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QANIIS TEEN-AGE BOY NEEDS AN ADVISE... PLEASE HELP ME

SomaliNet Forum (Archive): Ila Tali Walaal - Ask The Experts: Archive (Before Oct. 29, 2000): QANIIS TEEN-AGE BOY NEEDS AN ADVISE... PLEASE HELP ME
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QANIIS

Wednesday, August 16, 2000 - 04:51 am
Please read this without being cruel or condemning


I am teen-age somaliboy in Northern Europe who likes having sex with guys.I know its against the religion but i can´t help feeling this way.I love my family and i couldn´t heart them by telling this. I am thinking even to take my life just to end this pain, but I know thats not good idea either. I have a boyfriend now (my first one and from Somalia too) who is a very good-looking and he loves me to death but he wants more from me. He wants me to move with him and so on but the problem is that the whole issue is very difficult. Its abnormal for somalians and not right to my family and religion. Please give me an advise the situation is confusing and very difficult for me......help me please I am humanbeing too. thank you

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Xaawo

Wednesday, August 16, 2000 - 05:58 am
Dear boy-
I am sorry that you are in so much pain. There is not much I can do for you except advise you the best I know how.
Dear boy- please pray for allah's forgiveness. Allah loves you. Allah created you and He understands you more than anyone can ever understand you.
Turn to your Creator for help- not humans.
Pray.
Try to walk away from that lifestyle. It will never bring you happiness. You will always hate yourself. I am not judging you because I am not perfect. i am another sinner. all I can say is that if you see a road that is filled with pain- obstacles and trouble- would you take that road?
Move away from temptation. Make tauba to you Creator. And ask for His help and Guidance to live an honarable life.
May Allah bless you and Help you.

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QANIIS

Wednesday, August 16, 2000 - 07:08 am
Thank you xaawo for your advice,understanding and not judging, becouse we are all our gods creaters.


Inshaa allah it will be fine.

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Amakaag

Wednesday, August 16, 2000 - 07:18 am
Subhxaanallaah!!!!! Acuudi Billaahi mina shadaani rajiim....UUUUUUUUf...AAAAAAQQ...Aaakhashay....Muxuu yir Qaniis.....AAAAAAAKH....tufay...waar wuxu miyuu waashay....ninkii aduun jooga wax walba waa maqlaayaaa..Ma waxaad lasoo shirtagtay qaniisaan ahay..

Tolow waxaan ku weydiiyay maadaa kormara mise waad hoos martaa illeyn weys dhaamaane...waxaan sugeynaa naag dhahda qaniisadaan ahay!!!! illeyn wax walba waa la fishaaye

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Ali

Wednesday, August 16, 2000 - 09:54 am
Dear,
I don't think you will have adequate advise
from somalinet.com.
The will only confuse you and abuse you.
If your cry is geniun follow what sister Xaawo told.
If on the contrary you are trying to get out of the closet I will advise you not to do so
Because as long as you are keeping your sinn
away from the loved one you will not break their hearts. God is the forgiver by essence
and if you seek his forgiveness hopefuly one
day you will see the lights.

PS:If the whole thing was a hoax I curse you
for waisting my time.

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Sumaya

Wednesday, August 16, 2000 - 11:48 am
Salaama Caleykum

Hello my brother If off drop lines here, Our Sister give you best Advice so think your future, Allah gave you health and free use wisely, Satan is your enemy he will lead hell fire here and hereafter, My last advice is don't use this nick again it means your promoting evil action instead of eliminating. Allah guide you rite Path

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Mariah

Wednesday, August 16, 2000 - 02:19 pm
oooh my god.........you beleive this freak........
go kill yourself

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Saddam-Hussein

Wednesday, August 16, 2000 - 07:04 pm
Hi Mr.QANIIS [FAGET]if your story is true that you are a guyboy,you should go to Sanfranscico, California and get AIDS then to the graveyard simple is that.

Again, and again Your story is false.Please do not write such story on the somaliNet page again and respect your own Somali community please.

Do you want more details let me know [FAGET].

Have a good night Faget!!

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hebel

Wednesday, August 16, 2000 - 07:11 pm
Lol.
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That's a good one.
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Ever-ready Somalis with an ever-ready advice.
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Tell them ya don't know whether to be the Freak in Abidjan or the Freak in Kajarkhaystan City downtown and they will advice you to death.
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And yet they have no idea what so ever how to manage 5.5 Mil. People.

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Somali

Wednesday, August 16, 2000 - 07:30 pm
Brother: Never think of suicide. All you need is counseling. There thousands of people who used to be homosexuals but became straight again. Get some counseling and start praying salat.

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Booleeye

Wednesday, August 16, 2000 - 09:06 pm
Waad salaamantihiin dhammaantiin,

Ha u maleynina walaayaal in sheekadani dhacday ama jirto. Ma ogtihiin in dad ajaanib ah ama xataa soomaali ahi doonayan iney wax ka ogaadeen waxa dadka soomaaliyeed ka qabaan fikradda khaniisnimada oo lagu yaqaan in soomaalidu aad iyo aad uga lalabooto sida AMAKAAG(eeg kor) ku dhacday oo kale.
Fadlan soomaaliyeey waxaan oo kale yaan waqtiga la isaga luminin, ogaadana in boggaan somalinet uu yahay muraayadii laga eegayay fikradaha soomaalida
waxaana soo booqda dad badan oo aan soomaali ahayn intooda badanina ay cilmi-baritaan ku jiraan.

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Sadaam-Hussein

Thursday, August 17, 2000 - 07:02 am
Hi Booleeye waan kuugu raacsanahay ra'yigaaga.
ninka qaniis isku soorayna waxba kama jiiraan.

Thanks

Regards

Sadaam-Hussein

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QANIIS

Thursday, August 17, 2000 - 07:34 am
To Amakaag

I don´t think that is an important thing to know who is on top or gets down.

To Ali


I know brother, my sister Xaawo gave me a good advice and I am working on it very hard. I know that our lord forgive us all if we go back to him.

Thank you very much brother.


To Sumaya


Thank you too and I´ll try my best if allah wishs so. Ps: to what am I gonna change the nick??

To Saddam Hussien

I just want say to you....you try stay away from HIV/AIDS.


To Somali

Thank you brother. Its been very difficult lately and some of my nearest( relatives) feel that I´m not doing well. You said counseling helped many people, is that your own expierence? let me know it.


To booleeye


Give mea breake brother. Waxan ahey wiil somali ah oo 18 years jira, may be you´re discusted of this issue, lakin aniga reality way ii tahay, but anyway I am getting well,I pray and I am greatfull to all of you who are trying me to help.

Thank you my great allah.

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TheRebornMan

Friday, August 18, 2000 - 08:47 am
There you go!!!...He is only 18

Guys!!!.. if this guy is serious, is homosexuality a destiny (born with it) or a Choice?

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Sumaya

Friday, August 18, 2000 - 12:24 pm
Salaama Caleykum

Hello bro you see Now your changing Alhadulilaah
keep good company Insha you will change soon, don't listen these guys insulting you, keep up your self and change this nick second time when your writing don't encourage your self bad things over and over again

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Anonymous

Friday, August 18, 2000 - 02:42 pm
waryaa qaniis let me tell you one simple thing. if you consider your self a muslim person. then quiet what your doing. couse it's haraam. I bet your hawiyee or majeerteen that's why your gay cause they are the only somali tribe who fucks with the same sex. so get your self straight. okey or your life will be hell. anyways think twice of what your doing.

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Mj-girl

Friday, August 18, 2000 - 04:00 pm
watch out now...cuz Majeerteen iyo •••••• will skru u up too you moron idiot.

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Haboon.

Saturday, August 19, 2000 - 06:26 am
salaam dhamaan.subxaanalaah!
TO:Booleeye iyo Sadaam.
Good point walaalayaal waan idinku raacsanahay waxan waxba kama jiraan, waxaa jiraan ciyaal xun xun oo meeshan isaga ciyaaro.

TO;ruuxa isku sheegay Qaniis, walaal wax ilaah kaa fogooyey ha u yeeranin hana ku ciyaarin sharafka wiilasha soomaaliyeed iyo dhamaan bulshadeena, in waxan oo kale aad soo qortaana waaba damiir xumo oo waliba aad english ku soo qorto oo ajaanibka kale aqriyaayaan.Hadaba walaalkiis wax is kula har oo ha dhaawicin sumcada umada muslimiintaah.If this is true you are sick and you need to get help.


wasalamu caleykum.
by:haboon.

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QANIISHETA

Thursday, August 24, 2000 - 03:31 am
HOOYADAA IYO QANISADII KUDHASHAY WAS EE MEESHA KABAX WAAD NACEEBAYSAY
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YOU ARE WHAT THEY CALL ' SO NOT SOMALIAN ' LET THEM WHITE BOYS •••• U UP AND DOWN MOTHERFUCKER

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THEMAN

Thursday, August 24, 2000 - 09:08 am
LOL........LOL

DAMN YA'LL CRAZYY

WHAT DO U GET WHEN YOU PUT TOGETHER 10 HARD HEADED SOMALIANS, 1GAY GUY AND 9 GAY PERSONS WHO ARE HIDIN AND TRIYIN TO BLEND WITH THE REST.
I'LL TELL U WHAT U R GONNA GET U GONNA GET
19 FUCKET UP SOMALIANS AND ONE SUICEDLE FAGGET.

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QANIIS

Friday, August 25, 2000 - 03:12 am
To: All of you with good advice


Thank you very much, at this point I am stil doing right things. I pray, don´t have sex AND I am moving from this area.

I´ll keep in touch.

Me

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