     AYAAN | Monday, April 09, 2001 - 05:29 am
Like many woman, you try to do it al.you work overtime on the job,you run yourself nagged to take the kids to and from their school.and you try to maintain a meaningful relatainship with your man,there is only so much time in a day ,only so many things you can do after all, there is only one of you when you could use three still time and attiention devoted to your man does not have to be the secrificial lamb nor does your selfworth and individuality,yes it is possible to please your man and make him feel specail without loosing yourself.
Show your appreciation.
Let your man know that you love him and appreciate him from time to time,tell him that you love him and the things he does for and to you sometimes a man just needs reasurance.
Communicate affectively.
Make time for you and your man to sit and talk, really talk,on a regular basis.get in the habit of undating him on whats goning on in your life tel him the ups and downs of your day,but without complaining, ask if he had any intersting encounters whether he met any new people.and when he is talking let him finish his thougth.some people hardly hear what the other person is saying because they are so eagle to take control of the conversation again exercise selfcontrol.
listen to what your manhas to say.learn to open up and share your wishes ,hopes and dreams.do not let our mariage turn into one inwhich spouses never have anything positive to say to each other.there is plenty to be said,some of it in the bed room.use pillo talk time not only to explore your hearts and busy lives,but also delve into what you like about each other what attracted you to each other in the first place, even though you may know or think you know what turns him on,ask sometimes he may tell you somthing you may did not know.
fadlan la soco ...... |
| warabe | Monday, April 09, 2001 - 06:25 am
hee maxaa la soconaa hee afgaal makasayne qoy,,,, |
| Ayaan | Monday, April 09, 2001 - 06:46 am
Accept his flows.
if you have been with your man for five years,you know the good the bad and ugly,kindly gently let him know that something he does drives you crezy.but accept the fact that he is the he is if he did it before you got married or commited to each other then mostly,likly he is going to continue to do it.
now if he is rude or crude and disrespectful,do what you can to help him change his bad habits,but in most cases you can not remold the man you fell in love with.
Do not force your friends on your man.
Sure you hung out with your friends before you get married,but you now find your husband making snide comments about their frequent un anounced visits.it is important that you distinguish between the rules that your man and your friends play in life.no one should have to complete for your attention and affection. your home is now his home and he may tired of seeing sahra anab and ubah.
fadlan la soco...... |
| Anonymous | Monday, April 09, 2001 - 06:54 am
taldaau way fiicantay laakiinse ragu ma ku la shqaynkaraan,mise waxay kuu qaadanayaan naag waxan hore u soo martay. |
| Anonymous | Monday, April 09, 2001 - 09:14 pm
Asalaamu Caleykum
Ayaan,
Talooyinkaada wey fiican yihiin balse ragga maxaad kula talin laheyd, how to please your WIFE? bal ka hadal
Anonymous, u maleynmaayo in nin is oran lahaa horeyee isoo martay, reer magaalnimo ayaa loo qiri lahaa shafarna wey ka heli laheyd. |
| soofe | Tuesday, April 10, 2001 - 02:35 am
ayan
tell us about, the story of you life, where do you stand? is your man happy with your performance? are you talking from experience or are you just telling us some crab you read from books?
we don't want some passive sentences here, give the story bit of facelift, put some faces in it. say like i done this, me man was happy with it, than the thing would be interesting. but the way you doing sounds like some old text book stuff.....i was yawning all the way....halaaaqooooooooooooo........uuuuh ilow na cafi...... |
| Ayaan | Tuesday, April 10, 2001 - 05:01 am
to.soofi
walaal salaan ka dib su,aal caqliga galaysa iwaydii,sideen halkan ugu qoraa noloshayda diiniyan inay xaaraan tay miyaadan ogayn inuu qof xaasi noloshiisa gaarka ah ka shekeyo
waxan keliya een kuu sheegi karaa inaan ninkayga jecelay happy ku ahay isna sidaasoo kale uu ijecelyay.
inanka su,aasha isoo waydiiyay waan kuu soo jawaabi doonaa hadii ebe yidhaa
dhmantiin i hope you have enjoying your time, by. |
| AYAAN | Wednesday, April 11, 2001 - 03:30 am
KEEP THE ROMANCE ALIVE
surprise your sweetheart somatimes by greeting him at the door dressed for a romantic evening at home fill the tub and offer to bathe him or massege him after his shower.
greet him warmly with a kiss on a regular basis touch him let him,that you want him.
when he travels slip a sexy or thoughtful note inthis groooming kite.make date for him love making and let him know you are looking forward to it and what you would like for him to do.
lasoco fadlan......... |
| Anonymous | Wednesday, April 11, 2001 - 03:53 am
YEEH I LIKE THAT
BUT CAN SOMALIAN GRIL DO THAT. |
