     LOVE GIRL | Sunday, January 28, 2001 - 01:02 am
HI EVERY BODY
I AM IN LOVE WITH A MAN AND HE SAYS THAT HE IS IN LOVE WITH ME TOO THE PROBLEM IS I THINK I AM DOING SOMETHING WRONG, CAUSE HE USED TO HAVE A GIRL FRIEND THAT HE WAS MADLY IN LOVE WITH. THEY BROKE UP BECAUSE SHE STARTED DRINKING DOING HER SELF WRONG.
ANY WAY EVEN THOUGH HE TELLS ME THAT HE LOVE ME ALL THE TIME AND THAT HE GOING TO MARRY ME, BUT I THINK HE STILL HAS A FEELING FOR HER CAUSE HE STILL TAKS ABOUT HER AND THE ONLY REASON HE WANTS TO MARRY ME IS TO MAKE HIS FAMILY HAPPY BECAUSE HIS FAMILY DID NOT LIKE GIRL BUT THEY LIKE ME
SO DO YOU THINK HE JUST WANT TO BE WITH ME AND MARRY ME TO MAKE HIS FAMILY HAPPY.
I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO AND I AM IN LOVE WITH HIM DEEPLY BUT I WANT HIM TO BE HAPPY.
PLEASE I NEED YOU ADVICE
THANKS |
| Anonymous | Sunday, January 28, 2001 - 08:38 am
gal'
did you see your GP, before this post?
plz do, it will help |
| ayaanick | Sunday, January 28, 2001 - 01:17 pm
To Love Girl Everything is going to allright)
This coming from your sis "Ayaanick", it seems like to me that you are in a very confusing relationship. First and for most what you need to do is talk to your "current boyfriend, about how he really feels about you. If you think he is just going to marry you just to make his family happy, then I think you ought to think about this twice.
Marriage is for life, it is not something that you just do for sake of it. Rememer that you have live with this person for the rest of your life. I would say Think really hard about this. If his ex-girl is still in the picture, then you might as well exit before it is too late. Ask him where you stand in his life. There should be no joking around, about an issue like this. I know that it is not easy when your mind tells something, and your heart desires the opposite, so please I would advise to really think about this deeply. Don't get your emotions tengaled up.
Take time off to yourself, to search for that little "vioce", that is always right. Be very careful. Love is a beautiful thing, but it has it's dark side to it as well. And you what sometimes sister Love is not enough,,,you need more then. You need reality to hit you on the face, you need some air fresh, motivation...something other then "Love to keep yourself going!!!!!!!
You only know what is best for you! Please I advise to think about this before you decide to do something that you may regret for the rest of your life!!
Ps>let me know how it goes please! If you need any more advise please don't hessitate to ask!
your sis
ayaanick |
| jabril | Sunday, January 28, 2001 - 02:56 pm
okey my advice is wat i think, my own opinoin so sis am tell da truth coz dad is wat u need, here we go, u are madely in love wit dis man, u'll do anything 4 him N he says he is in love wit u tooo, but u think he is not am i right so far??? u think the only reason he is marrying u is because to make his family happy, well now lets stop here for a minute, ppl get married to make each others happy not to make their family happy but maybe a bit about da family, da big point of getting married is u being happy n he is being happy am i right so far???? his family likes you n he wants to make his family happy my marrying u, sis can't u see wat is happening here, u are walking in to a trap, da guy doesn't love you, he is using you, sis if wat u said is true then walk away now while u can please do dad i dont like to see somali queen gets hurt, there are uncountable men out there who are sweety, caring n loving.
well dad is all i can say to you, i am 19 years old, never been married N don't know nothing about marriege, but wat u said made me come here n tell wat i think.
wish you all da luck in da future, i hope every thing works out 4 u sistah N da aslaamu caleekum |
| love girl | Sunday, January 28, 2001 - 08:05 pm
This is to Ayaanick and Jabril
I really appreciate for your advice thank you very much, you don't know how much it means to me.
The thing that is making me week is that I am in love with him and I am scared of loosing him also I want him to be happy with me not with someone else. I want him to feel like he can tell me about anything in the world cause after all I am going to be his wife and I want to be his best friend.
The problem is he doesn't feel much happy with me even though if he tells me that he loves me
I just want to know if you guys think that he is still in love with his ex girl
Because I think if he had a chance of getting her back to the way she was(make her stop drinking) I would not stand a chance.
I am getting sick and tried of feeling like I am putting him in Jail he doesn't feel free. |
| Anonymous | Sunday, January 28, 2001 - 09:44 pm
The Xgirl start drinking! He must let her sip his drink (though her how to get high). Once men leaves a woman for another women, chances are 60% he will get back to the previous relationship for sex (cheating). |
| jabril | Monday, January 29, 2001 - 01:57 am
now u wana know if he still loves his ex g friend, well lets see now, uum he aaa talks about his ex every time, dad shows u he still have feelings 4 her, u know wat is going on wit ur boy friend, u can see if he still have feelings 4 her, u know every thing so sistah u know wat to do
take care now |
| spancky | Monday, February 05, 2001 - 09:55 am
love gurl my advice is that u should fu*k him and leave becuase he dodn't love you he loves the other bitch so u should get a life than loving some other dude that doesn't love u and when both of you get marred he would stop loving u and go to the other bitch he loved before he meet u that's my advice take it or leave it.
p n l |
| Anonymous | Wednesday, February 07, 2001 - 11:23 pm
HI LOVEGIRL
IT SEEMS TO ME YOUR MAN STIL LOVES HIS EX.SISTHRER IF YOU LOVE HIM AND WANT HIM TO BE HAPPY YOU HAVE TO LET HIM GO.LOVE IS A 2 WAY HIGHWAY.I DON´T THINK HES THE RIGHT ONE 4 U.SO MY ADVICE 2 U IS TO LEAVE HIM.YOU WILL FIND UR SOUL MATE SOME DAY SO KEEP ON LOOKING.
TAKE CARE |
| 112 | Thursday, February 08, 2001 - 09:12 am
Love girl listen listen listen ....
It seems 2 me dat you know the problem but U dont wana to discuss it 'couse you dont wana make yourself happy but his stupid ass, girl friend I do understand you love the nigga but your life worth more than his aint dat right? so this is my advise to U leave dat nigga a lone and find for yourseld a man " I could be one " who is ganna came home just U . yeah one more thing •••• the marriage you aint ready for the from what understand your question YOU DO need a time alone
B4 marriage write me back thanks |
| yasmina | Thursday, February 15, 2001 - 07:36 am
well u know this man more than we do. If u can't figure out he still wants his ex u never will.There are plenty fish in to the sea please dont let no man marry u because of his family. Believe me the family may like u now but once u marry is different, they will became ur worst enemies, especally sister-inlaws &mother-inlaw please don't get me wrong there good sister/ mother inlows but the chance are one in million. To make a long story short pls keep ur self esteen high if u don't no man will. I think time will tell u everything but in the meantime DO NOT PUT ALL OF UR HOPES AND WISHES ON THIS MAN WHO DOEST'N DESERVE U.
well may Allah guide u in to the right path.
peace & love to u sister
yasmina. |
