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Thursday, November 23, 2000 - 04:32 pm Asalama alaykum waraxmatulahi wabarakatuhu. To: all intellectual sisters and brothers From: your brother in islam I have a problem when it comes finding the right person(my soulmate). I dont have hard time meeting girls, but I have problem when it comes finding the right person. Everything starts quite good in the beginings, but things get scrued up when I tell them everything about me. in other wards,I tell them nothing but the truth cus I dont believe the old somali sayings"naag been baa lagu soo xera galiya, runa waa lagu dhaqaa" as that is prohibited in Islam. I have been also accused for beeing sweet,kindhearted, guy. so please if you guys have any suggestions let me know thank you very much yours, Khayr
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Friday, November 24, 2000 - 02:39 am khayr i think the problem is not the fact that u tell women the truth, but what that truth actually IS. I mean (4 example) if you're telling ppl about how u have 3 wives and are on the search for your 4th naturally, they would back away. So i think you should pay more attention 2 why they're leaving instead of the fact that they ARE leaving, na'mean? i hope this has been more helpful then confusing lots o luv
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Friday, November 24, 2000 - 06:00 am ASALAMU ALAYKUM I THING TELLING TRUTH IS THE BEST THING TO DO WHICH U DID. DONT GET DISCOURAGE BECAUSE ALLAH HELPS THE TRUTH TELLERS AND SOON OR RALATER HE WILL REWARD U OR PERHAPS ALL OF THOSE WHO ABENDONED U WHERE NOT "KHAYR" FOR U SO MAYBE ALLAH IS PRESERVING THE RIGHT ONE FOR U! I HOPE THIS HELPS BRO. WASALAMU ALEYKUM
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Friday, November 24, 2000 - 10:53 am thanx yasmin, I really appreciate your advise. I know that my"calaf" is still to come and maybe Allah is preserving the best for me, but we are human beings. We are sometimes droven by lack of patience. anyways thanks for the great advise if you have anymore advise email me:seek2end@mailcity.com thanks again
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Saturday, November 25, 2000 - 04:53 am Salaam ppl mio....y would a man want to marry 4 wives? Firstly as i am a woman, i can only assume marrying 4 women is a demanding as well as time consuming job...could u really divide your time between each wife equally? When buying one thing for one buy it for the rest? Dear KHAYR I think that u have yet to find your soul mate, and all you need is patience...haven't you heard "all good things come to those who wait?" All I got to say is do not stop looking for her dear bro, give it more time and when you finally find her, you'll see she was worth all the waiting and then more. Yours truly io.
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Sunday, November 26, 2000 - 07:04 am oi: i am also a woman and that was simply an example of why women would back away from u. it wasnt like i was condoning it or nothing so....chill!!! the whole "he dont need 4 wives" thing was not necessary, ok?
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Sunday, November 26, 2000 - 11:10 am khayr,i think u just seeking an attention, i think what so ever you had no one in ur life so far and u r totally a loser
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Monday, November 27, 2000 - 07:31 am WELL.........first of all let me say something to ya....there aint nuttin better than a brotha who tells da truth to get what he wants...i mean yeah.you can lie but where is that gona take you...if you lie to get what you want then it will come back to ya at the end...have you ever heard of the saying"what goes around ,always comes around"..so despite the fact that liying is wrong. but think about the fact that you may hurt some body wit that lying of yours..ok..just something to consider in the future.........and by way there aint nuttin wrong with a guy that is sweet and sincere and that is what most women look for...aight..so dont change yo wayz hun......4 no one........aight.. much love to ya FOXY
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