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Why am i scar to get marry?

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MORGAN

Friday, November 03, 2000 - 04:08 am
All my life i have planed how my wedding is going to be look like, who is coming to my wedding bla bla bla and what can of wedding dress i am going to wear. funny huh?
But now i have found a woderfull boyfriend and he is evrything i have ever wanted and dream of, that kind of bf who is a funny, smart,honest, carring,undertstanding, handsome. He care alot about his family, he even take care of them. He cares my family like they are his own family. So when we r not together i love to tolk a bout marrige stuff with my girls, but when he's around and we talk bout it, i shut up, i love him a lot, care for him, but every time he ask me i say hony right now i am in the middel of school i am not going to plan our futur...wait! and he hate that answer, but as i say he is understanding person. So guys what should i do and please if u going to give me some negetive answers plaese keep it to ur self i am only here for hear some advice. I need help Oooh yeah! by the way i am 22 years. Am i old lady?, my mom think so!

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Pretty Woman

Friday, November 03, 2000 - 06:34 am
Nah Girl u aint old! U just prioritising ur life! If your boyfriend really is understanding then he gonna wait. I would say aroung 24_25 is pushin it a bit and 30 u might as well take up tap dancing cuz u got no chance!

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T-GIRL

Friday, November 03, 2000 - 02:59 pm
LOL..Pretty Woman...(tap dancing)

MORGAN
U know girl U just have a serious case of COLD FEET....Im not judging your love for him but by the way U described him he looks like he the one. Stick with him girl.....coz if U dream of him at night.....think of him all day......he's the one.

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QADAR

Monday, November 06, 2000 - 08:28 am
WELL, WELL, WELL. HELLO MORGAN,

SISTA FIRS OF ALL, IF ALL WHAT WROTE ARE TRUE
AND YOU REALLY LOVE THE GUY I WOULD ADVICE YA TO GO AHEAD AND GET MARRY I NOW EVERYONE GOES THROUGH BOUT GETTING SCARED AND STAFF BUT LATER ALL THAT WILL BE GONE AND I KNOW IT'S VERY BIG DECISION TO MAKE BUT HAVE IT THINK BOUT IF YOU ARE 22 AND THE THAT'S UR REAL LOVE DON'T WAIT NO LONGER.....DO IT NOW............BUT ALWAYS THIUNK ABOUT THIS QUESTIONS WHENEVER YOU READY.....

ARE YOU READY TO SPEND THIS PERSON FOR THE REST OF UR LIFE??????WHAT ARE THE QONSEQUENCES THAT I MIGHT FACE?????????THINK BOUT THE GUY DISADVANTAGE AND ADVANTAGE THAT HE GOT.....COMPARE AND CONTRAST...........

WISHING U THE BEST AND HEA IF IT WORK OUT FOR YA
AND YA AGREE BOUT THE WEDDING THING.......
INVITE ME AIGHT AM BE SURE TO COME AIGHT,,,,,,LOL/////

QADAR

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morgan

Wednesday, November 08, 2000 - 01:08 am
guys some times it is easy to say than deon what i meen is u guys sound sooooo sweet and nice and helpfull but this lady is still scert gush i even dream a bout ruing my ingejment ring and i told him that last night but he told me not to worry and dont think of it . love morgan
ps i will love to invate u sweety but first god let it be a wedding lol

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QADAR

Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 07:23 am
HEA SUP MORGAN.

HOW ARE THE THINGS SO FAR,
DID ACCEPPT IT
HOPING YA THE BEST

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QADAR

Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 07:23 am
HEA SUP MORGAN.

HOW ARE THE THINGS SO FAR,
DID ACCEPPT IT
HOPING YA THE BEST

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MORGAN

Friday, November 10, 2000 - 12:56 am
BOY THINGS R COOL BUT WHAT I DONT GET BRO IS EVERY ONE HAS A LOVE ONES IN EVERY LIFE TIME WHY CAN I MAKE MY LOVE WORK. RIGHT NOW I AM IN IN THE MIDDEL OF SCHOOL PROJEKT AND IT IS KILIG ME ,SO WHEN DO I HAVE A TIME FOR A RELATIONSHEP.I DONT WANNA SOUND SELFISH OR A WANNA BE WORKING HART LADY BUT THIS IS LIFE REALY HAVE TO HAVE ADUCATION,SO U CAN GET COOL JOP AND CAN GIVE UR KIDS WHAT U COULD NOT HAVE IN YOUNGER LIFE. REALY SWETTY DOES THAT MAKE U UNDERSTAND OR AM I JUST TOLKING. TO QADAR

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Young sister

Friday, November 10, 2000 - 04:31 pm
Girl i'm ganna tell it 2 u like this. U in school, and if u do decide 2 get married ur plans will be ruined. I mean u'll probably get pregnent and drop out 2 take care of ur family. So, i think u should let this brotha know wassup and maybe he can be more supportive of ur feelings. Anyhow good luck and remember ur girls r not the one u gonna marry and no matter how hard they try 2 understand they possible can't understand the luv between the 2 of u. Let me know how it goes and good luck once again sis.

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QADAR

Tuesday, November 14, 2000 - 08:47 am
U CAN STILL CONTINUE WITH UR LIFE AND AT THE SAME TIME BE IN A RELATIONSHIP IF THE RELATIONSHIP IS BASED ON TRUST WHERE U DON'T HAVE TO FOLLOW OR WORRY BOUT UR PARTNER WHILE U DEALING THE OTHER PART OF UR LIFE WHETHER IT'S EDUCATION OR SPENDING SOMETIME WITH UR FAMILY......
LET BE AND TRY TO EXPLAIN URT PARTNER U NEED MORE TIME AND STAFF AND HE'LL BE ABLE TO UNDERSTAND THAT.........HEY LET ME HAVE THE LAST WORD HERE MORGAN......"TRUE LOVE NEVERR DIES"......

QADAR

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morgan

Thursday, November 16, 2000 - 01:14 am
tru tru and bro having the last word can bee help full some times i thank u for that
young sis. ur cool keep thinking that way and u will end having ur love life.guys thanks for the information and i will take that as they come.
see u next.

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QADAR

Wednesday, November 22, 2000 - 08:56 am
HELLO MORGAN????HOW ARE YOU???
IT'S BEEN LONG TIME......
SO SUP DID OUR ADVICE WORKED OUT FOR YA
OR WHAT???
LET US KNOW SUP.....

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morgan

Thursday, November 23, 2000 - 01:21 am
well bro it is nice to her u again but in a way yes it did but then 2 month from now my big sister from canada is getig marry and my dad is her now so boy evry time we tolk a bout marreg they look at me like sup morgan when r u next, and my hear goes like boooooom shakalaala .u know what i meen. but in sted of staying home i always go to shoping or just some resen to get a way.

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zahra

Thursday, November 23, 2000 - 07:04 am
hi, i don't know if i can be of any help, but let me tell you this: i'am 22 and being married for 2 years. the thing is marriage is hard, but if you love this guy and you know he is gonna support you for sure, then go for it. remember you can combine marriage life with your education. in my case iam at uni studying law and working part time. don't worry about having babies, you know you could postpone it. whatever you do don't let love pass you by. if you need any advise let me know. i can tell you i never regreted marrying once.

good luck
zahra

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jamal

Thursday, November 23, 2000 - 04:10 pm
jamal,

I wonder why all our girls rush in to the marriagge while they r too young to be married.marriage is really a big responsibility and if you think about it;it is like creating a family and if you are still young and attending school that is not something you can handle it, because to be a reponsible person you have to be an educated person and you cannot be an educated person if you do not finish your education.long story short;Girls be somebody before you throw your self to a stranger,don't be a housemaid;take a share in your family's decission making,thanks to all our beautiful girls

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Anonymous

Thursday, November 23, 2000 - 06:55 pm
Hi Morgan
how are you doind????
Morgan i got married when was really young My advice to you is to wait until you know in your heart is time.And sister be very ready for that i can see that your in school and every thing as a 23 year old and 3 kid is not funny.....
Have fan your still young hun.


love

iman

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Khadija

Friday, December 01, 2000 - 12:56 pm
Asallamucaleykum sisz+broz,

sister morgan,
i would like to advice u to NOT To get married to him! plz dont it 4 the sick of ur future,

u know love is blind sometimes, and guys can be nice but not 4 a long, = so i would like to say sis u still young take ur time and if he really lvs u, he will wait,,,,,,,, the more he wait, the more u get to know him==== iam 20 and iam married to a guy who i thought he was everything ==so sis iam only speaking from experience===and sis watch out Qadar could be ur b/f==coz he is back to check on u every 2days lol

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Faiso

Monday, December 04, 2000 - 08:18 pm
Hi Morgan,

how are you sis? wow it seems like you have your hands full because as a student i can tell you that getting married at this point is something that's far from my mind and it seems true for youa as well. but sis the guy sounds great he sounds like "mr. right" to me so don't let him go whatever you do-i mean you can still get married to him and not have kids for while. obviously this is not a world that you would want to bring a child into if you are not ready for the responsibilities. so take your time sis it's you who know what's best for you but i'll say this it's really hard to find someone who loves you a true love these days so think and don't let him go if you think he is it for you. hey i would love to talk to you more sis so you can email me at shuumay@yahoo.com wish you best of luck.

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morgan

Friday, December 08, 2000 - 01:15 am
u know what evry word that u guys have use makes me so thank full ,but one simple quostion. i have hert sooooooo many time when time is in u will know what to do in my case guys i dont know if that time has past me or yet to com, that is what makes me worry, and yes he is waiting and yes we r gating to know one onother but what if some thing bad habent and one of as cant forgive the othr ,u know what i think i think i will stop using the word IF cause so far it cost me a lot. ••• i hat to go but to bee honst i am scear. ps . all of my frinds r gatting marred including my big sistel, so ther is alot of uuuuhhh ahhhhh going on love morgan.

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down to earth

Tuesday, December 12, 2000 - 07:06 am
I think everyone has said almost everything you need to know, but if he is so understanding like you said than he should understand you don;t still want to be studying when your married the only way you going to be truly happy is when your both stable in everyway I am not Only talking about financially. get your education done first than you'll have all the time in the world to love each other.all you need to tell him is that you will marry him when the time is right.

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La_Brownsuga

Friday, December 15, 2000 - 03:22 pm
Dear Morgan,
Gee those people are soo helpful interms of love and Marriage and they all seem know what they dealing of, to give really great advises that will make you get married tonight..lol
Sis You probably know who This is and I hope you do, remeber me Farabet, i bet you do now aight.
Sweetie as they say don't real luve pass you by but at the same time sweetie 22 ain't that old, ok 24 is the perfect age to get married i think or 26 noah that's pushing it. I know it's scary to get married and face alone the new world you entering, sweetie try to persuate him to wait a while untill you think over it and make sure what you decided is totally what you trully feel, and has no "WHAT IF". I agree with the brotha down to earth.
I know how you feel sweetie, but let's think for a while if he really luves you he is gonna wait for you, i mean ones you get married you can't control your own life, it changes to partnership decision and that's when it comes let's think of our life not yours or mine..anything could happen, you might get pregnant anything is possible,and gee the whole thing is off the hook, there is no turning back, I mean you can still continue your studies but you ain't gonna be as the same before, you gonna worry alot the baby is back home crying his ass off,lol and next thing you know you drop out, damn and that happens alot sweetie, I know 4 ladies that happen to and they all wishing if only they could turn back time.
If i was you sweetie i will finish my studies and make my dream come true first and at the same time I know my boo is suppoting me, so hold on to him if he is the one which I personally think he is the one for you sweetie.
3 more years of finishing your degree ain't gonna kill, he will wait if he is the one,if he isn't sweetie there are alot of fish in the sea and I strongly beleive you still young.~:~)

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morgan

Tuesday, December 19, 2000 - 12:50 am
girl i know who u r and may i say well tolking but that does not meen that i have an answer rigth now. sweety u know how i am and how i feel so can u plaim me to feel the way i feel.?

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advices

Tuesday, December 19, 2000 - 06:58 am
speaking of boyfreind, girl u better move on and get marry, that is the only thing u can do and if u having boyfriend he ishoing give •••• things okay bye I hope u get u advice

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A Sister

Saturday, December 30, 2000 - 06:31 am
Morgan..

What's gonna change if you get married?.. it just puts a stamp on your relationship is all!..

I don't understand what all the fuss is about, if you make it a big deal it WILL be a big deal. I think the major step is that you've met a man you love and aknowlegded that fact that you both love and want to be with each other - this you've already done by the sound of things, so what's the hang-up about having a little party for friends and family members?

Maybe you're scared of the finality of the event, the seeling in public. This is an irrational experience that many many ppl go through, however if you think about what it entails and simplify the situation to it's base, then you'll realise that there's nothing to it.

If your fear lies in the 'forever and always' element, babe keep in mind that divorce is to marriage what breaking-up is to lovers. (Although this is not what I wish for you nor anyone else)


Most ppl suffer from the 'grass is greener' and fear that if they settle today for 100% then 101% may just come along and pass them by?.. guess what? if you have 80% think youself lucky..

My point has gone on too long, in brief if you love him and he loves you DO IT deal with the logistics and done. Your age is irrelevant!

A Sister

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Anonymous

Monday, January 01, 2001 - 06:03 am
Hi Morgan,
let me advice you girl because you sound lost to me. The way you speaking is far from islam. you saying that you scared to get married muslim girl should get married at age of 15.if it is true about this guy who's everything to you if he realy loves you and cares about you he will wait,
my advice is that as we muslim people we should have the patient to understand the responsibility of working, bringing up children.as well as studying. I don't think your study will stop
if you decided to get married. I,m 23 years of age being married for a year,and working as full time if allah give us children then that's better.
to me married is the best decision that person could make.
yours R.H
from England

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Jamaal ATL

Thursday, January 04, 2001 - 07:51 pm
Since when did marriage become public debate 4 Muslims & Somalis???? Girl u seem 2b OUT of line with reality & certainly from where u come from! Da man u so eluquently portray as "Mr Right" is ready 4 ya & yet u dissing his feelings by seeking useless 2nd thoughts from strangers!!! If u really luv him from da bottom of ur heart, which I certainly doubt, u would settle ur concerns with ONLY him period. Since when did education dictate marriage?? 2me it looks like u still insecure & confused about ur life & ofcoz ur future with ur honest but abused MAN!If u dont know watz right 4 ya then listen 2 ur MAN since men r LEADERS naturally!! Damn even ur little college schooling cant help ya reach an amicable conclusion!Finally ask urself if it was ur MAN talking ur •••• how would u feel huh?? Sis dont b selfish plz MARRY da Bro or let him go!

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morgan

Monday, January 08, 2001 - 01:00 am
well jamaal u r being cant of hurt to me dont u think ok it is tru some things u say but not all of them is all that. i know that this is between me and my boo, but cant help thinking of maybe just maybe there will be some one who is going to say something that can set me free.,and i am a muslim girl thanks 2 god but cant anybody blam me the fackt that we r living other place than somalia.no kuraan said that we should get marry than •••• a round and trow ur live a way and dont bee happy a bout life. no i wanna bee life, feel life and most of all live life just tha way i always ask for god.i know it sound sily to have some one to live u and u love but,sometimes things r not the way they soun but holl other way. hope u understadn after all i am the one need ur advices and u r the one with the advices. ok thanks.
TO: anonymouse. sweety i know aegh is nothing but a nomber but can u honest tell me that u should want me to get marry eagh 17 or so i meen what do i know a bout a life or love or a man or anything i meen com on i know it is to cool to say this is the man i chooce to bee with but moore cool will bee if i know moore of him right. thanks. just to all of u all i need is tha advices that u would use on ur own or to someone u care a bout that is all.after all i am not dum or crazy but just a listner that is all.much love morgan

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Box-head

Monday, January 15, 2001 - 07:39 am
YO KNOW WAT, THERE IS NOTHING TO BE SCARED OFF, ONCE U GET MARRIED THEN GO TO THE ROOM WITH UR HUSBAND, SIILKAAGA IS DEAT HAH WAA LAFALFALIIQAA, DONT TELL ME U ALREADY DID IT SHI*T

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Hani

Monday, January 15, 2001 - 08:50 am
Sis i know how u are feeling cause we are in the same siteuation, whenever my boy asks me I say oh next year and then oh next month LOL so it's common thing, u are not along sis. We plan to get marry last year and we didn't get marry yet I have no idea why we are scare to get marry????? when are u getting marry?????

bye and take care///////

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Issa

Monday, January 15, 2001 - 01:43 pm
wagareey waa layaab wagar wagar. kuwana meel ay guur u maraan ayey la yihiin kuwana waxay lee yihiin I am confused I don't know what to do. It is all clear to me now that it has always been us(the guys)who have cared about love and family. had you only known how many girls who are out there who would snatch and marry this guy so quickly you wouldn't even have asked this question at all. the fact of the matter is honey YOU DON'T WANT TO MARY THE GUY BEACUSE YOU'RE ALL MESSED UP. I know for sure he will find another girl with no problem at all, and in your case i hope you will keep us posted for so many years to come because I know that no body will say to you "caanahaaga garoorta ah meeqa waaye again. "danbigba waaxaa dhigay wadnihiisa doqonkee kaa doortay dumarkoo aad daryeeli weysoo wali daacad kuu qaba"

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Anonymous

Monday, January 15, 2001 - 04:53 pm
To Morgan.

You are not alone Morgan, you feel me? I guess so. I know you there, I know you watching, I know you know this is Annoy-Baby he he

Peace all and I’m out just like that.

Btw: I’m born to be “Anonymous”.

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Anonymous

Monday, January 15, 2001 - 06:40 pm
Box-Head, you are the biggest ••••••• in the world , get a grip on yourself mother fucker and seal your fucking bad mouth pastard

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morgan

Monday, January 15, 2001 - 11:57 pm
issa mr big shut mr he think he knows evey thing
well let me but it this way .the fact that we love each other has nothing to do if he can get anybody or if for that matter i can get anybody.
and yes i know there r many sisters out there who mayt going what i am going tru,and yes the r many ladys who r not thinking a bout marrege.including ur danm sister who knows has nothing to do with me gat that. and plaese if u r not her to gife me for what i had ask for just like other ppl then u r a big fool to bee her fool. oow and yes thanks for traying. love morgan

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morgan

Tuesday, January 16, 2001 - 12:01 am
hani and to anonymous i am glad there r ppl like u who can understand where i am coming from thanks guys i realy meed that. it is just some times u have to answer back to that can of dogs, thinking they gat the all answers. love o her more from u guys. and to hani sweety we plan to get marry on December this year. if only gud say so, i hope in time i will come op with some thing to say. love morgan bye guys.

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morgan

Tuesday, January 16, 2001 - 12:08 am
dear box -haed
dont u think honny that this is to much for u i meen u cant give other ppl advace when u realy need help or ur own advace. hony go see ur docter.
honny u r not saying the thing a big man should say oooow could it bee that u never matur anyway.
bye bye boo get help ok ok byee.
love morgan

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Hani

Tuesday, January 16, 2001 - 06:54 am
To morgan:::

it's me Hani: go girl and do't listen to these losers who doesn't know where we are,,, Morgan I'm so happy to find someone who knows how I feel about this marrage stuff. I'm glad that u made up ur main(:) I hope I will do the same things Insha Allah. I am wishing u the best,,,, and I will like to know u more if that is posible!!!! 4 3 2 Morgan take care!!!!!

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Hani

Tuesday, January 16, 2001 - 07:04 am
To box_ahead::::

Help ur self before u help others and take control of what is coming out of u whole:::: as Somalina pp used to say (tiisa daryeelaa tokale kudara) so I think u need ur own advice so as Morgan said go and see ur doctor ass whole........

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Hani

Tuesday, January 16, 2001 - 07:12 am
To issa::::

issa when someone loves u, he or she loves the way u are no matter what u say and what u agree on ( like this position marry)......

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HonestGirl

Tuesday, January 16, 2001 - 09:34 am
Morgan.........sista what is the big deal about getting married........like A Sister said....u r only putting a stamp to ur relationship........
it wont stop u from continuing ur education......it wont stop u from having ur life the way u want it..........if he is understanding and if u guys r meant for each others then he wants of life what u want of it.........what is about ur life that is making u unhappy and that u want for ur kids what u didnt have...........sweety have some mercy for the man......he loves u....and only u......he wants to be commited.....not just be called a boyfriend.....he wants to wake up right beside u in the morning and share breakfast with u........share his kids with u and his old age..........and if u love him honestly u would feel the same way and u will want the same thingz.........getting married is a gift.......and its also a responsibility.......if u say ur not ready at age 22......sistah u r never gonna be ready.........u r not a 15 year old kid.......u know how to make ur choices and u can tell wrong from right.........am i makin' sense here.......u also said all ur friends r getting married including ur big sister........NEVER get married cuz everyone else is getting married..........get married cuz u want the man and love him.......

Everyone goes through i'm confused period of time......but it shouldnt last 4ever..........

What r u studyin' in school anyway........and what do u want to be........how long will it take u.........

sis life is short.........do what u gotta do right now.......u dont know if u're gonna live up to tomorrow......right!!!!

take care sweety and i wish u nothin' but luck

Salaam

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Issa

Tuesday, January 16, 2001 - 12:23 pm
To Hani

I don't get ur point make yourself clear. I don't understand why he has to suffer cuz she is not ready. well if she is not ready he will move on iyadana baska danbe ha soo raacdo.

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Issa

Tuesday, January 16, 2001 - 12:26 pm
Sorry, I thought she said she is going to mary him now. what's changed? did you get scared?

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black beauty

Wednesday, January 17, 2001 - 03:01 am
H/Girl honey did someone ever tell U that U talk a lot. U know nothing about life stop giving •••• advice to ppl.

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HonestGirl

Wednesday, January 17, 2001 - 03:14 pm
Black beauty.....infact everyone i met in my entire life told me i talk too much......and i love that.....my teachers always made me sit in a desk seperate than the whole class all the way at the front.........my family always say u talk too much so just shut up.......and my friends say girl for god's sake shut that big mouth......even in the somali forums i talk too much as readers like u said.........and worse of all....when i'm at work....i mean making some $$$...my bosses tell me u talk too much.....but they neva actually thought about firing me......but when i finally do and shut my big mouth....u know what happens......every one and i mean everyone complains about me not talking.....they think i'm about to die........so i decided.....since i dont want pple to think that i'm dying......I HAVE TO TALK.....talk talk talk talk talk and talk.....

So my dear sistah.....if u have a problem with it.........shut ur ears......oh i'm sorry...in this case.....shut ur eyes......ok sweety!!!

dump

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morgan

Wednesday, January 17, 2001 - 11:46 pm
honest girl.
i have naver meet anyone live u or in this case read a bout it. let me tell u some thing that r that have nothing to do talking. u r funnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnny.
and more that that u r funnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnny.
and honest too. danm girl with out me having this marreg issu i would have said i wrote that u all.
and boo aall the way up what u had say top it all. and did i ever thank u for that advise u give me no, well i thank u.bye sweety love to her from u more.

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morgan

Wednesday, January 17, 2001 - 11:52 pm
Hani sweety thanks for backing me up cause gad knows that i need that. boo it is like this , i am not dum matter of fackt i thank god for what i have and bee happy and hope other ladys out there can have what i have but please u all who say that
i have to get marry just because he is ready. i wait it when he was not ready why can he waith, now that he knows that he can pay my wadding or can take of me, sound cool i know but what about MEEEEEE? dont i have to feel that i can take care of him too. (IKUFILNAANSHO)that is my problem, and hani i know that there some ppl who is saying i can think of that wiel i am marry to him but what if i do get marry and at the same time became a failyer.???????????

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morgan

Wednesday, January 17, 2001 - 11:54 pm
issa issa issa well thank u for being her i have no idea what else 2 say 2 ya,

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jaber

Thursday, January 18, 2001 - 12:17 am
the fact of the matter is somali-women no nothing about love,romance and relationship's
they get married for the sake of being married!!

here you have this girl who is supposedly in love,that poor guy thinking she loves him,yet can't make up her freaking mind,can't say yes or no.
somali-women are confused creatures..

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HonestGirl

Thursday, January 18, 2001 - 07:53 am
jaber.....i guess its time for u to grow up and shut up bro.....really!!!!

Morgan....lol......well i'm glad i was much of a help......and u're welcome sis......

Black Beauty.......well girl i 4got to tell u......this west african brotha i work with calls me #1 Radio Channel Somalia......lol....i know it dont make sense.....but the guy was impressed by the way i talk and he offered me to go to the local news channel to get a job....u know why.....go figure sweety....!!!!

salaam

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Hani

Thursday, January 18, 2001 - 11:05 am
Hi Morgan::::

I really didn't get ur point what do u mean by how about if I get marry to him and later on I become failyer????? don't u trust him????? mean don't u know much about him???? anyway sis Somalina pp always says getting marry is(going into dark room and U have no idea what u going to face)LOL... thanx for the feed back...

bye;;;;;;;;;

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Issa

Thursday, January 18, 2001 - 03:53 pm
Meeshu waa Hani iyo Morgan. war badanaa... aniga waan ka baxay. Kuwan waa kuwo inkaaran oo aan wax maqleyn. Ilaahay waxaan u baryay in kaas uusan ku guursan Morganney ileen hadal baad labada dhagood uga dilaacinee.

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Anonymous

Thursday, January 18, 2001 - 03:59 pm
morgan first of i think u need to stick to school so u can improve your english
the grammer needs a lot of improvement
THEN maybe think about just having a boyfriend ok


and if u dont trust the guy to be ur husband how could u trust him to be your boyfriend

simple right

what r u really scared of really. the idea of getting married or what is going to happen after the wedding.

i got married a year ago and my life is perfect, but there r always ups and downs in any type of relationship. even with ur mother. u take the bitter with the sweet. sweet alone is boring. so having a boyfriend is fun and sweet. but really being married is sweeter!

nabad galyo

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Hani

Friday, January 19, 2001 - 08:38 am
To: Issa

Issa thanx for being here, but if u leave now or even later there will be no change, cause u have no idea what we are talking about,.Issa the door is open for u to leave anytime u wnat .please do faster so we can get some room for the other pp who are good advicers than uuuuuuuuuuu LOL.......

bye"""""""

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