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somalisister

Saturday, September 30, 2000 - 07:19 pm
They ask me,
why do somali girlz have attitudes?
when a guy compliments them,
why do they get edgy?
I'm not all somali girlz
and i do not speak for all them,
but,
didn't you know,
that women were taught
to be dependant?
to always need a man
didn't you know?
that women were taught
to be vulnerable...
But then you have the somali girlz
first you watch her
then you compliment her
to sofen her up
but you see
she seems two steps ahead
she's seen the game played
she know what makes men tick
she knows how men play
didn't you know?
that she has the game down pat?
memorized it
knows it like the back of her hand
men think "there she is,
with her seductive walk
there she is with her head held high
there she is with her chin in the air,
another one for me to conquer
another one to say i've had
watch homies,
watch and learn
watch how i'll make her mine"
and he swaggers over,
expecting her to blush at his approach
and he swaggers over
expecting her to melt when he uses that seductive voice
but didn'/t you know?"
that this is a somali girl?
she'll likely toss her head,
look you up and down
her spine erect
amusement in her eyes,
and if you look closely
you'll see
that you're the game
and she's the player
watch her and you'll see
her voice remains flat
her cheeks not blushing
her attitude seems to interrogate
what do you want?
have u a bet with your homies?
of course she doesn't say this out loud
all you seee
is her erect pose
her chin in the air
and then watch,
watch him get nervous
lose his confidence
shifting eyes
pleading eyes
"make it easy pls,
don't diss me
not in front of my homies"
his eyes seem to say
or maybe he's just sick?"
with nervousness?
ofcourse
this is a somali girl
she won'/t make it easy
she won't finish your sentence
or understand right away
your intention,
don't you know
this is a somali girl
you have to state your bussiness
why do u interrupt her?
what is it that SHE can do for you?
And then ofcourse,
you walk away,
your shoulders stooped
feeling releived
and then you think
somali girls and their attitude
love em and leave em
was your game
spoiled tonight
cause you've seen a somali girl
You see it's not attitude
or playing hard to get,
it's something passed down
from our mothers and grandmothers
it's what makes us different
taught at home
by our mothers
to be a somali girl
carry on the tradition
and pass it down to our daughters:
don't be statistic
in a player's little black book,
be proud my daughter,
remember,
be proud
and remember
that you don/'t need the world
to validate you...
be a proud girl my daughter
be a somali girl my daughter.
a somali girl
with attitude
with taste
fiesty
a somali girl
with attitude!

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poet

Saturday, September 30, 2000 - 07:29 pm
they ask me why does somalisister write crappy peoms
i tell them,yo ask her
i dont speak for her?
They ask why can't you guess
i tell them ok fine
She writes poems that feel good for her at the time
No No No they say you wrong
She writes them because she does not know her poems are crappy!
I tell them,why tell me tell her?
They say ok fine,
somaisister why you got attitudes?

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somalibro

Saturday, September 30, 2000 - 09:22 pm
OK SOMALISIS LET ME TURN THIS AROUND>
HOW ABOUT IF THE GUY WAS A JAMAICAN OR AFRO-AMERICAN INSTEAD OF A SOMALIGUY WOULD SHE THE SOMALI GIRL STILL HAVE THAT STAY STRONG ATTITUDE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!????????

..GOOD QUESTION HUH

MY ANSWER IS NO SHE WILL LAY ALL OF HER GUARDS DOWN AS SOON AS HE SAYS HELLO.

SO DON'T FEED ME THAT CRAP ABOUT HOW STRONG SOMALI GIRLS ARE.

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somalisister

Sunday, October 01, 2000 - 06:45 am
Somalibro- Did you ever ask yourself that maybe taht jamaican or african american has something you lack??..maybe he was persistant??..maybe he didn/'t give up and run to the nearest chat site to wail about how somali girlz have attitude?.
Oh yeah and by the way african americans, ethiopians, ereterians and somali ppl all asked me why somali girls have attitude..so there u go, i say we play the game the same way with every race.

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Anisa

Sunday, October 01, 2000 - 07:05 am
All I gotta say is...You just go girl!!!
You tell these arrogant guys how it is...

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mahad

Sunday, October 01, 2000 - 10:45 am
girls girls everywhere......n' not one good in them at all.......it is true...dat somaligirls play easy for anything dat is not somali....n' if da guy is somali...wooow!.....she gotta give him da attidute..play hard to get..n' all........so somali sis please...don't play .....we all know how u act around non-somali fellas.

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mahad

Sunday, October 01, 2000 - 10:52 am
woow!..let me rephrase my self..since i have sisters who are decant samali girls......not all somali girls are like dat.....there are decant ones...that r proud of who they are...n' yes those girls are hard to get by somali guys..n' impsoible to get by non-somali men.....but those girls are hard to find..since they are always behind da closet....even though they outnumber those girls dat play hard to get by somali men n' easy to get by non-somali men.......ooh! yes...good somali girls waaaaaay outnumber da bad ones...but da bad ones make sooo much noice dat u notice only them....n' da good girls r da quite ones..so u don't hear dem...n' dat makes easy to assume dat they don't exsist...but they do.....SO WOULD ALL DA NICE SOMALI GIRLS PLEASE STAND UP....PLEASE STAND UP.......

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layla

Sunday, October 01, 2000 - 11:51 am
MAHAD I AM STANDING BRO,UP HIGH
LIKE YOU COULDN'T IMAGINE,SO KEEP UP
THE GOOD WORK AND FORGET ABOUT THE
GOOD GIRL WANT TO BEES LOL.

FOR ME IT'S THE OTHER WAY AROUND,I NEVER
HAD A ATTITUDE WHEN IT COMES TO MY HANSON
BROTHER(SOMALIA GUYS)BUT THE NON SOMALIA
ONCE,I GIVE THEM ATTITUDE LIKE YOU COULDN'T
BELIEVE IT,BECAUSE WHY ARE THEY HITTING ON ME,
AFTER ALL WHO WANT'S TO HAVE SOMETHING TO DO
WITH GAAL(CCCCCCCUUUUUUUUUUUUUUC)IT MAKES
ME WANT TO THROW UP,WHEN I HEARD SOMALIA
GIRL BEING WITH JAMAICAN,BECAUSE THEY'RE NOTHING
BUT A (KUFAR)WITH SMALL MINE,NO OFFENCE TO THE
MUSLIM JAMAICAN,I WAS TALKING ABOUT THE KUFAR
ONLY.

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somalibro

Sunday, October 01, 2000 - 12:26 pm
I have to admit U got me there mahad I too have sisters{god too many of them}and thank god all of them are happily married to Somali gentlemen real good guys ,I remember once one of them wanted to marry a white dude father didn't know about it my big brother was so upset he wanted to kill the guy,Then she came to me {even know I'm younger than her}and sleeked my advice this was my answer.

We are all human-beings but I much rather have a brother in law who speaks our language knows the culture, I don't want some half and half kids calling me uncle instead of abtiyaaaaa or abtii,surprisingly she sounded convinced and toke my advice and guess what she is married to this nice somali gentleman ,So you're right I shouldn't generalize.


Ssomalisis

I don't think Jamaicans or afro-americans have something I lack its just the mere fact that they're different than us and once he do it to ya he is gonna keep quite about it,But as far as handsomeness is concern hey there is no competition check this out ;Where I live there is very few somalis and bunch of afro-americans so most of the girls in my school specially the white ones started hitting on me I ignored them for a long time and one day this white girl came up to me and said: just because you're cute and U think U R all that blah blah blah one thing she said striked me she said:R U a blackman what R U mixed with U look way cute to be black look at the rest of them black boys.I laughed and said I'm somali from africa she said cut the Bs U R not from africa africans don't look like U!!!!!!!!!!black folks at me class and school were dying to take her out I said:no I only date from within my community{only somali girls}up to this very day girls from all races still hit on me and I always turn them down.........no no jungle fever for me

regards

somalibro

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somalisister

Sunday, October 01, 2000 - 01:38 pm
Somalibro- now you make sense. I can/'t speak for all girlz like i stated in my poem, but i know for a fact that race is not gonna stop me from dating someone..if they are muslim..then that is it for me. I don/'t date much, i'm not very interested in guys (••••..my school is my man and my lover right now)..so i don'/t really know how the dating scene is going right now..but i know one thing..i've been approached afro americans and somalis, and i sent them packing in the same way..i didn/'t bitch at the afro american and plead with the somali..at this point in my life men are men, black, white, yellow, purple..green..u name it..A MAN IS A MAN IS A MAN..
A GAAL IS A GAAL IS A GAAL
PEACE
SOMALISISTER

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kfc

Sunday, October 01, 2000 - 05:26 pm
ur add is too long to read son, later.

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hebel

Sunday, October 01, 2000 - 07:22 pm
If U Quit Asking too many questions maybe we will start answering them.

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sista

Tuesday, October 03, 2000 - 10:40 am
very well said somalisister...a round of applause

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Somali guy

Wednesday, October 04, 2000 - 04:30 am
Salaan all,

I have lived most of my life in North America and the rest in Aarb countries. I know mulsims as no other somali does and i know religion very well.

What always amze me is how somalis are well brainwashed. The idea that only if some body is muslim its ok to marry???????? i find that very naive its an excuse for somali sistas who want nothing but an outsider.

Let me tell you something sis, A Jamican is a Jamican muslim or christain or a Budist..lol and a somali is a somali muslim and christain and a Budist...what set pepole a part moslty is not religion.. Afro Americans and Whites are christains not only that but they are a Portestants VS cathloics..not only that but Babtistes VS Lutherans.But still a well educated white wants to be with his own kind and a well educated black person wants to be with his won kinds.

Marry a fela Suni Aarab Muslin and see if him being a muslim well make him a more of your kind..lol . Theres and old saying that goes SMALL MIND THINKS ABOUT SMALL THINGS.

In North America i heared about a dosen stories on how somali girls tell there Jamican or Hatian lover to become Muslim and then her parents will accepte them as husbands..lol. here this story.

This Balck American muslim guy got married to this somali nigga lover sis..lol. The poor barine washed parents with little religous education thought if he was a muslim maybe..he is a good man..how naive.. 6 months later he tooke here to Ohio and then slowly he became as he use to be he started drinking and the Somali sis , nagged him thinking if he is a mulim maybe he is a somali...lol so the guy beat the crap out of here fucked here in the ass, and kicked here out .

Now the poor somali Former Nigga lover lives with here parents with 2 monkies kids..lol. One guy approched here family for marrigae , but when he heared that she use to be married to a nigga he changed his mind. One hope for the sis is only another could be a good nigga.

Finally this the way i put it to those " Wanna Marry a Muslim anthing sis" Its more then a religion, if him being a muslim is good enough what about a man who looks like you same features as u, same culture same language same back ground. same country isnt that biggeer then him being only muslim????????????????????????????.

Waht iam gona marry i already know..she first and for most hase to be somali, no other woman with do for me except my own kind.. even animals know there own kind, even they miss one another.Finally there is no better man to quote then our poet Cabdi Gahayr talking to a somali sista:

Geeluba Ugaasooy marku ayaad miranaayo
Abeerkeeda naaxay iyo marku aarinku si waayo
Iasaguba ma kala aamusee waysu ololaaye
Aniguna markaad in adeer tidhaahdid baan urggobaaye.

Oh Ugaasaooy when camles garze in the herozin
when Its old and young misse one another
Even they never are silent they miss eath other
And when u call me oh cousin i feel the same..


Later for all good somali sista keet our nation and culutre ..bye

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treasure

Wednesday, October 04, 2000 - 05:34 am
excuse your sorry predijuce small uneducated mind...don't you know in islam there is no nationality??????
Tell me what will your beloved somlia do for you on the day of judgement????
as in every religion there are good and bad...just like islam...you are simply trying to cover up the problem, i mean there are somali muslims which drink, get high etc...now the question...who would you marry...a white/black muslim sista who is strong in her fate or a somali sista which drinks sleeps around etc who is a muslim in name only?
people like you hear a couple of bad examples about people who cross over to islam and like usual blow it way out of proportion.
now the idea weather to marry a person so long as they are muslim...that is not an idea it is something which we are allowed to do religion wise...now if your culture or tradition is more important then your religion...well then that's a different topic.

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somalisister

Wednesday, October 04, 2000 - 07:48 am
I put my hands up for treasure,,,took the words right out of my mouth.
somali bro- if the guys' muslim and i wanna marry him..who the hell cares if ppl like you have jealous tantrums?..on judgement day god won't ask me why i married a foreigner, and that's all that matters to me.

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pleasure

Wednesday, October 04, 2000 - 09:24 am
treasure...ma sai mia sorella???

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Mr:somalia

Wednesday, October 04, 2000 - 09:34 am
Somali-guy don't waste your breath on those girls they just wanna marry Mr:outsider and they hide behind religion to justify it

Do like I did----------->CROSS OVER

What do Somali women have that other girls don't have??????????? on the other hand you got those uncircumcised beautiful ladys all waiting to get it on with a Somali brother.

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Angel

Wednesday, October 04, 2000 - 09:53 am
Somalisister.... way to go girl.. u r the only decent somali among us who knows what is going on sis..Tell these savages that call themselves.. somali brothas.. but with filthy mouth.. what somali girl wants.... I am all smiles.. 2day sis.. thn you for making my day..:) ...:)...:)

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somalisister

Wednesday, October 04, 2000 - 02:21 pm
Angel..anyday girl!!!..I'm glad I made your day!
I'm just telling like it is.

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treasure

Thursday, October 05, 2000 - 06:18 am
mr somalia u ignorant fool...if the girl is a good muslim go for it and be happy but if she is not stay well away from her....cross over ma ass. si pleasure the one and only.
come stai? chi vediamo topo
1luv
treasure

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Somali-Lady

Thursday, October 05, 2000 - 06:40 am
Out of all the comments I have read..not all afcourse but I assume they revolve around the subject "somali girls" I can ONLY say that Hebel...is the ONLY one that made sense Paragraphs after paragraphs you guys were just repeating the same story over and over again....Pointless don't you think ?...So am not going to make a comment about the subject and add to the
"player Little Black Book"

Peace

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Amina

Thursday, October 05, 2000 - 06:45 am
Somaligirle just wanted say that u is my kinda girle sista keep ur head up and don't let these fools get to ya.

Much respect for the somali brotha and mahad!!

(i am standing!!!)

Mr somalia and co what is ur problem plzzzz. A muslim is a MUSLIM regardless of their race. At the end of the day Allah will only judge u on ur Islam and how good it is and should't we use the same criteria. (or do u all think u too good for that?).

If a sister/brother decides to marry a muslim brother who just happens to be from a different race, its his/her bussiness aight..

How about brothas who go with gaalo women.... what do u say about that fellas???

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maa Heee

Saturday, October 07, 2000 - 09:51 am
ONCE AGAIN PATHETIC!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Precious

Monday, October 09, 2000 - 11:22 am
Not all Somali girls have attitudes. I'm one of the few that has an adittude. If somali men could be a little more honest when giving a compliment. Then somali girls wouldn't be so disrespectful. We were taught to stand guard to those who seem untrustworthy. TO my somali bro don't tell us the things we want to hear, tell us what you think.

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Mohd

Monday, October 09, 2000 - 11:56 am
To: All Somali chicks out there;

How come there is an issue with us (somali men)whenever a Somali Linatic bad mouths you chicks....?. I will leave that to you (Somali Lady; Somalisister; Ma he, Amina and the rest diracleey.Could we all get along girls, and behave out there..........I love you all girls from the bottom of my HEART.

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jamilia

Tuesday, October 10, 2000 - 06:39 am
Of course we have attitudes...I mean come on y'all a brother comes up to you trying the same •••• over and over and over again man of course we giving them attitudes...THEIR GAME IS WEAK!!!!

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samsam

Wednesday, October 11, 2000 - 07:03 am
hi, people,
let me start, by saying not all somali girl like jamaican and afro -american mens ok., i personally like my somali brothers, no matter which part of somali they are comming from.
for those who prefer people from different backgroung than you are sell out to your people , country, religion and culture. that's all i have say to those who like being with other people who are not SOMALISE.
PEACE AND LOVE TO SOMALI AND IT'S PEOPLE
BYE

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WISHER

Wednesday, October 11, 2000 - 09:25 am
SAMSAM I WISH ALL SOMALI-GIRLS OR ALL SOMALIS THOUGHT LIKE YOU DO.

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SABAX

Wednesday, October 11, 2000 - 07:21 pm
TO ALL DA CHICKEN LEGZ

LOVE HAS NO RACE.....BUT IT HAS RELIGION..SO WHY NOT.....SOMALI MEN AIN'T DA ONLY MEN IN THE WORLD..IF I SHALL SAY AGAIN...........

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Anonymous

Wednesday, October 11, 2000 - 08:22 pm
sabax how about you say again......'i'm a libax bitch'.groaaaan grrrrrrrr woooof wooof wooof

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hassan

Wednesday, October 11, 2000 - 10:27 pm
SABAX(CHEAP-N-CLEAN)THATS UR TILE BITCH SO GO AND FIND URSELF A JAMAICAN AND SUCK HIS DICK FOR LIVING..................>AND LEAVE THOSE CLEAN SOMALI-GIRLS A LONE BIYAAAAACH.

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gogo

Wednesday, October 11, 2000 - 10:29 pm
religion my ass all u want is to be able to fucked by an adoon and suck his stinking dick in the name of religion.

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SABAX

Thursday, October 12, 2000 - 05:28 am
WORD TO ALL THE CHICKEN LEGZ..........

YA AIN'T DA ONLY MEN IN DA WHOLE WORLD.....LOOK HOW LOW U MADE UR SELVEZ....SWEARING

WELL IF ONE CHOSE NOT TO HAVE RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMALIAN MEN...DOES NOT MAKE HER..A WHORE AIGHT...

PEACE....N STOP SWEARING ...U MAKE UR SELVEZ LIKE SAVAGEZ....I REST MY CASE

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2PAC

Tuesday, October 17, 2000 - 02:46 pm
AHAHAHAH THIS IS REALY FUNNY GUYS WHY U WESTTING YOUR TIME TALKING ABOUT THIS EVERY ONE KNOW AINT SAYING ALL BUT MOST OF OUR SOMALIAN SISTERS LOVE NONE SOMALIANS MORETHEN THEY LOVE THERE DAD OR MOMS BUT ITS AINT AINT PLAMEING THEM CUZ HONESTLY US A SOMALI GUYS IF WE DO OUR JOB AS WE SUPOSTO NONE OF THIS WOULD HAPPEND BUT SINCE ALL THIS HAPPEND THE ONLY THING WE CAN DO IS BE A PATTION AND STAY COME AND TRY TO BE NICE WITH OUR SISTERS AND BE HONEST WITH THEM AND THEY WILL GIVE US A CHANCE TO U LADYS U GIRLS AND US GUYS KNOW IT AINT THE ONLY GUYS WHO STAR ALL THIS CUZ WHEN U GO WITH NONE SOMALI MAN REMEMBER HE AINT LOOKING FOR A TRUE RELATTIONSHIP ALL HE WANT IS TO USE U AND HE WILL LEAVE U ALONE ANFTER U BEEN USED LADYS NO OFENCE BUT ITS TRUE SISTERS ANYWAYS GUYS LETS JUST GET ALONE WITH EACH OTHERS AND BE NICE TO EACH OTHERS BOTH SIDES PEACE AND LOVE

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bomb

Tuesday, October 17, 2000 - 10:27 pm
why can't we all somalimen&somaliwomen get along without degrading one another????

it's the likes of sabax and those sisters haters who benefit from this sabax if u want a non-somaliguy please cross over and stop visiting the somalinet cuz it's for those very same chicken legs.

and a reminder we can as guys bring that controversial subject....circumcision which is not a good idea or a favorite topic coz I personally know for a fact there're good somalisisters.

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Barwaaqo

Friday, October 20, 2000 - 07:53 pm
2 all of those somali sisters who want to cross over.

Ask yourself two questions:

1) what is your mother?

2) what is your father?

Now if the answer is what I'm thinking it is, did they not produce a healthy, beautiful human being like yourself? NOW WHY U GOTA GO AND RUIN THAT MY SISTERS!
While you at it think about this also....... could you not produce a beautiful SOMALIAN human being with A SOMALI FELLOW?

And this is by the way coming from a somali sister like yourself. Just 4 the record 4 all you girls who use the religion as escape goat, I suggets you go back to the Quaran.

Salam

AND TO ALL YA FELLOWS TAKE IT EASY ON THE SISTERS, AFTER ALL YOU HAVE MOTHERS AND SISTERS!

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somalisister

Saturday, October 21, 2000 - 07:48 pm
Barawaaqo- and what does the quran say about our topic exactly? "oh you beautiful somali girlz do not marry anyone but a somali, especially them african americans or jamaicans"?.

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Time Magazine

Saturday, October 21, 2000 - 08:27 pm
somalisister

i really dont understand where you get your brains nutritions from?Do you consume too much bananas?I ask you this coz you seem to show exact behavior we find in our laboratory monkeys.

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somalisister

Sunday, October 22, 2000 - 06:17 am
LOL TIME MAGAZINE-DON'T YOU WISH!

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RICHGIRL

Sunday, October 22, 2000 - 07:50 am
TIME MAGAZINE
LOL

SOMALI SIS
U know I can't help but notice that u chat so much rubbish everytime....If U wanna make a POINT ....make it in a couple of sentences, don't go on and write an ESSAY......or whatever U call that junk.

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