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I WANT MARRIAGE MAN WHOS NOT SOMALIA???

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Lost girl!

Monday, January 15, 2001 - 02:26 am
WAA AHAY GABAR JIRATA 21 SANOO WAXAAN LA SAAXIBAHAY WIL AAN SOMALI HAY OO HA EGYPTIAN..WALIDKAY MA OGAG ARTIITAAN.
DIBATADA HADDA TAKANI WAXAA WEEYE II UU WILKA RABA II UU GURSADOO WAXUUN RABA II U LAKULMO WALIDKAY..
OO II WAYDISTO LAAKIN WALIKAY SHOCK MAY QADAYA HADDAY MAQAAN ..ARATAAN.. ASAG WAA NIN FIICAN OO REAL MUSLIM AH LAAKIN WAAN KAL DUUWANHAY THATS POINT!!! SO PEOPLE TELL ME WHAT I HAVE TO DO::
I WE WAS TOGETHER 3 YEARS..AND HE LOVES ME .


BRO AND SISTER TELL WHAT I HAVE TO DO?????

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Anonymous

Monday, January 15, 2001 - 09:56 am
Just get rid of him. do what ur fammily wanna u to do, simple as dat. use ur common sence. I'm sure u better be off.

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ak

Monday, January 15, 2001 - 09:58 am
At leat you know ur "Lost girl":O

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SOMALI-BOY

Monday, January 15, 2001 - 10:11 pm
WALAASHIIS MIYUU KUU LEEFAY PLEASE II SHEEG HADUU KUU LEEFAY SOMALIDUBA HADA SIDA LOO LEEFO WAA BARATAY BELIEVE ME ANIGA KULA HADLAAYO SAAN U LEEFAYAY AA ILKAHA TIMO ILAA HADA IIGA JIRAAN EE HADAA RABTO EMAIL ME PLEASE.

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Hebel

Tuesday, January 16, 2001 - 06:25 pm
Ar tan Ingiriiskiina waa ugooyay Soomaaligiina haba sheegin, Carab dheg-casna wey dooneysaa.
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Idinku "Maryooleeyeey" Talo bal ka keenaa amuurtan taagsan ee sidii yoobsan, yoobsan.
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Somali-Freak next time U do the licking tell ya freaking she-friend to "At least" shave the freak.
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Giiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii what a freaking freaks.

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~Kusseey~

Wednesday, January 17, 2001 - 10:00 am
looooooool@ Hebel

ceebtaada ilaahey ma asturo ..Aaamiin dheh

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datoore

Wednesday, January 17, 2001 - 01:24 pm
walaashiis macaan ilaahay talo waydiiso oo salaad aad wax kuweediisaneeso tugo asagaa kuu fududeenayee
Tan kale ninku waa muslin baan umaleenayaa haduuna aheen waxba ha iskudaalin walaashiis raac markasta dhinaca familka ,sababtoo ah familka waa xaq

hebel yaa kabax waaxid,adi ma waxaa ushaqeesaa jini sxb sababtoo ah markasta waxaa raadinee BANADHEE is jir marka soo socota mid koo ayaa bacaadka kula galaaya ,walaashaa waxay kaarabtaa talo ee wax kutuur ,ha ooyin duqa

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Hebel

Wednesday, January 17, 2001 - 06:08 pm
Datoore-Dhegaaa-Xaaji iyo Kuuseey-Canbar-Gaab.
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Ninna Canbarkiiba wuu ilaabay siduu u ekaa, oo isagoo yar buu beri beryaha ka mid ah oo aad iyo aad u fog si kedis ah ku arkay, mardanbe se weyga xaaraan.
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Ninna waa u Anti-Basto.
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Haddii bacaadka leyla tago iyo haddii aan ilaahay ceebteyda asturin iyo haddaan waxaan u tuuro walaashay aan waayo ma ciil baan qabaa maxaanse dhimay?
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Haddii aan Canbar helo waa "Alxamdu Lilaah"
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Haddii aan waayana wayska "Rabil Caalimiin"
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Wa Bilaahi Macbuudkoow, Haddaba yaa joonyad canbar ah iyo labo shilin oon kii xaamilaga ahaa ee Mowliid-Waryaa-Aw-Malaakh aan siiyo isugu keey soo dara?

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Maryan

Thursday, January 18, 2001 - 01:27 am
sister if love him and u think hes right for just married him..but first u need ur family promision.


i think is better than somalia guy.,,

GOOD LUCK

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Anonymous

Thursday, January 18, 2001 - 11:22 am
SHAQALAN WAAYN AYA KU HAYSA MA INTAD NIN AJNABIYA RACDAY AYAAD WALIBA MASRI RACDAY WAXAN KU ODHAN LAHA NIN SOMALIYED AYA LAGU QATAY XAGA JACELKANA WAKHTI SII DANBA WAAD UU JECLAANDONTAYE OO AJNABI ISKA daa kuwi horeba faiido ka keeni waye.

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Anonymous

Thursday, January 18, 2001 - 03:34 pm
Naa bala ku martee ma waxbaad ninka dhadhansiisay.
Walee hoogtoy waadigaa ba'ay hadaad wax
dhadhansiisay. Talo wax oo aan hayaana ma jiro ee ilaahay ha kuu sahlo.
Ala jufan

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INTELLIGENT LADY

Friday, January 19, 2001 - 04:25 am
TO HEBEL
ADI DAD AAD CEYNOOSAA ADISE MAKA ROONTAHAY.
AF SOOMAALIGAAGA HALKEE LOOGA HADLAA???
INTAAN ADUUNYADAA JOOGAY ADOOKALE MA ISOO MARIN,YOOBSANA KABA DARAN.

TO LOST GIRL
LAAKIIN GABADHA HADUU AF SOOMAALIGIINA U GOOYAY CARABNA EY DOONEYSO, IN LEYSKAGA DAAYO AYAA II WACAN ANI. MAADAAMA EYBA GOOR HORE DHUNTAY INEEY DAGACAS KEEDANA ISKA RAACDO AYAA ILA WACAN.
DON´T YA´LL AGREE, BESIDES SHE SAYS SHE LOVES HIM SO THAT EXPLAINS EVERYTHING.
SO MY ADVICE IS TO TELL YOUR PARENTS AND GET MARRIED IF THAT IS WHAT YOU WANT TO DO!!!!!

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PURE SOMALI

Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 01:28 pm
dear sis this not a problem. you are the problem u telling us that he is a real Muslim and u have dated him for the last three years.... come on
I know Arabs they worship laan. my simple talo is u went outside ur ppl circle why don't u ask talo for Egyptians ... and believe me I am not making this. Egyptians are the cheapest human beings on the face of earth. ask anybody who use to live in Kuwait,united Arab emirates,Saudi Arabia they sell their daughters and wives to anyone who want them sex for money. u will not sink lower than this.

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Anonymous

Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 02:19 pm
walaal marka hore waad salaamantahay. marka labaad waxaan rabaa in aan kuusoo jeediyo talo walaaltinimo maxaa yeelay waxaan ahay walaalkaa muslin ah maadaama aad tahay gabar soomaaliyeed oo walaasheey ookale ah.walaal hadii ninka masriga ah ee aad sheegtay in aad guursaneeysid mid waad ku guursankartaa waa hadii ay muslinimadiisa cadahay hadii aad sidaa tiri uunin muslin ah uuyahay guurso laakiin waa in uu reerkiina kaa doontaa sida ay diintaqabto. hadii aad kashakisantahay diintiisa waxaan kuula talin lahaa in aad isaga harto aadna ilaaheey ka cabsato. mida kale dhag ha udhigin dadka ku aflagaadeeyay qaasatan gabdhaha.gabdhaha ku aflagaadeeynayo ayaga laftooda waxaa meelaha ku haysto ama ay la noolyihiin jareer mareykan ah oo la ogyahay in ay xag walba aaykadilanyihiin diina iskadaa warkeeda balse waa adigoo nin muslin ah raba in aad guursato waxaan hadalkeeyga am waanadeeyda kusoo gabagabeeynayaa. in aad guursato ninkaas aad noosheegtay waa hadii muslinimadiisa ay dhab katahay aabahaana hakaa doonto hana dhageeysan dadkaan reer galbeetka iska dhigayo oo aanan diintii islaanka aanan kabixin tii gaaladana dhaafay am kadheereeyay wabilaahi towfiiq

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SWEAT GIRL

Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 08:25 pm
hi sis

I think as long as you guys are in love that is all you need i am pretty sure if he is muslim and loves you everything else can be done.
And i think you should follow your heart it doesn't matter where it takes you

peace to you GOOD LUCK

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QADAR

Monday, January 22, 2001 - 12:56 pm
yeah!!!it's true what sweatgirl said....by following ur heart but u also need to consider
the consequences and the pain that u gonna cuz
to ur family......imagine breaking ur own mom's and dad's heart.......after all they raised in 21 years.....am sure and i think u should not anything that ur parents are agianst with......that's only if u love and would do anything for them even if it is risking ur own life or sacrificing....there's nothing better than ur parents being happy for you,,,,,,,,,i mean don't u want them to be at ur wedding ceremony......don't u wanna them to fulfill with happiness and also u will get a reward from them and also allah will forgive u haddad kaducaysatid waaridkaa.........
that's only a little advice am giving uuuuu
......."FAISLA AAPKI HAAD MERAN HA.that's a little word that my cousin thought me last night
as she was watching an indian movie.......which, means U MAKE THE CHOICE OR DECIDE IT.UR PARENTS OR UR LOVER......
FOR MORE ADVICE FEEL FREE TO CONTACT ME AT
QADAR36@HOTMAIL.COM

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JAAMAC

Monday, January 22, 2001 - 10:14 pm
SALAAN ALL YOOW WAXAAN AHAY WIIL SOMAALIYEED OO QAWA GAWAR BLACK AMERICAN SOMALI WAXAN IDIN LEEYAY QOFKA ADANAHA DOOQ BUU LEEYAHAY WAXUU RAWO BUU JECLAAN KARAA

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GANTAAL

Wednesday, January 24, 2001 - 02:02 am
walaashiiS wax makuu sheegaa carabkaan maalinta ugu horaysa aad iguursataan ayaad bilaawi doontaa calaacal sababtoo ah isku dhaqn matihiin carabtu dhaqankale ayee leedahay MASAARIDANA waa kuwa ugu daran dhaqankoodana ma afahmi kartid kafiirso ayaan ku dhihilahaa sababtoo ah arintaan dheeldheelmaha hadii aad guursatid waxaad laguursan DHAQNKIISA IYO REERKIISA labadaasna ma iskeeni kartaan, marka waalaga yaabaa inuu ku jecelyahay adna aad jeceshahay laakii kafkar madax wereerka iyo shida aad dhex dhigaysid reer kaada iyo hadhona CARUURTAADA oo ay saameen doonta marka adaan ku waydiinaayaa MA WAXAASOO DHAN BAAD DIYAAR UTAHAY HADII AAD UTAHY GO A HEAD HADHOWLAAKIIN HACABAADIN

HADIIKALENA AADAN DIYAAR AADAN U AHAY IKA ILOW OO ISKA ADKEESO MIDKALE OO SOOMAALI AH OO KAA KAFIICAN BAAD HELIKARTAA YEE.

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A222

Wednesday, January 24, 2001 - 02:36 pm
Why don't you turn your question to Egyptian guys who are your brother-in-law candidates, because we are Somalis whom you don't like to marry!

Good lucky!

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Bash

Thursday, January 25, 2001 - 08:07 am
Sister,
This is quick for me. You were not honest with your parents as you kept the Egyptian's affair under the carpet for three good years. I feel sorry for your lover, how he is going to trust you with his life when you were not honest and open to your own parents?
Grow up sis, we Somali men have a genuine respect for the girls parents, this guy wants to meet your parents after 3 years of lust and love affair. Ask no one again to help you, help yourself with the fact. On the other hand, you said he love you and you love him, I FOUND IT CRAP.
Good luck anyway.

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samawade

Friday, January 26, 2001 - 08:48 am
hey sis
get rid of this egyptian guy, i know them in general egyptians are not honest, he will tell u anaa axibik aawey, that is he needs something from u, then after he gets what he wants he will tell u yaa cabdah, please watch your steps, dont go for an arab especially an egyptian. xaya qulik yaa xabiibti yaa siti kul mafiish qerik fi dunyaa, anti qamar all these none sense & false.

take care
samawade

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Xiddig

Sunday, January 28, 2001 - 01:52 pm
Waa salaamantihiin dhammaantiin,
Lost-girl thanks for being honest and coragous.

As of Somali-boy, Hebel and others are shamelesly stupid, brainless, and basicly out of touch.

She honestly asked a question. All you have to do was to give her a good answer.

All the somalian boys date white, blacks and every stupid women on this earth. You lost the faith of your religion, your culture and your dignity. You think by watching borno movies you know everything.

People are valued of their integrity and the respect for god!!!!! who created, the respect for their body, respect for their brothers and sisters.

Lots-girl: if the guy is serious do not rash, take your time try to bring to your home just as a friend and see if he is welcomed.

You have a long life a head inshallah. Try to study and get a good education, that's what will help you in life.

Bye for now. I hope to hear from you!

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Hope

Monday, January 29, 2001 - 11:25 am
Salaam all,

Hey Bash lol@easy on the sister bro !
Xiddig a considerate advise but don't generalise the somali-boys.

LostGirl:Hey sis love knoes no culture,qabiil,
community,colour ect.So if u fall for that Egyptian buddy,go for it dear but consider the basics of the religion.Tell ur parents about the relationship and see their reaction,According to the prophet's (P.B.U.H) hadith u cannot be forced to marry a man against ur wish so bring ur parents in,it's about time,3 years is a long period to keep it in the dark,as Bash said I am not amused with ur lovers respects for ur folks,he should have given u the courage to let the parents know.Anyways do the necessary sis and tell mummy and daddy no matter what the outcome is,it's worth it,LOVE can derive us into doing things that are not acceptable but in the long run they will be accepted.Marrying out of ur community is tottally allowed based on our lovely religion Islam as long as the other party is a muslim..that is u being a girl ofcourse.
Hey good luck and pray to Allah (S.W) to make it easy for you and think really hard about it walaalo,marrying out of our lovely Somalia community can be really tough girl,I wish it was otherwise but u r in for a rough road,best wishes though....I wish u had achance with our lovely,charming,caring ect brothers...Somali boys.
Good Luck again and watch out girl!

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nadiya

Monday, January 29, 2001 - 06:35 pm
Walashediyee hadan talo ku siiyo ninkan hadad jeceshahay ama haduu ku jecel yahay oo muslin yahay waad gursan kartaa waxba ha u arkin wadan ku ka dhashtay wasida labada quf isku fahmaan waa in ad waalidkaana u shegtid oo adan ka qarinin haday ku diidan diinta islamka waxay shegaysa in lugu mehrinkaro albabka kugu dhagan abaayo dadkaan ku caanaayo waxba haka dhageesan.

Waxaan laya banahay dad catamayo waryaada meeqa jemenkaan an nijaasada iska dhaqaynin ay mee laha ku wataan iyo wax qurun an la aquunin ayada waxay haysadaba nin diinteeda oo kale haysto.

Kuwa dhahayo may guursato nin somaaliyed meeqaa gabdho yar yar gursatay oo caruur ka dha dhalay ooga tageen an maanta caruurtooda war ka haynin marka dadka layskamacaayo waxna lagama sheego oo adinka dib isku noqda caydana daya.

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SHIRE

Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 02:18 am
Waad salaamantihiin dhamaan ikhyaarta.
allah maxay somalia ba`aday hedhee goorma, goorma ayaan iri tani way soo socotaa 2ba 2ba usoo dhacaysaa, ar bal ba naftan daya ku leh waxaan jeclahay ITHEOPIAN, aniga iyo amxaar daya, maxaa isu soo kaya arkay, na nagala tag dhilanimada , hana ku soo qorin mar dambe meesha wax vayn kaas ah.

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yasmiina

Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 06:57 am
why somalian guys are so angry with this young lady, is it because she is not marrying somalian so what or are you jelousy? sister love is blind and if you find someone who loves you and muslim go ahead. maybe you will never get a chance to be loved again and you will regret the rest of your life that you let him go for this stupid reason like you are not the same country. tell your parents and tell them that you will always be their daughter no matter who you married to, and i think he is serious about you if he wants to meet your parents. do not listen to somalian guys i think they sick and think all the somalian girls are supposed to mary them.best wishes from my heart and tell us what you decided.

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A222

Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 02:19 pm
Gabdhaha careysan ee la duubtey Lost girl

Walaalayaal adinkoo mahadsan aan is fahamno, ma la diidana in gabadhu guursan karto wiil muslim ah, ee waxaan diidanahey saddex arrimood:
1- waxay muujisey nebcaasho inay guursato wiil Soomaali ah, taas waxay dhiiri galineysaa kuwa ka sii fogaanaya dhaqankeenna islaamka ah iyo diinteena macaan, ee hugurigu u geeyey ajaanib gaalo u badan, sidaad la socotaanba waayadaan danbe. 2- Waxay sheegtey inay waliba la saaxiib tahay, taas oo ah dhaqanka gaalada iyo danbi, loona baahnaa inay qarsato, haddey u bareertey ayadu.
3- Waxay sheegtey inay qaracmayaan Waalidkeed hadday taas ogaadaan, taasna waa midey ugu bareertey inay ku waxyeeleyso waalidkeed, waayo horey u sii ogeyd cidda lala doonayo iyo ciddaan lala dooneyn, tan oo loo baahnaa inay tixgaliso, oo badbaadiso waalidkii dhaley.

Isku soo duuboo, markaad naga tilaabsataan, ha noo sheegina ee naga qarsada, ha la idiin duceeyee!

Waxaan kaloo ka xumahey in la aflagaadeeyo gabdha, taas oo kaga timid wiilasha qaarkood.

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Anonymous

Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 02:35 pm
A222
hadii aan su'aal ku waydiiyo. marka aad rabtaan inaad gabar la hadashaan mar reerkeeda ayaad toos ugu tagtaan mise marka hore gabadhaad heshiisaan.meeqa wiil oo soomalia ayaa gabdho la socda sanado badan iyadoon reerkeeda ogayn. sidaas darteed gabadhu danbi ma aysan samayn wiilka sedex sano ayey xiriir lahaayeen hadana reerkeeda ayuu ka doonayaa, maxaa ku jaban. uma malaynayo inay jirto gabar mar ala markuu nin la hadlo waalidkeed u sheegta.

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Cali

Thursday, February 01, 2001 - 07:53 am
salaan,

Walaahi waa yaab naagahii soomaaliyeed intay doqoniimadii ka badatay ayabay la kufayaan.

Bal ilaahay wuxu umad aduunkaas abuuray, maxaa ku kalifay..jameekaan, Carab, iraani, turkish iyo hindi. Dadka intii ugu liidatay maxaa habalahii soomaaliyeed ku saliday.

Ciil maan qabi lahayn haday gaal cad guursato sabab wuu ka dadnimo fiicayahay xoolahan .

Afartan ku le miskiinadan Masriga guurso, horta masaari ama carab ma taqaanaan. Haday maanta guurasto oo aw bari Al Cabda Al Sooomaalia ka tago. ma adaa masruufi lahaa??? mise reerkaasi ayaa ka raali aha.

Muslim hadii aw yahay waa iska caadi??? dhaqanka carabta naga dhexeeya waa maxay aan ahayn Diin. Ma diin baa laysku fahmaa, bal wax kale iska daayo xoolaha eega, dameeraha iyo faradaha ba isma dhex galaane, maxaa ina dhexgalinayaaya carab xun oo khaniisiina ah oo dadnimo iyo dhaqan midba lahayn.

To Lost Girl..doqonyaya toos oo wiil soomaali ah raadso, barina hadii aw macaa kaaa taago aabo iyo hooyo wey kuu joogaan, mid kalana waayi maysid.laakiin hadii aw bari mid dhagcas ah helo, adna laad futadaweyn ee soomaaliyeed kaaga soo dhufto hooyana iyo aabna is nacdaan wiil yar oo dhago cadcadna wadatid..halkee baad qaban..lol


ilay naag soomaaliyeed wax ka doqonsan ilaahay ma abuurin..xoolo

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Axamed

Thursday, February 01, 2001 - 08:05 am
Dear Bro and sis!
Maarak hoore iiga guudoam saalan,
TO "Lost G" walalo waxan kula taalin laaha iinada raacadai ninka maadama aada la soocatay 3 saano, uu malayam maayo qoofa aada sadeexa saana waada soocateen iin waxa iidin dhexamraiin, wala what is pount to go to u Famaly? hooraba waada uula soocataya ee iiminkan raaca I think as long as u are in love.I think you should follow your heart it doesn't matter where it takes you! that is love but what can u say to u Famaly? two things
1 Tell hime how u famaliy is?
2 Live him alone and look someone mache better! I hope u can found hime "Inshalah"

Ps Caayda waay reeban taahay?

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A222

Thursday, February 01, 2001 - 10:46 am
Anonymous

"Marka aad rabtaan inaad gabar la hadashaan, ma reerkeeda ayaad toos ugu tagtaan, mise marka hore gabadhaad heshiisaan."

Jawaab:
Haddii gabadha la doonayaa tahay mid ka danbeysa reerkeeda, waxaa loo tagaa waalidkeed. Kadibna waalidka baa qaabila wiilka iyo waalidkiis ama qaraabadiisa, ayagoo baaristooda ku saleynayaa diinta iyo dhaqankaba(waana lagu kala adagyahay). Markaas kadib, baa gabadha la codweydiiyaa, ayadoo la raacinayo talada waalidka haddey tahay ayidaad iyo haddey tahay diidmo. Intaas kadib, waa dhici kartaa in loo ogolaado inay is arkaan wiil iyo gabadhu.
Haddiise aan gabadhu ka danbeyn reerkooda sidey doonto ha ku timaadee waxaa is arka labadooda(wiilka iyo gabadha) oo markey heshiiyaan la socodsiiya waalidkood. waana midaan midda loo batey waqtigaan la joogo, taas oo aan u jeedno dhibkey ku heyso mujtamaca.
Waxaana keeney duruufo badan sida fahamka diinta oo ku yar qoysas badan, waalidkuna uusan aqoon waajibka ka saaran u guurinta Ilmahooda, ee tirsanayaan waxii gacanta loo galiyo amase ilmihiiba yihiin caasiyaan. Waxaa kaloo sababey, waalidkii iyo ilmihii oo kala dhunsan, sidaasna ku yaraatey mas'uulnimadii waalidka iyo ixtiraamkoodii.

Isku soo duuboo, guurkii waa taraafig beeley, kadibna waataa guurkii shilka galey, raggiina ciil qabaan, gabdhihiina baroor wiiqda ku hayaan.

HADDE MAXAA LA SAMEEYAA, ISKA DAAWO MOOYEE!

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Ismail H.

Sunday, February 04, 2001 - 03:54 pm
I am astounded by guys like ak, Cali, Samawade, Hebel, A222, and Pure Somali, not to mention Somali-Boy as well as others. I have to say that I am flabbergasted and disgraced by many of my Somali brothers. It is like we still living in 19th century. I just cannot understand what makes u say what u said. Yasmiina said that they are jealous. No, no, no sis… I believe they are hypocrites. U know what they say: “Practise what u preach” more like in ur case (fools named above) it must be “Preach what u Practise.” My brother Xiddig was right, most of u are brainless and out of touch. In fact u are not religious because I have not seen u give one religious advice to our sister “Lost Girl” thus u are out of touch when it comes to Islam. Some of u acted as kids by making silly comment consequently u are brainless.

Let me tell u “Lost Girl” that what u going through is a second nature to many Somali people around the globe. In deed, this is just another consequence of the war in Somalia. For the reason that Somalis are spread all over the planet, they co-habit with other religions, cultures, and races. Therefore, it is only natural if we see our brothers and sisters marrying outside the so-called “Somali Community.”

1. To Xiddig: Fine advice bro, although u went a bit too far. However, I know where u coming from sxb.

2. To Hope: Tremendous advice bro. We need more brothers thinking like u.

3. To Intelligent Lady, Maryan, Sweat Girl, and Yasmiina: Very sound and solid advices sisters. I was expecting that from u.

4. To QADAR: Ur parents love u no matter what. Every mum and dad have expectation and dream lives in their own mind, for their children. However, the chances are very slim, yes very slim, that kids end up the way their parents wanted when they grew up. Moreover, unfortunately, parents are disappointed as we are individuals and execute things our own way. As far as “Lost Girl” is concerned, she has nothing to worry about. Islam is the most important thing in our lives. If ur parents are beyond doubt Muslims (And I am sure they are), they should have no problem whatsoever with this man u in love with and thus they shall not prevent u to marry him just because he is Egyptian. I have seen people do worst “Lost Girl” and still their parents love them, specially the mums (this shows once again that women are the sensitive understanding ones.)

5. To Bash who said: “Sister,
This is quick for me. You were not honest with your parents as you kept the Egyptian's affair under the carpet for three good years. I feel sorry for your lover, how he is going to trust you with his life when you were not honest and open to your own parents?
Grow up sis, we Somali men have a genuine respect for the girls parents, this guy wants to meet your parents after 3 years of lust and love affair. Ask no one again to help you, help yourself with the fact. On the other hand, you said he love you and you love him, I FOUND IT CRAP.
Good luck anyway.”
The way u talked about “Lost Girl”, I hope u know her a lot better than us or the few lines she wrote above. I believe most of us conceal a lot from our parents. Therefore Bash, u cannot tell me that u are always frank with ur mum and dad! On the other hand, how do u know that their love is crap? Maybe u are a clairvoyant (hmm…) By saying “Grow up sis, we Somali men have a genuine respect for the girls parents…” I can perceive u are jealous…oops I mean that u are hypocrite.

When all’s said and done “Lost Girl,” the decision is urs at the end of the day sis. Furthermore, whatever it might be, I am sure u are euphoric that fools who talked out of their asses in this matter are not ur dad, brothers, uncles or cousins.

P.S: Those who call themselves Anonymous and talk •••• while not having the courage to give their names, I think u pussycats and do not belong to this forums. Step off cowards.

Good Luck "Lost Girl":O!!

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A222

Monday, February 05, 2001 - 06:28 am
Ismail H.

Ilaahey baan kugu dhaarshee, wax aad soo qortey, ku soo qor Soomaali si dad badani kuu fahmaan.

Annigu shaqsiyan ma fahmin ujeedada aad ka laheyd qoraalkaaga. Markaan iska indho tirno aflagaadadaada, waxaan ka gartey oo kaliya inaad diidantey ku dhaqanka diinta iyo dhaqanka Soomaalida, taasna waa wax ka baxsan arrintan iyo hadalkeena waayo waxaan nahay ummad islaam ah, dhaqankeenana waxaan u nahey Soomaali.

War iyo dhammaantiis, bal caddee ujeedada oo ku soo qor Soomaali, haddii hadalku niyad kaa yahay, haddii kalana qiiqaaga isku qari, saaxiibow.

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Hope

Monday, February 05, 2001 - 07:18 am
Salaam all,
Mansha-Allah Ismail H.,that was marvellous work.
Hope all brothers were more positive and charming like some of you but anyways that was Great!
By the way am a sis not a bro lol.

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maryama

Tuesday, February 06, 2001 - 11:42 am
abaayo egyptianku waa muslim oo wax kaa hor istagayo ma jirto nin muslim ah waad guursan kartaa,laakiin ogow dhanku waa cajiib ajnabi si kastoo jaceel idiin dhex maro meel dheer in idnaan isla gaarin aa dhacdo,maad nin soomaliya iska jeclaatid isku dhaqan tihiin carabta naagaha wey gumeystaan tan kale aniga walaashey baa carab gursadey wuu dilaa ilmaheeda xataa waa laga ilaaliyaa oo in ay kala fakato uu ka baqayaa soo dhib ma ahin haddii ninkii ku xumeeyo hadhowna ilmahaga lagaa reebto ka feker intadan falin soomali wax ka fiican ma laha ninka soomaali ugu xun baa kaaga fiican ninka ajnabi u fiican soomaali soomali wax ka raadso ,cafis hadan danbaabaey abayadiisa.

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Lee

Wednesday, February 07, 2001 - 12:23 am
"Lost Girl"
Abaayo runtii arintaada aad ayay u adagtahay, waxayna igula egtahay in aad rabtid in aad ka dhexbaxdo dhaqankeena qaaliga ah, waxaan kuugala talin lahaa in aad ka harto inkastoo dhib kugu tahay oo aad la socotay 3 sano, jaceelka waa la hilmaami ee dhaqankaaga ma helmaami kartid sababta oo ah si kasta adigoo u haysta dhanqaaga ayaa dhaqankiisa ku raacaysaa 40 bari.

Abaayo waxaan daganaa Masar 15 sano dhaqankooda aad ayaan u garanayaa,mida kale hadaad isku carootaan ehel kuuma dhawa waa kugu tumanayaa reerkoodana waa ku dilayaan ee gadaal ka fakar inta aadan guursan iska hilmaan ayaan kuula talin lahaa.

Mida kale ay reerkaada ay ogeen waa mid xun aa sameesay mar hore in aad u sheektid ayaa la qaatay
Hadda hadaa tiraahtid waalidkaa waan guursanayaa waxaa lagayaabaa in ay wadna xanuun ku dhaco ama ay kaanaxaan naxdinta waalidka wa halis waxaa lagayaaba in aad ku curyaamto ama maskaxda si kaa naqoto.

waxaan ku dhahi la'aa in aad xiriirka u jaltid, Noona soo jawaab sida kuula muuqata walaashiis.

Dhalinyarada caytamaya meesha caylooma imaan ee qof dhan yaa mustaqbilkiisa wax idiinka sheegay ee cayda daayaa idnkoo mudan.

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princess

Monday, February 12, 2001 - 03:27 pm
SALAM TO ALL OFF YOU:

to the all discation..am so Empress to all of your judgements..am so sorry about the sister who ask all you cowards...am ashamed off you all..except few Intelligent ppl,...I really Admired one Particular felow.ISMAIL and my add HOPE YASMINA and XIDIG,..i thank you for your Honest answer...after all the girl ask us Q, not to....?

to the lost girl
sister what your tells you to....dont listen to no body,, except your parents... and your parents show them your respect them and afreid....after all is't your life and your happinnes, i know i would love to say a lot to you...which good for you...but not here macaanto...i wish you the best may god pless you all

PS:what ever you do ..dont post here something so precuous you here....coz out of ten somali ppl, there's always 9ppl to curasize you....no offence sis....laakiin waan kaa naxey sida laguu galaayo adigoo so weydiiyey walaalhaa su'aal daacadnimo ah..iney lagugu digto ma aheen .abaayo

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zara

Saturday, March 31, 2001 - 09:01 pm
Dear sis
I knowhow you feel i was in the exact situation but i did not date my husband like you did and he was African American. The first thing i want to ask you is do you trust him come on he is Arab and the second thing is would you be excepted into his family they would probably say why did you bring this African to our house .

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CARE

Tuesday, April 03, 2001 - 10:44 am
DEAR LADY I DO NOT CARE ABOUT YOURS PROBLEMS.
AND ANY ONY WHO SAY SOMTHING I HID THEM!!!!!!!
BYE BYE BYE ARABIER ••••••!!!!!!!

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I KNOW

Tuesday, April 03, 2001 - 10:53 am
I DON'T CARE ABOUT JOUR STUPID PROBLEMS.
I CARE ABOUT ME SELF AND WHO HAVE COMMENTS I HID THEM. PLEASE I WILL TAKE CARE OF MY SELF DOT WORRY . JUST GO TO SLEEP
AND SAY GOOD BYE LOVE AND HATE ENCHANTERS!!!

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suad

Tuesday, April 03, 2001 - 01:01 pm
To Lost Girl

Walaashiis ilaa iyo maalintaad soo post garaysay emailkaagan aqbaar lagaama helin, mana aadan noo soo sheegin in wiilkii aad is guur sateen iyo in kale.

Sikastaba ha ahaatee maadaama aad tahay walaasheen somaaliyeed waan kula talinaynaa, aniga ahaan haduu ninka muslim yahay oo uu yahay nin reer dhaqan kara waad guur san kartaa, waxaase walaashiis iyana aad umihiimsan dhaqanka qof aadan isku dhaqan ahayn sikasta isku jeclaada waligiin isma fahmaysaan, aniga waxaan ku oran lahaa wiil somaali ah iska guurso oo sikasta ood isku dagaashaan walaaltinimo iyo dhaqan kugu ixtiraamayo, carabse ma yaqaan dumar baa la ixtiraamaa, walaahi walaashiis wadan carbayd ayaan kusoo noolaan jiray oo indhahaygaan saaray iyagoo xaaskooda oo 9bilood ah intay timaha qabtaan jaran jarada kujiida, ma wiil soomaaliyeed ayaa sidaas kuyeela waa maya, oo waxaad tahay gacaladiisii oo hadaad xaamil unoqotid sifiican kuu ilaalinaya adiga iyo ilmahaagaba.
Waxaa kaloo jirta arintan wiil meesha uu kuugu soo qoray hada kahor oo ah in lacag hadayba maqlaan walaashood iyo xaaskooda iska dhaafee hooyadood ayey lacag dartiis u beecinayaan, hadalkaaga sida aan kafahmayna wiilka waad jeceshahay ilaahay hakula garab galo sis, carabta waa maslaxad socota iska ilaali, oo markay dantooda dhamaystaan ayey ku oranayaan bint camii awlaa minil qariib atamanaa inak fahimt calaa qasdii, wa arjuuki yaa caziizatii fakarii filmustaqbal qabl maa taqararii ayi xaajah, wa alah yakuun fii coonek.
Alah macek qaytii.

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zara

Wednesday, April 04, 2001 - 02:05 am
care learn how to spell

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