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"no somalian men never noticed me, no wonder i am invisible

SomaliNet Forum (Archive): Ila Tali Walaal - Ask The Experts: Archive (Before Feb. 16, 2001): "no somalian men never noticed me, no wonder i am invisible
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mariam

Monday, January 22, 2001 - 10:37 am
hi to bro and sis.

my name is mariam, and i live USA, i am 19 years old.I just look normal like anyother somalian girls, all my dreams was to get marry one day and find the right man, and have family, but I got big problem, i have friend she always gots the cutiest guys wherever we go out boys would like her, it was great being around her because I thought i was getting same attention she was getting, but i wasn't getting the attention she did, in fact no somalian men or boy has ever noticed me,now I feel like I'm invisible and unwanted. I lost all my dream I now stop think about having husband nor boyfriend.I believe no man will ever fall love with me, please bro and sis give me your advise and what should i do abot this trouble things, thanks and i hope u help me.

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Anonymous

Monday, January 22, 2001 - 10:46 am
hey mariam u just so young and u have all u future facing in u please don't try to have husband or boyfriend at this age,go to college and get good job then at the age of 25 years old u can think abou getting marry, that is the only advice i can give now bye I am wishing all the best,

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~Kusseey~

Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 08:20 am
Mariam

Just like Anoys SAid you are young..at the age of 19 you are no way of thinking of getting married unless you coudn't help it..And from what i understand you haven't fallen in love yet ..so dont worry about boyfriends and husband at this age

About why somali man wouldn't notice you..Sis i don't think its a matter of looks...Its all about Attitude and Confidence ..not that i'm saying you don't have it ...But sis try to lift your head up...Don't let a few Boyish comments or no-attention put you down....And Don't let you friend's attention from the somali boy challenge you....Have you ever thought about the negative side of too much attention....it can get you in a lot of trouble sometimes..specially if you are getting it for all the wrong reasons like based on looks and body.

So you are better off

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~Kusseey~

Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 08:22 am
Mariam

1 more thang..There's somebody for everybody...And urs is with Somali man don't worry i read the Cards right

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Anonymous

Wednesday, January 24, 2001 - 11:25 am
mariam I understand u story but I just want to give some advices here, first don't waste u time for looking husband or boyfriend. u are so young and i would say to u go to college and get u own life okay bye I hope i help u .

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A222

Wednesday, January 24, 2001 - 02:53 pm
Don't go out with any guys
Stay your home like a baby, then they will be interested to see or contact you, and this is what causes them fall in love with you!

That is your chance!!

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1283

Tuesday, February 13, 2001 - 01:29 pm
TO mariam

Well, I will you give little advice cuz you allready had it enough advice from your bro/sis..
the only thing i would say is you are still very
young and your future a head of you so dont worry
about Boyfriend or Husband they will come along
when the right time comes.
Mybe your dream boyfriend is not around you now
he could out of the country or he is different state..
So just chill out and wait right person comes

By all

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