     some girl | Monday, January 22, 2001 - 09:41 pm
What I mean is when women have sex without marriage it is like her whole marriage future flashes down the toilet. She will not be able to a man because she had sex
Men they can have as much sex as they want and it will not affect them in any way
Isn't it sin to both women and men, and they are not supposed to have sex until they get married
Please I would really appreciate if you answered these question.
Thanks |
| other gril | Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 07:44 am
YES THANK YOU SIS I REALY WANNA KNOW THAT TOO? |
| Nuura | Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 11:27 am
First off all, it is wrong to have sex with out married wether u r man or women.
secondly when u have sex with marriage u wont injoye sex .
It is a Sin even if u look the person wronge way;Never mine Phyiscal Atack;
So brothers and sisters keep ur dicks and •••• out the way: Please walala forces ur oun culture and religiont:::::::::::diintii xagaa lagu ilaaway islamika=waar walaalayaal Yurub yay ina jiidan.
macalsalaama
nuura |
| MNman | Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 09:30 pm
SomeGirl
Abaayo listen to me don't worry about man all u have to worry is u. Can U stay clean until i get married? The rest ppl u talking bout wheather is a man or woman allah would deal withem. |
| shaakir | Wednesday, January 24, 2001 - 10:25 am
Assalaamu clakuM:
first of all thanks for raising this important questions: the fact of the matter is that zinna is forbiden period, haaraam: This is the law of Allah therefor it applies to every muslim regarless of gender age >.>>>>> and the like. if i may speculate why men having sex without marriage is percieved less of stigma or problemtic as supposed to when women commit this despicable and degrating sin, is the fact that zinaa doesn't usually leave traceable impact on the physical structure of men, whereas,when women engaging in out of wedlcock sex sustain permanent impact,namely that women loose their virginity. NOte: in principle, commiting zinaa is prohibited whether you are man or women. However, paractically speacking women suffer due to cultural connotations attatched to this shameful and disgusting act,zina: When we are forbidden to do certian things, were are permitted to do them in other lawful and clean way. Islam, forbade zinna and gave us a way to satisfy our physical desire: solution: is Marriage: to both sex: |
| A222 | Wednesday, January 24, 2001 - 02:17 pm
Some girl
Who told you that? Did you see it in a dream, or you heard it from the Qur'an or Sunna?
Because women are gold; whereas men are money, and stolen gold is more concerned than lost money! |
| some girl | Wednesday, January 24, 2001 - 02:38 pm
This is to MNman
Thank first of all for making a comment on this question.
secondly I am 100% clean I have never done sin like that in my life or some thing that has something to do with that, but I just want to know why women get called names like slat,or ho. Isn't it between them and ALLAH (SW) that no one should panesh them but Allah. |
| Anonymous | Monday, February 12, 2001 - 05:43 pm
Hello, First of all I would like to say this is very interesting topic. I have little story to tell. I got marry to this guy and I was very much virgan, So there I thought he was going to be the world most happiest man...boy, was I wrong. He kept asking are virgan and I say yes, We have long-D-R so we didn't really date that much...face to face...he come to my state coulpe of times and nothing happend. Anyway as we were togther on our first night as marry couple......
He told...Am sorry but I never slept with virgan women so I going to have diffcutle time with you...and I say well there is first time for everything right? I didn't kept myself virgan so my husban would be happy...I can kept it because is sin to have sex before marriaged right? right...anyone....he didn't like that night ...and that goes for me to...because it is painfull....trust me on that. Unitle this day I find myself question...how can one go through all this pain for man who is going to leave soon or later.....sister all I can say you better to waite untile your marry because you are going to feel speical because...you love that your give your self way to and you will have more engjouable...coz you can be free around me....whereas if he is just an boyfriend..you will wonder what is going to say next....how long will it be b4 he leaves me? will he remember me all? think b4 you act. |
| Dood | Saturday, March 24, 2001 - 05:12 pm
Thanks for raising this important argument.
Somalian boys actually feel good about themselves when they have sex with other women especially foreign women. I am sorry to say this but it is the truth. One guy one day told me there is no virgin Somalian Man
I have seen boys who feel powerful because they, as they repeat constantly, had sex sooooooo many sex, they now how to do it, and when you say I am not those women they make you feel you like you are from other world instead of congratulating. But I learned one thing, God nows what they are doing and believe me one day it will hunt them. When they get diseases, disappointments, and frustrations. I still feel confident that those who behave well, god will reward them (aakhiro iyo adduunkaba) and those who don't follow his rules. REMEMBER GUYS !!! for all the power that you may think you have when you get an incurable diseas you pray god to give you health! how can you be so ridiculous!!! EVERYBODY WILL GET WHAT THEY DISERVE (AAKHIRO IYO ADDUUNKABA) DON'T EVER FORGET THAT!!!. |
