     Anonymous | Tuesday, November 14, 2000 - 01:02 am
hi
i am 20 years old and i have justed stated universty in september studing accounting/finance and i love it as it is what i wanted to do all my life and i a part time job as a asistant manager in a McDonalds restaurant. so money is not a problem at the momment. but the problem is i have beening seening this guy for 2 years he just finished universty and got a nice job with big salary. he wants us to get married and for me to drop out of universty and give up my job he says he will take care of me.
i love this guy very much but i dont want to leave universty.
samria |
| nonbeliever | Tuesday, November 14, 2000 - 02:37 am
Samiira Beenta waa xaaraan.
Marka sheekada wey gurux badan tahay, laakiin ilaahey ha kaa cafiyo. 2 be honest I don't belief you at all, I also have problem believing people in the net.
Good luck |
| LAMIA | Tuesday, November 14, 2000 - 04:57 am
samiira
here is ma advice sista i know that you love this guy but do u think u will love him forever or if you both will be together forever. He might die or you might saperate. No one will live forever your aducation is the only thing will stay wid ya forever. So don't drop out of school because of some guy.
peace |
| Anonymous | Thursday, November 30, 2000 - 01:11 pm
wish i was u!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
| ilkuuuu | Thursday, November 30, 2000 - 02:35 pm
If money isn;t problem then go for your studies becouse u will find another guy like me who will be starting uni this year so when we finish togher we may met or will find a better person with love and caring . In life money isn;t important lllllllllooooooooooooveeeeeeee
is babby
i llllllooooooveeeee as sister
make decision |
| CHARLIES ANGELS | Thursday, December 07, 2000 - 05:23 am
THIS IS TO NONBELIEVER
GIRL YOU ARE A HANDICAPED IF YOU DON'T BELIEVE THE STORY WHY BOTHER REPLYING
YOU STUPID HOPELESS BITCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
| Musse | Thursday, December 07, 2000 - 07:34 am
Hey sis. samiira or Samria!
First off all SALAAM CALAYKUM WARAXMATULAHI WABARKATUHU, and Ramadan Kariim to all of you. And I hope you all taking advantage of this month. Sis I would like to share my opinion with you and what I think is right, it is up to you to take it or leave it, and I am sure you know that there is no perfect person on this earth. All I am trying to say is just an opinion.
Let me start with where you work "McDonald" I do not want to say it is nice job or bad, but I know working McDonald as a Muslim person is haraam "forbidden" coz they serve pork or "khanziir" which is haraam. I know you are bright sis and have intellegency, knowledge and I know you can do better than that and if you live close to where I live which is DC, VA, MD area I will help you as much as I can to find a better job. I will do whatever it takes to help a Muslim bro/sis. that is your job and what i had to say about it.
second you've mentioned you have been seeing this guy for about 2yrs, Does this mean you guys were seeing the way non Muslim ppl see each other or it was just relationship based on our religion. If you guys were seeing like gaalo or non believers which I hope not, than you are indeep trouble and you need to come back to allah and ask forgiveness specially in this month, coz that is one of the reasons for ramadan.
Third: which is to answer your question: I would suggest that you talk to him and ask him what is reason behind all of these Why would he wants you to sit around and do nothing when you can invest your time something that will help you and him in the future. I don't see any reason why. I would understand if he says baby let us get married, don't work but finish your university, I will take care of you. Tell him it is possible that there will be a day that he is not around for whatever reason, who will take care of you. it also possible that there will a day that he needs your help financially how are you going to take care of him if that day comes when you don't have any higher education or experience. I am sure he will understand if you talk to him.
I hope you find my advice helpful, at least that what I 've intentioned to do, if what i said offended you, I opplogize and say I am sorry, all I have is love for you and all of my ppl,
WA SALAAM CALAYKUM WARAXMATULAHI WABARKATUHU. |
