speedway for white trash.

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salma

Thursday, September 28, 2000 - 06:36 pm
Anonymou

I know my self o.k, and i think in ether way would i open my legs to him before marrieg, because i have degnity o.k,and i don't i would say yes if he ask me to.
don't get me wrong just because i fall in love with non somali person. i Love my religion and i would never do anything asked of it.When i say he's my boyfriend i mean he's the person i want to spend for the rist of my life and sotanly we don't do what ather couple do O.K

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tokyo girl

Thursday, September 28, 2000 - 07:28 pm
You know thank Allah i had a wise grandmother.She once adviced me this:"Honey dont go taking your ass (lol) to jareer just cuz you live in the same country as you do (kenya),forget that sweety,cuz a bird and fish can fall inlove,but where would they live?These words haunt me till today.i took 100 therapy to understand what she meant cuz she refused to tell me.So my only choice to stick with somali brothers.they suck but they all we got.life aint sweet.

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salma

Thursday, September 28, 2000 - 08:04 pm
tokyo girl

thanks for the advice but still i don't understand what you meant

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SOMALI

Friday, September 29, 2000 - 12:48 am
tO; SALMA

HEY ARE U STILL THERE? YOU BETTER TAKE YOUR STINKING WHITE ASS FROM HERE!!! GO GET A LIVE!
YOU WANNA SPOIL THE REST OF OUR SOCIETY ? IS THAT WHAT HE TOLD YOU TO DO? HELLO! ARE U WITH ME??? GOOD...THE CHOICE IS YOURS BUT DON'T COME HERE WITH YOUR SENSELESS POINTS!!!
OKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK!!!!

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salma

Friday, September 29, 2000 - 01:32 am
somali

shut the •••• up you goose

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Shehrazade

Friday, September 29, 2000 - 12:02 pm
Salaamu Alaykum Salma, I know what you are going through, cuz I have been there myself.. I was in love with this Arab dude who I knew for a long time.. and I thought that we were going to get married and have a wonderful life together and all would be well.. But that was before I met his family.. Even though, they were the dark skinned arabs they considered themselves better than me just because I'm somali.. Walaahi as long as I live I don't want to go through that pain and confusion again.. I kept envisioning a future with this guy and his family who didn't like me just cuz of my nationality..I really couldn't see myself bringing children into that sort of relationship. I know that he loved me and I loved him, but I don't think it was enough to make up for all that.. So I decided that the best thing to do was to end it. I don't think it was worth my time and energy to be in such a relationship.
I'm glad to say that now I'm engaged to a Somali guy whom I was introduced to by my best friend.. And walaahi I feel so much more secure.. I don't have to worry about anybody judging me based on my nationality or race.. I get along wonderfully with his family..and I love him much more than I loved my arabic friend..We have alot more in common culturally you know.. Its just so much different in some many ways.. I'm not telling you that what's best for me is best for you..But I'm just telling to weigh out your options.. Consider your future..I hope that Allah helps you in these confusing and stressful times..

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ice tea

Saturday, September 30, 2000 - 07:16 pm
follow your heart salma

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faarah

Sunday, October 01, 2000 - 04:41 am
Soomaaliyey dhamaan tiin waxaan idin way diiyay markii aan dibada nimid maxaad uwada lee dihiin hadii gabadh ama wiil uu guursado non-somali maxaad ugu wada orodaan hadii uu muslinyahay is OK

Shalay markaynu wadankii joognay maxaad midgaan ka gabdhihiina ama wiilashiina ugu diidaysee miyaanay iyagu islaam ahayn iyagaaba tan iyo waalidiintood ku abtirsanayaan islaanime nin gabigiisuba markuu gabadh jeclaaday islaamay
maxaad ugu wada farxaysaan???

Gabadh reer shabeela ah ayaan hada haynaa oo la aflagaadeeyay laguna furay jareer baatahay waxaana kafuray ninka reer koodii waxayna kadhac arintaasi Yurub!!!!!!!!!!

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young-man

Sunday, October 01, 2000 - 06:06 am
salma, this game is over!!!!!!
salma you are using almost ten different names huuh!!!!
your posting represents the dream you have.
sister white man is not more than a man, through your posting I discovered how much you love to have a white man, but do never try to fool us you girlie.

this topic must end now.

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WAYEEL

Sunday, October 01, 2000 - 09:35 am
SALAAMU- CALAYKUM OF ALL SOMALI GIRLS.THE FIREST I WANT TO CONCAJULATOIN MS INVISIBLEWAMEN , THE WAY SHE CONVEY HER INDENTITY TO BE PRESRVE.WE LOOKING FORWARD TO HAVE WONDERFULL GIRL LIKE YOU.WE HAVE SEEN OR HEAR MANY SOMALI GIRLS GOING WITH NON-SOMALIS,IS NOT WISE TO HAVE NON-SOMALIS HUSBAND OR WIFE WITHOUT THIS CONDITIONS
1)MUST BE DEVOTED MUSLIM.
2)MUST BE DONE MEDICAL CHECK-UP--FIVE TIMES IN YEAR.
3)MUST GO THROUGH DRUG TEST( INCLUDED SOMALIS)
4) MUST BE WILLING TORELOCATE TO SOMALIA WHEN IS NESSESREY.
5) MUST BE STUDING ISLAM MINIMAM TWO YEARS.
WHEN YOU GO THROUGH THIS YOU ARE SAVE FROM DISEASE,BAD MARRIAGE. I RODE MAGAZINE FROM STATES ONE FAMILY WERE WEPT OUT BY AIDS. WHAT HAPPEN WAS A MUSLIM WOMEN FELT IN LOVE WITH AFRICAN AMERICAN MUSLIM MAN. BUT THE WAS DRUG ADDICT, HE WAS SHARING A NIDDLE, THOSE FAMILY NO ONE LIVES TODAY BACUASE DRUGS AND AIDS. LOOK WHAT IS GOING ON IN SOUTH AFRICA,UGANDA AND MANY AFRICAN COUNTRIES.WHY WE HAVE FEW CASES OF AIDS IN SOMALIA
THE ANWER IS SIMPLE WE ARE MUSLIM, WE DO NOT KNOWN BOY FRIEND AND GIRL FRIEND. WE KNOW MARRIAGE OR STAY SINGLE ANTIIL YOU CAN AFFORD.WASALAMU CALAYKUM.....

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really-man

Sunday, October 01, 2000 - 02:35 pm
young-man is in the house, lol bro!!!!!
everything you say in this net is true lol!!!!!!

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mad man

Sunday, October 01, 2000 - 05:08 pm
young-man I don't think she could make up such a thing man.

I know every single name except yours.

It cannot i mean cannot be her

peace ya all

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sharmaake

Thursday, October 26, 2000 - 10:15 pm
invisible gril can you leave your email in here please,and also tank's 4every think you said,hey salma if he lick your pussy we somalian man we learn how to lick pussy too,so bring your skiny leggs i hea,

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TRAINFUCKa

Tuesday, November 28, 2000 - 06:47 am
prrrrrr is time 2 fucked up number 4 u can´t do this ••••,,holl on god plz holl on holl oh


STOP THAT CRAB b4 I get BEEF

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