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I need advise how to save my marriage

SomaliNet Forum (Archive): Ila Tali Walaal - Ask The Experts: Archive (Before Sept. 2000): I need advise how to save my marriage
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mos

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I went back to somali last you to see my family and when i was there they convinced me to get married girl who is related to me . I told that there is girl who is waiting for me in Europe , but they didnot listen to me and let me make the story short. i got married there. Now I came back here in Europe with my wife , but the problem i still do have more feeling this girl who lives next door than my wife. I know I have forget the past and get long with my present life , but it is not that easy as it sound and i am very consufed my wife she is ideal women every men dream of and can't compare these two women .what i mean is my wife she is queen , but i can't see that way.and other girl is opposite. I know what i am saying is not making sense , but my heart saying onething and my head saying different thing, so please if you have time put your point of view how to get out this mess.
This girl hates me what i have done to her and i don't think she will ever forgive me.

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Anonymous

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Dear Mos,

You made your choice when you decided to go back home and get marrried to someone you hardly know, so now do your ex a favour and move on with your life. you already hurt one girl, don't go and hurt your wife now. Marriage is a serious thing and I hope you do the right thing and be faithful to your wife and since she is a QUEEN like you said it shouldn't be so hard. Love comes and goes, and if you give your wife a chance, you will be surprised how fast you will fall in love with her. Marriage is based on RESPECT HONESTY AND TRUST then comes love, so if you have respect for your wife and you trust her and your honest with her believe me you will fall in love with her.

Good luck brother, with all the marriage problems our people are facing today, you need all the luck you can get.

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hawo

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my dear mos
what have you done is no excuse for your family either you done by enjoying or curiosity becouse if you 100% feitful to your wife you should not done it so for the sake of your life and your boor wife let her go and you need to go back to ather girl .

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BADGIRL

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MOS

Go to FILE
Then click on SAVE AS.....Give your file a name like...MARRIAGE ON THE ROCKS....Then click OK.... There Your marriage saved.....If U need it in the future.....U can retrieve it
.......LOL

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W95/98/NT

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BadGirl..From today I call you Salope OK
What are you trying to say?? that you know
how to save a file or just proud to tell the
WWW how nice is your Joystick bundled with
your Tiny PC.
Emmmhhhhhh Joystick + Badgirl = heaven
A++

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banaadir2000

Friday, August 04, 2000 - 06:00 pm
Mos,
Did you say that your ex lives next door. My advice to you is to move where you can scape all memories of your ex-girl. try to give chance to your wife and start having freinds with married men, visit the masjid a lot it'll bring you peace & mind. But, If you go and hang around your old buddies and where you and your ex-G used to hang out, then you're bound to mess up your marriage.

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