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A.J.

Thursday, November 02, 2000 - 07:09 am
Hi guyz wlc to the show somebody is gotta be on top and that's the way it goezzzz
Well I'm a confused brotha, I saw this poem and thought is this what our queens want? coz i know that is what we want...
Read it please now


HOW TO IMPRESS A WOMAN
Wine her,
Dine her,
Call her,
Hug her,
Hold her,
Surprise her,
Compliment her,
Smile at her,
Laugh with her,
Cry with her,
Cuddle with her,
Shop with her,
Give her jewelry,
Buy her flowers,
Hold her hand,
Write love letters to her,
Go the end of the earth and back again for her.

HOW TO IMPRESS A MAN
Show up half naked with "diric" see through
Bring some fruities.

Lets try to ignore the last bid coz i added on it while i waz high imagining it,....
Time to hear from the queens and the brothaz u r wlc to advice me but plzzz I might be acting stupid but don't understimate me, if u r wannabe u r not wlc...
I'm just gonna sit back and learn make some notes please proceed now
I leave u guyz to it, it u need me ask me...


Love rules the world and money makes the world go round "word"

Peace and Love

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Sweet_Queen

Thursday, November 02, 2000 - 08:53 am
Alright brother (A.J) get your pen and notebook out and get prepared to take some seriouse notes bcos this lesson is going to be a brain killa!!
First of all brother (A.J), when you said "is this what our queens want..." you gotta remember that all women are different, we all want more or less the same thing but at the end of the day when it comes down to it, every woman wants what she wants not exactly the same as what the next woman wants. Did you understand that? And when you said "cos i know it is what we want..". I think your on another planet 'cos the last time i saw a Somali guy who wanted to "wine and dine" his girl or" "shop with her" or "give her jewelery" or "buy her flowers" was NEVER!!! But if that's what you think then forgive me for letting my heart take over but you must be my dream guy.
I thought that poem was very beutifull and it touched my heart and i wish i could find someone like that.
Me, what i want is everything you described above but you forgot to include some very important things like the nouns such as loyalty, truth, trust, honesty, romance, faithfullness and the biggest one of all LOVE!!! (They are the most important things). They lay the foundations of a long lasting friendship which later on play a major part in forming a great love. So always remember bro that the things you wrote above can always be compromised into a relationship because you can do them anytime and anywhere and that includes the fantasy involving the dirac ( you naughty boy!!) However the things that i have written CANNOT be compromised because you cannot do this anywhere or anytime these must form part of you(in your heart) naturally.
Well bro, i truly hope that i have helped aide you in your understanding of what "Queens" as you call us really want.
Your sis from S.E London

Ps. if after your first lesson with me you have found that you want more "tutoring", then you'll be pleased to know that i do accept VISA (lol)!!

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ayaanick

Thursday, November 02, 2000 - 07:13 pm
Hmm:
Very interesting. Ouch I wish I could "dined and wined", however we all know that it never happens, and if it does that is a miracle. You want advise on how to treat a women right or "queens" as you called us. Get to know her. Have you noticed that we taught to read and write, but we never taught to listen. Well listen open your ears, and you heart. Be very open minded, and ask her what her dreams are, what is her favorite color. Suprise once in a while, basically make sure that you involve her in your daily life, not just picking her up and going on dates. Trust I have been in love, to my suprise. One more important thing be yourself regardless of your age, income or social status. I personally don't want to dined, I just want a simple guy who will call me to share a bady he had at work, or simply to ask me if I was free to see a movie with him. Little things like that melt my heart, however don't forget we do have those who are hard to please, so really is it up to you to choose which path you want to take. Here is a poem for you!!

Here we are standing face to face:
Nathing standing in our way.
I can feel taking a tighter hold
your love is the food for my soul.
I know life is not all that easy, but
you hold my litte world in the palm of
your hand. Forever is what I mean for
the longest time I have been dady's little girl,
but I made you my world. All day through, and all
night long I think about, and I beleive that
love grows best in little houses,
And I can love you like that "Cause you are my strongest weakness!!

Macasalaama!!

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A.J

Friday, November 03, 2000 - 04:19 am
Asalaamu calaykum

Waw I'm deeplly touched, I really didn't know that we had ladyz like u two in London I don't mean to diss anyone but all I'm saying is that behind that unhappy pretty face there is something as sweet as this that lays there and does not want to come out? why? I just don't understand why we don't even deserve <us somalianguys mind u the good ones> the reply of sweet HI <from my experience> Everytime I see a pretty somalian girl I say Hi they look at u as if u r a dirt, why why why

Let me come back to ya sweet Queen:
Girl u allready blew my head with all those sweet advice and notes <i got them writen 4reall lol>
U saying there is no somalian guy who would do all that well think again there is one right here now and I know another 5 so if u want to know who don't hesitate to ask... hey I do forgive you to be honest I waz expecting some ruder words than that from London girls <most>...
U know I understand completelly what u saying and i do appreciate it, it is not anywhere and anytime and not even just the cause it has to be from deep down "heart" I can understand that, but is it onlly the men what about the ladys plzzzz lets cut the tradition but not the religion coz without religion u have no path in life...
So Sweet_Queen I thank you again with your time and effort in puttuing on this, believe me u will make a difference in what u said coz some of us don't even have an idea like me and many more...
Sweet_Queen how does it take to come into ur class I mean tutoring, what qualifications?

Ayaanick:

Well sis I couldn't agree with ya more, we were taught to write and read but not to listen, I figured that is our problem...
waw that poem waz pretty very touchy...
If u don't mind me askin ayaanick I want to know about ur experience of being in with a somalian man <if he is somalian> don't get me wrong I have seen some with jamaicans and Nigerians hand to hand...
Well sis I guess that is what the secret is not the big thing make a difference but the lil things make a difference not on the surface but inside, if the inside is clean the outside is shiny...
Just for my record ayaanick where in London u at which coast? I know that Sweet Queen is from S.E London.
You both mentioned "Queenz" It looks as if it disturbes you, I would take it as a compliment if a somalian girl called me prince lol as if it could ever happen probablly call u names like farah/ali or madowe <darky> lol funny

Well thnx again ladyz sweet_Queen and ayaanick, is this all people from London three?
If anyone else would like to share their experiences plzzzzzzzzzzz do so thnx.

Peace N Love

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AMINA

Friday, November 03, 2000 - 05:55 am
HEY BRO!
YE YE... WHERE CAN I FIND THESE 5 BROTHERS (LOL) THEY MUST BE THE ONLY 5 WILLING TO DINE THEIR GIRLS. (LOL)

ENOUGH JOKING JUST WANTED ADD TO WHAT THE SISTAS ALL READY WROTE: BRO JUST REMEMBER 2 BE YOURSELF N HONESTY N LOYALTY IS WHAT WE LONDON GIRLS ASK FOR. UNFORTUNATELY THETE ARE SOME BROTHERS WHO WOULDN'T KNOW THE MEANING THESE WORDS IF IT CAME N HIT THEM IN THE FACE! 4REAL.

ALTHOUGH ITS NICE TO HAVE A MAN THATS GONNA TAKE U HERE, THERE N EVRY WHERE. ITS THE LOVE (AND
N RESPECT THATS GONNA KEEP THE REALTIONSHIP GOING!!!

ANOTHER THING, BROTHER IN LONDON LOVE TO PLAY GAMES SO MUCH OR MAYBE THEY R JUST PLAN CONFUSED. THERE IS NOTHING CUTE ABOUT BEING A PLAYER-N THATZ THAT!

COMMUNICATION IS A KEY ISSUE IF U WANT A LONDON QUEEN. CHAT 2 UR GIRL LIKE SHES UR BESTFRIEND N SHE WILL TREAT U LIKE HER BEST FRIEND!

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Sweet_Queen

Friday, November 03, 2000 - 07:45 am
Hi AJ, i just wanted to say that maybe i've got this all wrong but are the reall initials of your name A.J? Maybe your not who i think you are, but i know someone with initials similar to those so get back to me with your answer.

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Ayaanick

Friday, November 03, 2000 - 11:54 am
Hmm:
It's me again Ayaanick, and I am so sorry to say, but I am not from London. I live in the United States. To be more specific I live in a State called "Minnesota" Where I study at the "Minnesota State University." So Once again I am sorry for not making that clear. By the way in my comment earlier do I mention anything about where I am from, I know I didn't, but I how did you make the assumption? I would like to hear from you "A.J" You also have to understand that not all girls are good people. There are those who are very narrow minded, and you just have to excuse them it's nathing, but a lack of knowledge. My point is don't feel bad because some girls won't greet you back, be lucky that they do that sometimes cause in the long run you don't belong with them. Trust I am not hating my sisters, but some of them can be rudy, which is uncalled for at times. Wishing you the best with everything and may God be on your side as you go through this magical journey in life!

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me

Saturday, November 04, 2000 - 06:19 am
wooow..
you guys are deep very deep i must say ..
walaahi i couldn't believe it how you guys were talking first of all a.j with his beautiful poem and then sweet queen who really made me funny girl go girl...
and ofcourse ayaanick...
i'm very proud of guys
you didn't even call names or anythings that's very good....
peace y'all

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A.J.

Sunday, November 05, 2000 - 11:17 pm
Asalaamu Calaykum

waw thnx guyz I'm really impressed I see we have a new member wlc Amina and I do agree with ya, but can I say something "How can u communicate with someone with no manner and rude comments"???
I agree communication is the whole point without it there is no understanding...once again thnx Amina I would love to hear if u had some problems with ur brothaz and what u would like to say I want to know if that is OK with u...

Sweet_Queen waz ur point honey? u think u know me?
well it is a possibility that u do know me coz I'm da only one using AJ, aka Ali Jama ring any bells LOL... Hey if u do know me don't hide urself I won't bite ya remember what they " the dog don't bite unless u ask" LOL

Ayaanick
well well well, u see what my point is now ppl It is a all a game we all like to lie we all like to play lil games to wind ppl minds up LOL I ain't trying to embarris you Ayaanick I do apologize but just a good example coz I thought u were briliant I mean ur above answers and advice but how can I believe u anymore? well anywayz sis thnx for telling us now atleast we know we can count on u from now on plzzzz try not to lie it will onlly lead u to trouble and bull n'mean?

Dear friend: ME
wlc who ever u might be sis/bro why don't u want to take part in this as I said before plzzz ppl tell me about ur experiences between somalian guyz and somalian girls, e.g. relationships, date's or Going out, Fall in LOVE etc...

once again I must say Thank you
Nice to have met ya all

Peace N Love

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A.J.

Sunday, November 05, 2000 - 11:20 pm
Keep it coming ppl
I'm still hungry for ideas and ways to make u girls have what u want? what do u expect from a brotha?

Peace out

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Anonymous

Sunday, November 05, 2000 - 11:49 pm
hi..everyone i'm having a problem..here trying to understand if he has a crush on me as i do. one day i went a party,while i was the party i met this called #####, so he came over and started to dance with me so were dancing through the whole night but at the end of the night i was hoping that i would ask for my phone number which he didn't....then again i thought that be he was shy to do it in front of everybody?...anyway as weeks went by i went to next party and he was there so came up to me and gave me a hug and a kiss on the cheek....as soon as he did that he left..there i was standing..

i kept on dacing (not too close by the way) with all friends who were mostly males...so i was catching jokes with all different friends.

i three weeks later there a next party .....i went there ..and guess what he was there this we said hello to one another thats about it..

he kept on watching while i was dance and enjoying my self with everyone regardless if they were male or female....

when it was about twenty minutes remaining to end of the party me and my cousin was dancing at the dance floor....so i was not aware of him being there behind me ..so what happened was i must turned around to see who behind me and guess what it was him...so he smiled so did i then we all started to dance in a circle he grabed my hands dancing away ..then three minutes later, one of female friend came up to me saying have go so left there in a rush without saying goodbye.

well i think about him most of the time..i would love to see about i know were he live and his friends but i don't want show him that i like him or anything like that because i don't want to be taken advantage off.

so please help me with ur advice and please remember to be nice...

HELP A SISTER .....

peace, love & harmony

love y'all

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WADAAD

Monday, November 06, 2000 - 12:37 am
PARTY GIRL

I HAVE ONE ADVICE FOR YOU..... BABY,

STOP PARTYING......... AND STAY HOME GO TO SCHOOL GO TO DUGSI QURAAN, BE CLEAN, THOSE DAYS NO ONE WANT PARTY GIRLS, PERSONALY I THINK ONLY HO'S PARTY....

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queen.b.

Monday, November 06, 2000 - 01:02 am
hi
a.j.
i am a south-east london girl
that was really nice i just wish some guys could take your advice and if they did a lot of girls would be really happy because if i had some one like that i would any thing buti don't so i miss out
anyway keep it up it's good

love and peace
samira

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Sweet_Queen

Monday, November 06, 2000 - 03:00 am
Hi A.J, it seems that i do know you, and you know me too so i won't hide.
So Ali, how's life been? Haven't heard from you for time. So how's college and life in general? I won't go as far as telling you my whole name but i'll give you my first initial ok. It's me F, lifes's not bad (very boring inactual fact). I'm at collge right now and i should be workin, but hey "there's more to life than work".
Yes, i have heard that expression, but it doesn't apply with you anyway cos your such a nice guy and i don't think i could ever imagine you "biting".
So seeing as you don't contact me and i have no number to contact you lets keep intouch online!!
Oh and if you want some "personal tutoring" then you got my number so ring me up and we can talk.
Oh and Aj, explain something to me will ya? In the poem what did you mean by the last thing you siad in your little fantasy? Yeah thaz right, the "bring some fruities" bit???
Gotta go now, take care and speak soon.
Sister F

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Bigbrother

Monday, November 06, 2000 - 10:58 am
Hello to everyone,and to you AJ.!
I think I do know you too, and my be that is why
I joined.(Aj from SE London;Beckhum).


Anonymous:
I think you should arrange somehow to see him
again, it's really stupid to loose someone just like this, he maybe the one who will "dine & wine with you". You may even like to go to his house
personally or use your female friends, but don't talk to his friends.
You know what? he may thought that you are one of those beautiful taken Queens by one of your mates
who where dancing with you in the party, and he is feeling sorry for his broken heart, or he wanted a simple knight-stand thing and didn't had
the pations to wait for the long process which
lasted three or more weeks it's a very simple example of what happen in the daily live bases.

Well I am afraid my dear Sis. it's your task to
find out the either way, and it is worth doing.
You have nothing to lose and experience to gain.

See him in a day that you have fully control of
your self and talk to him normally.

Well I hope you get anything helpful in this writing and wish you luck.

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Ayaanick

Monday, November 06, 2000 - 12:21 pm
Hmm:
A.J, I have a bone to pick-with you. Why would you say I lied?? Can you be more specific, cause I don't remeber lying to you or anything. All I said was that I wasn't from London which is very true, if you need more proof I will me more then happy to present them. I am just ashamed that I acutally wasted my percous time trying to exchange some knowledge with someone whom thinks that I lied to them!! I am really pissed, please be encourged to leave me a detial message, about what made you think I was lying about????? Made no sense to me!!

Ayaanick

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A.J.

Tuesday, November 07, 2000 - 04:51 am
I'm back and damn thnx to ya all guyz u been reall help...
Sweet_Queen, hey I have missed ya though lol long time true say hey I do apologize though coz my mate told me and still can't find ur number I will keep in touch for sure soon OK u must be mad by now just relax OK I'm doing a research here as u see loooooooool
Hey AJ nice to see ya bro, atleast u ain't coming with some stupid comments like " Go home or anyhting like u know what I mean" nice one mate just hang around we might help some of our sistah's and they could help us too... ppl Lets share it lets keep it up, I'm glad I Created this coz I still don't see any dirt around clean and beautyfull I luv ya my ppl peaceeeeee

Oooh Ayaanick honey I'm sorry aight It is OK never mind atleast u admited u lied and no big deall I waz just sayin u didn't have to lie thaz all take it easy walashiis no need to reach the limit I do appriciate ur help and notes etc... thnx again peace sis

Peace N Love

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Amina

Tuesday, November 07, 2000 - 01:39 pm
Hey ppl its me again!!!

LOL @ wadaad- now that ain't an islamic way to chat to ur sista is it bro???? U call urself a wadaad n throw degrading terms at a sis!!! Its not nice bro not nice at all.

First sis Anonymous, i would advice u not be going to all of them parties sis, not good for ya n can give u a bit of a reputation 4 real

About that guy u like, try sitting n chatting with him instead of doing all that dancing!!! Ask him wot he does (when he aint partyinglol) n try n find out whatecer u can about him. If by the end of the nite he don't tell u weather he likes u or not, ask him urself (he could be shy)and u don't gotta be blatant!!
Good luck!!

Aj bro back to ur quetion!! Well i must say that i did not have any real bad experience with the brothers. But i know for a fact that alot guys think that they are 'men' by messing with as many girls as they can handle.. these same bros think that this behaviour is acceptable (even cute)!! Being or trying to be a playa is the no 1 put off 4 most women as far as guys go.

Another thing brothers (well all men n even some women) feel as though they have to impress their love - big mistake just leads to dishonesty, fights n losing them.

How can u communicate::
Well bro, u either have it or u don't- if ur girl / man does not have any manners then honey ur wasting ur precious time with them!!

Basically if u like someone u can chat about anything n i mean anything from politics (if ur into that sort of thing) to how cute the telly tubbys r- it just comes naturally BUT only if ur being ur natural self.

PS- looks like queen b n aj r gonna be wining n dinning. lol (or IZ I wrong??)

Peace
UR big sista

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A.J.

Wednesday, November 08, 2000 - 12:08 am
Asalaamu calaykum

Well Amina I gotta say we might be or maybe we allready have dined and wined, who knows, lets say that is none of ur business LOL
You know I like the fact that u tryed to advice everyone including myself. I couldn't agree with u more being ur natural self mmm adds up perfect i guess thaz where all the conflic starts from. Trying to impress ur partner or whatever u want to call her/him. At the end of the day u trying to be what u r not, this gives u a great pressure remembering and trying to make sence u don't know urself but the other person realisis what u doing <This happened to me> I have definetlly learned something, but then again tell me this if u ain't got no game why do sistah's act like u don't know how to make it happen? U know it is hardlly that two perfect people meet nowadayz coz either u r a playa or she is, anyone know how we can prevend this happening?
I thought about it and this is what I came with:
One reason why a women becames a playa without her knowing is that she doezn't want to be taken advantage or she doezn't want to admit and face her weaknesses.
One thing why brotha is a playa about is that he is onlly after the goodz just wants a taste, but he doezn't realises that he is playin with someones heart is like how they say " I like what I see and I want some" I bet most of u ladyz thinking damn what do u take me for? I agree but why u give up if u r so sure of urself? coz one thing that encourages us brothaz is that most ya all r weak easy so u never know if the next one is easier all u gotta do is try, and what happens if u try with someone striaght with respect?
You know it is all a game but there is a trick and when u find it u will not make anymore mistakes, those of u thinking the trick is to be straight sorry good endz up in a whole 50% nowadayz and bad endz up satisfied but not long...

Man I have said too much Now plzzz I would like to hear from u ppl what u think the trick is???

Peace N Love

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A.J.

Wednesday, November 08, 2000 - 12:12 am
Hey Queen_B

walahi I'm sorry honey listen email me on
Daddy_AJ@hotmail.com
I need to talk to ya OK hope u email as soon as possible aight, gotta bounce now

Peace N Love

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Ayaanick

Wednesday, November 08, 2000 - 10:44 am
Hmm:
To be honest "A.J", the guys who think they are a players, or the girls who think that as well, are out just playing themselves. And the reason why it is so easy for those who win the game, is because they haven't met someone real yet!! "Shimbirba Shimbirkiisuu laduulaa", get it. Marka intaat nac nacda iska daysaan, be real with yourselves. (A.J) walaalkiis wali kuma fahmin, waxaad kawaday markaad tiri been baan sheegay. Oo kaalay beenta ma maxaan kaaga sasabanayaa?? Hadii aad tahay qof isku xishoonaya , bal akhri waxaan qoray markaasna ii soo Jawaab. Anigu beenlay ma'hi mana noqon doono jinsina uma lehiye bal iisoo jawaab maandhow((mean while I will wait with "SAMIR":O! Macasalaama walaal!

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sarah

Wednesday, November 08, 2000 - 12:46 pm
bastard

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A.J.

Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 12:06 am
asalaamu calaykum

Horta horay waaku salaamay walashiis Ayaanick, mideeda kale walaaley maxaa ka xanaaqday? beenlay waxaa kuu dhahay waxaa dhahday London aa jogaa kadibna waxaa tiri USA baan jogaa, intaa kugu heesto wexee eheed maa iska dhahdid USA aa jogaa halaas lee waaye wax meesha lisku dagaalo ama lagu buuqo maleh walshiis, u know u my sis and luv u for that I wouldn't want some beef on ya aight so lets calm it walshiis OK. Iga raali noqo hadii aan wax xun idhi OK.
Let me see ya smile sis we cool now?

Whoa Whoa
something wrong Sarah? something bothring ya?
why not share it with uz, allthough we know it is negative, still I wouldn't mind hearing it....

Gotta bounce now ppl
Peace N Love

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Ayaanick

Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 11:01 am
That's the whole thing AJ, I never said I lived in London, what I said was I am sorry if you I thought I lived in London. You are not even reading what I wrote. Like I said I never mentioned anything about me living there,,,,when you wrote to me you said that is this all the people from london, and that's when I said ....no I am not from London...so please don't ever accuse me of lying...I love living here, why would I say am from somewhere I never lived in...I can't let it down cause you disrespected me...it will not be forgetten,,,but a sincere apology may lead you to be forgiven.
thanks
Ayaanick

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idil

Saturday, November 11, 2000 - 05:07 pm
Salaam ppl

WHERE THE HELL CAN I FIND GUYS LIKE THAT??!!??
For real though, never, in the whole time I've been living in London, have a met or heard of a guy like that. So where can those brothers be found A.J?

To the question posted, like someone said before, we are all different, what appels to one woman, may not do so to another. What I have to say to you is "be there, be square", cause that's the thing that really counts, cause when someone is there for the hard times in your life, you know you can rely on them always. You really have to show to your woman that you care about her, talk to her and always ask her what she wants. Show her that you care, respect and admire her. Show her that you want her and always, always be honest with her, cause without honesty, there is no relationship.

You have to be attentive, caring, respectful, honest, know what you want in life, trustworthy, relable, romantic, suprising, faithful and most of all be yourself...and I gaurantee you dear brother, no woman would want to leave you.


Anonymous

Dear sister, if the guy keeps on ignoring you, then he is not worth your time and I would say to you move on sis, cause there are plenty of fish in the sea.

Another thing sis, life is too short to be partying so often, you need to take a look at your life and see where it's going...sort out your prioterites in life sis and I'm sure you'll find that special person.

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londonboo

Sunday, November 12, 2000 - 03:06 am
To idil,amina,bigbrother

thank u very so much..for the very perssures advises that u have given to me..it was very precious thanx again.

by the way I'm a student,in London, looking for brother like AJ (not a dog) surely we are all searching for a brother like him(I hope it's for real)coz most somali men do claim they do that kind of stuff...anyway May Allah Help Us To Find The Right Path In Life...amen..

peace and love to y'all

one love!

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A.J.

Sunday, November 12, 2000 - 03:45 am
Hi guyz still taking the notes appreciate it though, thnx for ur time ladyz

Oooooh I gotta apologize to ya ayaanick I have been mistaken takin u were from London, how can I show how sorry I'm, Hope u forgive me sis for accusing u that, coz I myself hate to be accused..

Hey Idil, by the way nice name
You want some of them brothaz who will wine u and dine u, well sis I could introduce u to them walahi I ain't to be taken for lil playa I'm 4reall I would a dream come true if I see one of my sis and one of brothaz in London havin a good time e.g. see them more in parks, in restaurants u know all I see is two ppl wanting but can't face it, is like puff daddy said " You want it You love it But you fear it when you near it"
Is this true do u think coz I think IT IS TRUE...
Idil appreciate ur advice sis thnx again...

Londonboo like the way u set or imagined the name
sis this is the kinda stuff that makes it hard u see u saying "Claim" OK some men try be what they r not but why coz they want to make a difference trust me I know my brothaz r bad at approaching a girl allthough u girls even make it hard by dissing them I mean a simple HI could start a new path u never know who u missing u never know if that person waz great person, One thing most of u somalian ladys don't see is Personality ya all concentrate on things like "Chicken chested & too fat & Guffy teeth etc..." I know we somalian guyz ain't that Handsome guyz allthough some of us r...

My point is London ladys or girls don't take the chance... I'm wondering "WHY"
U see there is a guy like me who don't even look sweet and knowing a lil some some on how to treat a lady, but ya all judge easy,
LOL makes me laugh myself, I have a babyface I look much much younger than my reall age 20, I come across a somalian girl I said HI and she said HIYA I tryed to chat with her u know "shukansi" those of u with somali reading difficulty it means chattin up a girl and more lol
well u know what she waz doing? Laughing she told me I waz a nice BOY trying very hard besically congratulating me, I asked her how old she waz she waz 17 taller than me and I'm 20 she waz shocked I told her nice chattin with her and she still didn't believe me... The point of this is that u girls never give us a chance u alkwayz take us for a JOKE I think to myself
"Is there a point of being a goodguy"
As u all said ppl ain't the same and I agree with that, but I never believed that u girls where all the same step by step I'm thinkin that u all the same in a way, well I would like to know
"Waz there to be affraid of"????

Well again I would like to thank all of u
ayaanick walshiis iga raali noqo by bad...
Gotta bounce now

Peace N Love

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Ayaanick

Sunday, November 12, 2000 - 03:23 pm
To AJ:
that's all right you are forgiven. Thank you very much!! Not much to say except that!(Sunday homework night ya know)

Love
Ayaanick

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Idil

Sunday, November 12, 2000 - 05:45 pm
Salaam ppl

Dear London Boo

I hope everything works out for you sis

A.J

Thanx for the compliment. But what I really want is a man who will do right by me and always be there, as Puff Daddy said "in good and bad times, we'll always make it through cause what we got is true." Your question, "what's there to be afraid of?" well dear brother, many of us have been hurt in the past by men, whether it be your brother, boyfriend, husband,father etc. Therefore some women will not risk the chance of being hurt again and not that there to be blamed. But however, most things in life are a risk.

And why are we rude to a guy that tries to pick us up on the street? Well speaking from my piont of view, my past experiences of guys talking to me in the street isn't very good, most are rude, obnoxious and worthless...but that does not mean that they are all like that, and I have yet to find someone who is really decent and for real.

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PRETTY-BOY

Thursday, November 16, 2000 - 07:33 am
YO A.J. BROTHA CAN YOU HELP ME WITH THIS ONE WHY DO SOMALIAN GIRLS WEAR SE TRUE DIRAC ON WEDDINGS MAN LAST I WAS AT A WEDING AND THIS GIRLS SHOWED UP WITH DA DRAC AND I WAS JUST LIKW WOWO I COULD SEE EVRYTHING MAN , I JUST GOT ABN ERECTION FOR THE HOLE NIGHT MAN WHY DO YOU GIRLS DO THIS TO US
I WILL NEVER KNOW MAYBE A SIISTERS IN THE AUDINCE CAN HELP ME

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PRETTY-BOY

Thursday, November 16, 2000 - 07:33 am
YO A.J. BROTHA CAN YOU HELP ME WITH THIS ONE WHY DO SOMALIAN GIRLS WEAR SE TRUE DIRAC ON WEDDINGS MAN LAST I WAS AT A WEDING AND THIS GIRLS SHOWED UP WITH DA DRAC AND I WAS JUST LIKW WOWO I COULD SEE EVRYTHING MAN , I JUST GOT ABN ERECTION FOR THE HOLE NIGHT MAN WHY DO YOU GIRLS DO THIS TO US
I WILL NEVER KNOW MAYBE A SIISTERS IN THE AUDINCE CAN HELP ME

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A.J.

Friday, November 17, 2000 - 12:15 am
Good Question Bro, I see u r as curious as myself well the onlly ones that can asnwer is them ladyz hope they do so, some of them might take u as a pervert n'mean, But I feel ya bro where u coming from the only thing I could say is
DON'T FALL FOR THEIR TRICK, it is kinda hipnotizing looool
Bro I hope they give u answer coz I they have answered all my questions thnx to them...
Gotta bounce now cioa

Peace N Love

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sweetchick

Friday, November 17, 2000 - 02:36 am
to AJ...
man you talk so wise walaahi you can't be 20...
you must be much older.. anyway i like your way of thinking...
anyway pretty-boy...
bro it's all about self controle...
you are very funny though...
dirac is 'hidi iyo dhaqan walaal'
so that's why we were it....
and sis idil i'm all with ya really
much love,

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A.J.

Sunday, November 19, 2000 - 11:24 pm
Asalaamu Calaykum

Well I got u curious didn't I SweetChick well Walahi I'm 20 although I don't even look like one, but I guess u know " Don't judge a Book by it's cover " Why can't u not believe it that I'm 20? coz u ain't the onlly one who said plzz answer

Listen sis we know it is tradition thang but it's just that it Hits the nerve if u know what I mean lol from my point of view it is such a beautyfull thang as long as she is somalina...But sis I really appreciate ur compliment thnx again...

Idil
Well sis I guess u asked a question and then answered urself, by saying "Most r rude obnoxious and worthless" then u added "not all r the same"
Listen we all know that every country every group of ppl every familly MUST have someone to make things harder or be the nevative one besically against or causing a block between the good and the bad, confusing huh read agin if u don't get it... My point is STOP JUDGING as I said b4 and now U NEVER KNOW WHAT U WILL MISS Imagine that person could have been the one u were lookin for..
I do agree that most things in life r risk, I cannot say anything about that, coz u got it right couldn't put it any otherway...

My peepz I really appreciate it thnx again for takin part in and to those reading it...
Gotta bounce now cheers

Peace N Love

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HANAD

Monday, November 20, 2000 - 03:04 am
TO ANANYMOUS
ASLAAMU CALAYIKUM
I CAN SEE HOW U FEEL I CAN'T GIVE U MUCH OF ADVICE BUT TRY TO BE PATIENT, GET TO KNOW TO THE PERSON AND LET HIM BE A MAN AND IF HE IS A REAL MAN HE WILL COME TO U IF HE IS'NOT HE IS A LOSSER. NEVER RUSH TO RELATIONSHIPS (WALAAL).

GOOD LUCK TO U WHAT EVER U DO AND ACHIEVE IT.

PEACELOVE

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BigMama

Monday, November 20, 2000 - 06:04 am
Hi people

Man I would like to get to know you AJ where in London can I find you?
I have read all your pages that u wrote, you seem soooo much experienced than an old farax I don't mean to diss them but they don't know how to treat a women, but you you damn you make me think what it would be like if we have met, yes I have heard u sayin you have a babyface I think that is sooooooooooo cute, I have got your email is it daddy_aj@Hotmail.com
yes that is right you wrote it on top for sweet_Queen, I hope I'm not in between of you, sweet_queen tell me plzzzz if I'm disturbing then I will back off right NOW
AJ you such a sweety I like you alot allthough i don't even know ya, wish we could have met someday
ppl don't even think about dissin me cos I'm not desperate but just like what I see, how many of you think he such a sweety? be honest he is...
Walaalo AJ answer me OK

nough luv for my brothers and sisters
one big one for you AJ

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NORTHLONDONGIRLS

Monday, November 20, 2000 - 06:51 am
TO ALL DA GIRLS OUT THERE. I HAV ONE THING TO SAY ALL THIS YOUR READING ARE JUST WORDS.THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A MAN WHO WANTS TO 'WINE AN DINE YOU'. IF YOU WANT A MAN LIKE THAT,TEACH YOUR MAN WHAT YOU WANT HIM TO DO FOR YOU AND HOW TO BE ROMANTIC THEN HE WILL START DOING IT. YOU HAV TO BE STRONG IN A REALATIONSHIP AND YOU HAVE TO STAND YOUR GROUND OR MEN WILL ONLY USE YOU. NO OFFENCE A.J BUT BABY I'M JUST GIVING THE WOMEN ADVICE ON HOW MOST MEN CAN BE.AN IF YOUR REALLY ARE LIKE THIS THEN ALL I HAVE SAY IS GOOD FOR YOU AND TO TEACH ALL YOUR MALE FRIENDS HOW 2 TREAT A WOMEN.
LUV SOUTHGATE COLLEGE GIRLS

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londonboo

Monday, November 20, 2000 - 11:14 am
Aj bro since I'm looking for a real man maybe this poem can convince you:

Take O Take those lips away that so sweetly were forsworn and those eyes the break of lights that do mislead the morn.
But my kisses bring again
bring again
seal's of love,
but seal'd in vain.

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