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     | Unrecorded Date WALLAALAYAAL WAXAAN AHAY GABADH HOOYO AH 2YR OLD HAYSATA UURNA LEH WAXBARATEY. FULTIME IYO PARTTIME JOBS BAAN HAYSTAA SANNADKAN OO UGU DANBEEYAY INCOME KAYGU $69,500/YR 1999. AYUU AHAA. NIN WANAAGSAN OO SUPPORTIVE AHNA WAANU IS QABNAA XATTAA GURI AYAANU WADA IIIBSANEY AANU MORGAGE KIISA DHODHOWWEYNAY.PROBLEM KAYGA U WAYNI WAA HOOYADEY. 9KEEDA CARRUURA ANAA BIILINAYEY ILAA DAGAALKII HARGEISA 1988 AS ATEENACHER ILAA QAXII MARKAAN CANADA IMINA WAAN BA UGA SII BADIYEY. I MEAN I AM SO DEVOTED TO THEM MORE THAN TO MY CHILD AND HUSBAND. AABO HARGEISA AYAA LAGU DILAY 1988. MARKUU SPONSER CANADA IGU ADKAADEY AYAAN HOOYO BUG KU KEENAY FEB.1999. CARUURTIINA INDIA AYAAN GEEYEY $550 US.AYAAN U DIRAA . HARGEISA GURIBAAN UGA DHISEY. HOOYO WAA 56 YRS OF AGE, WITH NO INTEREST AND HOBBY TO PASS THE TIME. AS A CONVENTION OF REFUGEE AYAA LAGU AQBALEY CARUURTANA WAY U XAREYSAY LANDEDKA. MARKAA ANOO IS LEH ALXAMDU LILAAH IMINKA CANADA FEELS MORE A HOME ME 10 YRS. CIDLA KU JIRTEY HOOYANA BABY SITTINKA AYEY KAA CAAWIN WHILE I HELP HER CHILDREN BAYBA ISLAANTII DIFFICULT NOQOTEY. DEPRESSION BAY QAADEY SHALEYTO U DANBEYSEY ANOO SOOMAN HURDADU IGU YARTEY SHIFT WORK AWGEED BEY IGU QAYLISAY. HABAAR KEY KU DHEERAYSAA." LAGU LUUDLUUDI, LAGU QAAD, UBAD WAA, IGA KAXEE HALKAN, HADDAAN SIDAN MOODAYO KUMA AAN SOO RAACEEN" WAXAAN KU KAXEEYANA MAHAYO ,HER CHILDRENS' CHANCE OF COMING TO CANADA WILL OUT THE DOOR TOO. I MEAN I DID EVERY THING FOR HER. MY LITTLE SPARE TIME MALCAAMAD, MALL, MASAAJID. MUXUU DARO IYO SOMALI GATHERING BA WAAN GEYN JIRAY. HARGEISA ANOO UGU DIRA $350 US AYEYNA WAXBA KA CUNI JIRIN OO DAD LA QAYBSAN JIRAY. IMINKA GURIGAYGII WAA MISERABLE. NINKAYGII WUU YAABANYAHEY. CIDLO HOOYO MAAHA OO REERKALE AYAA GURIGA QAYB KA KIRAYNAY WHICH WE ALL GET ALONG FINE. SO WHAT IS HER PROBEM? SHE IS NOT RATIONALIZING ANY THING.SHE IS REALLY PERSISTENT OF GOING BACK TO SOOMAALIA. MEAN WHILE WE ARE TRYING TO APPLY FOR HER A MINISTER'S PERMIT WHICH IS NOT EASY TO OBTAIN PLUS SHE DOESN'T HAVE A TRAVEL DOCUMENT. I AM DESPERATE, CAN YOU PLEASE HELP? MEANWHILE SHE DRIVING ME NUTS AND TO TALK BACK AT HER AND BECOME A WAALIDIN KAAR. 30 YRS 30YRS OLD SUCCESSFUL WOMAN.PLEASE WRITE ANY SUGGESIONSN
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| | Unrecorded Date Walaal qadra, aad iyo aad ayaan uga xumahay dhibaatada ku haysata. waxaan ahay wiil soomaali reer koofur ah oo ku nool Danmark, waxaan dhowaan tegay somaliland,waana dhul xasilooni ka jirto ogoow inuu hooyo iyo walaalaba uu u qayr roon yahay dhulkoodii waxaa laga yaabaa inay sidaasi kuu qayr roon tahay. iskana ilaali ribo inaad qaadato ama lagaa qaato.......wadankaan aan joogo shan guri ayaan ka iibsan karaa laakiin diintayda ayaana ii fasaxayn........ilaahay casaa wa jalla ayaa sheegat qofkii ribo qaata inuu qax ka qaadi doono......igu salaan hooyo iyo odogaadaba-
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| | Unrecorded Date DEAR MOHAMUD JI'SAAKA LLAHU TALADAADU WAY I TAABATEY. WAXAAD MOODAA IN AAD FRUSTRATION KII ILA QAYBSATEY. I ALREADY SEEM TO FEEL BETTER. WALLAALO NINKEYGA AHMEDNASIR BA WUXUU LEEYAHAY KALIFKA IS KA DAA OO REERKIINA U DAA WADANKOODA. EE WALLAAL WAXAAN KA CARARAYAA IN CARRUURTAN AY WAXBARASHO LA,AANI KU DHACDO. MARKAAN HARGEISA HOOYO KA DOONEY OUR 17 YR OLD BOY QAAD IYO SIGAAR BUU BILLABEY INTUU INDIA YIMI AYUU KA RAYSTAY WAAN MARROORA DILAACAY, WAAYO MARKII UU WADANKAYAGU DHISNAA AABONA NOOLAA MUSTAQBAL BAANU LAHEYN.CIYAAL SUUQNA NALAKUMA ARKEYN. WAXAAN KALOO KALA CARARAYAA IN UU CALAF U NOQDO GABDHAHA IGA YAR YAR MID DAYDEYE! OO HODHOWNA SADDEX LA GUURSADA IYADOO MAR CURAD AH. INTAANEY INDIA IMAN 14 IYO 15 JIRKII BAA LOO SOO GUURTEGAY, WAASE LOO DIIDEY MAADAAMA AY HOOYO KA SOO MAQNEYD. MY GOAL WAS TO EDUCATE THEM SO THEY CAN HELP THEMSELVES. SI AAN ANNIGUUN DEPENDENT LAYGU NOQON. OON BIIL UUN LAYGA SUGIN. YARTAYADDII DOCTORKU HARGEISA KU QABYBA , HAD IYO JEER LACAG BAY U SOO HADASHAA. SO CAN YOU IMAGINE IYAGOO SII WADA XAASEYSTANA INKASTOO IRSAAQADA ILAAHEY BIXIYO HADDANA KU XISAABTAN DHAQAALAHA WADANKA IYO BAAHIDA TAAL. WALLAALKEY MASAALAMA. IGU SALLAAN NAFTAADA IYO EHELKAAGA KUU DHOW.KADRA
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| | Unrecorded Date Kadra: You seem to have good head on your shoulder, but your situation is not unique specially among us Somalis. First it's a daunting task to please an Older person in N.America specially when all her friends & family members are back home not mention the absence of her kids. You can imagine what she is going through (put yourself in her shoes). Are you the only income earning relative? IMO; you can either continue supporting them (grand her wish & send your mom back home)or attempt atleast to bring the rest of the family together in Canada.
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| | Unrecorded Date DEAR MULLAH THANKS FOR YOUR SUGGESTION. YOU HAVE ASKED IF IAM THE ONLY BREAD WINNER? FOR MY FAMILY (BROTHERS AND SISTERS ), BUT MY HUSBAND HAS ALSO A GOOD JOB IN A RAILWAY COMPANY, THOUGH I EARN MORE THAN HIM, HE HAS BEEN QUITE SUPPORTIVE REGARD HELPING MY FAMILY IN THE PAST. AS MY FAMILY NEEDS INCREASED MY HUSBAND'S TOLERENCE OF THEM SEEM TO DECREASE. SINCE MY MOTHER STARTED OF HER NON-STOP COMPLAINTS, HE IS GETTING FED UP. IN REALITY IF MY MOTHER GOES BACK HOME MY BABY SITTING WILL BE JEOPEDORIZED AND I WON'T BE ABLE TO WORK AS LONG HOURS ANY MORE AS A RESULT FINANCIALLY IT WILL BE DIFFICULT TO BE SUPPORTING MY MOTHER AND HER FAMILY. WELL, LET ME TELL YOU THAT SINCE I LANDED HERE OCT. 1990 I HAVE PUT SO MUCH EFFORT TO SPONSER THEM BUT ALL FAILED. THEY WERE IN ADDIS FOR 3 YEARS AND DJIBOUTI FOR A YEAR .THEY EVEN MADE IT TO HAVE MEDICAL CHECKUP DONE WHICH LATER EXPIRED DUE TO THE IMMIGRATION. I WAS IN NEWBRUNSWICK WERE THERE ARE NO SOMALIS SO I DIDN'T KNOW THE SYSTEM SO WELL THEN PLUS I APPLIED ALL OF THEM AT ONCE WHICH EVEN MADE IT HARDER. SO DEAR IF YOU HAPPEN TO LIVE IN CANADA YOU MIGHT BE WELL AWARE OF THAT THE IMMIGRATION STINKS! MY FAMILY'S CHANCE TO BE HERE IS THE MOTHER TO BE HERE AND BE PATIENT. SHE SHOULD REALIZE WE ALL MADE THROUGH STRUGLLE AND I UNDERSTAND THAT SHE IS MISSING HER KIDS. I TOO WAS IN HER SHOES WHILE MY 2YRS OLD WAS 4MONTHS OLD DURING MY MATERNITY LEAVE I TOOK HER HOME TO HARGEISA. I WEANED HER OFF THE BREAST QUICKLY AND DEPARTED BACK TO CANADA, I WAS LAST ONE TO GET IN DAALLO AIRLINES. I HAD TO DO THIS NOT BECAUSE I COULD NOT AFFORD BABY SITTER BUT THE LOVE MY FAMILY HAD FOR MY DAUGHTER WAS SO INTENSE AND REASSURING THAT I TOO WANTED TO MAKE DIFFERENCE IN THEIR LIVES. AFTER BEING AWAY FOR ONE WHOLE YEAR, I WAS ABLE TO BRING MOTHER AND MY BABY BACK TOGETHER ON FEB. 1999. I MISSED HER FIRST BIRTHDAY. SHE NEVER RECEIVED ANY VACCINATION AT HOME. SHE END UP GETTING OF GASTEROENTERITIS , ASTHMA, BRONCHO- PNEUMONIA AND MALARIA. SHE WAS HOSPITALIZED AND WAS COMATOSE. THEY THOUGH SHE WON'T MAKE TO SEE HER MAMA AND DAD. ALHAMDULLILAAH SHE PASSED THROUGH THE TRAIL AND WHEN I REUNITED WITH HER SHE JUST STARRED AT ME AND RUNAWAY. I HAD IT VEDEO TAPPED. WELL I WAS ABLE TO WIN MY DAUGHTER'S HEART BACK NOW SHE CALLS MAMA. SO CAN YOU EMAGINE LEAVING BEHIND FOR YOUR FIRST BORN BABY, I DOUBT THAT NOT MANY WOMAN WOULD DO THAT OUT OF DEVOTION TO THEIR FAMILY. HOOYADEYNA WAX DAB KU DHACAYA KAMAY IMANE KA UYARE WAA 12 YRS OLD AY CARRUURTOODII KA WAAWEYNAA HAYAAN WEEK WALBANA LA SOO HADLAAN THEY EVEN SEND HER E-MAIL CARDS. I THINK IT IS TIME THAT SHE COUNT HER BLESSINGS AND BE A LITTLE BIT MORE PATIENT. THANKS BROTHER. BYE FOR NOW KADRA.
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| | Unrecorded Date Khadra Walaal, waxaad ogaataa in ilaah uu leeyahay qadarta, laakiin waxaa lagu faray adiga dadaal, ilaaheyba ajir kaa siinayaa sida aad u wanaajisay waalidkaa iyo walaalaha,Dhowr bilood ka hor ayaan tagay muqdisho waxaan ku arkay waalidiin badan oo caruurtoodii kala soo cararay n.america iyo europa, waadna garan kartaa colaada ka jirta muqdisho------Khadra waxaad ka fikiraysaa wiil jaad cunay ee halkan waxaa inala jooga wiilal la guursaday, miyeey ka jireen dalkeenii, waxaan aragnaa gabdho waalidkood ka tegay oo cadaan la nool miyeey dalkeenii ka jireen. i have been in India long yime ago, i wanna to advice u keep your bro and sis in india, otherwise send them back to home country-------alaha kula garab galo MOHAMUD
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| | Unrecorded Date DEAR MOHAMUD WALLAALO MAR LABAAD WAAD KU MAHADSANTEY TALLADAADA WALLOW AANAN U QUSHUUCIN KU NOOLAASHAHA SOMAALIA. HADDII CIDI KU XUMAANEYSO JUST BECAUSE THEY ARE LIVING IN THE WESTERN DAD BADAN BAA XUMAAN LAHAA ANNIGANA KU DHAHOO. 20 YRS OLD BAAN AHAA MARKII AY CHURCH GROUP OO AAN U TEGAY CANADIAN FOSTER FAMILY. 3 SANNO AYAAN LA NOOLAA TUULO 1500 POPULATION KEEDU YAHEY GAALANA WAAN LA NOOLAA IIMAANKAYGA NA WAX AADI ISKAMA AYNA BEDELIN. MASSAALAAMA.
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| | Unrecorded Date Dear Khadra: I think your mother needs a companion. why don't try to introduce her to some male friends. She can get married if she likes one of them. There are thousands of Somali men who are in her age in Canada. People before you run to your guns you must all know that our parents are like us and everyone needs someone very close:)
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| | Unrecorded Date Salaamu calaykum Walaal Khadra, Marka u horaysa walaal waan ku salaamay. Marka labaad walaal waxaan doonaya inaad iga yara raali noqotid hadaad hadalkayga dhibsatid. Laakiin waxaan filayaa inaad mar walba diyaar u tahay inaan waxaan qabno kuu sheegno hadaan walaalaha soomaliyeed nahay. Marka sadexaad waxaan warqadaan ku dhamaystirayaa af ingiriis idinkoo iga raali ah. Walaal Khadra, if we are first and foremost Muslims and second Somalis, we have a religion and culture that is the foundation of our existence. Walaal, I am sorry to say this but I believe that my fellow brothers that have answered your cry for help have mentioned certain issues of importance but have neglected the MAIN one. The one being that the person you are complaining about is your Mother. Shame on you for claiming to have a child and being impregnated with another one and giving the title "Hooyo Dhib Badan" to your piece. Khadra if you are expecting sympathy you will get none whatsoever from me. You have gone astray from Islam and Somali culture. You have become a follower of this North American society where children are NEVER thankful to their parents. Where it is normal to air all your grievances publicly. Let alone speak any despair or frustration I may have had towards my parents, I have never allowed myself to even THINK negatively of them. And I am ashamed to say that you are my age. Know that you can never repay your parents. That you can never be for them what they have been for you. Know that who you are in life you owe it to them after Allah (SWT). Know that the respect and security you have in your community comes from the fact you have two parents that have contributes to who you are. And I am sorry to say this but only a cheap person could ever talk about financial support given to his/her own blood. I am also disappointed to say that as a sister who claims to have an education you are way too absorbed in yourself and need to become more humble. If you had real knowledge you would not feel compelled to boast about your "achievements". Above all, I would never let it be known that I made more money than my husband. As to your Mother what I understand is that you are basically more worried about your life more than her. You fear losing your "babysitter". And you are insensitive to her needs. Take a better look at yourself and think harder. I believe if you were kind and aware of her needs, she would merely feel homesick but prefer to be around her daughter and grandchild. And please don't threaten her financially. Allah alone provides! If Allah has chosen that you be the one to have the PRIVILEGE to financially provide for your family, it is best you do it with pride and gratefullness. There are many who would like to GIVE to their parents and never had the chance because they are buried. In conclusion, I am sorry to be harsh but truth be told, my parents daily say they would prefer to be in Somalia then here but I tell them that I love them so much that I can't imagine being apart from them. And Allah as my witness, I am thankful to have them both here with me and I enjoy every second spent with them because I don't know when any one of us will die. So Khadra, remember when your child was sick and how you felt. And then look at your mother. Repent to Allah and to her. For Jannah lies at the feet of your Mother and husband. Don't forget Sister and may Allah guide us all. Amin. Salaamu calaykum walaal
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| | Unrecorded Date By Cabdalla To khadra w/calaykum walaal waan ka xumahay dhibka ku haysta ilaahayna ha kaa qaado. waxasse arintu tahay see dhibkan aan uga baxaa walaal arinta ku haysata waa arrin nafsaani ah dawadeeduna fududahay anoo soo kobaya aan waxba ku dheeraanayn waxa tiri guri ribo ah baan galay muslimna waa ahay! belo taa kaagama horreyn waayo dagaal uu alle u ballan qaadey dadka ribada gala ayaa kugu socda dagaalka Alle subxanu watacala hadaad u dulqadan karto adey ku jirta!!! waxa laga yaabaa inaad is tiraadid dad badan baa ribo qaata haddana waxba mahayaan qofka alle uu la maago in uu jidka toosan ku hagaajiyo ayaa la imtixaama,ammaa kan gaalka ah ee naarta ku waaraya waa loo seeta dheereeyaa shabaagtana waa loo daadiyaa si uu u sii fogado liikin muslimka waa la imtixaama si uu isu xasuusto oo is weydiiyo war xaggee lagaa haysta adiguna taasaa hadda ku haysata marka walaashey alle u soo noqo toobadna keen waxa u horreeya ee aad ka noqotona ribadaa sidaad uga bixi lahayd gal falankeda haddaad intaa sameyso waxwalba waa kuu hagaagi insha allaah aduun iyo aakhirina waad liibani. Midda kale ee aan kaga shegayo xagga waalidka waa hooyadaa ee bal dib isagu noqo imisay dhib kuugu dulqaadatey sagaalkii bilod ee caloosha kugu soo sidey(adiga laftigagu hooyo waa tahaye)fooshii.... intaasoo dhiba bay kuu soo martey adiguna waxad leedahay qayladeeda uma dulqadan karo! waa waxan la aqbali karin. ee walaal dulqaad samee waxay ku leedahayna waxba ha ka soo qaadin kagana gama' dhibkii ay kaa soo martey markaad yarayd habaarkeedana ma'aha mid meel sii jira ee waxba haysku mashquulinin isku day sidii aad uga farxin lahayd waxyaabaha aad uga farxinkartona way badadnyiin waxay kaa rabto u samee weliba haddey waddankii kaa dalbato waayo hilow bay u badantahay inuu ku dhaco markey muddo maqnaato ayadoo kuu xiistey oo raalli kaa ah kuuna duceynaysa ayey soo noqon taasna iga rumeyso walaashey waa mid aan u soo joogey. Soo gunaanadkii hooyadaa waxay kaa dalbato u samee ha ugu weynaato sidaad alle ugu noqon lahayd iyo sidaad hooyadaa baarri ugu noqonlahayd iskuna dey inaad raalli ka dhigto wax walba ay kugu sameyso fasax deg degana u diyaari sidaad ugu dadaashey inaad agtaada keento ugu dadaal in meeshay rabto aad geyso. ALLA ha kula garab galo walaashey. w/calaykum
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| | Unrecorded Date Ma Soomaali oo idil naftiina iyo carruurtina aad baranbarada guryaha xun-xun ee asmada laga qaadayo waliigiin ku jira miyaad leedihiin. Anigu waxa aan aaminsanahy in diinteenu wanaagsan tahay, hase ahaatee aad idinku si xun uga fasireysaaan. Ilaaheyna cidna ugma dhawidin. In badan oo " money changers ah ayaan naqaanaa" habeenkiina dalliilya qabiil iyo qudhun, subaxdiina is-tus badan. Gabadhani waxay idin wediisatay in la lataliyo. balse waxaad faragaliseen diinteeda bishan barakeysan ee Ramadaan. Ilaaheyna ha idiin danbi dhaafo.
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| | Unrecorded Date To Anonymous waxaad aad u xag xaganayso garan maayo dadka gabdhaas la taliyey,xataa waxaad u dhactay wadaadadii kale talinayey ribada.Inkastoo ay fiicneyd xaga hooyaded kaliya inay ka hadlan oo ayna galin arimaha gurigeeda,arinta kale aan la yaabay waxay tahay saad somaaliyoo dhan u aflagaadanaysid kuwa guryahooda iyo caruutooda saad ku tilmaamtay kur miyaadan adigu ka mid ahayn oo aadan soomali ahayn? if i were you i would never say any thing bad about somalian people.
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| | Unrecorded Date To Khadra ! Gix, gix, gix...Waxaaba idilay habaarka ( lagu laa laadi, lagu luu-luudi ) waaba yaabe xagee laisku wadaa ?. Intaa dabadeed. walaashiis horta waxaad tahay qof intelligence ah. Waana fahmayaa dhibaatooyinkaa...Waxaan adi & walaal cabdinaasir idin kula dardaarmayaa in hooyo loo dulqaato. Xasuusana hooyo frustration-ka waxa ugu wacan waa qurbaha, marka isku day in aad dhagaysato, fahanto, sheekada ka koobiso...lana sheekeesato intii xad ah. Ugu danbayntii waxaanba ka helay hadba aad sheekada uso tabisay.Mahadsanid. To. Mohamud Denmark. Hv'så drenge ! du klarede fint ! altså med hensyn til rådgivning. Hvor er du henne i Dk ?. Jeg ser frem til at høre fra dig... To. Anonymous Adiga deg-dega joojim, aad ayaad u xawaareynaysaa. Ribo waa xaaraam diinta ayaana sheegtay murana kama jiro BASTA !. hadii aad isa sii waashana waa lagu qoorsagaareenaa.... Ramadaan kariim my Somaliz Generation X Scandanevia
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| | Unrecorded Date salaamu caleykum dhamaantiin TO: KHADRA INKASTA OO MOODO INAAD TAHAY QOF AAD IYO AAD U DADAAL BADAN WAXA KAA MAQAN GARASHADEE MAXAA U SOO KAXEYSANEYSAA HOOYADAA HADDII AAD OGEYD INEYNA RAALI KA AHEYN QORBAHA, WAALIDKA WAXA LAGU DARYEELAA MEESHA AY KU RAALI YIHIIN, WALAALEY WAXAAN KU IDHI KA FIKIR UBADKAAGA IYO NAFTAADA HADDII AANEY HOOYADAA RAALI KA AHEYN CADAALKA AAD UGU JIRTO CARUURTEEDA IYO IYDABA MA ODHAN KARO WAA HOOYEE WAA BISAD U DIR MEESHEE BUSKA BADNEYD EE BIYAHA DHABARKA LAGU DHAAMINAYAY HADDII LA HELLOBA, MID KALE WAXAAD OGAATAA HADDII LA YIDHAAHDO ISLAMAHA SOOMAALIYEED JANADAA LAYDIN GAYNAYAA WAXAY ODHANAYAAN CADAABTA HORTA NA SII MARI, MID KALE WAXAAN KA DAREEMEY SHEEKADAADA INKASTOOD TAHEY 30 JIR INAAD WALI IS MOODEYSO INAN YAR GROW UP AND THINK OFYOUR OWN FAMILY YOUR CHILDREN AND YOUR HASBAND.
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| | Unrecorded Date TO: CAJABO CAJABO CAJABO CAJAA'EB LAGU DHEHBA WAXAAN KU ODHAN LAHAA MARKA UGU HOREYSA EE AAD DADKA LA TALINEYSO INTAANAD WAX ISKA BOODIN WAXA LA EEGAA SHEEKHADA DULUCDEEDA ADIGOO KA DHEX SAARAYA FIKRADAADA SHAQSINIMO EE KU ABUURENYD MARKII HORE ADIGOO MADAX BANAANA KA BAARAANDEGA SHEEKHDA LAGUU SOO BANDHIGEY WAXAAN KA HADLAYAA FIKRADII AAD KA DHIIBATEY HOOYO DHIB BADAN TO KHADRA. MARKA HORE WAXAAD TIDHI NORHT AMERICA SIDIISII BAY U DHAQMEYSAA MARKA HORE WAXAAN U MALEYNAYAA INAAD NORTH AMERICA BOOG KA AKHRIDEY, NORTH AMERICA ILMAHA U DHASHAA ISKA DAA INUU WAX TARO WALAALADII EE WAALIDKII AYUU MARKEY TABAR DAREEYAAN KU TUURAAN GURYO GUDAAFADA OO AY NURSETO SHEED SHEEDO, MARKAA SIDEED KHADRA U BARBAR DHIGTAA OO AANU SHEEKADEEDA WADA AKHRINEY. TALABAAD KHADRE MARNA MAY ODHAN HOOYADEY WAA NACEY,INEYNU HOOYOOYINKEEN LABADA DHABAN KA SHUMINAA WAA WAAJIB OO WAX LAGU FAANO MAAHA, LAAKIIN INAAD IS BARBAR DHIGTO HOOYADEED IYO HOOYADAA MA AHA MIYAAD ILOWYDEY INEY DADKU KALA DUWAN YIHIIN WAXAAN HALKAA KA ARKAA INAAD MURAAQOOTEY OO AANEY MASKAXDAADU SAAFI AHEYN MARKA AAD TALADA SIINEYSEY KHADRA, MID KALE WAXAAD KU TIDHI BABYSITTER AYEY KA WERWEREYSAA GOD HELP IF THE BABYSITTER FEE IS MORE THAN WHAT THIS POOR WOMEN GOING THROUGH,YOU MISSED THE POINT TO TELL HER GET RID OF HER(SEND HER WHERE SHE WANTS). BY THE WAY WHAT ARE YOU DOING HOME AT AGE 30, NO WONDER YOU LOVE YOUR MOTHER SO MUCH, NOTHING PERSONAL JUST YOUR THINKING, TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND EACH OTHER..........BARQAB
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| | Unrecorded Date TO ANONYMOUS WAAR NINYOW DUULKU XAGAY IILA BOODEEN, MA MORGAGE KAY GA INTERESTIGIISA BAAN KA WARAYSTAY. MY QUESTION TO THEM WAS HOW CAN I PLEASE HOOYO AND HOW COULD SOME ONE CLAIMED TO BE A CINVENTION REFUGEE GO BACK TO SOMALIA WITH OUT TRAVEL DOCUMENT AND PASSPORT. WAAR WAA RUNTAA MALAA WAXAY ILA DOONAYAAN IN AAN CAYDHA QAATO CARRUURTAYDANA AAN IDHAA SAAXIIBKEY BAA IGA DHALEY. ISKABA DAA GURI METRO HOUSING OO AAN GALO WAXAAN ILAAHEY UGU MAHAD CELIYAA MY STABLE RESIDENCE AAN GUUR GUUURKII APARTMENTS KA KIRADA AH AAN KA RAYSTEY. I HAVE A BEAUTIFUL BANGALOW WITH A BIG BACK YARD AND LOTS OF FLOWERS IN THE SUMMER. RIBO DA AY KA HADLAYAAN WAA MAXEY? ANNIGA IYO NINKEYGUBA WE WORKED VERY HARD PRIOR OF BURCHASING OUR HOUSE. DOWN PAYMENT TIGA AANU DHIGNEY MA WAR BEY U HAYAAN. RIBO KA SOKOW ANNAGA AYAAAN BA DOONEYN THE BANK TO MAKE MORE MONEY OUT OF OUR MORGAGE. SO WE PAY MORE TO BEAT INTEREST. SOMALIDU THEY NEVER WANT US TO GET AHEAD. I AM GLAD YOU TOLD THEM OFF THESE PEOPLE WITH THE NARROW MIND.
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| | Unrecorded Date TO CABDALLA ASSALAAMA CALEYKUM. WALLAAL U MALEYN MAAYO IN AAD PROBLEMKAYGA FAHANTEY. WAAYO HOOYADEY IYO MORGAGE INTEREST TIGII BAADBA ISKU XIDHAYE. OO TIDHI IMTIXAANKU WUXUU KAAGA YIMI XAGA RIBADA. WHAT IMTIXAAN ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT? ALL I WANTED FROM YOU GUYS WAS TO HELP ME FIGURE OUT FOR HOW TO PLEASE AN UNCOOPERATIVE, NONCOMPLIANCE PERSON. WHO IS SO DIFFICULT TO PLEASE , MEANWHILE SHE REALY WANTS TO GO BACK HOME,AS I MENTIONED BEFORE SHE DOESNOT HAVE NEITHER MINISTER'S PERMIT NOR TRAVEL DOCUMENT AS HER STATUS IN CANADA IS ONLY AS A CONVENTIONAL REFUGEE. SO PLEASE STOP BLAMING MY MOTHER'S STUPPORN BEHAVIOUR TO MY MORGAGE INTEREST. THANKS.
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| | Unrecorded Date DEAR GENERATION X WALLAAL WAAD KU MAHADSANTAHEY TALLAADA. EE WAY ADAGTEY RUNTII IN MAR WALBA LA RAALI GELIYO MARKA WAALIDKU UUSAN DANTIISA KULA FAHMEYN MAR WALBANA UU MURAN, HABAAR IYO CANNAAN UU WADO. ANNIGU WAXAAN AAD U JECLAAN LAHAA HOOYADEY OO I AG JOOGTA CAAFIMAAD KEEDA IYO NOLOSHEEDANA AAN KA WAR HAYO MAADAAMA HALKAN DAAWOOYINKOODU CASRISANYIHIIN. CANADA DR KU BILAASH YAHEY.ISKANA SAMIRTO INTA UU CARUURTTEEDA UU SPONSER KU U SOO BAXAYO MADAAMA ANIGA LEY GU ADKEEYAY IYADA DNA TEST AYUUN BAA LAGU XIDHAYAA. ANIGANA WEHEL II NOQOTO . LAAKIIN IYADA UMA MUUQATO ADVANTAGE KA IN AY HALKAN JOOGTO.ATLEAST INTEY SHARCI AY KUSOO NOQOTO KA HELAYSO HADDII AY KA XIISO DHACDO SOMALIA. IMINKA IYO HAATANA TO MAKE MY MOM HAPPY, WADANKII AYAAN U QALQAALINAYAA. TALADIINUNA MID YIDHI HABKAA KU CELI IYO MID YIDHI HABKAN BEY KU JOOGI EE KA DHAADHICI MAJIRO . WADA SEEF LABOOD MIIDHAN OO MID BA GEES U BOODAYO BAA SOO QORAYA. HOOYADEY DULQAADKEEDU WAS NOT THE POINT THAT I NEEDED TO KNOW. I DO THAT ALL THE TIME. BYE.
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| | Unrecorded Date TO ANONYMOUS WAAR NINYOW DUULKU XAGAY IILA BOODEEN, MA MORGAGE KAY GA INTERESTIGIISA BAAN KA WARAYSTAY. MY QUESTION TO THEM WAS HOW CAN I PLEASE HOOYO AND HOW COULD SOME ONE CLAIMED TO BE A CINVENTION REFUGEE GO BACK TO SOMALIA WITH OUT TRAVEL DOCUMENT AND PASSPORT. WAAR WAA RUNTAA MALAA WAXAY ILA DOONAYAAN IN AAN CAYDHA QAATO CARRUURTAYDANA AAN IDHAA SAAXIIBKEY BAA IGA DHALEY. ISKABA DAA GURI METRO HOUSING OO AAN GALO WAXAAN ILAAHEY UGU MAHAD CELIYAA MY STABLE RESIDENCE AAN GUUR GUUURKII APARTMENTS KA KIRADA AH AAN KA RAYSTEY. I HAVE A BEAUTIFUL BANGALOW WITH A BIG BACK YARD AND LOTS OF FLOWERS IN THE SUMMER. RIBO DA AY KA HADLAYAAN WAA MAXEY? ANNIGA IYO NINKEYGUBA WE WORKED VERY HARD PRIOR OF BURCHASING OUR HOUSE. DOWN PAYMENT TIGA AANU DHIGNEY MA WAR BEY U HAYAAN. RIBO KA SOKOW ANNAGA AYAAAN BA DOONEYN THE BANK TO MAKE MORE MONEY OUT OF OUR MORGAGE. SO WE PAY MORE TO BEAT INTEREST. SOMALIDU THEY NEVER WANT US TO GET AHEAD. I AM GLAD YOU TOLD THEM OFF THESE PEOPLE WITH THE NARROW MIND.
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| | Unrecorded Date Asalaamu Caleykum Dhamaantiin, To Kadra: Walaal qofku markuu kula taliyo ha caytamin, maxaa yeelay intaad weydisatay talo ayaad ku leedahay Soomaalidu waa narrow minded. Excuse me. Walaal waad khaldan tahay ee khaladkaaga qaado oo isa sax, maxaa yeelay walaalkeen Cabdalla wuxuu ka hadlay waa arin xaqiiqa ah oo lahayn is weydiis in ay tahay ribada xaraam, oo lagu mudanayo ciqaab fi dunyaa wal akhira, Waxay ila tahay taladiisa inaad qaadato. Sidaad u heli lahayd ama ugu gulaysan lahayd aduunka iyo akhiraba ku dadaal. Walaal ogow caasinimada in naarta lagu tago ee hooyadaa baariyad u noqo oo ha caynin hana dhifsan hadalkeeda ee ku dadaal sidaad u raali gelin lahayd. Sidee hore u sheegtay walaasheen Cajabo (ina Al-Jana taxta aqdaam al umahaat). Miyaadan ogoyn in Hooyadu xaq kugu leedahay sadax jeer,Aabuhuse hal mar, walaal ciyaar ma ahan Hooyo Allah (SWT) baa xaqeeda gooyn kara ee Ilaah ha u denbi dhaafo Hooyooyinkeen, oo Ilaahow ka dhig Janata Fardoos Jazaagooda, aamiin. Ogowna taad dhashay inay caasiyad kugu noqonayso, Haddaadan sida isku dhaamin oo baariyad u noqon hooyadaa. Wa balaahi tawfiiq. To Cabdalla: Walaal waan ku salaamay, salaan ka dib jazak Allah khayran, runtii si wanaagsan baad ula talisay Khadra ama ha caytanto ama ha iska indho tirto dhibaatadeeda ayadee jirtaa. Tan kale waxaan ku oran lahaa dhag ha u dhigin kuwa aanan xaqiiqada eegayn oo dadka la dagaalamaya, nabadeey. TO Cajabo: Walaal Cajabo waan ku salaamay, Jazaki Allah Khayran, sidaad ula talisay Khadra waa si wanaagsan ee way dhifsatay, waayo you hit the point, where you told all her mistakes, but it is up to her whether she takes your opinion or not. Take care sister. Wa salaam. To Barqab, Walaal waad ila khaldan tahay, waxaan ka xumahay inaad Cajabo ku tilmaamtay qof aanan la socon North America xaaladeeda,, waayo waxaan u arkaa in ay tahay inan diin, iyo tacliin leh, baariyadna ah oo dhaqankeeda taqaan ee waxba ha ka sheegin qofkii sida wanaagsan u hadlaa oo xaqiiqada sheega. Mida kale waxaad tahay inan caasi ah ee marna ha kula talin in waalidka lagu noqdo caasi. wa salaam To Anonymous: Walaal waxaad ku hadlayso ma ahan wax khiyaasan ee adiga iyo dhamaanteenba ha inoo denbi dhaafo Ilaah (SWT). Wa salaamu caleykum
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| | Unrecorded Date to:khadra Walaal khadra. waxaad moodaa in arintu dhinac kale nala aaday, marka waxaan kuu rajeeyay nolol farxad leh, waana ka baxay MOHAMUD Danmark
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| | Unrecorded Date to khadra, Let me go straight to the point. Mom vs daughter!......khadra, all parents are going through so called "refugee syndrom"...they all want "dhulkii hooyo".....she feels she is nothing in north america, her friends fadumo, nimco, khadija all these ladies are not around any more, either they are in hargeisa or refugee camp in "dulcad".. she feels apaty in north america. dont get mad. in front of her, you are still small khadra "oo ey naaska nuujineyso".....i hope you understand what i mean on the other hand, she has the right to say anything she wants to her daughter either you or your husband have the right "inaad nacdaan". according to somali culture, she feels this is her house not your husband's house!.. now, you have two choices......you either build house in hargeisa and take her there, beleive me (i have been there a month ago), someone having "nabad" and small month allowances about $400 a month, she will be the kings of faduma, nimco iyo khadija! and that is what she wants, try your best to satisfy her needs as much us possible, she is your mom! to tell you the truth my mother is one of the somali medical doctors currently working in middle east she makes more than me as an engineer but at the same time when ever i offer her money, she feels these couple of thousands of mine is more important than of what she makes. so the case is not financial problem or not......its about mother syndrome and we have to cope with it!...... beleive me, ilaah quraankiisa ayaa lagu sheegey, oo la yiri waxaa laga yaabaa lacagta badan ee lagu siinayo in "because of her" aaba u heleesid qofkaas kula joogo awgiis.........about the travel document problem, it might seems little bit tricky but since these canadians couldnt understand your problems, this is one way of getting travel document(its illegel but it works): if your mother has good command of english, then this is what you can do: go to USA find old women of her age (you know these old black women loosers who never came to her mind to travel aboard and is not expecting any time sooner) then offer her $2000-$3000 to give it to you her birth certificate (remember this women never applied for passport) then use it, send the pictures to the immigration by mail and recieve it by mail. your mom is american citizen! bingo!! its risky, but it worth trying!! life is full of risks!! about your young brothers and sisters, the best investment in this world is to invest in human, above all they are your bros and sisis....... support them as long as they are studying, money is nothing, easy come easy go remember!! i hope i was helpful some how!! P.S. dont do this unless your mother is clever enough!! remember all somalis we are "musuq-maasuq"...it just that we have no other choice.!!lol bye sis, take care.......never leave your mother!!
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| | Unrecorded Date To: Khadra Salaanta Islaamka dabadeed walaal khadra dhibaatada aad sheegeyso dad badab ayaa kula qaba, runtiina ilaah ayaa inaga saari kara. Waxaad keentey hooyadda Canada si ay uga baxdo dhibaato balse waxaa sii abuurtey dhibaato kale waa figrada hooye e. Dadka waaweyn mudada hore ma jecleysanayaan wadamadda reer galbeed, marka waxaan kugula talin lahaa hooyo iyadaa saaxiga keeni doontee waxaad u jartaa tigid GO and Back ah si ay u soo eegto Hargeysa mudo kadib markey soo aragto kuleylka halkaas iyadaa soo noqondoonta iyadoo raali ah, waxaana rajeynayaa inaad dhibaatada markaa ka bixi doontide. Mida kale waalidku marwalba isagaa sax ah ee haday ku habaarto iyo haddi kaleba keep smile !!. Walaalaha sponsorkoodana adigu sii wad inta hooyo soo noqoneyso.
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| | Unrecorded Date Salaamu calaykum! To Aliya: Walaal macaan salaan ka dib waad ku mahadsantahay ducada aad ii ducaysay. Ilaahay khayr ha ku siiyo farabadan. Aamin. To Barqab: Walaal adoo iga raali ah waxaan doonayaa inaan kuu sheego meeshaan ka taaganahay arintaan. Marna ilama haboona in waalidka maxkamad la saaro. Walaasheen Kadra inay dhibaato heesato marna ma moogni. Laakiin adunkaan waxaa la isku dhaafay dulqaad iyo sabir. Tan ah hadaad 30 jirto maxaa aqalkaa waalidkaa ku dhigayna dee jawaab ma leh sababtoo ah xilimay noqotay ceeb inan aqalka reerkeed asluub ku joogta? Walaal hadaba waxaan kaaga jawaabi labada qodob aad ka hadashay. Walaal ma odhon Kadra ayaa hooyadeed neceb ama nursing home u wada. Ee waxaan ka hadlay inaan raali ka aheen marna ka noqon karin in waalid DHIB lagu sheego. Walaal aniga kula hadlaya 10 sano ayaan Canada jooga oo waan la socdaa dhibaatoyinka heesta oo dhan Kadra weliba si fiicaan. Laakiin aniga Cajabo teyda laga hadli maayo sababto ah waxaan qaaba Ilaah ayaa loo dacwooda oo binu aadin waxba iima aha. Kadra talo uma baahna ee waxay u baahantahay inay u noqoto diinteena iyo dhaqankeena. Meesha arin laga taliyo ma taal ee Soomaliyow beenta iska dhaafa oo habkiina iyo diintina ku noqda. Ma waalid laga ashtakooda ayaan dhaqan iyo caado u laheen? Laa xawla walaa quwaati ilaah bilaah! Barqab walaal hadalkayga waxa weeye TALO la bixiyo ma taal marba hadii waalid maxkamad la saaray. Taas awgeed ayaan markii hore u idhi raali ha la iga ahaado hadii hadalkayga la dhibsado. Qodobka labaad walaal bal intaan si fiicaan u akhri oo u dhuux: "In reality if my mother goes back my baby-sitting will be jeopardized and I won't be able to work as long hours anymore as a result it will be difficult to be supporting my mother and HER family." Barqab aniga ma qorin ee walasheen Kadra ayaa qortay. Hadalkana waxaan qabaa guntiisa waa intaa. Marka walaal Barqab waxaan ku odhon lahaa, Kadra wa qof weyn oo wax baratay oo Hooyo ah oo reer dhan soo waday ilaa iyo iminka siday u sheegtay. HER family waa maxay? Miyeesan aheen runtii in lakala daboolo oo lakala qariyo xididka? Marna odhon maayo Hooyo ayaa gardaran ama dhib badan. Ha iga sugin. Ilahay baa laga baqaa aniga hadalkayga la baqi maayo oo Kadra sabaaleen maayo ama naxariis iga heli mayso. Tan dhashay ha u naxariisato oo ee dhibaato ku sheegtay. Waxaan qabaa Kadra ma aha ciyaal yar oo teenage oo cadhootay oo reerkii lagu ceelinayo oo hadal macaan la rabo in loogu sheego. Waa gabadh weyn oo sidaan u arko diinta shegayso ayaan uugu sheegay waxa. Ha la iga raali ahaado hadii aan idiinku xadgudbay. Salaamu calaykum
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| | Unrecorded Date Mohamed so typical. I wonder why they hate us in North America. Surprisingly you don't feel one bit ashemd and you're LOLing the end of your posting. Kadra if you a celever lady don't pay attention to Mohamed's posting.
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| | Unrecorded Date BY Cabdalla To walaalaha kale Waan idin salaamay,walaalayaal waxan idiin sheagaya in qofkan isku magacaabay kadra waxa uu sheegayo ama sheeganayso uu yahay uun waqtiga dadka ina ay ka lumisso ee waxa ay sheegayso uu yahay mowduuc in ay furto,laakin nasiibdarro waxan macquul ahayn ayay la timi bal waxay qortey dib u fiiriya!! waxa ka mida:waxan ahay hooyo haysata laba jir,uurna leh, shaqo fultime iyo parttime ahna haysata! waayaabe haddeynu caqliga u bandhigno ma suurto galbaa arrintasi! waa maya ee walaalayaal waqtigiina qaliga yuusan qofkani idinka lumin kolley anigu fahmeye. Waana iga nasteexo intaasi. Nabadey. To Aliya Wasalaamu calaykum warraxmatullaahi wabarakaatuhu walaal ilaahay kheyr ha kaaga abaalmariyo waa dad ama bani aadam,Dad iyo banaanba waxadan aqoon baa kaga soobaxa marka layaab malaha haduu qofku saa u hadley,laakin waxa ii muuqatey waxa uu qofku sheeganayoba in ay caqliga ka fogtahay ee uun yahay is maqashii madadaali marka walaal waxba hayskaga lumin waqti damme. wasalaamu calaykum.
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| | Unrecorded Date TO:KHADRA WALAALO KHADRA INKASTOOD MOODO INAANU ARINTAADEE EMOTIONKU NA QAADEY WAXAANU KAA DALBANEYNAA RAALI GALIN SABABTOO AHA INAAD NOOGU YEEDHO MASKAX GAAB MA HABOONA,RAALINA AHOW WALAAL HADAAN HADALKAAGII SI KALE U TURJUNTEY LAAKIIN SIDAA AYAY EELA I KAATEY. SALAAMO CALEYKUM. TO: WALAALO WAAD KU MAHADSAN TAHEY CANAANTAADA LAAKIIN WAXAAD MOODAA INAAD XAQIIQDA KA FUGTAHEY OO MASKAXDA KAA XADEEN WADAADA DIINTA ISLAAMKA AMA LAQADA CARABIGA AF SOOMAALIGA U BADALA WAAYO MARKA AAD LUQAD KASTA U ROGTO LUQAD KALE WAXA LUMA WAXOOGAA NUXUR AH OO U BAAHAN INAAD ISTICMAASHO COMMON SENSE FOR EXAMPLE JANADU WAXEY TAALAA HOOYADA IYO NINKAAGA CAGAHIISA HELLO EVEN THOUGH YOUR MOTHER AND HUSBAND IS ABUSIVE TO YOU ALTHOUG I'M NOT RELIGIOUS PERSON,BUT COMMON SENSE WOULD TELL ME OTHERWISE. THANK YOU SIS. TO:CABDALLAH SALAAMO CALEYKUM WALAAL CABDALLAH AAD IYO AAD BAAN U DHOOXEY FIKRADAHAAGA AAD IYO AADNA WAAN KUU KHILAAFEY MARKA HORE WALAAL TAAD LEEDAHEY RIBADA WAXAAN KU ODHAN LAHAA HADDII AAD KU NOOSHAHEY MEELKA KA MID AHA REER GALBEEDKA WAXAAD KU NOOSHAHEY RIBO SABABTOO AHA WAXAAN HUBAA INAAD BANKE LEEDAHEY INAAD KIRO BIXISO HADDII AANDA LACAGTA DHIGAN FURAASHKA HOOSTEESA AMA AANAD KU NOOLEYN WADOOYINKA,LET ME ASSUME YOU LIVE IN ROOM, FIRST OF THE MONTH YOU PAY X OF DOLLAR TO LANDLORD OR LANDLADY THEY TAKE IT TO THE BANK AND PAY THEIR MORATAGE SO TECHNICALY YOU ARE ALLREADY PAYING RIBO(SINCE YOUR RENT WAS CALCULATED BASE ON THE INTREST THE LANDLORD HAS TO PAY TO BANK.) HERE IS THE DILIMA YOU PUT INTO YOURSELF, YOUR PAYING UNISLAMIC PERSON BILLS,YOU ARE NOT ENHANCING YOURSELF AND YOUR CHILDREN, YOU WANT TO LIVE IN STONE AGE, THINK FOR SECOND HOW COULD YOUR CHILDREN CAN COMPETE YOU LANDLORD KIDS, YOU LANDLORD IS SO SMART HE IS GOING TO MAKE SURE HOW YOUR KIDS WILL BE PAYING YOU LANDLORD KIDS BILLS(CAR,HOUSE, VACATIONS AND SO ON) YOUR KIDS WOULD STRUGLING BECAUSE YOUR BELEIVES, I DO NOT THINK THAT IS MASSAGE OF OUR RELIGION IT IS JUST PLAIN STUPIDITY IN YOUR PART, AND YOU WANT KHADRA TO FOLLOW THAT, GOD HELP I HOPE SHE DOESNOT LISTEN. HOWEVER WE SHOULD ENCOURGE KHADRA TO SEND HER MOTHER WHERE IS SHE HAPPY WITH,AFTER ALL SHE IS HER MOTHER AND I"M SURE KHADRA WANTS HER TO BE HAPPY, BROTHER CABDALLAH ALTHOUGH I RESPECT YOUR BELEIVE I DISAGREE WITH YOU 100% THANK YOU. FOR DUE ALL RESPECT DO NOT CALL KHADARA A LIAR I KNOW A PEOPLE WHO WORKS 5 DAYS A WEEK(MON-FRIDAY) 1 DAY ON WEEKEND WHO HAS CHILDREN.THEREFORE IF SOMEBODY WORKS 6 DAY A WEEK THAT IS CONSIDER FULL TIME AND PART TIME ATLEAST HERE IN THE U.S.A.
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| | Unrecorded Date ALIYA TO: WALAALO WAAD KU MAHADSAN TAHEY CANAANTAADA LAAKIIN WAXAAD MOODAA INAAD XAQIIQDA KA FUGTAHEY OO MASKAXDA KAA XADEEN WADAADA DIINTA ISLAAMKA AMA LAQADA CARABIGA AF SOOMAALIGA U BADALA WAAYO MARKA AAD LUQAD KASTA U ROGTO LUQAD KALE WAXA LUMA WAXOOGAA NUXUR AH OO U BAAHAN INAAD ISTICMAASHO COMMON SENSE FOR EXAMPLE JANADU WAXEY TAALAA HOOYADA IYO NINKAAGA CAGAHIISA HELLO EVEN THOUGH YOUR MOTHER AND HUSBAND IS ABUSIVE TO YOU ALTHOUG I'M NOT RELIGIOUS PERSON,BUT COMMON SENSE WOULD TELL ME OTHERWISE. THANK YOU SIS.
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| | Unrecorded Date To. Khadra. Walaashiis marka hore mahadsanid. Intaa dabadeed. Dadkaa badankiis waxay dhiibteen fikrado kala duwan, kuwaasoo aan filayo ineey daacad ka ahayd. Aniga ahaan Ilama qurxooneeyn in meeshe ay af-lagaado isku badasho. Marka waxaan kuu rajeeyaaba waa qayr adiga, hooyo & dhamaan familka. Good Luck !. To Cabdalla. Walaalkiis kadib markaan aqriyey faaladaadii gaabneeyd ayaan waxaan doonayaa in aan 2 eray ka iraahdo. Waxa ay Khadro sheegayso koleey anigu waan rumaystay, waayo umalayn mayo in qof aan xaaladaas ku jirin waqti badan ku dhuminayo xaalad uusan ku jirin, laakiin isla markaa ayaa mar-mar waxaa loo maleeyaa in Mrs. Khadra ay qatif galayso. Anyway tan ah qof laba caruur leh uurna leh weey shaqaysan karaysaa, uma jeedo wax ka hor istaagaya, hadii ay caruurto xanaano udhigato. Salaam & Ciid mubarak my somliz Generation X Scandanevia
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| | Unrecorded Date TO:CAJABO SALAAN KA DIB WAAD MAHADSAN TAHEY CAJABO TUSAALEYNTAADII LAAKIIN WAXAAN U ARKEY AYAAN DARO SABABTOO AH WAXAAD MOODAA INEY FIKRADAADU TAHEY WAALIDKA AMA HIGHWAYGA,MARKA HORE WALAAL WAXAAD OGAATAA INEY WAALIDKU BINIAADAM YIHIIN OO AY KHALDAMI KARAAN KHAASATAN MARKA AY TIMAADO CARUURTOODA, WAXAAN QABAA HADDII WAALIDKAA KUGU SOO KORIYO IXTIRAAM IYO DULQAADNIMO INUU ISKA HOR IMAADKU YARAANO BETWEEN FOR INSTANCE MOTHER AND DAUGHTER,I WOULD LIKE TO REMIND YOU THAT ALTHOUGH OUR SOMALI PARENTS RAISED US TO THE BEST OF THEIR ABILITY THEY WERE NOT ALWAYS A GOOD PARENTS, MOST OF THEM NEVER WORRY FOR THE LONG TERM OF THEIR KIDS,THEY(SOMALI-PARENTS) USE THEIR CHILDREN AS AN INSURANCE WHETHER TO INTIMIDATE THEIR RIVLY TRIBE OH SO AND SO HAS TEN BOYS OR BLACKMAIL THEIR RELETIVE,OH I'M RAISING 10 OF YOUR COUSINS PLEASE HELP ME FEED THEM(WHY DID THEY HAVE THEM IF THEY COULD FEED THEM IN THE FIRST PLACE)BUT BACK IN SOMALIA I CAN TOLARATE ALTHOUGHT I DO NOT HAVE ACCEPTED PEOPLE WERE BRAINWASHED BY SO-CALLED SHEIKS WHO TOOK QURAN OUT OF CONTEX OH YOU WILL BE GOING TO HAVEN IF YOU SUBMITED YOURSELF TO YOUR PARENTS REGARDLESS HOW THEY TREAT YOU. HOWEVER SIS CAJABO YOU INDICATED THAT YOU WERE IN NORTH AMERICA 10 YEARS AND I'M SO HAPPY FOR YOU THERE RESPECT BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR MOTHER BUT FOR YOU TO SAY PARENTS ARE ALWAYS RIGHT IS A SHORT MINDED TO SAY THE LEAST. YOU ALSO SAID WHAT IS WRONG TO LIVE WITH YOUR PARENTS AT AGE 30,I'M SORRY IS NOT NORMAL ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU LIVE WHERE SOMALI MEN OUT NUMBER SOMALI-WOMEN 2 TO 1, I CAN SEE YOU SAY TO A POTINAIL HUSBAND OH I CAN NOT GO OUT BECAUSE MY MOTHER WOULD BE VERY UPSET IF SHE KNOW THAT I'M GOING OUT WITH YOU, DO YOURSELF A FEVER MOVE OUT OF YOUR MOTHER AND STAND ON YOUR TWO FEET THEN YOU WILL FEEL WHAT OUR SISTER KHADRA IS TALKING ABOUT, ALL MOTHERS DO NOT LET THEIR DAUGHTERS GROW UP DAUGHTERS DECIDE WHEN TO GROW UP CUT THE LEASH AND REALIZE YOUR POTINAIL AS A WOMEN,STOP DEFENDING SOMALI MOTHERS MY MOTHER INCLUDED I CAN NEVER FORGIVE HER WHAT SHE DID TO MY SISTERS,BECAUSE SHE NEVER SAY SORRY TO HER DAUGHTERS AFTER 22 YEARS AND DIPLOMA IN U.S.A. I RESPECT HER BUT I TELL HER WHEN IS THE WRONG, AND I EXPECT MY TWO DAUGHTER AND SON TO TELL ME THE SAME.I DID NOT WANT TO BE RUDE BUT YOU ASK FOR IT,AND I ALSO BELEIVE IF YOU CAN'T SOLVE PROBLEMS WITHIN THE FAMILY YOU DISCUSS WITH COUNSLERS SO MAY BE SISTER KHADRA CHOOSE TO PICK SOMALI PEOPLE OVER SO-CALLED COUNSLERS WHO WOULD NOT UNDERSTAND HER PROBLEM. AT LAST THIS ONLY IS MY HUMBLE OPINION,PLEASE TAKE YOURSELF AND EACH OTHER. BARQAB U.S.A.
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| | Unrecorded Date By Cabdalla to Barqab ama kadra Haye shaatigaa noo soo bedelatey miyaa! oo hadda waxad nola soo baxdey Barqab!!! waa kaa shisheeya kaana sokeeya waxa tahayba! mana mutaysatid inaan wakhti kugu lumiyo laynkagiina waa uu qarxey ee ka kud meesha! wax kale keen mesha tani soconmayso'e.
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| | Unrecorded Date aleylehe waad ila garatay ana waan ku shakiyey in khadro magaci baarqab ku soo badalatay marki runta loo sheegay it looks like khadro was bragging about what she is and how sucsesful she is anyways that is all good but she shouldnt talk about her mom like that and it sounds like she more woried about ineey hooyadeed caruurta u haayso she doesnt see how stressfull these countries are for our ellders
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| | Unrecorded Date DEAR ABDALLAHA ASSALLAAMU CALAYKUM WALLAAHI ILAAHEY BAA IGU OG IN AANAN SHAATI SOO BEDELAN, ERAY BEENANA HALKAA KU SOO QORIN WAA 3 WALLAAHI!!!. EE HADDAAD BEEN MOODEYSO WALLOOW AANEY AHEYN THE ISSUE AND NOT NEED TO PROVE TO YOU ANYTHING, SHEEKADUNA SIDAN KU BILLAABAN HADANA ADIGA AYAA MEESHA SOO GELIYAY IN AANAN WAXAAS OO DHAN AWOODIN. SINCE I995 AFTER A YEAR OF MY GRADUATION AND MY MOVE TO TORONTO, I HAVE THE SAME JOBS. FULLTIME AND A PART TIME UNIONIZED WITH FULL PENEFITS. WHEN I WAS PREGNANT I WORKED TO MY LAST DAY OF GOING TO LABOUR. DURING MY MATERNITY LEAVE I SPENT IT IN HARGEISA, WHERE I LATER DECIDED TO LEAVE THE INFANT WITH MY FAMILY WHERE SHE WAS BETTER CARED FOR. AND DIFFINETELY I COULD HAVE AFFORDED A LIVE IN BABY SITTER BUT INSTEAD I TRUSTED MY LOVED ONE WITH MY FAMILY AS I WAS PUTTING MORE EFFORT TO BRING BROS AND SISTERS ABROAD. A YEAR LATER , DURING MY VAC. LEAVE FEB.1999 I WAS ABLE TO BRING MOM AND BABY TOGETHER. OF COURSE BLESS HER HEART, MOM IS THE BABY SITTER WHEN I AND HUSBAND ARE NOT THERE. AS MATTER OF FACT , I TRY NOT TO MISS MY CHILD'S STAGE OF DEVELOPMENT SO I NOW WORK PERMANENT FULTIME NIGHT SHIFT AND EVENINGS ON MY OTHER JOB. I MOSTLY DOUBLE, MEANING I WORK 16 HOURS TO GET MORE OFF. PLUS USING UP STAT HOLIDAYS. MY EVE SHIFT IS 1500 HOURS TO 2300 HOURS. I DO MY PRAYERS AT WORK, REFRESH UP AND GET GOING. IT TAKES ME ABOUT 25 MIN DRIVE TO MAKE ON TIME TO THE OTHER JOB. WHICH I START 2330-0730. I GET 1.5 HOUR BREAK WHICH I SLEEP IN. I MAKE IT HOME FIX UP BREAKFAST FOR MY ONLY TODDLER AND MOM. GROOM THE CHILD FOR THE DAY AND MAKE SURE THAT I GET SOME SLEEP UNTIL 1400 HOURS 2:00PM. I DO FEW THINGS FOR MOM AND BABY. THEN I KISS THEM GOODBYE , I CHECK ON THEM FROM WORK BY CALLING. HUSBANDS DO PERMANENT DAYS. HE BREAKS THE DAY FOR THEM ON EVENINGS WHEN HE GETS HOME. I DO 30-60HOURS AVERAGE ON PAY PERIOD ON MY PART TIME JOB. SO WHEN I AM ONLY DOING A NIGHT SHIFT I TRY TO FIX MY HOUSE, RUN ERRANDS, AND WHEN I AM OFF I SPENT TIME WITH HUBBY, MOM , AND THE ONLY CHILD FOR NOW. THE OTHER ONE STILL KEEPS ME COMPANY IN MY WOMP. SO THE ONLY IRONY TO THAT IS I HAVE NO SOCIAL LIFE! WHICH DOESN'T BOTHER ME AT ALL. SO IF YOU THINK WOMEN MIGHT NOT BE AS HARDWORKING AS MEN, THINK TWICE. ALLAHAMDU LILLAAH ILAAHII KARTIGA,AQOONTA, IYO ENERGIGA FARA BADAN ISIIYEY!! MOTHER 'S ISSUE AYNU KOR KU FALAQAYNAYNA. WALLAAHI IT IS ALL FACT. HOOYONANA MAANTAAN BAAN SHANDADII U SOO IIBIYOO WAXAY INSHALAH NABAD TEGI WADNKEEDII. CANADABA DAD BAA KU NOOL OO SHAQEEYA AND THEY DO JUST FINE FOR CHILD CARE. I CAN'T EMAGINE MANY OF YOU OUT THERE COMMENTATORS HAVE AGREED THAT I AM HOLDING ONTO MY MOM FOR BEING THE SITTER, GOSH! BETWEEN MY HUSBAND AND ME WE CAN AFFORD FOR ALIVE IN BABY SITTER. GET YOUR FACTS RIGHT!A CHILD CARE SERVICE WOULD NEVER COST MORETHAN OF WHAT I SEND TO MY FAMILY. PROBLEMS KAAN IDIIN SOO QORTAYNA WAS BASED ON TRUE INCIDENTS. MY WORK PAYS FOR COUNSELLING BUT I WANTED TO HEAR IT FROM THEIR POINT OF VIEW OF THE SOMALIS. HADDAAN HABLAHA SOOMAALIYEED EE AAN AQAANO U CABAN LAHAANA. THERE IS NO CONVIDENTIALITY, BEFORE YOU KNOW IT, IT WOULD SPREAD TO ALL THE COMMUNITY. SO I THOUGHT IT WAS THERAPEUTIC TO VENT MY FEELINGS. IMINKANA THANKS FOLKS. I HAVE FOUND A SOLUTION ,INSHALAH MOM IS ON HER WAY TO RETURN TO LAMAHURAANKII!!! KADRA. THERE MY SCHEDULE GOES FOR YOU !TO KNOW THAT PEOPLE ARE CAPABLE OF HAVING FAMILY AND WORKING OUTSIDE THE HOUSE!
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| | Unrecorded Date I cant beleive such university graduate like you kadra can express your self ver poor english, somalis stop lying about your profesionals, please some people can easly judge your writting.. such developed nations like united states and canada we all know someone to qualify for university should have good command of english, not the one kadra wrote (the so called university graduate)...kadra you are just playing cat mouse game with us, these things are nonsence they are absolutely irrelevent and illogicaly represented...........waxaan idin oran lahaa waxaad ku fiicnaan laheedeen idinkoo afkiina hooyo ee macaan ku wada hadla, af qalaad ha liska daayo, anigaba qalad ha igu noqtee............. P.S. kadra we all know how such girls like you love to imitate western life, dont treat your mother like that, and you are......oh dont wanna say.
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| | Unrecorded Date TO;CABDALAH SALAAMA CALEYKUM WALLAALO CABDULLAH WAXAAN KA XUMAHEY INAAD IGU TILMAANTEY WALAASHEEN KHADRA TALADII IYO WAX IS WAYDAARISIGIINA NOXURKII BAAD KA QAADEY MARKAA ANIGU WAAN KA BAXEY RAALINA AHOW LAAKIIN WAXAAN KUGU IDHI OO DHAME WALI WAA HALKOODII,LAKUM DIINAKUM WALIYADIIN BYE BARQAB.
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| | Unrecorded Date Yax yax yax……… khadra….forget about all these other mambo-jumbo. MO2 has actually suggested the ultimate solution for your difficult situation. I agree with him this time. You better hook up Duqda with another local lonely heart. That way she will definitely settle. All these curse and things are typical symptoms of frustration. At least give it a go…. See if it works…the women has been on her own for 12 years what do you expect. She is got all the feelings that you got. I will definitely act like her if I have been on me own for that long and see no prospect in the horizon. Not to mention the cold weather………….. Hey… I think MO2 is right……… find a man for the duqda… Habeen walba agteedaa adiga iyo duqaaga isku shukuleeysiin iyadana waxaa rabtaa inay iska seexato. Subaxiina caruurta heysoo… Xagee laga dheelaa waxaas.? Af garo nooh qofta. Macalinkoo meelaha uga raadi qofta. Hargeysa danbe hadiid ka maqasho MO2 aa la weydiina………
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| | Unrecorded Date TO ALL OF YOU WHO HAD CONTRIBUTED TO THEIR OPINION: WALLAALAYAAL WAAD KU MAHADSANTIHIIN JAWAABIHII KALA DUDUWANAA EE AAD II SOO TEBISEEN EE HOOYADEY KU SAABSANAA TALO IYO TUSAALABA LAHAA. HOOYADEY MUSHKILADEEDII XAL BAA LOO HELAY,ALLAHAMDULILLAAH. JIZAKALAH WAQTIGIINII QAALIGA AHAA EE AAD II HURTEEN. RAALINA AHAADA HADAAN CID KU GEFAY. WALLAALAYAAL SHEEKADAN IN AAN BUUGEEDA LAABO AYAAN DOONAYAA, MARKAAS ANIGU HALKAAS AYAAN KAGA BAXEY. MA'SALLAAMA. I WANT TO THANK YOU ALL FOR YOUR RESPONSES REGARD MY MOM. YOUR INPUT,ALL THE POSITIVE AND NEGATIVE FEEDBACK THAT I RECEIVED FROM YOU, WAS VERY MUCH APPRECIATED. I FOUND A SOLUTION TO MY MOM'S PROBLEM AND OUR DIFFERENCE IS BEING SOLVED.I WANT TO BRING THIS STORY TO AN END. SO THANKS TO EACH AND EVERY OF YOU AND EID-MUBARAK. WASAALAMA CALAYKUM. KADRA
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| | Unrecorded Date BY Cabdalla T kadra ama Bargab Fallaari gilgilasho kumar harto!!! HAAAA!!! way kugu qaraxdey yaa aqbalaya dhaartada waxa tahay qof RIBO iyo BEEN u bareeray!!kunu madax adaygay habka aad labada jeerba ee ugu dameeyey aad sooqorteyba waa isku mid waayo waxad marwalba isticmasha (capslock) ama farwaaweyn marka alla ha ku hanuuniyee... haddaad wax keenayso waxa macqula soo bandhig. Nabadgelyo ha ahaato cidda hanuunka raacda!
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| | Unrecorded Date To Khadra: Can I say Shame of u? sorry don't mean to be rude, I firstly respect your article regards your mom. About 7 years ago, was begging God to make my dream come true(to united my family) who were at that time living in Italy).I sponsered them via America by using some avenues, of course I thought about moving in Italy just to live together in a same roof if somehow did not work the sponsership fortunelty it worked and am so thankful each and every moment I see my parents and hoping every Somali feel the same. However, stop criticising your own mother, be understable, relate to her, and please no one wants to know about your income so cut the crab. By the way, I agreed with Cajabo's response and hoping you listen to her. Wake up and thanx to God for what you have. Shukriina if the
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| | Unrecorded Date Dardaaran Ceebaha dadka islaamka ah hala iska ilaaliyo in laraac raaco inta fiican janada ayaa ubalan ah inta xuna Naarta camal iyo cibaado ayaa la iska rabaa dhamaantiin
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| | Unrecorded Date To Shugriina, Anonmymous, Cabdalla, And CAJABO! Gosh!! It is obvious that you are very jeolous of kadra's accomplishments and success. I doubt if you are hardly making any progression of your years in the west though you had your family's support. I think this girl has done marvellous! She said, she is only been here for lessthan a decade,and has done morethan her share of helping her family. Getting her education and career was a worthwhile. With her hardwork, she was able to own a home, buy one for her family in somalia and still continues to support her family financially Like what many somalis face from the canada immigration, she stated that eventhough her income exceeded the amount needed to sponser her family she was rejected numerous times. Now since her mom is here perhaps if that would make a difference of bringing the other sibblings to canada. Unfortunately it sounds like the mother is unhappy of being in canada and getting verbally abusive toward her so overwhelmed daughter. I personally think you are ALL JUDJEMENTAL, very selfish,unsensitive,foolish people who are out to critisize people. Cajabo are you jeolous that you cannot find 'mr RIGHT' and your biological clock is ticking real fast oh not to mention of the comlications of having your first child after age thirty!!. I believe that this girl has outperformed as many women and somali men.She is a great role model to you and others who live off the welfare cheque. who are so materialistic they try to live beyond their scope of income.They spend their time on the phone gosipping about the others.They are out at night partying until dawn! We should all be proud of this young somali woman, she has every thing we all wish in life, a great profession, decent job, supportive husband, and healthy children!! and not to forget she sound like an intellegent smart person SO GET A LIVE AND STOP CRITISIZING HER AND DO YOU WANT ME TO SPELL IT OUT FOR YOU "SHE MENTIONED ABOVE THAT SHE DOESNOT NEED YOUR FEEDBACK ANY MORE AS SHE HAS FOUND THE ULTIMATE SOLUTION" GET IT!
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| | Unrecorded Date Salaamu calaykum To Anonymous Walaal, I believe that when I come to any of you for some help and input, please feel free to attack me. Since you have no clue what kind of life I lead I would kindly ask you to refrain from making assumptions. It is very much anti-Islamic. I will not answer any of your comments concerning my life because I did not come here to ask for an opinion. As I said earlier, when I have problems, I rely on Allah (SWT) to help me find the solution. And I also take advice from my parents. I am not ashamed to admit that I value my parents opinion. As for my accomplishments or anyone else's for the matter, it is not something that needs to be posted in a forums on Somalinet. And also one other thing, I stand always by my opinions and beliefs and they can be found in the Quran and the Sunnah of our Prophet (SAW). Khadra has asked about a specific issue pertaining to her mother and I gave her my "uneducated", "conservative", "traditional", "backward" and "unnecessary" opinion: parents are parents and as children we have to be patient when dealing with them when the roles are reversed. Can you imagine what the poor mother is going through? All her life she has been the one making sure that her family was taken care of. That her husband and children had all their basic needs fulfilled. At the detriment of making enormous sacrifices. She has lost her husband. She is now relying on the same child she breastfed, bathed, clothed and educated. She is currently living in an environment that is unknown to her. Where she has little or no friends. She is also staying with her son-in-law and even if he were the best, and according to Kadra's writings, he is, she still feels like a stranger. She is used to running her household and making decisions. I don't believe that parents should be stripped of any respect just because we know more of this society. Elders in general deserve our outmost respect. And that is where I stand and I shall not budge. As to all of you sisters/brothers that share the view that just because we have some kind of education we can change our whole core values and the foundations of our religion and culture, can I please meet you here when you have become parents and are relying on your children to help you in your daily lives? Peace!
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| | Unrecorded Date kadra, talo waa lagu siiyey hadaad qaadaneesid, mohamed ayaa hore kugula teliyey ee samee hadaad rabtid inaad travel document heshid iyo in kale, otherwise be in that noway out situation!! we really dont care how much money u make. usually people keep secret these things... peace all
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| | Unrecorded Date To Khadro. Walaal aniga talo cusub kuuma wado lakiin hadii ILLAH ku mootiyay dhibkaas hada ALLAH u toobad keen. Walaal RIBADANA(interest) iska ilaali maxaa yeelay ALLAH (caza wajal) wuxuu Quraan kiisa ku sheegay inuu la dagaalayo qofkii qaato iyo qofkii bixiyabo marka dagaalka ALLE la iska celin kartid. Hada kadib iska ilaali hadii kale wax aad kheyr moodo baa shar kugu noqonaya. Walaal diintana baro sidaad cilmiga aduunka u baratay. Marka intaa waa iga talo Your Muslim Brother. ALAAH hana hanuuniyo Aamiin.
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| | Unrecorded Date TO Abdi Wallaalo waad ku mahadsantahey, tallaadaada qiimo galka leh ee aad aakhiradeyda i xasuusinayso. Inshalah waan jecelahey, in aan cilmiga diinta ku dadaalo.Aamiin wallaal! Wallaashaa Muslim,KADRA.
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| | Unrecorded Date SALAAMU CALAYKUM DH A M M A A N T I I N .. HADAY TALO BUKOOTO MAXAA LAGU DABIIBAA MEESHAN DOODI KAMAY FURNAYN, GOLE MURTI LAGU WADAAGAYANA MAY AHAYN. XASUUSNAADA CINWAANKA BOGGANI WUXUU AHAA ( ILA TALI WALAAL ). MARKAA FADLAN DADKIINAN DOODA KA FURAY MEESHA EE AQOONTA SHEEGTAY BAL HA LA ISKU DAYO INAAN LAGA BIXIN QODOBKA MEESHA YAALA. TA LABAAD HA LA ISKA DAAYO IN HADALKA LAYSKA DABA QAATO.. IGANA RAALI AHAADA HADII LA DHIBSADAY HADALKAYGA SALAAMU CALAYKUM
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| | Unrecorded Date Khadra, I have no doubt that you are making this up!!. Good on ya. You seem to have succeeded to getting few people talking. Unfortunately i could not read what every one wrote but I think, just incase it is true (cajabo on Thursday, December 30, 1999 - 08:33 pm:) gave you the answer to your problem. And I agree with her. No offence, but I think there is no point for you in continuing this discussion.
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| | Unrecorded Date Kadra: You know how our people act and respond when asked for an opinion, they best way to do it as u mentioned earlier is to go to counselling. Our people can never be asked a QUESTION or HELP, shame on US. People are just so IGRNORANT. WAKE up people. Kadra I hope the BEST For u Inshallaha and your family and your mother walaal. Advise: Never ask a Somali for ADVISE. Sorry if someone is offended. Hayat.
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| | Unrecorded Date dear khadra salaamu caleykum horta qof xun ayaad tahay markey walaalahaaga soomaaliyeed kula taliyeen oo aad figrad ka heshay waxaad sameyn laheyd ayaad leedahay (NEVER ASK SOMALI FOR ADVISE)hadii ay kula talineyn intaas oo ADVISE ah kuma siiyeen laakiin markii runta laguu sheegay ayey arinta kula xumaatay ma ahaoo ee abaal malihid hooyadana in ay kaa takto gar ayey u leedahay maxaa waaye waxaad sheeganeyso hooyo intey caloosha kugu siday uma qalanto in taad u qabatay. e orod oo ribada intaad & erayga hooyadaa u samee sey rabto. sorry hadii aan runta si kulul kugu sheegay aad baan uga xanaaqaa dadka waalidkood wax u qabta hadana sheeg sheega.
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| | Unrecorded Date TO:LUULA PLEASE READ THE WHOLE STORY BEFORE YOU JUMP.
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| | Unrecorded Date To Khadra Tallada guud waxay tahay hooyadaa somaaliya in aad ku tuurtid,wayna ku noolaan kartaa.tan kale hooyada waa da,a yartahay in aan ku qabto aan rabaa xagee laga heli karaa.tan labaad waxaad ka dugsatid dhaxanta ayaad u baahan tahay ninkaaga maqal talladiisa.
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| | Unrecorded Date hello Khadar khadrara sis really feel sorry about your isituation i can feel how difelcut it is to support your famly and work or go to school in a same time. khadra sis i'm FT college studen and work same time becouse OF supporting my famly. khadra i can see how it efecting your life and how much you confusing. how ever sis ALL What i can say about your mam is just tolk to her nicly, tell her that your main reason is bring your family together. if you tried that and it didn't wark for you then let her do what she want to do. otherwise you will end up waalid inkaarnimo and karaahiyo. secondly sis hargeesa i ok now and she can live there is a peace and financialy is ok too even though las time i went there was back 96 but i call my mam ever two weeks and i guess there is no major problem now. khadra markaa anigu taladan ku siinaya waxa weeyi try to make her happy your best SALAMU CALYKU AND I HOPE YOUR MAM WILL SEE THE REALTY SIS
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| | Unrecorded Date hello Khadra!!! Waxan ahay reer hargeisa isku da'na waynu nahay sidaad tilmaantay, kolay waynu is garanynaa. Bal hadaba aan talada u soo noqdo, islaamaha waa wada sidaas markay isku buuqaan, waxa kaliya ee aad yeeshaa ha noqoto dulqaad, haday doonayso inay dhooftana tigidh ha u jarin intay caruurtiinu imanayso ee ay soo gaadhayaan canada. Habaarkeedu waa hooyo oo caloosha kama jiro. Ilaahayna wuu ku arkaa inaad isku dayayso inaad caawiso markaa DHAG JALQ HA U SIIN.
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| | Unrecorded Date To Honests and Ali Wallaal jisaaka lah talladiina. Maantaba news fiican baan ka helay immigrationku yidhaahdeen warqaddii newdelhi baa loogu gudbiyay caruurtayadii markaas the process is coming along good so far. Inshalah waxaan rajeynayaa in aanu isu nabad imandoono. kadra To Ali can you give cues or clues of where we have met? just curious. kadra
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| | Unrecorded Date To Honests and Ali Wallaal jisaaka lah talladiina. Maantaba news fiican baan ka helay immigrationku yidhaahdeen warqaddii newdelhi baa loogu gudbiyay caruurtayadii markaas the process is coming along good so far. Inshalah waxaan rajeynayaa in aanu isu nabad imandoono. kadra To Ali can you give cues or clues of where we have met? just curious. kadra
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| | Unrecorded Date I beleive Khadra is a lie , but at least we understand that we can make it I spend reading this issue quet time and I enjoyed Allah bless you all somalis
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| | Unrecorded Date Khadra I am from Hargeisa, first July class of 1980, sheikh Bashiir 1971, Ahmed Guray 1976, well known guy, and popular in my day of Hargeisa, growup not far from Sheikh Bashiir school, and I do have a nick name that start (sh. I think that is enough clues.
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| | Unrecorded Date To Ali thanks for the clues i too finnished my intermediate school ahmed guray just before the name changed to CUMAR BINU KHADAAB.
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| | Unrecorded Date To Ali thanks for the clues i too finnished my intermediate school ahmed guray just before the name changed to CUMAR BINU KHADAAB.
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| | Unrecorded Date Hayaaay!!!! Shekadhii ma shuukansi bey isu badashay!!!!
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| | Unrecorded Date oo naagta miyaanan awal la qabin? waxaas baan canada ku nacay dadku maba kala soocna.
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| | Unrecorded Date lol@hebel, hebel qashqashaada daa.
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| | Unrecorded Date MAYA ANONYMOUS SEE WAX U JIRAAN BOGAAN? SII LAYSKU OGAA IN BAJAQDA LA WAANIYO MACAANIGAAN LAABITAN AASBO KU BILAABI QALBI CAMAL. ISKU ISKOOL AAN EHEEN NAANEYSTEY SH.. EE KA BILAABATAA (SHAKSHUUK DHEH) XAAFADEEY LAACIB AAN AHAA IYO WAX OO HADA LOO JEEDIN. QAABLAAW QAABLAAWGIIS.
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| | Unrecorded Date lol@@@@@@@@@@@@@hebel, adiga idaa dhiblow aad tahay, walaalkiis iska daa gabadha u qalee nooh...LOL
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| | Unrecorded Date lol@@@@@@@@@@@@@hebel, adiga idaa dhiblow aad tahay, walaalkiis iska daa gabadha iyo wiilka u qalee nooh...LOL
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| | Unrecorded Date qarxiska daaya! lol@hebel & anonymous
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| | Unrecorded Date Mayaa walaahi dhirif aanbo bilaabi ani. qoftaan duqda habarteed ee turub la dheeloosaa aa habeen kasta lasoo bacdhawaa anaga ee naf nagasoo doontay. aw rijaaloow (hee) waas bo ku bilaabi inta maa degeneyd? xaga maa mari jirtay? kastuumadaa guduud miyaa? ck maa qabtaa? kabahaa cabirkee waaye? meel oo tacsi loo fadhiyo aas bo shukaansi ku jiraa....yac dheh qandho dacay laalaadis haku tiirisee. waxaan camal aa rijaalyaasheena oo shiix weli ku danbeeyo sumcada ka haleenaa. idinka qosolka iga deeya no xarbi aan ku jiraaye. bacaw dheh bacawgiis....sharoobo camal lalabuus ugu dilay.
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| | Unrecorded Date ....Talo waxaa soo koobay Cajabo...Shariif ..et al..Laakiinse hal uun baan ku darsan lahaa... Malaga yaabaa Kadra in dhibkeedu uusan hooyo ahayn ee uu yahay inay XAAMILO tahay shaqaysana waqti badan....ayna u wehliyaan dabeecad, dhaqan, iyo hoy (dadka kuwada nool aqalka?).... ....Waxaad walaal page kan ku soo noqotaa markaad hooyo weydo, aadan ahayn xaamilo, ood adiga iyo caruurtaada wada joogtaan..... Salaama...
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| | Unrecorded Date To. khadra As-salaamu calaykum Salaantaa qiimaha badan ee kor ku xusan kadib: walaalaha samada jecel oo idil khayr allaha siiyo khaasatan cajabo oo aan oran karo waxay soo bandhigtay a tremendous advice. HOOYO WAA HOOYO yaan meel kale loo raadin qiimaheedana diintayada & rasuulkayaguba way noo sheegeen inay kow, laba & saddexba iyadu xiratey deedna aabo afar imanayo. Khadra waxaan ku leeyahay hal mar oo garaarkeedu debcay iyadoo ku xambaarsan naxdintii ay kuu naxday ayaadanba gudi karin haddii aad cimrigaaga oo dhan iyada oo keliya u adeegtid, markaa walaalo way heli kartay inay iska kaa tuurto haddii ay doonto tii ilaahay marka laga reebo, iyadaana dadnimada aad maanta sheeganayso & horumarka aad gaartayba iska leh ilaahay ka sokow kaasoo aan oran karo habkii quruxda badnaa oo ay kuu soo korisay resultigiisii buuna noqday ee Khadra shaydaanku yuuna sawir khiyaali ah ku tusin oo uu hooyadaa macaan kugu dirin. Khadra waa inaad ugu gigsataa siday iyaduba markii aad yarayd ay dhibkaaga u xamili jirtey walibana ay u jeclayd inaad noqotid ilmaha dunida ugu wanaagsan. Khadra maanta hooyo waa waayeel sida aad adiguba tilmaameyso, adiguna waxaad ka mid tahay dadka xubnaheeda soo jilciyey jirkeedana la qeybsadey markaa waxay joogtaa xilligii aad repair-garayn lahayd wixii aad u geysatay markii aad yareyd tusaalena kuugu filan inaad adiguna berrito duqoobi doontid ee dheg haw dhigin qeyladeeda wanaag ugu bedel adigana ilaahay xasanaat ayuu kuugu bedeli waa cibaado aad gudanayso cibaadana imtixaankeeday leedahay. Khadra sida aad adiguba cadaynayso dhibkii odaga & dadkii aqalka idin kula jirayna wuu gaaray tan xaajigaaga waa kula mid oo isagaba waa hooyadii ee tan deriska try to solve it by any.......... oo aan hooyo waxba u geysanayn. Khadra jawiga qudhiisu door weyn buu ka qaataa oo cimiladan & tii dalkii isla mid aha that's why... ay waxani u dhacayaan iyadoo tii ilaahayna aanay meesha ka marnayn. Khadra hooyadaa oo kula joogta waa great resource and you have to....... imisaa caawa u ooyeysa adiguna waabad ka ooyeysaa? ilaahay talo saaro laba rakcadood tuko insha'allaahu waad ku guuleysan, dhibaatadu waxay nagaga timaadaa inaga uun baa is tala saarana waana halkaa meeshay ka quruntay. Tan walaalahaana waxaan oran lahaa haddii ayna dad qaan gaar ah ahayn ha keenin dhulkan gaaladu waa khatar ugu dambeyna cibaadadaadey cause-gareyn doontaa yacni qof aad soo kaxaysay haddii uu gaaloobo inay cibaadadaada aakhiro lug ku yeelan doonto kuwa aad dhashay qudhooda aadan aqallo aduun u dhisin ee aad kuwo aakhiro u dhistaa. Khibradna dhowr & tobankii sano ee aan Sweden deganaa igaga korodhay waa mid aad u weyn oon ku wado ilaa & xad inay igu filan tahay. Markaa haddii aad wax taraysid dhulkoodii hooyo ayaa ugu sharaf badan, haddii aad leedahay dhib ayaa ka jirena u ducee in ilaahay dhulkayaga noo hagaajiyo halkaasaadan gaalnimo & wax la mid ahba uga baqeynine xabadan malaku mowdka allaa haya. Sister haddii hadalkaygu ku dhibo ka raali noqo. wa- billahil towfiiq was-salaamu calykum
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| | Unrecorded Date gabadh soomaaliyeed To Khadra Naagta isku sheegaysa reer hargaisaay, ma sheegatadii baad tahay mise dhaladkii. waxaan kaloon ku odhan laa, waxaad isku sheegaysaa naag waxbarataye, ma waxaad baratay sida dhulka looxaadho,mise sida hooyooyinka loo caayo. Marka aan eegay sidaad Englishka uqorayso, waxaa iiga muuqata inaad dhigato English as a second language, Soomaaligana, sidii ood tahay fasalka 2aad. Siday aqoondaradu kuu haysana, lama moodo inaag asha,haada taqaan malcaamad iyo Masjid daayoo. Hadaad isleedahay naag adag oo labashaqo kashaqaysa ayaad tahay oo aad intaa ilbaxnimo mooday, waxaan ku odhan laa caruurtaada oo aad sifiican ukorisid kuna dadaashid sidaad diinta ugu barbaarinlayd, iyo hooyadaa oo aad adeeqdaa kaaka kayrbadan. Soomaaliduna waxayku maahmaah daa "Nin isfaanay waa Ri isnuugtay" Haddii aanad aqoon reer Hargaysa waydii.
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| | Unrecorded Date To khadra walaal hadii aynu soomaali nahay dhibaatadu way ina wada haysataa oo qofwalba oo inaga mid ah reer buu masruufaa; waxaan uga socdaa in dhibaatadu ina wada haysato.talabaad hooyo abaalka ay kugu leedahay ma gudi kartid walaal waxay aniga ila tahay in aad hooyo u dulqaadqto oo aad waliba ka ducaysato .asalaamu calaykum waraxmatulaahi wabarakaatuh
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| | Unrecorded Date WHY DO SOMALI PEOPLE FIGHT? EVEN WHEN THEY R TRYING TO HELP SOMEONE , THEY MUST FIGHT ..STOP ARGUEING AND GET A LONG AND GIVE THE GIRL KHADRA THE ADIVE IN A NICE WAY OR ELSE SHUT THE F UP AND GROW UP SOMALIS DAMN!
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| | Unrecorded Date lol@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@2 IMAN lol U go girl!
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| | Unrecorded Date hebel aboooowe ma aragtay buumaheegii jaalaha adi maa xiran , mise kii gaduudka aa xiran tahay.. ii siib hada inta.
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| | Unrecorded Date adi matateheey ma xadinoo?
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| | Unrecorded Date ahahahaahahah lol waraa hebel matantaheey isii aaryo inteeysan i gelin
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| | Unrecorded Date aaryo intee kaa gelee?
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| | Unrecorded Date leeeeeeeeeee ceebleey
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| | Unrecorded Date Khadra Ma kula tahay hooyo in cidlada darteed ay la wareersan tahay(frustrated), marka bal u bandhig in nin oday ah lagu daro in ay rabto iyo in kale ,waxaa la arkaa in ay ku waafaqdo kuna dagto maadaama aabe uu ku dhintay hargeysa 12 sano horteed.
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| | Unrecorded Date sound like my mom!!
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| | Monday, June 26, 2000 - 07:57 pm naayaa khadra hadey kudhibto < naa qumayaridka ku tuur> saas aatalo ah aniga teyda wey kaa dhib badneen 1990 ayaa qumayaridka ku tuurey hadaa u baa han tahey meesh ey ku taalo igala soo xiriir mail AAQIRO@MAMADA,COM
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| | Sunday, September 10, 2000 - 04:16 am a/caleykum qadra hooyadaa iyo adiga waxaa idinheysta dhib wey ku dhashay waana ogtahay hooyo macaankeed adiga ayaa ah. waxaan kugula talin lahaa hooyadaa in aad la hadasho oo u sheegtid dhibka ku heysta hadii aan nahay somalia waxaan naqanaa (tabou) ma'aqan ereygaas afsomali sida loogu fasiro waxaan hubaa in hooyadaa ay fahmi donto dhibka ku heysta! abaaaaaaayo hooyadaa cidna booskeeda ma geli karto inkastoo hooyadaa ay kuula muuqato qof dhib badan hadan hooyo waa hooyo hadalkana waa muhiim oo la hadal iyado degan a/caleykum
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