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Baydan

Sunday, October 29, 2000 - 08:13 am
Hey there everyone! Anyways do you guys believe that there's only one person for you out there? Or am i the only one? I found out that things always don't go your way. I dream of that speical person, but i can't really see his face clearly. I always wanted a funny, sweet, romantic, friendly, honest, trustworthy, loyal, religious kind of guy and who also has a sense of style. Anyways as i came to my senses i found out that no one has all those qualities i have decripted. And when the guys ask me out, i usually say No, because they didn't meet my standards. I think that i need to low my expectations a little. For all those married guys, stop hitting on little girls, damn. I live in Minnestoa, and you get the older, ugler ones hating you or the LOSER who have no other live but to sing, eat JAAD. Come on where are all THe REAL MAN OUT HERE
holla at me at aliyah_2000_ginuwine@yahoo.com
or just write a comment back
ONE LUV
Baydan

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Anonymous

Monday, October 30, 2000 - 03:02 am
Babygirl since ur from Minnesota or wha ever!!!
Correct me If I'm wrong but u won't be finding those qualities from a southern somali guy na mean????? U need 2 go Isaaq brothas..... U won't be dissapointed.... I guarantee u that!!!!

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LAMIA

Monday, October 30, 2000 - 04:21 am
BAYDAN SISTA U WILL FIND IT ONE DAY INSHA ALLAH JUST HOLD ON. AND TO ANONYMOUS U BROTHA U FULL OF YOURSELF EH. PUT IN YOUR MIND THAT EVERY TRIBE HAS GOOD PPL AND BAD.

PEACE OUT

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ANAS

Monday, October 30, 2000 - 05:23 am
To Anonymous guy!!!!
I have to say I'm sorry it didn't work out the way you wanted, because Somalis are much smarter than that. What I meant is you are not from the clan that you have said you are from, coz as far I know Isaaq don't have a dummy like you I should of say no somali clan have one like you. If I understood or read you correctly this is what you wanted, You wanted the ppl read your stupid note and get offended and insult Isaaq, but that didn't happen.

The last but not least LAMIA thanks for the incredible job you've done I mean your respond to him.
BY THE WAY I AM NOT ISAAQ.

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TD

Monday, October 30, 2000 - 07:48 am
The bro is right. U gly or good looking girl u will b laid . It does not matter those criterias and standards will not help u . 1 u meet the guys who will talk u out, u will do it.
Maybe it will be 1 one the kind of guys u described, and down the line u will be enjoying rather than hurt.
so 1 piece of advice do not juge ppl, and respect them for who they r.
In the end som woman ever happy cause when guys ignore u,u tend to think that they(guys) think they all that. Also when they try to chatt u up u treat them like ••••(excuse me for my expression.

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SomalianG

Monday, October 30, 2000 - 08:50 am
sis baydan..
i think you asked a honest question and i'll try to give you a honest answer.
well there is no such guy as perfect and trust me the person you described is perfect.
but there is someone out there for everyone so i hope you find that person these things take time ..
i think i have found mine....
peace
P.S and you guys who have tried to insult this girl who just needed your point of view please keep your mouth shut..

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TARIQ AHMED

Monday, October 30, 2000 - 01:12 pm
PERFECT GUY?
Well firstly good luck in your treasure hunt, but When it comes to finding the perfect partner, Beleive me girl Love has no qualities or colour, When your heart says Yes, there is absalutely nothing you can do to say no. When you your heart has found its missing pair, you will not have any criteria to follow, Wether they are slim or fat, short or tall,dumb or inteligent and the list goes on. Think about your past relationship when you were at the peak of it, there was nothing any other person could say to change your mind about them. But when you have parted from each other for what ever reason, then you begin to think what the heck did I see in them? The answer to this question is that you were simply temparirily blinded. To cut the long story short, what am tryng to get to is that Dont worry Every one will meet their maching pair no matter what criteria they have to follow, When you finnaly do meet that person, trust me they will fall short in some if not most of your criteria but will it matter? No. Why? 'couse your heart says so.

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Bigbrother

Tuesday, October 31, 2000 - 10:28 am
Excellent, that is really a peace of advice.

there is nothing more I can add, but I just wanna
say to sis. Bayda, that the perfect guys need a
perfect girl. I hope u r perfect, and if that so
you have nothing to worry about, you will get the other half of your perfect heart.
Well, that is my theory at least. But onething is for sure you can only get your matching pair in only one defined area, in the limit of your class if you like,and that is how the thing are and will be as Allah mentioned in his Qu'an.

keep your standdars there sis. you worth it.

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Samiira

Tuesday, October 31, 2000 - 01:24 pm
okkkkkkkkkkk, i noticed this every motha-fucking place i have been to..when someone asks a question. why do we alwayz involve tribes??????????i for one is gettin' really tired of this bullshit and i'm sorry to say ,but feels sorry for those who do,i mean who you are doesn't have anything to do with this question, eighter answer it or you don't. we don't need a imperative headache right now.•••• we left that back home.and to anyone who does, it does not make you seem arocristatroc from the rest of us, the truth is it makes you seem weaker than the rest.


anyhow sis, one thing i gotta say to ya about that question. have you forgotten that we are in AMERICA now.that •••• don't exist in my eye , everyone who you try to be honest wit and down wit always seem to break your heart or try to act like someone else to ya.true love does exist ,but i have neva experienced it in my half, but anyway i got a question too.CAN SOMEONE DIE FOR LOVE????????????? this is to all those people who are showing a great deal of respect and maturity up in this discussion, i'm curious and i would like to know the answer to that.

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Suldaanka

Tuesday, October 31, 2000 - 04:30 pm
holla at you!
"Naa biisay dhaqankii...sharcigii ka baydhoo...diintii burburisee...habloow maad
is badh qabataan"
Let us put things in perspective sister:
quote "I always wanted a funny, sweet, romantic, friendly, honest, trustworthy, loyal, religious kind of guy" another words you need a perfect guy
more like a programmed robbot. That is a lot of stuff sister...your expectation is too high...but
being little bit more realistic may help.
Loyal...trustworthy...honesty ----->necessary
funny...friendy....sweet------>recommended
Religious-----> depends on how you interpret
Romantic------> lol@ good luck

Note: when guys ask you out...dont say No...because the chances are you will not live
forever.

One more thing there is nothing wrong if a guy hits a beautiful girl...it is a natural thing...
...by the way SINGIN is not a bad thing but eating
qaad is another stoy

Peace

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SAHAL69

Wednesday, November 01, 2000 - 05:13 am
NO WE DON'T
LOL
SHAL69

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Bigbrother

Wednesday, November 01, 2000 - 07:20 am
This is for Samira.
I was talking about class not tribe, I am sorry
that you misunderstood, maybe is because of the poor quality of my language.
But let me but in a very simple
English to you: If you are low live, dump, stupid
cheep b**ch, you can't say you wanna perfect guy,
you lucky if anyone ask you out in your life-time
even for a Knight-stand.
That is your kin of language you understand I suppose.

And to answer your question "YES!"
I have seen a number of young, intellectual and
prominent guys who are sleeping in the streets
just because they loved someone so much. They are
dead, you don't have to go to morgue to be dead.

give thanks.

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SAHAL69

Wednesday, November 01, 2000 - 07:52 am
IT IS ALWAYS MEN HOW BE REALY MAD IN LOVE AM SAYING THAT FROM LOOKING AT THE HISTORY ABOUT QISS AND LYLA OR THE CALLED HIM CREAZY LYLA
SO IF U LOVE A WOMEN SO MUCH U R CREAZY
AND IF U LOVE HER SO LITTEL U R CREAZY TOO
AND YES WE BLIVE IN LOVE BUT WITH LIMITS
YENA MEAN
SAHAL69

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651 RANGER

Wednesday, November 01, 2000 - 08:29 am
WELL WELL WELL, BAYDAN U SAID U CANT FIND FUNNY RELIGIOUS MAN..
FIRST SEPARATE FUNNY FROM RELIGION.
BEING FUNNY HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH ISLAM. U UNDERSTAND. NOW GOOD LUCK FOR ALL THOSE OTHER COMPLAINTS U HAVE ABOUT MEN

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Muna

Wednesday, November 01, 2000 - 01:10 pm
Baydaankaa, soohoobyee, alahoow isii, bidix ka dowr,midig ka dowr, sanjab, sanjab...But anyways girl I believe that there is nothing unreasonable about what you've said as far as the qualities you are seeking in your dream man.However,I think that it is not exactly realistic to think that he will have all those qualities or virtues whichever you like in the dosage that you prefer.

For those of you who are confused,I'm simply trying to say that as a young woman myself I am looking for a man with all those qualities too;nevertheless,you have to admit to yourself that he will not possess all those qualities in the abundance that you sooooo crave.

One quality to me however that I always find myself looking for in any man is his ability to communicate effectively and effortlessly in both English and of course Somali.It is a huge turn off to me when a brother steps up to me trying to pass off slang as proper English...heck they can't even wing it the right way with the so-called Ebonics crap.

Not to bore you guys or anything but sisters would it hurt if the brothers were a little more polite and more sensitive to their Somali sisters instead of being the first ones to call her a slut,whore,cheap bitch..and burn her at the stake.

As for love and someone dying for it well you will have to excuse me but at age 21 I have grown a little cynical about finding a Somali man whom I can completely fall in love with.YOU GUYS WE GIRLS ARE LOOKING FOR THE ELECTRICITY GET IT!!!!
It wouldn't hurt if you could send a couple of shivers up and down my spine.You know I have yet to meet a man who will get me giddy headed with just a kiss and the last time I checked that was not the hardest thing in the world to do!!

Oh and another thing people,I believe that it is high time that we the Somali sisters got some respect for being sexual beings ourselves.That is the reason that God gave us a clitoris right!!!!And MEN, a woman is not a whore if she decides to handle her business just like you guys do.I mean where do you guys get off...A man is a player for sleeping around and a woman is slut.Obviously no woman had anything to do with that mentality.

And not to be biased or anything but the Somali sisters are doing way better in the style and fashion department than our Fubu clad brothers who are too busy worrying about their pants falling off of their skinny asses!!!I had too much time on my hands at work so bear with me and ladies let me know if you agree and gentlemen.....Defend yourselves and this time put someone eloquent to proceed with a clever rebuttal.

Peace.

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TariqAhmed

Wednesday, November 01, 2000 - 03:02 pm
To Muna;
You Impress me sis and I really wanna work for you so the following is my C.V;
I am 22,live in London I successfully completed both collage and university and hold down a respectful job, I drive my own car(not rented), I live on own flat and the social services dont pay the rent(I do) I speak fluent english,somali,french and arabic.
With regards to my personal profile, I am an articulate,self assured,confident and highly motivated individual that aims to succeed in every aspect of my life, and in particular with regards to winning a place in your heart. I am ready and willing to improve my old skills as well as learn new ones. I have the ability to set out to do all st tasks to the very best of my ability.
So there you go baby and when it comes to my looks well I am a firm believer of the old say "Actions speak louder then words" Check me out on my Yahoo profile.
Peace to all..
If any one wants to use the above for thier C.V, You are all wellcome to it, its not a copy-write. Yet.

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Baydan

Wednesday, November 01, 2000 - 03:53 pm
Hey there Muna, sis this Baydan, e-mail me aight
ciao ,,,for the rest of you guys, thanks for all those good advice, much luv , it's good to actually count on your somalian bros, and sis,
LOVE BAYDAN

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Muna

Thursday, November 02, 2000 - 01:37 pm
Hey Baydan thanks for your reply and you too Tariq Ahmed but your story is an entirely different ball game.Anyway,Baydan I am not having much luck e-mailing you so why don't you e-mail me.Thanks for the feedback you guys it was quite enlightening.

As for you Tariq...well,well,well my dear I believe that I have successfully swept you off your feet my brother.Oh and I think that you managed to beautify the excruciating experience of throwing yourself at ones feet.But as I said earlier your story is one that cannot be discussed in it's entirety or shall I say to my heart's content so you will just have to e-mail me.And as for your looks does the saying "Actions speak louder than words" suggest that you are very much lacking in the physical appearance department..or am I mistaken.Honey if you got it flaunt as I always say!!!

So to those of you who wish to get in touch with me my address is munamohamud@hotmail.com.

See ya people and remember that ignorance gets us nowhere.Peace,love and craziness to you all.

Muna.

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Tariq.Ahmed

Friday, November 03, 2000 - 12:01 am
Muna unfortunately you 've miss-understood me.
What I meant by actions speak louder then words is that I dont wanna be praising my self on how good looking I am. I believe only those who are insecure about them-selves would be doing that to gain attention. Let others vote for you rather then vote for yourself only then will you know that you are a true winner. Which is why I suggested you look at my Yahoo profile (TariqGalis@yahoo.com) as it contains a Jpeg photo of mine.
As for you sweeping my feet, No Coment.

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SOUTHBOY

Friday, November 03, 2000 - 04:49 am
Dear Baydan,

I know that I qualify for you cause I have all the thinks that you described above, so u dont have to look very far holla at me my email is xamar4@yahoo.com
and no u dont have to lower your standard na mean, so check me out.


ONE

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hewhoknows

Friday, November 03, 2000 - 05:32 am
He is 22 year old from London who got kick out form university. Then went to college and found out life without qaad is hard.After two years in college he works at somalian coffee shop where
they sale qaad at the basement.....and if u (sis)let him win your heart get ready long sleepless nights in London.......as Somali man we don't know what is funny, sweet, romantic, friendly, honest, trustworthy, loyal, religious

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hewhoknows

Friday, November 03, 2000 - 05:33 am
He is 22 year old from London who got kick out form university. Then went to college and found out life without qaad is hard.After two years in college he works at somalian coffee shop where
they sale qaad at the basement.....and if u (sis)let him win your heart get ready long sleepless nights in London.......as Somali man we don't know what is funny, sweet, romantic, friendly, honest, trustworthy, loyal, religious means......
bye

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shakur

Friday, November 03, 2000 - 10:05 am
just want say couple things, Baydan a day may come that you find that super guy but I hope you qualify his desire of perfect women.

For Muna I have just one word for you (wow) I am extremely impressed for two things first the somali part you started on your article to draw me to read it and second nothing sexier then somali women who knows what she wants (big turn On).

peace and luv to all

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Baydan

Friday, November 03, 2000 - 10:53 am
Hey there SouthBoy! What actually makes you think that you qualife for all those qualities i have mention.

Shakur, iam not saying that iam the perfect girl, but iam a girl who knows what she desires in life. But i think am a smart, honest,sweet, romantic, and also has amibtions in life.
P.s Represent Muna, we need us smart somlian girls
ciao
luv Baydan

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Bigbrother

Saturday, November 04, 2000 - 02:49 pm
Baydan. you cool sis. and this is very good isue you broud in. I shoul have checked you if you are
in my Town.

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•••• ya all somalian ppl

Saturday, November 04, 2000 - 03:06 pm
•••• ya all somalian pll
yo are suck
anyways ps the •••• out
if you have any question contect at Ridgmond h.s
or cabdijamac_2000@hotmail.com
ok

ps the fuckout yaall

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Baydan

Saturday, November 04, 2000 - 07:46 pm
Hey there Bigbrother, thank you for the response. But i don't really know about you and me, iam just playing. Don't take it seriously.

Hey there for all those people that came in here, to hate on us. I speak for all of us when i say get the f*** out. We don't need to be hating on each other, more like support each other. That's why we are countryless today, because of those haters. If some one has an issue at home, relationship, friends etc. If one talks about it and the others try to give a positive advices , what could possible be wrong with that.
Anyways ciao and Once more
Luv to all yo
Baydan

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Anti-foreign.

Saturday, November 04, 2000 - 08:14 pm
www.somalinet.com..........

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T-GIRL

Saturday, November 04, 2000 - 09:27 pm
It makes me cry
It makes me cry
It makes me always wonder why
Why is there joy
Why is there pain
Why is there sunshine in the rain????

I have been in love twice .....with the same person.....But lately Im wondering Why? What's the fascination and attraction between ppl? I guess I have to do my own research....lol

Peace
Trouble

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WuDog

Saturday, November 04, 2000 - 09:55 pm
Zup Y'all!
Lady T is my pleasure to help u why r u wondering,
instead of researching what's wrong wit ya>
I work for the FBI (FEMALE BODY INSPECTOR)
FOR UR INFO: U weight 110lb
Height 5.5ft
DOB 1979
Lacotion Aussie
But u got "F" in SEX>>>>>U know what I meant?
so next time take the control be on Top!,,,Offer a :O

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me

Saturday, November 04, 2000 - 11:33 pm
hi sis t girl...

nice poem you wrote there...
well it happines what you said there really actually it happened to me also.
and i think ppl have these attractions because the can't have this person or he/she is not giving him/her self to him/her as he or she is.
i hop eyou understand that.
and when these ppl see that they have eachother already so there is no excitement anymore and that's when these relationships become out of love...
well this is my theorie please get back to me..
peace

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Baydan

Tuesday, November 07, 2000 - 04:59 pm
Hey there, you guys thank you for all of your comments, advices and your beautiful poems, and concerns

One luv
Baydan

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Bigbrother

Wednesday, November 08, 2000 - 08:13 am
baydan:

I thought you said your "Sweet, honest,....etc.
Now what did you mean you are JUST PLAYING??
where is that HONEST thing?.
Don't take me wrong sis. I just believed what you said earlier. that is the only quality I have "believing" and unfortunately it is not on your list. Too bad eh!.

Take it easy sis.
Stammi bene, ciao.

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MissUnderstood

Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 12:42 pm
Non ti precuppare BIG BROTHER.....Im real curious about your comment

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Baydan

Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 01:17 pm
hey there BiGBROTHER
I don't where you got it from , me not being honest. what makes you think that am not. Well, the truth is that i an honest, trustworthy, intelligent, etc. And i don't recall me saying that i wasn't.

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MAYMUNA

Monday, November 13, 2000 - 05:57 am
Baydan...sis you are asking too much and i dont think that such a man exist...what Im trying to say is that there are no real somalian man, eccept as you say...those who singin and stying at the hole night wake...cuz of eating...JAAD.
Here where I am in Holland if I say something like that,they r telling me that im too young to know such a things.
Just because im 18 year old, doesent mean that I dont know what is happening around me...right?
But hey...I've seen enough somalian-boys or should I say mans,...anywayz take care and I hope u will find the right one if he is out there...lol.

peace\love
Maymuun

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MAYMUNA

Monday, November 13, 2000 - 06:25 am
Baydan...sis you are asking too much and I dont think that such a man exist...what Im trying to say is that there are no real somalian man, eccept as you say...those who singin and stying at the hole night wake...cuz of eating...JAAD.
Here where I am in Holland if I say something like that,they r telling me that im too young to know such a things.
Just because Im 18 year old, doesent mean that I dont know what is happening around me...right?
But hey...I've seen enough somalian-boys or should I say mans,...anywayz take care and I hope u will find the right one If he is out there...lol...just keep ur head up and dont give up the hope. If u need some more advice e-mail
Moonlight_Queen@hotmail.com
peace\love
Maymuun

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MAYMUNA

Monday, November 13, 2000 - 07:36 am
Ooooops....I guess I sended the same massage twotimes.....sorry my bad.

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MAYMUNA

Monday, November 13, 2000 - 07:36 am
Ooooops....I guess I sended the same massage twotimes.....sorry my bad.

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MAYMUNA

Monday, November 13, 2000 - 07:39 am
Oooops.....I did it again.......lol.

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MALIKSHABAZ

Monday, November 13, 2000 - 08:15 am
BAYDAN

DEAR
LET ME ASK YOU THIS WHAT IS PERFECT? HAVE EVER SEEN SOMEONE PERFECT?

THE ANSWER IS ONLY GOD IS PERFECT.WE ARE HUMANBEEN FROM ADAM AND HAWA ,AGAIN WHY WE ARE ON EARTH INSTEAD OF AL-JANAH?.

AND I THINK YOU CAN DIFINE "BEING PERFECT" SOMEONE WHO ALWAYS CRITISIZE WHAT HE /SHE DOES IN A GOOD WAY.AND TRY TO GET REASONABLE SOLUTIONS IN A DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVE .

I THINK YOU ARE A PERFECTIONIST PERSON BUT YOU WILL NEVER BE PERFECT?

LET ME GET IN TO THE POINT:IT IS ALRIGHT TO HAVE DREAMS BUT YOU ALSO HAVE TO CONSIDER THE REALITY.
IF ALL SOMALI MEN WERE PERFECT,WE AREN'T BE LIVING ABROAD.SO TO MAKE A LONG STORY SHORT YOU HAVE TO BE CLOSE TO THE REALITY IN A MATTER TO FIND THE ONE WHO SUITABLE TO YOU, INSTEAD OF CHASING BEHIND DREAMS.


I WISH YOU FIND THE RIGHT RIGHT ONE .

PS SISTER MUNA MOHAMUD I LIKED YOUR SKILL OF WRITING AND I HOPE THAT YOU MAKE SOMETHING OUT OF IT ,YOU KNOW LIKE WRITING BOOKS OR OTHER LITERATURE SUBJECTS.YOU DEFINITELY GOT A TALENT.

{MALIKSHABAZ@HOTMAIL.COM}
TAKE CARE
PEACE

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Muna

Monday, November 13, 2000 - 08:30 am
To Malikshabaz:

Thank you for saying that about my writing,I really appreciate you taking the time to notice.But truthfully I don't think that I have what it takes to write books that would actually SELL;however,I do know one thing and that is the fact that I greatly enjoy writing...it is the best getaway I can think of.Just as a car would need fuel to keep it running...I need writing to help keep me going.Thanks once again for the encouragement!

Until next time comrades,peace,love and craziness!

Muna.

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Sweet_Queen

Tuesday, November 14, 2000 - 01:31 pm
Hey Baydan sis:
I don't know if such a guy exists but if he does exist (or even close to what you described), then hold on to him for dear life and love him FOREVER!!!

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Layelah

Thursday, November 16, 2000 - 06:33 am
Hey all of my beautiful somali people, I just wanted to say to baydan girl keep looking and one day u will find that special someone to fill that gap in your life but just have patience sis.

It took a while but I have found that special someone that brings joy to my life, he is funny intelligent has a good paying job and sends money to his family in africa. And I hope the same for you sis.

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Baydan

Sunday, November 19, 2000 - 02:06 pm
Hey there! Thanx to all of you that have respond. maymuna, MALIKSHABAZ, Sweet-Queen, and Layelah. I haven't been able to write these couple of day because of my school work, family etc. You all understand i hope.

Maymuna, sis i don't think that a "perfect guy" exist, but i didn't say that, i just said one who's close to it. Trust me, i have seen somalian guys who fit in and i have atually dated one, but the thing was that we didn't have connect, there were no sparks.

MALIKSHABAZ, i totaly agree with you, the only perfect person is the all mighy allah.

Layelah thanx sis, and am happy that you have found your true love. Best of luck

Sweet_Queen thanx sis, i really appreciate it

I think that all people think that am trying to pick up some one here, atually am not, advices only

much luv to all of you

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QOODHAA-IYO-xirada

Sunday, November 19, 2000 - 11:07 pm
BAYDAN U LOOKIN FO A PLAYA WHO CAN BREAK YA
THUGGED OUT BONES....
HAHAHAHAHAHAH holla all y''lll somalis
And plz peepz don't be hypocrites and judge ppl for few of them u saw...... especially if u in weed country like holland SORRY maymuna i am only been real.....
bye all

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Anonymous

Monday, November 20, 2000 - 11:56 pm
wats all dis **** about if u wanna get sum sum get it if u dont then go to hell yeah
anyways theres never a person who has all dat many ******* qualities ya mentioned. goood luck cuz u may never know ya may fall inlove wit a chokoraaaa lol
peace suckaz

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Anonymous

Monday, November 20, 2000 - 11:59 pm
by da way ma email is chokoraa@chokoramail.com
uu may be ma future wifeeeeeeee lol
peaceeee

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hj

Tuesday, November 21, 2000 - 08:10 am
Babe ,i am from marcy and that is how we get down


heyI'm from where hammers rung

News cameras never come

You and your man's hung in every

Verse in your rhyme

Where the grams were slung

N****s vanish every summer

When the blue vans would come

We throw the work in the can and run

Where the plans were to get funds and

Skate off the set

To achieve this goal quicker

Sold all my weight wet

Faced with measurable odds

Still I gave straight bets

So I'm felt I'm owed something

And you, nothing check

I'm from the other side where other guys

Don't walk too much, and girls from

The projects wouldn't f**k us

Said we talk too much

So they ran Tompkins and

Sought them dudes to trust

I don't know what the f**k they thought

Them n****s are foul just like us

I'm from where beef is inevitable

Summer times, unforgettable

Boosters in abundance

Buy a half price sweater new

Your word was everything

So everything you said you'd do

You did it

Couldn't talk about it if you ain't live it

I'm from where n****s pull your card

And argue all day, about

Who's the best MC's

Biggie, Jay-z or Nas

Where the drugs stars evolve, and

Thugs are at odds and

At each other's throat

For the love of foreign cars

Cats catch cases

Hoping the judge give R&R

But most times find themselves

Locked up, behind bars, that all

I'm from where they ball

And where they breed rhyme stars

I'm from Marcy, son

Just thought I'd remind y'all
are u familiar with our homeboys

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SAHRA

Friday, November 24, 2000 - 06:36 am
U R NOT ALONE!!
TO TELL U THE TRUTH SIS BAYDAN, I HAVE THE EXACT PROBLEM THAT U HAVE. I LOOK ALL THOSE QUALITIES THAT U STATED AND IT IS VERY HARD TO FIND A GUY WHO HAS THOSE QUALITIES NOW ADAYS. MAYBE WE NEED TO FORGET ABOUT SOME OF THOSE QUALITIES AND JUST STICK TO THE IMPORTANCE ONCE LIKE IF HE IS RELIGIOUS AND EDUCATED. I REALLY DONT KNOW AND I AM CONFUSED TOO!!!

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VJ

Friday, November 24, 2000 - 08:51 am
SAHRA MAY BE U SHOULD TURN TO WOMAN.
SINCE U CAN NOT FIND A MAN

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SAHRA

Friday, November 24, 2000 - 03:37 pm
LOL@VJ BRO I DONT WANT TO BE A MAN AND I DID NOT ASKED THAT FOR. I WAS JUST VERY SUPRISED THERE IS SOMEONE LIKE ME "BAYDAN" THERE ARE TONS OF GUYS WHO ASKED ME FOR RELATIONSHIP BUT SOMEHOW SOMETHING IS JUST HOLDING ME BACK TELLING ME THERE IS THE RIGHT ONE WAITING FOR ME. SO PLEASE DONT JUDGE MY TRUE FEELINGS!!

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POETRY_GIRL

Friday, November 24, 2000 - 06:36 pm
BAYDAN SIS..I GUESS THERE A LOT OF PPL WHO SYMPATISE WITH UR DILEMA..MYSELF INCLUDED..WELL I AM NOT GOING TO SAY MUCH ON THE SUBJECT CUZ I THINK MOST PPL IN THIS FORUM HAVE PRETTY MUCH ANSWERD YOUR QUESTION..SO I AM JUST GOING TO LEAVE U WITH THIS POEM..U CAN RESPOND TO WITH IF U FEEL LIKE IT..B4 I GO CAN JUST SAY THAT MAYBE OUR EXPECTATION OF SOMALI MANS ARE JUST TO HIGH..WE SEEMED TO EXPECT LESS FROM THEM..I AM NOT SAYING THEY PERFECT BCUZ NOONE IS..BUT WE HAVE TO REMEMBER THAT EVERY RACE HAS ITS BAD SEEDS..SO LETS SUPPORT OUR BROTHERS AND DIRECT THEM THE WAY TO OUR HEARTS..ANYWAYS BACK TO THE POEM


IS LOVE A MYTH?
CAN I BE INLOVE OR AM I FOOLING MYSELF?
AM I CRAZY TO PUT MY HEART ON A SHELF?
HOW DO I KNOW THAT I LOVE THIS PERSON
I WONDER IF I FOUND MY SOULMATE?
I NEVER SAW HIM FACE TO FACE
BUT JUST HIS HEART IS WORTH THE CHASE.
I DREAM OF HIM TROUGHOUT THE DAY
AM I IN LOVE...? ITS HARD TO SAY
TO LOVE SOMEONE YOU CAN NOT SEE
IS BEYOND MY GRASP, PLEASURE RESCUE ME
MY HEART IS DYING ON ITS OWN
IT WILL NOT FUNCTION ALL ALONE
I NEED HIS LIVELY HEART TO PUMP
MY DEAD BATTERY NEEDS A JUMP
SOMETHING TELLS ME IT MUST BE LOVE
NOONE FITS ME LIKE A GLOVE
WELL I HOPE HE LOVES ME LIKE I DO
I NEED SOMEONE WHO ALWAYS BE TRUE
TO SHARE MY DREAMS AND MOMENTS WITH
CAN I BE IN LOVE OR IS LOVE JUST A MYTH?

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Anonymous

Friday, November 24, 2000 - 08:04 pm
I COULDN'T SAY IT BATTER MYSELF !!TARIQ AHMED!!

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Trina

Friday, November 24, 2000 - 08:12 pm
Sis GOOD QUESTION............I give you MAD PROPS for your high standards because, your standards basically define who you are.
This is to the ••••••• who thinks that he can involve his corrupted and psychotic sense of thought into your innocent question. NIGGA shut the •••• up, AIN'T nobody asked you for that kind of input,••••(excuse my tongue). It's people like him that make life difficult for us anti-TRIBE people.
Anwayz, sis I do believe that there is "one true love" for everyone. Sis, your qualities in a man are extremely difficult to find but, there are people that fit your descripition. It takes time....................A word of advice, only go out with a guy that you truly feel comfortable with. I don't believe in that I'm going to give everyone a chance bullshit, it's irrational and dishonest. Cause if you don't like the person why waste your time and his time?
Have hope sis, INSHALLAH, you will find the perfect guy. I know how you feel cause I'm facing the exact same problem. They call me T.O's coldest, most people say that I think I'm too good for everyone...........It's not like that at all,I just don't settle for anyone.I'm not a BITCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I just have morals!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!AIGHT!

ONE LOVE..........
Keep smiling and keep your dreams alive y'all!!!

REPRESENTING FOR T.O AND MY SISTAS WITH THE PHAT BACK!

I'M OUT---------------------------------------->

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Saturday, November 25, 2000 - 04:44 am
I would like to say there is no such thing as the perfect guy or woman as only Allah is perfect.

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shugri

Tuesday, November 28, 2000 - 01:32 pm
Hi There!Abaydan,
Will sis to answer some of ur Questions,
i would like to remaind u that all the fooldish and noon educated men r around;;;;we left the good one's at back home selling sheeps=so Girl friend move on and gettt that paky guys::

lotz of love and kizzzzzz
shugri

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anon

Tuesday, November 28, 2000 - 06:46 pm
To renforce VJ's point...after all a woman knows what a woman wants as she is one herself...

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non_ya

Friday, December 01, 2000 - 07:40 pm
most of u are saying there is no such thing as perfect,true that but let me tell u somethin when u find that special person they'll be perfect in your eyes!

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chillinggirl

Friday, December 01, 2000 - 08:25 pm
H guys


Hey Anonymous dude? what is love get to do about tripes? nigga please my boy freind is isaaq and really like him .........but my ex dude was reer xamar and reallly like the reerxamar dude for some reasan. walaal jecelku qabiil malah did u ever hear that i don't care who u are where u from what u do aslong as u love me. Walaal ha iga xumaniin laakin jecelka waa qofkada is fahantaan laakin, those days love is excuse to have sex i believe that aiight peace and 1luve bye.

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chillinggirl

Friday, December 01, 2000 - 08:37 pm
Hi all waz upppppppppppppppp

walaal i believe theire is no love those days i don't know why ? ......i reallly don't know why i think theire is no love those days. Love is excuse to have sex!! after that no love do u think is too girls my names bilan and i'm out so peace and 1love aiight bye bilan caw@lovemail.com

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