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Money is NOT everything in life, Because it can take your Love away from you.

SomaliNet Forum (Archive): Ila Tali Walaal - Ask The Experts: Relationships - Shukaansi: Money is NOT everything in life, Because it can take your Love away from you.
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Angel

Friday, March 02, 2001 - 01:21 pm
I am a Girl at the age of 17 Now.
I hade to big experience in my Life that made me hate MONEY. I met a guy from the Sopermarket and he gave me his number which I didn't wanted to call him at the begianing because I know that time if I call him I will be a bad Girl in way because I called a boy. Then the Mohamed gone to the USA. I called on the number I called him in then his brother son unswered me and told me that Mohamed is gone to the US. That time my story begian with this boy I Loved him and he did too. But the problem is that I came from a rich family which the will not exsapt him.
The problem is that I met his uncle and his family will not exaspt me too. I tryed to buy him with money but I couldn't because in my life I always get what I want but Allah made me know Now that the best thing of my life that I want I can't get.
So please help me what can I do? Should I for get My Love and have the money of my family and live in sadness. Or fight for my Love and for get about my family name and money? I will be greatfull for you all.
Thank you.
Angel.

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hangool

Friday, March 02, 2001 - 01:31 pm
Angel
love sucks!
First I agree with you there is way money is everything. second there is no somali family which we can call rich to buy someone. I dont mean to put your family down or say dont have any but be realistic.
about your love keep calling your boy and take your time.

Time will heal your wouds.

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Angel

Friday, March 02, 2001 - 01:47 pm
Dear Hangool:
Thank you for you advice but really my family are rich which I don't like to say that but I have to say the truth, and I am not somali but my family are lived in Somali for a long time so thats why I say I am somali.

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Hagi

Wednesday, March 07, 2001 - 10:20 am
Let me for a minute stop the family thing and try to go back to Angel's two parts question. forget him and live with the money or forget the money and live with him? I bet everybody will tell u some sort of advice and some pple will go farther and say bad things about u. But me i just wanna say there r some rich, very rich Somalis. and they r rich in the standards of the Western societies... talk about half billion dollar richer Somalis. Traditionally Angel the money is always good to be in the hands of the man. even if he loves u and he comes back I bet he will always feel intemidated, somehow abused in life. It is man's nature to feel it this way. from the cave men's days till now we don't like women superior then us, especially finencially. Man wants him to be seen as the bread winner, the cash machine of the family. That is why a lot of marraige fall a part in this part of the world. Women have decent jobs, they have money, they have rich family to fall back on, but they don't have men in their lives all because the man feels threatend. so i would suggest u get married to someone who is financially well established, who thinks that he does not need anything from ur family's treasure. If Mohamed feels secure and not threatened then i would suggest u pursue him but also u better think about the long run.

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Anonymous

Friday, March 16, 2001 - 05:36 pm
HAHAHAH THAT IS VERY FUNNY......ANGEL......YOUR FAMILY IS RICH.......HAHAHAH ALLA YAA ILA QOSLA......HOW RICH NAAYAA........STOP LYING.....WHY DON'T U GO TO SCHOOL........AND IMPROVE YOUR EDUCATION..FOR INSTANCE....U ARE TOO YOUNG TO BE WORRYING ABOUT LOVE......AND THAT CARAP......AND FOR THE RICH.....PART.....I DON'T BUY THAT.....
DO U GUYS AGREE WITH ME........?????!!!!!!!!!
RICH,,,,,RICH......RICH.......HAHAHAH

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Angel

Thursday, March 22, 2001 - 12:17 pm
Sorry to say to you this:
My family are really rich and everyone knows them but i am sorry to this people who don't believe me because i can't tell them my family name and if i did i will get in big problem with them and i am sure that as soon as i say who they are then you will know that i am telling the truth.
All girls in the the net they can't give there personal information becauce it can get them in problem

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Angel

Thursday, March 22, 2001 - 12:21 pm
Thank you Hagi for your help and I really need you to help me what i have to do if I choice my love. what i will do with Mohammed? he will tell me that he is the first person i know not his brother son which i love. This will make me feel in side me that i am really a bad girl.

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AYAANLE

Thursday, March 22, 2001 - 05:24 pm
SALAAMU CALAYKUM
hey Angel you look a double-jeapordy
when I read your massege I remembered the princess of Bahrain it was big history happened in
mid 1999, she met American marines who was in
Bahrain and she felt in love and she decided to go
USA with him, do you know what she left behind
she left her majestry,the big castle,her father
who is a king,I can image, just she was in heaven.
and she decided to marry very very poor guy with
a different religion.can you tell me is she crazy?
definately no she love herself and she wonna satisfy herself so if you love yourself you should satisfy yourself my I ask you question your family they dont like somalians?or what oooh. Idont wonna hurt you....
wonna

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Angel

Friday, March 23, 2001 - 11:10 am
Dear AYAANLE:
thank you but why did you ask me if my family like somalians or not? what my story got to do with that?
And what I will satisfy myself with? try to tell my more about your point of view!

Thanks anyway for your help.

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