     mystery | Unrecorded Date
Brothers/sisters
Iam man in his early 20s. I lost my place in society and I am totally isolated, It's been three years since alienation force had accumulated my brain and the world and many of it's people to my understanding became "phoney" therefore my sensitivity to life consciously alienated me from it.
The last time I socialized with some one was when i met a young prostitute, however i felt sorry for her and decided to just talk to her for a while before she left.I share little with my co-workers and don't have friends at all.
I write diaries most of the time,expressing my dark live,but never got same help and don't know where to find.
can anybody figure what to do next that can get me outta this |
| Taliso | Unrecorded Date
Mystery, bro you need an expert. I suggest you seek a mental health therapist. Call the nearest hospital or community clinic and ask to speak with the medical social worker. Explain your situation or email them the above information.
In case this posting is a joke, you still need attention but only from the virtual community.
In any case good luck and bon courage!! |
| cajabo | Unrecorded Date
Salaamu calaykum
Walaal Mystery,
You have indeed painted a very gloomy picture and my heart goes out to you. From what I understand, it is a self-imposed alienation. Right now we don't need to determine why you did it. I believe that the solution to all life's problems lie within ourselves. What I mean by that is simple. As Muslims and believers, we must at all times surrender to Allah. There are certain problems that have easy solutions and are just there facing you. For what you are feeling, I think what will be hard is to change your frame of mind. As you said, you dwell on the dark and write in your diary. Why don't you start writing positive thoughts. Sleep and wake up believing that you are a new man who will become a true Muslim and engage in Islamic acts. There are times in my life that I feel blue and now I know right away what to do. Multiply my prayers and supplications. Life is not easy and it is short. I believe that it is best to do what will grant us the ultimate reward: JANNAH. So, walaal, I might seem too naive or simplistic. However, the true notion of surrendering to Allah, in other words being a Muslim, is unique to each one of us and is a very complex process. I could tell you how I deal with certain issues but ultimately it is best you ask Allah the Almighty for guidance. I will pray for you too, walaal. May Allah help you and heal all your emotional problems. May Allah help you find inner peace. May Allah help you find happiness. May Allah bless you and reward you. Aamin.
Peace |
| Ayman | Unrecorded Date
TO. Mystery
Bacda salaan
Irjic ilallaah u noqo allahii ku abuurtey isagaa dawo oo dhan noocay doonto ha ahaatee deedna everything is gonna be alright. Teeda kale inkale
oo aanan background-kaaga aanan garaneyn haddana waxaan kugula talin lahaa markii aad dhibaatada ka baxdo guurso insha'allaahu waad liibaani.
take care bro
Allah bless you |
| Mohamed | Unrecorded Date
salams
Hi bro
the world can appear to be a bad place, full of negativity. Especially when you look at complete picture, and only for see doom and gloom.
If you try and understand all of life it can be overwhelming.
So the ans is to surrender to Alla, and to deal with matters that affect your life directly.
for example, if you are driving a car you don't want to about your destination, but you want to focus on the traffic and the road you are driving on. Only Allah knows if you will get to your destination.
if you meet someone there is no harm in showing them that you are trusting, if they are phoney or crooked that is there responsibility. they will realise that you will simply reject them and make new friends. So you will do well to always have a positive image of people.
develop a strong one to one relationship with allah, if other people are phoney it is there loss not your worry. You are only responsible for your thoughts and ation.
Unburden yourself from the problems of the world,
have a good niya, strong Iman, and love allah,
you will begin to see phoney people in a new light, you will become more patient, and when you are invited to do wrong you will be able to say no with ease and a smile.
salams bro |
| Qore | Unrecorded Date
A/aleykum
Aamin aamin to the supplication of our sister Cajabo, I think she and Ayman did an excellent job to put things in perspective. You will never walk alone if you have the Quran in your hand.
As you know the heyna hunts the sheep that grazzess alone, I would advise you brother to leave your location and seek the company of your fellow Muslims. "Shaydaan" is the hyena and we are the sheep, so don't grazze alone, come and mingle with your fellow country man and Muslims. A place where you can find a Mosque a Halal shop etc etc.
I know it is easier say than done, but atleast make a move towards that direction and you will be amazed how easier it turns out to be. Our Prophet(SWA) said if you walk towards Allah, Allah will run towards you. Please brother, if they are no Muslims in your locality, migarate from it.
Till then Fii amaani Laah |
| Qore | Unrecorded Date
Brother Mohamed I am sorry to have over looked your message, I think you have pointed out some very usefull points and I hope the brother and all of us take heed.
Jazaaka-Laah-kheyr |
| PaPa | Unrecorded Date
My brother, all i can add here is to urge you to take the wise advise from the above sisters and brothers. Yes there are doctors and all this other people who can help you, but YOU have to take the first step !!! and seek help. For Allah says in the Glorious Quran
" So, verily with every difficulty, There is
relief" (Sura 94:6)
Whatever difficulty we face, Allah always provides a solution, a away out, a relief, that would bring you ease and happiness. This comes if you only follow His path and show faith, and patience.
May Allah guide us all. For whosoever Allah guides NON can lead astray. |
