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How would u know u are in love?

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ibtisaam

Sunday, November 05, 2000 - 10:38 am
hi everyone

as i have already mention at headline how would u know u are in love?

i am askin this question because i am having a problem which i didn't used have, i can concentrate on studying, i worried a lot,
i star talking to my self,i can't sleep, i am not feeling well and i don't know where is this pain coming from.so are these thing are familiar
with u!? if so do u think it is love!

i need some help with this question. so please if u have the answer feel free to answer.

I appreciated for u concept.

pease and love

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seattlite

Sunday, November 05, 2000 - 11:05 am
salaam ibtisaam

good question I always use to ask myself this very question in hand sister ask yourself this question do you wake up in the middle of the night thinking about him? if that's a yes then yeaaaaaah sister you definitely in love.

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ibtisaam

Sunday, November 05, 2000 - 11:12 am
hi bro

that was quick response and the answer is yes i do!!!!! what shall i do then. do u think i should tell him that or just keep it to my self.

tah

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seattlite

Sunday, November 05, 2000 - 02:38 pm
Drear ibtisaam:

Well well it seems like a love from your side but how about him?does he feel the same way about you?Have you two ever mentioned love in your conversations?is he committed to someone else?

These above questions are what you should ask yourself first,It seems like you find him attractive love takes a little time to develop and emerge answer these questions and replay to me so I can try to analyze your situation and remember one thing IT TAKES TWO TO TANGO.

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Ayaanick

Monday, November 06, 2000 - 02:30 pm
Hmm:
I know, I know I shouldn't be butting in, but I can't help it, so hear me out people! Hmm In love huh? A good question))>>hard to digest though. I could give you some in points that may help. Love seems so in heaven kind of feeling, but it also has it's dark side to it. Make sure that you are not just going with your heart, and that your brain doesn't say something else, when your heart desires something else. Listen to your inner self, and you will discover the truth. Do you guys have one song that just summurizes your feeling for each other??? If so, and I think you are on your way to having a deep relationship. Do you have anything incommon with this guy, not just the feeling of "ooh it would so nice to be his girl", but other things. Whatever the case is,,,,here is the truth. Love is when you can't see your life without that person(the end) sorry if I have confused you, it is just that "love is a very complicated thing to digest"..good luck!):

Respectfully
Ayaanick

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Ayaan

Monday, November 06, 2000 - 06:48 pm
Okay>>I've read every1 theory on love but I feel they haven't fully covered the meaning of love.
Love is when U can't stop think'n about the brotha..when u heart beats 10x faster when comes near U..When u can't eat because U've got this anxious feeling in ur stomach..when U would do just about anything for the brotha and finnally when U can see your self with him for the rest of UR life..I've experience all those and I haven't talked to him once..is it love or a crush..and if its a crush why can't I get over him??Help I could use anyones advice..

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Muna

Tuesday, November 07, 2000 - 09:08 am
Well people brace yourselves because here comes another one.Love is always a topic which will spark discussions anywhere you go.Ibtisaam, as an unrelenting,merciless critic of love and all that it brings...I would like to take a stab at the matter if you will allow me.

Sure you're feeling all the physical effects of being in love but you have to realize that being "in love" is a state of mind and sadly more often than most people are more in love with the idea of being in love than actually being in love itself.Maybe,I'm confusing the whole lot of you,but what I'm trying to say is that this entire love business has to without any doubt involve two consenting people who are emotionally,mentally,physically(I don't mean sex) and spiritually involved.It has to be an in depth kind of experience.There has to be a great respect for eachother,admiration,consideration and of course love.And before I forget,there has to be the whole electricity thing going on each time your eyes meet,or your body accidently brushes up against his or the feeling you get in the pit of your stomach when he enters or leaves a room you're in.

As for Ayan...you leave me hanging.I thought you were well on your way to declaring your love for the man from the rooftops of houses for all the world to know....but he makes you feel anxious and not be able to sleep, he makes you lose sleep over him and he doesn't even know....
ARE YOU OUT OF YOUR DAMN MIND AYAN??!
I don't know about the rest of you guys but I am a long time devoted fan of FOOD and SLEEP and anytime another human being starts to interfere with my passion for food and sleep....Hey I am going to tell them exactly what an inconvenience they are being...lol.But hey Ayan it can't be love unless it is being returned.And from experience I was once under the impression that I was in love with this very unavailable person....and God does unrequited love suck or what.Believe me I would sell my soul to the devil and I still wouldn't be able to make the person feel exactly all of the maddness I felt inside.But as consolation I know that I expressed to them how I truly felt and that's a load off my mind and heart.Too bad they couldn't be there to experience all the joy,laughter and UNBELIEVABLE HOT SEX!!..LOL.So you see in order for their to be love there have to be two people who agree of it's existence,moreover two people who are willing to nurture it and stick around to watch it grow regardless of whether or not the rest of the world thinks they belong in a lunatic asylum for harbouring such sentiments for eachother.But I'm rambling and you guys have interesting lives to get back too so I'll leave you with lots of love,peace and craziness until next time.

Muna.

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ANAS

Tuesday, November 07, 2000 - 10:29 am
To Muna & Ayanick

Hey girls! every time I see both of your names in one of these topics I have to read it coz I know it makes sense. I am not a shame to say that I admire you. I also noticed that both of you like to write, So did you guys ever thought about being a writer to wite books or something. I would be the first person buys them.

Whatever I wanted to say you guys said it for me. I don't think there is anything left that I would say, But I just ould like to repeat onething. Sisters don't get confuse between love and crush. To me this love thing is just two people that cares about each other respect, trust, and agreed that they will share their love. Before all of these there is no such thing call LOVE.

ONE MORE THING I WOULD LIKE TO SAY TO MUNA IS, YOU SAID: "I don't know about the rest of you guys but I am a long time devoted fan of FOOD and SLEEP and anytime" I WAS WONDERING HOW MUCH DO YOU WEIGHT? JUST KIDDDDDDDING, JUST JOKING. I AM SURE YOU ARE VERY BRETTY GIRL

TAKE CARE!!!!!!!!!!!

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Bigbrother

Tuesday, November 07, 2000 - 10:50 am
splendid! That is the best "Love analysis" I ever
read Muna, believe me. It's marvelous.
Let me see if I can support your argument in just
few words. Love is like a Bridge held at the two
ends by the two ppl involved, and if one of them
let go the other can't hold. It's as simple as that. That is a scientific way of expressing the problem in question. You may try to hold the bridge by yourself, but again is function of
time f(t).
In your case sis. You just like the Guy, may be
too much and that is OK. just talk to him, he may
volunteer to hold the other end of this heavy structure called " L O V E "

N.B. (Don't forget love is beautiful, love is
live).

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Ayaanick

Tuesday, November 07, 2000 - 01:37 pm
Hmm:((hope you all like this))

Love starts with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a tear.
Don't cry over anyone who won't cry over you.
If love isn't a game, why are there so many players?
Good friends are hard to find, harder to leave, and impossible to forget.
You can only go as far as you push.
Actions speak louder than words.
The hardest thing to do is watch the one you love, love somebody else.
Don't let the past hold you back, you're missing the good stuff.
Life's short. If you don't look around once in a while you might miss it.
A best friend is like a four leaf clover, hard to find and lucky to have.
Some people make the world special just by being in it.
Best friends are the siblings God forgot to give us.
When it hurts to look back, and you're scared to look ahead, you can
look beside you and your best friend will be there.
True friendship never ends.
Friends are forever.
Good friends are like stars....
You don't always see them, but you know they are always there.
Don't frown. You never know who is falling in love with your smile.
What do you do when the only person who can make you stop crying is the person who made you cry?
Nobody is perfect until you fall in love with them.
Everything is okay in the end. If it's not okay, then it's not the end.
Most people walk in and out of you life, But only friends leave footprints in your heart.

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A,maal

Tuesday, November 07, 2000 - 01:50 pm
love hmmmmmmmmm? the digger of the heart, the soul of the sun , and the kiss of the ross. whoa!! poetic, i didn't know i had that in me.lol anyhow sis, to be honest with you , i myself have never been serious about anyone, and when i do i seem to always get my heartbroken. In your case i guess it would be, i mean if the brotha is crazy about you as you are about him. But why do people always talk about "love" , when they themselves don't know the meaning of it???? sis ask yourself
some questions, because to love someone can change your whole entire life, especially if the person feels the same way. Don't rush it , let nature take it's courses, let the heart run free, because only your heart will tell you the truth.

take-care::)

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A.J.

Wednesday, November 08, 2000 - 12:24 am
Asalaamu Calaykum

WAW clap clap
Ayaanick u deserve a medal I have never read a poem as touchy as that, man that waz great sis don't loose that touch plzzzz coz we need sistah's like u to know what it is like so that u can explain it to ur brothaz who want to be the opposite... Ayaanick keep it up sis I like it...

Ibtisaam sis I couldn't say nothing but face the fact from what u wrote I would say that is true love, I mean something that comes between ur education is dangerious lol... Read that poem again that ayaanick wrote and think is it worth holding back, I would say "DO SOMETHING WHILE U CAN IBTISAAM" nothing is worse than loosing loved ones Goodluck ibtisaam

Peace N Love

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ZaMzAm

Monday, December 04, 2000 - 11:54 am
TO IBTISAAM
i myself either love/have a crush on my ex-boyfriend, even though we still talk i gues from his side its all about friendship but as u know already i cant seem to let go no matter how he feels about me. maybe one day i will find another who could fel the same way about me. basically what i am trying to say here is try to move on with your live if the other person don't feel the same way cuz believe me sister its a waste of time. what you can do is if he don't feel the same then think of his bad side that way you can get over him. I really thought i was alone in the situation but i am glad i have my somalian brothers to share this with me. anyway i really think that we sisters should keep in touch its like one of you said there is nothing better than a friend beside you cu whenever you look beside you, you know thry are always there to give a shoulder to cryon.
this is my email address
Babyelmi2000@hotmail.com
luv zamzam(london)

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Amaal

Tuesday, December 05, 2000 - 06:54 am
Well every 1 said what I was about to say! All I have to say is LOVE IS A MERRY GO-ROUND, YOU NEVER STOP SPINING AROUND WITH HIM AND WHILE HE IS THERE WITH U, U DON'T WANT TO LEAVE THE MERRY GO ROUND! lOVE IS LIVE LIKE BIGBROTHER SAID. But love is when u can't a natural thing and I advice u to talk to him. If he hasn't said it yet? SIS IS HE REALLY A SOMALI!!!JUST CURIOUS BECAUSE MOST OF THE SOMALI BROTHERS I MET, FIRST WORD THEY MENTION IS "JACEYL" IN EVERY SENTENCES!!! Anyways god luck sis and tell him how u feel, he might be scared and it is okay to say it first. Nothing is wrong with a girl making a move!!!
anyways just wanted to help..
Much love
Amaal

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Anonymous

Tuesday, December 05, 2000 - 08:22 am
There is this guy I like but I don't know if he likes me too. Everytime I look at him I see him looking at me too. Do you guys think he likes me or does he just have a staring problem.

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Drifter

Tuesday, December 05, 2000 - 08:50 am
To: anony

What did u have for lunch? u might have a spinach stuck in between your teeth!!!:)

To Muna;
I couldn't agree with u more/ I enjoyed reading your Post/ next time make it a little shorter.

ONE LOVE

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