     hani | Tuesday, December 05, 2000 - 07:47 am
I know this guy who i think i like him, but i can't find the right way to ask him out. I know girls don't usually ask guys out, hey why can i do the same. I am a little shy. Also he has had many girlsfriend and i have had only a few boyfriends. Can some one tell me what i should say to him?
PS. He's my brothers friend and his big sister married to my other bother. |
| qadar.... | Tuesday, December 05, 2000 - 09:11 am
very simple....go to him and tell him that u liked and still do like him......get over it once
other then living with this hidden dark side of urs ...u iether loose or gain....at least find out if he feels the same or willing to accept ya ..my girlfreind first asked me out....by telling me how feels bout me while i didn't even got nothing for her but love grows later...first thing is attraction and interests......so tell him that attracted to him and u couldn't find any other way to tell him.....he'll iether say no or yea hanni.......and am hure that won't hurt ya alot.........so yeah go right ahead and tell him........good luck aight
and let ,me know if my advice works fine for ya
wishing the best of luck hanni..........hey my niece is called hanni too ya know that's great name.....i mean cool name ....lol......byyee
honey...... |
| hani2 | Wednesday, December 06, 2000 - 12:45 am
Hani
Showing someone you like them can be done in a lot of ways. The first thing to do is find out what he really likes as far as hobbies, sports or anything else he seems interested in. That means "I am thinking of you". Don't ask him out like date, you never know what he's thinking, most guys ignor the women who asked them out, and you will regret your ignorance. My advice is ask if he's upto go to movie or hanging out like friends, you will know if he's still wanna see him agian or he's not your type. And if you already know what he like...you fill the rest.
Good luck and let me know how it goes! |
| Anonymous | Wednesday, December 06, 2000 - 04:48 am
Never tell a guy u like him until he does it first. Or else they or he will step all over you, walk all over and won't even think twoice about it.
One helpful hint |
| Anonymous | Wednesday, December 06, 2000 - 07:33 am
Why do you want to ask him out? |
| Qadarrrr | Wednesday, December 06, 2000 - 08:08 am
ANONYMOYS1:::WHAT YOU WROTE DOWN AIN'T TRUE
SWEETIE MY GIRL ASKED ME OUT AND I DIDN'T STEP
ALL OVER HER SO PLEASE STOP THE BAD REPUTATION AND DON'T GENERALIZE ALL BROTHERS
JUST CUZ ONE ASS HOLE STEPPED ALL OVER YA AND DIDN'T LIKE YA, DOESN'T MEAN WE STEP OVER ALL THE SISTERS AND "WE DO NOT BREAK A HEART THAT LOVES US" KEEP THAT IN MIND AIGHT AND PLEASE DON'T GET ME WRONG AM JUST TELLING YA WHAT'S RIGHT AIGHT
HAPPY RAMADHAN MISS 1ST ANONYMOUS................. |
| Anonymous | Wednesday, December 06, 2000 - 09:36 am
Hani,
Believe me you don't want to tell a Somali guy that you like him......For the simple fact that ANONYMOUS 1 told you.
You might want to listened what Hani2 said to you.
Another
SML girl |
| khadro | Wednesday, December 06, 2000 - 03:13 pm
Qadar i like the way u think. Nice name by the way. Sis i'm sure u heard it b4 but it's best that u be friends with this guy then c where things go from then on. U don't wanna be heart broken but u will if u tell him u like him rite from the get goooooo. Better save then sorry rite?All in all good luck. |
| hani | Thursday, December 07, 2000 - 01:05 am
Thanks for the tips and the idea.
I didn't ask him out like a date, i didn't even think of it as date. I inviting him to hang out, and i wasn't nervous at all. Well, we will be going out this weekend as friends and nothing else, because he just started dating some girl a couple of weeks ago, which I didn't know. I was hurt by that, but what can a girl do?  At least I still have hope, since he and the other girl have not been dating that long. I don't know. What would you suggest i should do? now i am sounding desperate..Oooh God! |
| hani | Tuesday, January 16, 2001 - 10:40 pm
Hi guys, I have good/bad news. Wich one you wanna heat it first? the good news? i though so.
The good news is i am deating with the guy of my deam (my brothers bestfriend.) Ya, remember that the last time i told you that we went out. Eventually we did. I had nice time, more i can't not say. But a few weeks ago, I became involved with him verry serios. We do things together, this and that. But the last week I'd noticed a change in Its like he's chating with diffrent girls (chatline) and when I ask why he said that, that's not cheating. Should i give him space. I respect our realitionship, we're only ever together for few times at week, and I don't and how space can come into it. There is more, recently, we'd talked about taking things further (engaged / kids etc) and I thought it was all going well. Then he mentioned that he's been in the chatroom and had been talking to several girls, with that makes me mad. Becouse I feel like devastated by this - it's like what i am no longer special to him. I ask him whether he only wants to be friends or if he wants realitionship or "We can end this now"
to which he replied quickly "nooo".
I am confused. Any ideas on how I can deal with this please? |
| HonestGirl | Wednesday, January 17, 2001 - 04:50 pm
Hani....sweety.....why does ur man sound like typical brotha.........ey yeah i talk to a lot of girlz......and nooooooooo i dont wanna lose u......ah girl if u just knew how much that gets on my nerves.......
well let me tell u this sis.....the guy is not just any guy.....he's ur brother's bestfriend.....and ur xidid cuz his brotha is married ur sister right...........so u really gotta be careful........u cant say or do anything with a family man u know what i mean.....but since u already did.........i guess u cant go back and erase it.........just put it clear and simple for him.............u either in....that means no chat line girlz.....only single pple chat by the way.......or out........no relationship no nothing.....not even friends....cuz that could really pull ur leg sometimes.......just family......iska warran ina adeer...fiican ina abti......lol......thats IT.
I hope i was much of a help.....i wish u nothin' but luck sweety..........
Qadar.......aboowe dont we wish if all somali men were like u!!!!!lol
adios |
| Realbrother | Wednesday, January 17, 2001 - 09:51 pm
Why can't u do the same thing hani? Go put with your friends and chat with who ever u like, i mean 2 can play dat game. Sistah, if your man don't treat you righ. Move this way sugar. Get your self a hero. |
| xaaji xoogwayne xaaji yare | Friday, January 19, 2001 - 06:26 pm
HANI,
i think u r pushing the brother a little to much if i may say.
'couze u originally showed ur interest's in him first, he could have taking u 4 granted, trust me this happens.
and anyways, what was that really attracted u in to this fellow in the first place?
if the element that attracted u to him in the first place is really strong enough, and its worth for u to keep hold of it.
then, there is no other way but 4 u to b pationed and give him some space and give ur self some space too.
may b u r ought to consider seeing others 4 a time being to tast ur emotions regarding the original guy.
if u no longer feel abut him, the same way that initially felt, then i recommand that u end this relationship and emediatly!!!!!
dat is all i'm gonne say
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| Xanash | Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 02:41 pm
TROUBLED FAMILY. LEAVE THIS GUY ALONE. |
| Axmed | Monday, January 22, 2001 - 01:13 pm
please stop this insanity. i am 22 years old and i never had a girl friend, nor will i ever have one. i will have a wife INSHAA"ALLAAH.
Please stop insulting our relegion and culure. Hani i don't want to insult you, but sister think about the big SIN you are doing. Y don't you get married instead of having boyfriend and then tomorrow he will dump you after he uses you.
Please stop this madness...please stop...please stop...may ALLAAH guide you ALL
Axmed |
| nuura | Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 11:11 am
lol yess axmed i agree with u! bro dont worst ur time telling those dillo's what to do! they will take it offence all though u giving them a good advice!
i never had a boyfriend nor will have one >>>>
i will wait for mr wright who will marry me, Inshaallah>>>>
yo sisiter qaxaboo hani keebing fucking brothers and,,,,later they will say to u (log off a whore cant turn to house wife)
nuura |
| Player | Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 11:39 am
To axmed/nuura.
Leave my babe alone for god's sake. she doing right..I think y'all are haters who can't get no1.
If ya are still vergin that's you damn problem aight.I think you gotta worry about not losing yours virginity,and not bother anybody their biz aight.
peace all. |
| nuura | Wednesday, January 24, 2001 - 02:16 pm
Player look u should be watched out!!!! u played what? who? her inn't so keep fucking the bitches at the end off the day u need a wife to marry so why not mary the whore u fucken her like every other guys a :
keep it quit player |
