     Mona1 | Unrecorded Date
Hello,
Kadib markii aan si qalad ah uur ku qaaday ayaan waxaan go-aan ku gaaray in aan iska soo xaaqo uurkii, waana aan ku dhaqaaqay anigoo aan cidna u sheegin, xitaa boyfrienkaygii waayo, we didnot have real sex it was "brush" Isla markaana waxaa ka cabsooday in xiriirkeena wax iska badalaan ama uu iga aamin baxo, sida aan hubana ma uuna jeclaan lahayn in Ilmihiisa aan soo rido, anigana shaydaan ayaa i qaaday labada marba markii hore wuu i sabsabtay, kadibna waxaan ka cabsooday reerkeena iyo ceebta aduunka ee kama aanan fikirin aakhiro iyo su-aasha ii dambeeysa, ee walaalayaal ii sheega sideen ku toobad keenaa mase umaleeynaasaan in Ilaah iga cafindoon, aniga waxaan had iyo jeer niyada ku hayaa in aan noqondoono kuwa naarta lagu dubdubi doono, Aniga markaas waxaan jiray 18 and 3 months, hadana waxaa kasoo wareegtay 2 sano, walina ma aanan is guursan oo waan wada soconaa, waayo waxaan sugayaa intaan college ka ka dhameeynaayo, sino ma sameeyno waqtigii kabacdi laakiin kiss haa, ee WALAALAYAAL ILA SOO TALIYA MAXAAN SAMEEYAA? halkee wax ka bilaabaa sidee Allah u raaligeliyaa? |
| Anonymous | Unrecorded Date
Waad salaamantahay MUUNA 1
Khaladka aad sameyse mid saas u sahlan ma ahan waayo ilmaha haddii aad iska soo ridey arrin wanaagsan ma ahan, laakiin waxaad ogataa inuu rabigeena oo keliya ku cafin karaa haddi aadan mar dambe ku noqon.
Iska ilaali ileen waad kala garaneysaa wixii khalad ah iyo wixii kale,ee mar dambe ha unoqon.
Waa walaasha oo kuleh is ilaali. |
| samia | Unrecorded Date
"we didn't have real sex", listen up lady, intercourse is sex,dont get influenced by listening to Billyboy(Bill Clinton). i had an abortion too, although i was engaged(xalal) , but at the same time we didnt want it. I wouldn't called a baby it wasn't even developed. Anyways,now i pray to allah for forgiveness. Most merciful, most gracious. and so should you!
SALAMA walal |
| Mona1 | Unrecorded Date
To: Samia
sis, I got your point, I am not trying to make an excuse about the sex, anyway it happened and the question was how shall I ask God forgiveness? I didnot ask about your personal life, even-so.., what did you say about your abortion!!! so what mine was 6 to 7 weeks, I think its still cosider a baby and I am gulty for killing or taking the life away. But it is not an excuse for you to say the baby was not developed, so..., sister give an idea or iska aamus.
to: the other person,
thanks walaal, |
| hebel | Unrecorded Date
good for ya |
| ahmed | Unrecorded Date
Dear: Muna
Asalaama Caleykum
Walaal you did big mistake, because you killed someone's life, this is the biggest sin in Islam,
Allaah says in the qurun if you kill sameone it's
like killing all the people on Earth. By the way
Allaah for give everything’s if you back to him
with sincer Repentance. But still your in Sin
Islam is not Allowed what west Called Boy friend
or Date, Fear Allaah , change yourself , how you
work with some one who is not your husband so
long this worst, that is why we change when we moved here, Fiiri Somaliya gabadha Gurigooda ayaa
loogu imaan jirey, markaas ayaa laga baran jirey
laakiin hada gabadhii ayaaba markaad salaantid,
kugu xijin aan wada seexano, Subxaana Allaah
Pls Muna you make me cry pls back to Allaal,
Allaah loves Tawba and he will for give you.
Muna I will advice to cut this of boyfriend
because you will do samethings over and over again
if you don't stop.
To: Samia
Pls I would like to know what is the Halal
Abortion, because you don't want child this is
same killing like Muna did,it means if you don't
like kids you can kill rite sis Allaah knows best
Your's Ahmed |
| Marwo | Unrecorded Date
Salaamu calaykum,
To the two girls:
What happen to morality and values that we were raised with???? What happen to our culture and religion??? Subxaana laah
should'nt you respect the honor of your parents whom am sure tried their best to raise you as good muslim girls.
ANd if your are spreading your legs any ways why don't you use the thing that called PROTECTION or BIRTH CONTROLL for god sake...Now you didn't commit only one sin which is (ZINA), but you also committed a crime which is taking a life.
May Allah help you, forgive you and show you the right path, cause you are lost really.
Have some restpect for yourselves, parents, culture and religoin...Bye the way abortion is a crime whether the infant is 1 week old or 10 weeks old.
You girls are making me sick....and you are giving the rest of us a bad name. |
| diehard | Unrecorded Date
assalam aleykum all,
marwo i want to ask aquestion first, did you do it for a reason concerning your health and that of the foetus then the aswer is simple yes ,in islam it allowed to do abortion in those two conditions under the advice of medical specialist'but the reason you said its that" boyfriendgayga iin uu iga amiin baxo iyo waxaan ka cabsooday reerkeena iyo ceebta aduunka"
then simply what you did was murder'the foetus is a human being and has the right to live and to be protected and no one is allowed to take or stop the life of anyone else except by the way of justice or islamic law , the holy qur'an says
"say: come, I will rehearse what God has really prohibited you from: join nothing as equal as Him,be good to your parents, kill not your children on a plea of poverty; we provide sustenance for you and them;approach not shameful deeds, whether open or secret; take no life,which god has made sacred, except by way of justice and law(surah al-an'am verse 151)
in other verse the holy quran says"
"losers are those who kill their children foolishly,due to their lack of knowledge and prohibited what God has provided them and followed innovations attributed to God. They have gone astray, they are not guided.(chapter 6 verse 140)
one thing you have to know is that islam allows no sex whatsoever before or outside marriage and also bare in mind that islam has imposed a severe penalty on those who commit adultery even before marriage,
i think (since i am not sheikh) the only way you can repent is to be purnished according to islamic sharia for your two dambi,adultery and murder, my advice if you're sincere and you want forgiveness go to where there's islamic court of justice and admit yuour sins ,then the sheikh will direct you be punished as accodance with law whatever the judgement is, wabilah tofiiq> |
| diehard | Unrecorded Date
sorry the name is mona1 not marwo |
| rashiid | Unrecorded Date
To MONA1,
Xaraam Calayk, Aduunka Ilaah danbi kasta qofkuu doono wuu ka cafiyaa, laakiin aan dhiig ka ahayn(qof aad disho), xajka marka aad tagtid danbigaad gashay waa lagaa meerayaa, aan dhiig ka ahayn.
Iska duceeso oo allah ka baq. allah uun baa wax kasta og.
peace to u all RASHIID
ps. how does`t feel to be a murder? |
| Caraweelo | Unrecorded Date
Dear sister Mona1;
Here is what I think....I am not a shiekh but I KNOW Allah is Most Merciful, Most compassionate.
Only Allah - SWT- can forgive you.
So cleanse your body, pray 2/4/any number rakacas and from the bottom of your heart pray to your Creator- for His Mercy. HE IS OFT-FORGIVING, MOST COMPASSIONATE- He tells us this in the Quran!
Don't keep thinking about this. What is done is done. Shaytaan loves regrets.
Do not talk about it on the net/friends/etc.
Talk about it with Allah- SWT.
May Allah forgive us all.
Amiin. |
| ikram | Unrecorded Date
Yo listen up, you somali women in North America are so messed up to tell you the truth.
You guys have forgotten about your god ALLAH SUBXANA WATACALA,and religion. Whatever you did was whatever you did and it is the past and we can't change it. First of all why have sex if you your not married? and why have sex if you can't take care of a child? What did you expect when you were having sex that you wouldn't be pregnant and that your terrible sin won't be asked in the day of JUDGEMENT? and what are the rights that muslim women have to kill a child which you guys are brain washed with in Northamerica that is not living. Do you even know that some women in this world can't even have a child at all and you go off killing yours because you can't take care of one? Man, you guys have a lot of praying to do and the as merciful as ALLAH SUBXANA WATACALA is he will eventually forgive you. You somali women are like talking to christian girls about sex and how to take care of your damn self. Please for all of you sisters out there who don't have a clue about how life is maybe you guys need to go to school or ask your caring mom's about deen and religion and that ABORTION is very wrong. And don't tell me about women's rights about their decisions, BULL ••••!!. You guys do have rights, the right to be a good muslim, respectful and mannered.
SALAMUCALAYKUM.
IKRAM. |
| Ilhan | Unrecorded Date
Ikran god bless you sis,your a nice person,and you have your culture and your gold religion.
ILaahoow xishoodka hanaga qaadin(aamin) |
| Suldaan | Unrecorded Date
Ku Muna.
Ilaah utoobad keen, ka dhex bax waxa aad ku jirtid,
micnaha,SINADA iyo wixii kale oo danbi ah.
Markaas ilaah wuu ku cafinkaraa ama cafindoona, lakiin hadii aad sii wadatid waxa aad ku jirtid oo aad ugu yeereysin, MY BOYFRIEND jooji , hadii kale waxaad tahay qof ilma saqiir ah gawracday.
Alaha ku cafiyo "aamiin" |
| Anonymous | Unrecorded Date
You did right thing good on you |
| Deeqa | Unrecorded Date
Abaayo, ALLAH baan kuu waydiin danbi dhaaf, kuligeen qof ka maran danbi ma jiree, amiin.
mida kale dadka soomaalida ah intooda badan talo in la waydiisto ma ku fiicna, waayo, waxay iska dhigaan in ay yihiin malaa'igo aan danbi galin, oo markaasbay cay iyo wax la mida bilaabayaan, waxaad moodaa inay hadlaan intaysan fakarin, xitaa wadaadada qaar baa ku jira ku dabakha camalkooda diinta oo suxaana ALLAH danbi wayn baad gashay iyo wax la mida ku oranaya, hadana aan kula talinayn talo wax tar leh. In aad danbi gashay waad ogtahay, ALLAHAA baad ka gashay, waana NAXARIIS BADANE CAFISBADAN, in aad qushuucdo una noqoto baa kugu waajib ah aadana u noqon. Waxaan u malayn in aad maqashay nunkii dilay 99ka qof oo waydiistay ninkii wadaadka ALLE u go'ay in ALLAH cafin iyo in kale , markuu ku boqoleeyayna, galay janada, wadaakii yiri SUBXAANALLAH laguma cafiyayo uu galay caddabta, ALLE ha inaga hayee. Marka walaal ALLAHEEN unoqo oo iska ilaali in aad gasho qaladkii okale, ninkii gala qalad waa wax aan la yaab lahayn waayo ALLE uun baa dhan, laakiin kii ku celceliya asagoo og baa la yaab iyo ALLE ciqaabtiisuba mudan yihiin. Walaal waxaan kaloo kugula talinayaa in yahay nin xun nin kugu sameenaya waxaas(sinada) isagoo kuqabin eeiska daa oo isku day qif xalaal raba, oo ALLE dartii iyo wax uu raali ka yahay aad isku rabtaan.
iga raali ahaw hadaan qalad kaa galay, waxaan ahay qof fahmaysa meeshaad taagan tahay. kuguna adkaynaysa in aad ka fakarto mustaqbalka, ood badasho sababaha keenay waxa dhacay, waayo qof fiican in aad wax ka kororsato mooyee waxba kuuma dhimo, waxaana u arkaa in uu yahay ninka aad lasocoto sababtu. Masuulku isaguu saaran yahay, hadaysan jirin niman xumi dhibaatooyinkaas oo kale ma dhaceen. Naaguhu inta badan muslimiintu ma codsadaan sinada. Walaal wixii dhacay dhecee, ma badali kartidee, inta aad ALLE udhiibto, u balanqaad in aad ka fogaan oodan u noqonaynmid kale. ku dhawoow meelaha ALLE xassustiisu ka dhowdahay, waayo dhulka gaalo xasuusta ALLE baa ku yaraata, oo wax kasta filimada, jidadka, iskuulka iyo meel walba baa ina ilowsiinaya diinteenii iyo dhaqankeenii. Walaal iga raali ahow mar labaad waan ku dheeraaday. iska dhaaf xitaa kissta waayo waa sinada jidkeeda, before kiss no sex, I beleave so no kiss, and towba +think ahead.
ALLE ha na cafiyo hana naga celiyo sheydaanka. Amiin |
| Deeqa | Unrecorded Date
Abaayo, ALLAH baan kuu waydiin danbi dhaaf, kuligeen qof ka maran danbi ma jiree, amiin.
mida kale dadka soomaalida ah intooda badan talo in la waydiisto ma ku fiicna, waayo, waxay iska dhigaan in ay yihiin malaa'igo aan danbi galin, oo markaasbay cay iyo wax la mida bilaabayaan, waxaad moodaa inay hadlaan intaysan fakarin, xitaa wadaadada qaar baa ku jira ku dabakha camalkooda diinta oo suxaana ALLAH danbi wayn baad gashay iyo wax la mida ku oranaya, hadana aan kula talinayn talo wax tar leh. In aad danbi gashay waad ogtahay, ALLAHAA baad ka gashay, waana NAXARIIS BADANE CAFISBADAN, in aad qushuucdo una noqoto baa kugu waajib ah aadana u noqon. Waxaan u malayn in aad maqashay nunkii dilay 99ka qof oo waydiistay ninkii wadaadka ALLE u go'ay in ALLAH cafin iyo in kale , markuu ku boqoleeyayna, galay janada, wadaakii yiri SUBXAANALLAH laguma cafiyayo uu galay caddabta, ALLE ha inaga hayee. Marka walaal ALLAHEEN unoqo oo iska ilaali in aad gasho qaladkii okale, ninkii gala qalad waa wax aan la yaab lahayn waayo ALLE uun baa dhan, laakiin kii ku celceliya asagoo og baa la yaab iyo ALLE ciqaabtiisuba mudan yihiin. Walaal waxaan kaloo kugula talinayaa in yahay nin xun nin kugu sameenaya waxaas(sinada) isagoo kuqabin eeiska daa oo isku day qif xalaal raba, oo ALLE dartii iyo wax uu raali ka yahay aad isku rabtaan.
iga raali ahaw hadaan qalad kaa galay, waxaan ahay qof fahmaysa meeshaad taagan tahay. kuguna adkaynaysa in aad ka fakarto mustaqbalka, ood badasho sababaha keenay waxa dhacay, waayo qof fiican in aad wax ka kororsato mooyee waxba kuuma dhimo, waxaana u arkaa in uu yahay ninka aad lasocoto sababtu. Masuulku isaguu saaran yahay, hadaysan jirin niman xumi dhibaatooyinkaas oo kale ma dhaceen. Naaguhu inta badan muslimiintu ma codsadaan sinada. Walaal wixii dhacay dhecee, ma badali kartidee, inta aad ALLE udhiibto, u balanqaad in aad ka fogaan oodan u noqonaynmid kale. ku dhawoow meelaha ALLE xassustiisu ka dhowdahay, waayo dhulka gaalo xasuusta ALLE baa ku yaraata, oo wax kasta filimada, jidadka, iskuulka iyo meel walba baa ina ilowsiinaya diinteenii iyo dhaqankeenii. Walaal iga raali ahow mar labaad waan ku dheeraaday. iska dhaaf xitaa kissta waayo waa sinada jidkeeda, before kiss no sex, I beleave so no kiss, and towba +think ahead.
ALLE ha na cafiyo hana naga celiyo sheydaanka. Amiin |
| Deeqa | Unrecorded Date
Abaayo, ALLAH baan kuu waydiin danbi dhaaf, kuligeen qof ka maran danbi ma jiree, amiin.
mida kale dadka soomaalida ah intooda badan talo in la waydiisto ma ku fiicna, waayo, waxay iska dhigaan in ay yihiin malaa'igo aan danbi galin, oo markaasbay cay iyo wax la mida bilaabayaan, waxaad moodaa inay hadlaan intaysan fakarin, xitaa wadaadada qaar baa ku jira ku dabakha camalkooda diinta oo suxaana ALLAH danbi wayn baad gashay iyo wax la mida ku oranaya, hadana aan kula talinayn talo wax tar leh. In aad danbi gashay waad ogtahay, ALLAHAA baad ka gashay, waana NAXARIIS BADANE CAFISBADAN, in aad qushuucdo una noqoto baa kugu waajib ah aadana u noqon. Waxaan u malayn in aad maqashay nunkii dilay 99ka qof oo waydiistay ninkii wadaadka ALLE u go'ay in ALLAH cafin iyo in kale , markuu ku boqoleeyayna, galay janada, wadaakii yiri SUBXAANALLAH laguma cafiyayo uu galay caddabta, ALLE ha inaga hayee. Marka walaal ALLAHEEN unoqo oo iska ilaali in aad gasho qaladkii okale, ninkii gala qalad waa wax aan la yaab lahayn waayo ALLE uun baa dhan, laakiin kii ku celceliya asagoo og baa la yaab iyo ALLE ciqaabtiisuba mudan yihiin. Walaal waxaan kaloo kugula talinayaa in yahay nin xun nin kugu sameenaya waxaas(sinada) isagoo kuqabin eeiska daa oo isku day qif xalaal raba, oo ALLE dartii iyo wax uu raali ka yahay aad isku rabtaan.
iga raali ahaw hadaan qalad kaa galay, waxaan ahay qof fahmaysa meeshaad taagan tahay. kuguna adkaynaysa in aad ka fakarto mustaqbalka, ood badasho sababaha keenay waxa dhacay, waayo qof fiican in aad wax ka kororsato mooyee waxba kuuma dhimo, waxaana u arkaa in uu yahay ninka aad lasocoto sababtu. Masuulku isaguu saaran yahay, hadaysan jirin niman xumi dhibaatooyinkaas oo kale ma dhaceen. Naaguhu inta badan muslimiintu ma codsadaan sinada. Walaal wixii dhacay dhecee, ma badali kartidee, inta aad ALLE udhiibto, u balanqaad in aad ka fogaan oodan u noqonaynmid kale. ku dhawoow meelaha ALLE xassustiisu ka dhowdahay, waayo dhulka gaalo xasuusta ALLE baa ku yaraata, oo wax kasta filimada, jidadka, iskuulka iyo meel walba baa ina ilowsiinaya diinteenii iyo dhaqankeenii. Walaal iga raali ahow mar labaad waan ku dheeraaday. iska dhaaf xitaa kissta waayo waa sinada jidkeeda, before kiss no sex, I beleave so no kiss, and towba +think ahead.
ALLE ha na cafiyo hana naga celiyo sheydaanka. Amiin |
| Muslimah | Unrecorded Date
Assalamu_Aleikum!
To:Mona1,
I can only imagine what you're going through right now! Walaal, Allah is Very Kind & Gracious. And if you completely reverse your life style & ask for forgiveness(Tawba)he might forgive you. I believe you know the story of the man who killed 99-100 people & on his way to Tawba died & was later admitted to Janah. So, that is a good example that Allah may forgive you. We are all humans & we sin & Allah knows that, but the best of us are those when they sin, recognize their mistake, go back to Allah & completely change their lifestyles. Everything is possible with Allah. There is no one who can say You will go to Hell or You will go to Heaven. No one knows except for the Almighty Allah.
Just pray as much as you can & stay away from Zinah & Munkar in the future.
Salaamaat-Min-kuli-Aafaat! |
| malik | Unrecorded Date
I thought you girls where experts since you live in N-America and get the Idea to seek Abortion. but what happen the other methods like Condoms, Birth-control conterceptions, after the moonimg Bills, adaption options, and marriege option.
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malik |
