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     | Unrecorded Date HI ALL, I am a girl who is deperately seeking advice. I have know this guy for a year and one day he told me that he loved me and asked me if i felt the same and i said yes. He said he wanted a serious relationship and i said ok. we dated for a while.Well lets say that he wanted more , if you know what i mean. i said to him no , even though my feelings for him were quite strong. He says that he wants to be with me forever but he wants something i cant give. I am virgin and would like to stay that until iam married. Now we broke up and i dont know what to do , i am getting on with my life sometimes i think i have missed an opportunity. please help. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
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| | Unrecorded Date Anonymous. I tell you what.Thus it's highly unlikely you will never make up again,it's important u get one thing stright..Never ever let him do that you know why? becuz this guy you had mentioned above hadn't been completly honest with you, becuz from the sound of it, he had only this conquest thing which was obviously "sex" and when he gets what he wants from you which is "sex" then it'll ruin and you will be dumped. so don't blow your virginity untill you get marry. your brother.
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| | Unrecorded Date girle you don't need a man that stupid in your life. he was obviously after that one thing and if he really did love then he would have waited till yall got married! dont feel bad about what youve done-- the right thing. untill then keep your head up, leggs closed and eyes open. your sister
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| | Unrecorded Date hi sis, U HAVEN'T MISSED ANYTHING. IF HE LOVED U, HE WOULD OF STAY WITH U REGARDLESS. U DID THE RIGHT THING. GOOD 4 U SIS. MUSSE A.
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| | Unrecorded Date mahad eebe leh, mudnaana adigaa leh, ilaahay waa ku garansiiyey xaqii ee najaaska buri, kolay midka xaraan ku warsadey xayaato kuma hayee, iska jir been been yaan khaari iyo aduun la'aan laguugu hor kicine, fadlan is xafid, allena ha ku xafidee
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| | Unrecorded Date Anonymous, waxaad yeeshaa, bal waxaad ku tiraahdaa, ninyahow bal i tus waxaad la wareegeysid, markuu soo saaro tarraq kaga dhaji madaxa hore, bal ayaan halaga nastee, inkaar qabaha, waayo adiga hadaad diido mid kale ayuu la aadayaa.
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| | Unrecorded Date dear anon, sugar there are blenty of fish in the sea.
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| | Unrecorded Date HI WALAALAYAAL WALAASHIIS CAAFIMAAD ALAHA KUSIIYO AAMIIIIIIN!!! SAAS IYO SAAS KUWAD WAXAA HELIDOONTAA INAN KUU DHAQMA INSHA ALLAH GUURKU WAA XAQ ,LAAKIIN SINADU WAA XAARAAN.. salut
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| | Unrecorded Date Dear sis: You did the right thing by kicking him out that useless thug. If Man truely loves you He will wait and respect you'r Virginty. Let me tell you my personal story. I was dating my wife for 3years with out asking any *thing. She was virgin and I did respect her more than any-thing on this earth. Love comes with out condition, I always Thank for my-wife guiding me and showing me the right things. Sis don't let any Jerk to steal your hart and your Virginty. Be strong you find someone who loves you and anderstans you. Be strong sis Wali
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| | Unrecorded Date What oppertunity you are talking about. Cause I don't see one. The guy told you he loves so he can get you into bed. And when you said no he bailed on you. So I said you did the right thing by saying No. Think about what was going to happen if you had said yes..and he left you.. So sister I admire you by standing up for youeself.
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| | Unrecorded Date Girls ,, Girls you better watch out,,,, some Guys,, some Guys are only about,,, That thang,,, that thang .. that thing,,
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| | Unrecorded Date its very dissapointed that all of you believe the same conclusion "no virgin, no love" i dont know how you support your argument to sound reasonable, we all dont know the guy she is talking about, he might be very serious about his relationship with this girl and he wants to be with her forever, on the other hand, its clear that religion is not playing very important role here since she dated him earlier and before he could ask for sex, they somehow touched or kissed one another only after that he went for to ask for sex. so we exclude religion, as its not important to both sides. girl, believe me, non of us here, will probably ever meet you, and we somalis have an attitude of discouragement. i am not saying you go and tell him lets have sex, but you can talk to each other, explain things to each other or buy sometime for yourself, remember life is just like a game, which have its own rules and obviously one of you will be the winner. however, dont think that you will be together forever with a guy that says "oh, you are virgin i wanna marry you", my dear in modern days, "virginity" is something "reer baadiyaashii somaliya" still believe. from scientific point view, it can be lost in sport, in accident etc. what we need our women to be in life is strong, educated, smart and honest. if incase, i die suddenly (god forbid) but its possible, the virginity of my wife will not play any role to bring up my kids, rather how well versed she is with the modern world. i for example, date somali girl which was raped during the civil war, god, i cant tell her that she should be virgin, okay some of you might say it was not her fault, fine, but looking deeply to the problem, virgin and non-virgin differ from one another that sex or no sex. and in my case there was sex, and believe me girl, when she told me she tought i will be one of those norrow-minded and will say "oh, you are lying" but it was the otherway around, "trust" you must be able to trust men "ANON" obviously, some logical reasoning or deduction will be needed whether he is the write guy or not, but life = full of risks. only risk takers have lifetime pleasure. go back to your love and speak with him about your feelings straight yes or no will always mean u dont know what u want.
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| | Unrecorded Date Walaal anigu waxaan ku raacsanahay Muriidi, tarraq kaga dhaji.
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| | Unrecorded Date Congatulations sister for standing for what is right. If this Man was inlove with you as he claimed he could have waited till your wedding night. forget about the looser he is the one at lost.
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| | Unrecorded Date TO girl Anonymous My first question is to you and your fans lady you think that he done wrong that he leave you or ?????? That is rigth Mohamed G you are my man brother go on for ever"With out virgin there is not love lady " Marka hore waxaan ku weydii nayaa marka lagugu dhaho taraq kaga dhaji ma xaanshi aa umaleysay mise bac think it lady intaad ku aqliga baacaas caqli ciyaalka ah Muriidi . Kaalaya idinka kale gabadha maxaa jar uga rideysiin oo u leedihiin VIRGIN ka u diid ma waxaa ku nooshi hiin saabuunta iyo siigo intee sa degan tihiin ( I am in sweden ) Cadey taladeyda waxaa waaye alaa og in lagu guur sanaayo marka hore QUUD AAN JIRIN QORYO HA UGURAN CADEY ee intaad nooshahay aduunka ka raaxeeyso ee virginka ha ku dhagin koleyba aboor aa u denbeeyee iska sii ninka ugu horeyo ee ku weydiiyo ama kaad kahesho Qasab maahan in aad saxiib latahay ama xiriir niga dhexeeyaan ninka aad siineyso virginka . Hadaad Sa cuudiga joogtid waa war kale meeshaas uu Virginka qiimakaleeyahay lady . Marka taladeyda kale waa hadii aad og tahay aduunkan in nimankii eey ku yar yihiin ee nasiib aad yeelatay in adoo maryooley ah and you get a man and left him ooooooooooooh whatever ! pleace lady jaaniskaaga kale ha iska cafin I mean you dont need to mis it. If you need more more and more help intaa leega helaa 24 hours lady "Momeda@hotmail.com" So take good care and be your sel lady. PS! Dont take personally lady
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| | Unrecorded Date Mohamed Horta nin yar baa tahay sida qoraalkaaga ka muuqda, waxaanad jeceshahay gaalada sida magacaaga ka muuqata, waxaanad qarka u saarantahay halaag sida taladaada ka muuqata, nin jahadu ka lunsantahayna waa tahay sida aad "contradiction-ka isugu sameynayso. Marka aad soo weynaato ayaan adeer gacaliye kula hadli doonaa.
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| | Unrecorded Date Mike you sit 24 hours a day beside your computer...what a life that must be for you..
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| | Unrecorded Date To.Muriidi and Mariah C Macalinka dada waa tiro garaadkana waa mid eebo kusiiyey balse Iam 24 . Marka waxaan kuleeyahay caq liga adiaga ku siiyey ma kafiirsatay marka hore ee aad leedahay taraqkaga dhaji think it brother? Marka kale macalinka waxaan ku weydiiyey ma u low day in dadka eey isku rayi aheen oo adiga midaad dhiibatay oo aad ku tiri ga can ku dhiiglo noqo balse keeyga maxaad u ledahay waxaad ku socotaa jiha qaldan sida kale jihada fiican matii aan somaliya kaga nimidbaad wada ee aheed dumarka ha ahaadaan wada bigro macalika iska iloow taas. Aniga naagbigro marabo koleyba maclinaka oo aan nabsi kagalo. You Mariah I am sorry didīnt it. but is there any wrong if I help ladies who need help. Mariah I donīt have computer at home. Have nice time you 2
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| | Unrecorded Date REALDEAL.... Now I know why the FUGEES nearly broke up.....LOL Anonymous..... Its not WORTH it girl......Don't do it UNLESSS U get married. I hope U find MR RIGHT...Not MR RIGHT NOW...!!!
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| | Unrecorded Date ala somali iyo istusnimo intee la kala geynaa. gabadhah qaar key sugeysey oo dhaqaajiyey weli ma dareemi karaan, the pyscho impact. nimankan meesha joogana wixxina waxaa waaye, gabar hadeyna bikro aheen lama guursan karo aa idinku qafilan. adiga birko ma tahay ninyahow? haddii aad naag ka dhaaratid, walee inaadan siigo ka dhaaran karin ee ba been ayeynu isku sheegnaa aqayaarta, mar be more realistic in life. leave with the reality always.
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| | Unrecorded Date NAYAA Y ARE U UPSET OVER THAT BASTERED. U MADE A GOOD DECISION NOW LIVE WITH IT AIGHT. AND WHAT OPPURTUNITY IS IT THAT U ARE TALKING ABOUT? YEAH AN OPPURTUNITY TO HELL. TILL NEXT TIME TAKE CARE. OH AND MARIAH@@@@@LOL SIS U TELL HIM.
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| | Unrecorded Date by Nimco walal; marka hore salaan ka dib marka ugu horaysa ha ku kaliyaysanin ninka waayo marka diintu in leedahay nin ha ku kaliyaysan shaydaan baa idinka dhex dhici kara.talabaad ninka iminka ku waxa ku waydiiyay haba la sheekaysan waayo naf ma ma laha, ee waxa qudha uu rabaa waxa comment laga wada yahay, isgaba ma jecla in walshiis waxaas oo kale la waydiiyo markaa waan kugu racsanahay sida aad samaysay, ee ninkaa mar danbe ha ku noqon waaba nacas ee. kuwan leh virgin ma jirna virginkaba marka layska daayo miynay sinadu xaraan ahyn. intaas baan kaga baxayaa ilahayna hayna soo wada hadeeyo jidka toosan hayna waafajiyo.bye
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| | Unrecorded Date To: mohamedG Dear brother, MohamedG that was UNMUSLIM statment walaal so don't give the sisiter bad advice bye
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| | Sunday, July 09, 2000 - 09:42 am comments to anonymous waad salaamantahay,dhamaantiina salaamantihiin,intaas ka bacdi walaal wax dheeraad ah oo walaaladay ka tageen oon sheego magaranaayo oo iyagaaba hadalkii wada yidhi waxaan halkan usoo galay uun inaan kuu sheego inaan wax sax ah samaysay,aadan kana qoomamoon erintaad inankaas eriday waayo haduu ku jecelyahay muusan ahaadeen kii sharaftaada dhaawici lahaa.intaasley iga tahay comments to mohamedG sxb inanta jar ha ka tuurin ,ragna haka wada hadlin ee siigadaada bussy ku ahoow......
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| | Sunday, July 09, 2000 - 05:56 pm girl i'm really happy to hear that i was expecting some thing else so keep up god will give you better than him so what ever u did cuz of god god won't let you down and you have to be and stand up you really kick shaydan's ass and it's little pple who can do that inculudingf me so abayo don't ever let any body force to do against ur criator and and allah thanks and i wish u good and i promise i'll ask god to keep u up and please ask for me a god thanks your brother fahad
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| | Wednesday, August 16, 2000 - 06:00 am GIRL YOU DID THE RIGHT THING.....DON´T WORRY ABOUT HIM, IT´S HIS LOST....KEEP DOING THAT :-) LOVE, ÝOUR SIS
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| | Saturday, August 19, 2000 - 09:30 am hey tell u what i don't know if anyone alse said this to ya b4 or not but ...u know what they say americans...if the guy cares about u .he wouldn't ask u to have sex with him....so don't give it to him is for ur own good ....trust me sis once u give to him he is gana leave u and call u names....and will never marry u...caz guys think if she gives to them she is gana give to any guy who ask her..witch is kinda of true sis am 20 and still vir....if u know what i mean ..am galad u did that.....he will come back he is just checking on u ...he wants to see how easy u are so keep ur head up sis.............that is all i got to say ..byee..TANADEGIRL
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