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     | Monday, July 10, 2000 - 02:29 am Hi ppl I am 21 years old, religious person and very much connected with her culture. But I have a problem, b4 I start I am not going to hide it cuz I really want u Ladies & Guys to help me I’m a shy person and I don’t pay much attention to men. But am 21 years in the future I need a man to share with my life. But the problem is Whenever a man approach me or trying to be at-least a friend to me, I have this untreatable habit which is I freak-out and push away the man. Is not the first time or the 10th time is more than that and I reacted each of those times exactly the same. I don’t react this way to a particular man is towards all men. I don’t know I have this undefeated reaction inside me and pushing me to the limit until I avoid him no matter how much I hated to do it, I can’t control it. I don’t know I wouldn’t call myself a men hater but I think I’m afraid taking risks if I studied my problem. I have this uncontrollable thoughts spinning in my head & giving me negative images, which leads me to react the way I do. I’m not a sick person & plz don’t waste ur time suggesting me to go to psychiatrist or cancelling. If u had been in this satuation b4 or have a suitable advise to me plz don’t hastate to write it down and thanx 4 taking time to read it.
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| | Monday, July 10, 2000 - 04:29 pm To-Runaway-girl.adiga wax-ma kuu sheega sidaadaba. Qura,aan in lagu saaro ayaad ubaahantahay. Culimaaudiinkana latasho. Thanks Regards Sadaam Hussein
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| | Thursday, July 13, 2000 - 06:45 am You are doing the right thing you are not supposed to mingle with men and because you are a god fearing person your unconcious self is protecting you from displeasing Allah. Inshallah when the right man comes along Almighty Allah will put compassionate in your heart and you will accept the man and maybe live happily ever after.
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| | Thursday, July 13, 2000 - 01:02 pm WOW! MR\MS.ANONYMOUS WHAT A SPANTENIOUS LADY\GUY YOU ARE, MAY I SAY I AM SO ATTRACTED BY THE WAY YOU GIVE THE ADVICE TO OUR SIS RUN AWAY-GIRL. PEACE OUT
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| | Saturday, July 15, 2000 - 03:21 am Anonymous Thanx 4 giving me your wonderful advice it really means something to me. and thanx 4 encoraging me to be the way i am. I thought it was something unusual but i realize now is not. thanx. To others who is new visiters don't hastate to give ur point of view.
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| | Saturday, July 15, 2000 - 04:40 am I will be very plesed if i can write English as u did sis but neverthless, u r being protected by god and that is all what girl meant to be. I dont think nothing is better than having a peace in the day after and i hope u r in the right direction. I will pray to u that AllAH might give u the right1 b4 sheydaan(ACUUDU BILLAH)changes u from the right to the wrong way. I hope u sis, as well pray for us beacuse in the same situation. Sis, SABAR JAMIIL. I hope dear bro/sis anonymous have said all what was appropiate to say hope u succeed in u r life, and i may be yours. I am just kidding. byyyyyeeeee sis MOHAMED from london Sallaam@hotmail.com wacaleykum sallam.
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| | Sunday, July 16, 2000 - 02:11 am Dear Runaway_girl The advice you've received from "anonymous" is wonderful for every Muslim person out there, but you must realize that you do have a unique problem. Is it possible that you have suffered in the hands of a male (sibling, friend or otherwise)? That u can not love or get close to another one. If you haven't traumatized by anyone in the past then my advice to you is to simply get rid of the people in your life (re:potential mate). I'm sure you will meet with people that u want jump into and don't let go, of course while keeping in mind "anonymous'" great advice. J.
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| | Monday, July 17, 2000 - 08:49 am Salaam sis I read your concern and i think i use to have the same problem when i was 13-18 and the reason was i grew up with alot of boys and that made me to be agressive...any how the only advice i could give you is to be your self don't act at all and have your space always that worked for me i don't know if it will work for you too i hope so take care iftin
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| | Tuesday, July 25, 2000 - 04:02 am DEAR SIS I DON'T KNOW IF THERE IS CHANCE FOR ME TO PUT MY POINT OF VIEW AS ALREADY ALL BROTH AND SIS GAVE THEIR ADVICES. ALWAYS SISTER BE YOURSELF AND I BELEIVE YOU STARTED THE WAY TO CURE TO PROBLEM THAT IS GOOD PROGRESS TO KNOW TO COME OVER .
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| | Monday, July 31, 2000 - 02:58 am Asalaamu caleykum yaa muslimiin. To:- all my fellow Somalis sis & bro Anonymous, Carfaaye, Moohamed, J,samar egge & Khadar thanx 4 giving me ur best advise i really appreciated. Well when I first opened this discussion page i was very much confused about this issue reading ur posters really made me clear things that it isn't complicated as I thought. I fully thank u 4 ur support and advise only a true Muslim sis & bro give such a tremendous advise like u did, and I really thank u once again. To: Anonymous Sis or Bro I especially thank u 4 ur lovely advise it was really true what u said based on our culture and religion and I can’t thank u enough.
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