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Can people change thier feelings or their mind so easily?:)

SomaliNet Forum (Archive): Ila Tali Walaal - Ask The Experts: Archive (Before Sept. 2000): Can people change thier feelings or their mind so easily?:)
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Fartun

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HI brothers and sisters:
First of all i want to say thank u to allah for making this place where u can get ur advice from my brothers and sister and ilaahay qayr ha idin siiyo kuligiin.

MY name is Shanakaroon and i'm 18yrs old. I met this guy in 1997,3yrs ago and we got to know each other that time I was young and i didn't want to get involved with anybody,but as i get to know this guy more and more my feelings grew more stronger and he was just someone who amazed me.
When he asked me out I didn't give him an answer but he didn't give up so he kept trying and like i said I was young. I moved from Toronto to London ontario. WE kept contacting each other and he ask me if I was dealing with anybody and i said no I would like to deal with u. And than suddenly the boy act like he didn't knew me anymore i get the feeling it was some kind revange so he told me he was bussy focusing in his school and so on and i was so mad because I try to give my heart but i guess for him it was kind pay back. I learn that people can change as years go by. He still contacts me and i don't was with him or what to do? so please give me any advice. Thank u for taking the time to read my letter I appretaited very much.

My allah pless ya'lll

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CynicalGirl

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Listen Girl, How can you write down thank you allah for this home page, when your just going to act like a kufaur by writing down that you have boyfriend troubles. I mean don't preach when your going to write that.

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Fartun

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To Cytical gril firs of all don't act like u know much about religion compare to me and it don't matter which way u say thanx to allah it still exepted and no hard feeling i'm getting the feeling cuz u ain't got no bf so u talking •••• huh well is aigh u know cuz if u gona write somin 4 ppl next time learn to be more smart than that aigh .. don't be
tripin and plzzzzzzzzzzzz get boyfriend cuz i can see u horney ... lol sis be cool come down and control u hormonez...

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Saacid

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Fartun.

You talk like a cheap hoe, I mean your language, that's one indication why this guy is avoiding you. Before, he thought you were normal person, but after you talked to him he realized that he was falling in a deep sh!t, so he held back, and he is lucky not to be involved in you.

I wouldn't think twice ditching you if I were him.
Behave yourself and quit the cheap talk, maybe you will get some1.

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Sacdia

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girl areyou cheap or there is no onother man that who can understant you.. don't waste you time this mother fucker . I advice you to ignore him like you never met him. There are alot sensible mans that you can share you feeling not him. Sister be strong do you forget you are somali women . somali women don't cry for man.. ( mise calooshaadii baad uga soo dagday somaliya).

peace

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AYAN

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T: Saacid,

U just showed us or let me say proof to all of us that u r not a true gentleman who respects his somali sisters ...it is very sad to see a low life brother with no a lot of experienced ,trying to give some advice to a somali sister who needs advice. If u want to say something to somaone learn how to talk in respecful and mature way and not like 2 years old kid who is trying to give advice. U made ur self that u have a good education better then sister Fartun, but i am truly sad to tell u that u r just not lying to us but u r lying to urself too by calling some other somali sister a "cheap hoe" . In other words, u don't judge book by it's cover, meaning ,u don't judge people that u don't know very well or by the way they speak.
Thank u . i hope u grow up saacid and use the little brain that u got up there ok.
To: FARTUN

Follow what ur heart says sis, and don't let any people's words lets u down , be strong and keep ur head up , always be positive and "Allah" will bless u insha alah.
Salaam Caleykum
AYAN

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AMAAL

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To: Cynicalgirl

There is nothing wrong a boyfriend and if u have a boyfriend , that doesn't mean that u r kufaar. Let me explain to u why : First somali people say "wiil ayaan la socdaa" in English where they say it "i have a boyfriend". It's good to keep in mind and always say "alxamdulilaah" "insha alah" "masha alah" "subxaana alah"..etc..that shows u that u r true muslim and always appreciate to God for everything .
Fartun: Sis qofweyn ayaa tahey, try to choice the right choices to urself.

AMAAl

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Abdi-Nassir

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Salaams ppl,
Sis the only advice i can give is that of Islaam.This translates to the intent in your heart, The words that come out of your mouth and the actions that your body carries.This three go hand in hand in calling one a muslim.I cannot judge but given this facts i can tell how my dealings with a person will be. (eg) If one tells you something and he swears(In Allahs name) that it happenned yet he/she doesn't pray i wouldn't believe him.The judgement is For Allah but it helps us in our daily dealings with other ppl to know who is good
company and who is not.Now that we have a basic concept of Islaam,We turn to the idea of Boyfriends?,What exactly is a boyfriend?,In the Islaamic laws we are told not to intermingle,Men & women.If the idea is marriage then supervission is required.Now u see this puts one in an awkward situation,U say u r muslims do your intentions,words and actions agree with Islaamic rulings?,U be the judge of that.
Wa-Asaalam, Yours bro Abdi-nassir
Nassom@Yahoo.com.

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FARTUN

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TO ALL THE SOMALIAN BRO'Z AND SIS

FIRST ALL THANK U FOR UR ADVICE ALL OF U AND ABOUT THE PART OF BOYFREIND THING I NEVER SAID I HAD BOYFRIEND I SAID I WAS KIND INVOLVED AIGH.
THE OTHER THING IS FOR SAACID IF U TALK LIKE THAT U MUST BE LITTLE KID AND THE INSULTING PART U GOT ALL WRONG CUZ THE WORD HOE IT AIN'T MY VACAB SO I'M TRUE MUSLIME AND SOMALI SIS AIGH BUT IT DON'T MATTER THE ADVICE U GAVE CUZ IT DON'T CHANGE A THING U KNOW IS COOL BUT DON'T GO AN PUBLIC TALKING THAT IGNORENT WAY AIGH THAT'S 4 SAACID .

AND TO THE REST YA'LL THANKS 4 THE ADVICE THIS IS NOT REALY BIG THING TO ME IS ALL ABOUT HAVING FUN AND THAT IS WHAT IAM DOIGN ..

LUV YA'LL
BY THE WAY SAACID THE PART U SAID SOMALI WOMEN DON'T CRY 4 MEN U GOT THAT RIGHT FOOL CUZ IF U KNOW U WOULD BE CRYING THE SAME THE REST DID .
DON'T JUDGE BOOK CUZ U READ THE COVER ONLY SO DON'T JUDGE ME CUZ OF WORDZ THA I SAID AIGH.

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De Wiseguy

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Let me to tell U this Ignore those crazzy ppl. Just. try to do wat U think is right. That is all! No, one is perfect. Remember that.


may Allah be with U

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Anonymous

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sis why all the peopl blaming you i think you ara the bad one. But please do not write any othe awful massege on this web. Thank you

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pleasure

Wednesday, October 04, 2000 - 05:49 am
people the girl asked for advice...haven't y'all heard "if you don't have something nice to say....don't say anything at all"?
fartun....it's the guys loss after all he lost a chance with a somali queen...sis move on to bigger and better things cause there are plenty of fish in the sea!
1luv
pleasure

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QADAR

Wednesday, October 04, 2000 - 12:14 pm
TO:FARTUUN,
SIS,U DESERVE WAY BETTER THEN SOMEONE WHO'S AVOIDING U AM SURE U DO DESERVE MORE THEN THAT,BUT ARE UUUUU SURE THAT MAYBE IT AIN'T JUST AVOIDING BUT BEING BUSY OR GOING THROUGH SO OTHER PROBLEMS, SO WOULD ADVICE U TO GO HIM AND ASK HIM WHATHE'S GOT ON HIS MIND AND WILLING TO BE TOGETHER WITH YOU,TRY TO MAKE
THINGS CLEAR AND POSSIBLE

TO:ANYMOUS&CINDYGIRL
BEHAVE URSELF AND DON'T ACT LIKE AN ASS HOLE YO NEED TO RESPECT OTHERS AND I DON'T THINK THERE'S ANY PROBLEMS BY STARTING WITH ALLAH'S NAME'S CINDYGIRL,
AND ANYMOUS OR WHATEVER UR NAME IS BRO COM ON KNOW RESPECT LADIES AND DON'T EVER CURSE A GIRL THAT SHOWS US HOW IMMATURE,LITTLE KID U ARE,CINDYGIRL WAS THE THAT STARTED THE BO SHITTING,
U CAN ADVICE PLEASE DO SO IF NOT AND U GOT NOTHING TO SAY THEN DON'T SAY IT .


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