     Anonymous | Sunday, November 26, 2000 - 10:39 am
i went out with this a somalian guy this time last year, i have dump him cuz he waz cheating on me.since the last few months i started liking him again, but we r good friends now. WHAT SHALL I DO PLS HELP ME. |
| SomalianG | Monday, November 27, 2000 - 03:36 am
girl anonymous...
don't even think about it...
ones a cheater always a cheater...
cause he will think i have done it ones and she is back why not twice you know what i mean..?
but it's ofcourse your call...
do what you think it's best sistah..
much respect |
| FOXY GIRL | Tuesday, November 28, 2000 - 07:17 am
ONONYMOUS GIRL..IM TALKING TO YOU AS A WOMAN TO WOMAN........SO I DO AGREE WITH WHAT SOMALIANG SAID THERE...."ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER".SO DONT EVEN GO THERE GIRL..CUZZ IF HE DID YOU WRONG ONCE HE WONT HESETATE TO DO IT TO YOU TWICE SO RETHINK 'BOUT THAT WHOLE GETING BACK WITH HIM IDEA..OK......AND ONATHER THING.I MEAN YEAH..IF YOU LIKED THE GUY ONCE.THERE WAS A REASON WHY YOU LIKED HIM B4 RIGHT SO THERE AINT NUTTIN WRONG WITH LIKING HIM AGAIN...BUT JUST BECAREFULL WITH GETTING BACK WITH HIM BECAUSE EVEN THOUGH YOU CANT CONTROL ABOUT THE WAY YOU FEEL ABOUT SOMEBODY NO MATTER WHAT THEY HAD DONE TO YOU IN THE PAST BUT YOU CAN CONTROL WHO YOU GET WITH. SO TRY TO MAKE SURE THAT THEY DONT DO IT TO YOU AGAIN...... AND THE ONLY WAY IS TO OVAID GETTING BACK WITH THAT PERSON AGAIN...CUZZ
YOU CANT CHANGE A PERSON WIHT A JUST A SWING OF THE WAND SO BECAREFULL EVEN THO ITS TOTALLY UP TO YOU.....
PEACE N MUCH LOVE
FOXY GIRL |
| hassan | Tuesday, November 28, 2000 - 01:30 pm
oh my sister i don't think you need or love. the thing is that you kind of have guilty may be, you think? (do go back) he will do the same thing as the sisters told you.
anyway try to think about the negative things about him so, you stop loving the him. this is all the advice i have for, |
| WuDog | Wednesday, November 29, 2000 - 12:21 am
If u still like him and u want get back to him,
first u need to know what went wrong so u can fix it...U know he did it for reason!. Or He wasn't ready to go the distance(relationship) wit ya!
Ironically, Men NeeD SpaCe. |
| Bigbrother | Thursday, November 30, 2000 - 08:41 am
I agree with WuDog. u have to consider wath went wrong for the first time. if it's simple thing, then do go back bay any means.
Anyway only you can fix da thing. And If u believe he is a big time cheater, then change the flaver. there are too many fish in the see girl. I am one, a tuna FISH!!!
Take care.
Bb. |
| Amaal | Thursday, November 30, 2000 - 09:03 am
Hey girl, I advice you to talk to him if you decided to go back. It is true what SomalianG said, once a cheater always a cheater, but one can change over night when you make them see the truth even though it hurts. I had a similar situation sister, but the ironic thing was I still like him and he told me he felt the same way, and the only thing that got me to go back with him is I wanted to give him another chance because everyone needs more than one chance. If he played you, talk to him how it felt because i showed him how it felt by doing the same thing as he did. I am now taking things slowly and now he is very changed man, after i thought him a lesson, by trying what he did. while he was there. Now that we are even, we can move on but I don't want you to do the same thing hun, I want you to accept that man will always be man and females would always be females and every one is not perfect, mistakes happen and we intend to fix it. I wish you all the luck and follow your heart sis and whatever you do "DON'T MAKE HIM FEEL GUILTY BY SAYING THINGS TO HIM" BUT WHAT CAN YOU do is FORGIVE HIM an move on because his caution is probably is killing him and if you decided to go back, make sure he knows why you went back with him..I hope I helped you sis,..
take care and good luck!!
Amaal |
| KasaNova:UK | Thursday, November 30, 2000 - 09:16 am
Are u serious about this guy?????? How serious is he about u?????? Is he willing to change his ways???? that's the questions u outh to be asking ur self b4 making any decision whether u should consider getting back with him or not..... After all he's only human and we all make mistakes. He made a huge MISTAKE by cheating on U
My advice to u is if u have strong feelings for this guy then my suggestion to u is let him know how feel about him!!!!!! If he feels the same way towards u then its worth giving it one more go don't u think so?????? However things won't be the same as last time let me tell u that. Like they say it takes 2 to tango so if u both work 2gether I'm sure everything will be fine!!!!
Truly Urz MrEaztEnder |
| Shaki | Thursday, November 30, 2000 - 09:35 am
Can't b-leave all the PLAY-A-HATERS on this site!!!
One thing is true,,, where ever ur heart takes you,,, No one can stop. Barely you can do anything bout dat.. "THE CHEMISTRY OF LOVE"
I'd say give the brotha a chance and the heart a trip to **L*** land!
More importantly I'm very proud of the topic posted/ hey I LUv My sistas only the C*** once! LOL C-ya |
| Anonymous | Friday, December 08, 2000 - 07:07 am
TO ANON-- DON'T HOLD WHAT IS IN YOUR HEART--IF YOU WANT THE DUDE--DO YOUR THINK---TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HIME--END OF STORY. |
