     Anonymous | Sunday, October 01, 2000 - 01:42 pm
hi sista/brothers,
i have a huge favor to ask you your honest opinion. please understand this. Those of u who are majure enough to understand! if ur not,please don't write any non sense! thanks!
i met this guy some years ago. the first time i saw him i thought he was cute!! but i didn't tell him that i liked him,and I wasn't looking for love that time. Almost 5years later he called me one day just saying hi! and we talked. he was so sweet and i enjoyed talking to him. RIGHT AFTER THAT DAY. " GOT THE LOVE BUG". BUT, there was no way i could tell him how i felt! Because he was getting over a bad relationship. anyway, after months later, I couldn't kept to myself. And one day i told him how i felt! He said that he liked my character, and he told me i am the kinda lady he wants! but guess what! he doesn't call me or show me that he even cares. I am the only one who is trying to build the relationship! because i want it to work!
But I think I am losing it right now after he told me that he's not ready for a relationship right know/commitment! I don't want lose him because i think he is the ONE!!
please let me know what should i do. A somaligirl looking for the right thing and better FUTURE!!
thanks |
| Canab | Monday, October 02, 2000 - 07:44 am
Dear Sister,
I understand your problem. I think he needs more time to get used to the idea of your feelings for him. Understand that he's just begining to get over a former relationship that could have hurt him so much that he thinks you'll do the same. To him committement now seems a betrayal web you understand. Please don't just give up on him yet. Be patient because for love to build, it takes a long time. Just call him sometimes and don't talk about your feelings for him at that time because it will push him further. Be friendly and gentle and in time he'll realize that you are the right girl for him. Degdeg door madhaso ee taxadir. Ilaahey arinkaan hakula gacan galo but consider my advice as well. Good luck with him. |
| Anonymous | Thursday, October 05, 2000 - 05:34 pm
Abaayo canab,
aad ayaad u mahadsan tahay. sida wanaagsan ee aad iila talisay. I will make sure that I will do what u told me. I was thinking the same but I wasn't sure!! Thanks Sister Again! |
| caaliyo | Sunday, October 08, 2000 - 03:56 pm
was anab the only one who gave some advice to our sister! shame on u all!
i think anab is a good sister and mature to understand what our sister talked about!!
by all of nuts people! |
| Anonymous | Monday, January 08, 2001 - 11:51 am
Hi anab,
Sister, I am still trying to find a way to get that guy I am in love with. I just can't stop thinking about him. He doesn't seem to open up at all. I tried so hard to get his attention! But it seems time was not on my side. I can't eat, sleep, and I even lost some 10 pounds because of him. He is still telling me he needs some time to heal from that other relationship. I tried to move on, but my heart tells me HE IS THE ONE, DON'T LET HIM GO. You know what this is killing me, and I can't take it anymore! So what should I do, if anyone could give me some advice??
FADLAN WALAALAYAAL IGA LA SOO TALIYA ARINTAN... AAD IYO AAD AYAY II GUBAYSAAYE....
MAHADSANIDIN,
your sister who is inlove with an AWESOME GUY!! |
