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Ooooohhh....this...is..soooo...hard what can i do?

SomaliNet Forum (Archive): Ila Qosol - Jokes: Archive (Before Dec. 16, 2000): Ooooohhh....this...is..soooo...hard what can i do?
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Hanna

Sunday, December 03, 2000 - 06:51 pm
Hey my somali ppl...how yall..doing?
first of all...thankx soo much for such a nice page...its really useful.

look...i know ...this is the "homour" page and not the "dilemma" page...but i really need..help...so please...let me see what yall can do.
aight...the thing is...i have this..beautiful..bestfriend...she is the nicest and...most..wonderful person in this world.
we have been...besfriends..since...kinder garden,and i love her with all my heart.(we r like far and faraanti..)..but i feel...like...things have changed...this last year..and..my girl..is..totally a different person.i feel like i dont know her anymore....i mean...since we turned 18...she start fooling around..and..sleeping with every guy she dates....this really tears my heart apart..we didnt use to have...big problems..before but now as we got older ...things r soo hard....we have totally different...thoughts...i dont know why suddenly she has changed...we used..to..be against..sex before marriage..but now...she thinks...im..too.."worried" when i tell her day and night... to stop...and..that ..ALLAH will be mad at her..,and that she should..worry about..all..those..diseases.(we allways argue about that)i allso..tell her that...she should ask..HIM(ALLAH) for forgivness..coz..ALLAH is the most..merciful...he allllways...forgives.
personally....im...100%islam...and..ofcourse i follow whatever the Quran says...(or atleast i try to).
and i wishhh she could do the same ...and..be..the girl..i used to know.
well..to make a long story short...i love herr...soooo..much..more than anything..we.. have...been threw..everything ..and i cant just let..her...do this..and ruin her life infront of me...and i cant ignore her..coz...like..i said..i love..her and..want to help..her..rather than..loose..our precious friendship..and would do whateverrr it takes.so..thats why...im..seeking help..from u guys..where ever u may be.
please...yall..have to know..how hard it is..to..watch..your beloved..one ruin..his/her..life..and...i swear i dont sleep..at night...im allways thinking about her and...what to do to make her....stop..having sex.
i love her too...much to let her go.
so i hope there is an...advice out there...or any suggestions....im..open for everything.

well...i guess...thats..all i have to say..hope to get answers..before..its too..late.
love u all..my somali ppl..i really do...happy
ramadan

remember...stay real ..stay ..muslim..and stay somali.

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hot_dawg_from _cali

Monday, December 04, 2000 - 09:42 am
U SOUND LIKE A VERY GOOD FRIEND SISSTA.

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broking-heart

Tuesday, December 05, 2000 - 04:23 am
hana sis i got to say one thing to you, ppl change and there is nothing you can do about. hear this story i was once in love with this pretty girl, we been together for three years, we were like romoe & juliet i never thought i'll stop loving her. so the moment is here when ppl change, i had to come to europe so i did, after a year i was a change men i forget about her just like that and don't ever say that wasn't love coz i loved more than my life.

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FOXY GIRL

Thursday, December 07, 2000 - 07:12 am
HANA......
look girl, you seem like a really good friend and what people need to realize is that friends are the most important people in yo life,besides yo famaly I mean.and you can never have too many friends.Especaily in yo case, cuzz it seems like you really care about yo friend and want the best for her, and it's like broken heart said over there that people change and there is nothing you can do about that but people can also change back to themself if they really wanted to and you're friend is in postition where she feels like she can do what ever she wanted to do, but make her really understand that sex is not the way to go, if she is gona keep doing this,tell her that by having sex with every guy that she dates,thats gona destroy her rupatation and no body wants thier rupatation ruined. and tell her that she can get preganant and also she can catch deseases like you said before. Make her understand about the outcomes that she can be faced with and how this can have a big impact on her life,religion wise and self respect wise.....plus as we go on with life,there are always going to be some obstacles that we all have to deal with, and this is one of them. so just even tho you cant change a person,you can always talk to them and soon or later it wil dawn on them that what they were doing was wrong and they should be happy that they have people who care for them and that might help........just stand by her side......thats all.....

FOXY GIRL

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