     Dark-as-The-niGHT | Wednesday, February 28, 2001 - 02:41 am
This is not to insult anyone in particular and is only my opinion.
Somali girls find themselves in a dilemma when it comes to dating. Supposedly all of them want a boyfriend to go to cinema with, hold hands, shop, and introduce to close friends as “My man”.
Some girls even fight over their “man”, yet sex is a no go area why?
“Its haram walal” is the typical answer, but is kissing or going to clubs and raves halal?
Girls don’t seem to understand that, when a guy is walking, watching a movie, shopping, talking face to face or on the phone to her, most of the time he is thinking about sex.
“Why did he go out with me”? The answer to this is yes “he wants a relationship, which includes sex”.
On deciding on a girl most guys go for the nice, or fly, or buff girls. Brains matter but the body matters even more.
“He will think I am a slut”
That’s just assuming, if a guy is willing to put an effort in a relationship its not likely that he will throw everything away because he got what he wanted.
The opposite might happen, which is the guy might appreciate the girl even more and thus cement his relationship with her.
Most guys don’t think they are going to end up with a virgin especially in this day and age.
In concluding girls give the brothers a break, we are not all FARAX’s (Londoners will understand what I mean), not all of us want to be gangsters and not all of us want to be taken for a ride.
Make your mind up sisters, and remember it is not the guys fault it takes two to tango…………..
No insults please……..Yes I am speaking from experience……… |
| RuffRyder | Wednesday, February 28, 2001 - 02:49 am
LOL.....MAN YOU ARE SO RIGHT, THESE GIRLS DONT KNOW WHAT THEY WANT....
MAAAAN U AINT NEVER GETTING ME SPENDING MONY WITHOUT GETTING IT.......
1 LOVE..... |
| Ali | Wednesday, February 28, 2001 - 02:52 am
YO.I agree on many points but not all girls are the same. People i would remind you that we are muslims.So marige before sex.But it was good as there were no dissing. |
| RAKIA | Wednesday, February 28, 2001 - 03:05 am
undoubtfully very well said, but hey u got to underastand that it take's a little or shall i be more spicific and say,it takes mauch longer to get a lubricant thru somali girl's than any other girl's(speaking from my experiance point of view)if u know where i am coming from(u shouln't have any difficultie's clocking on what i am trying to get across, unless u r a "FAARAX", that is).
p.s, where about in london u @..... |
| Anonymous | Wednesday, February 28, 2001 - 03:43 am
Hey. I agree with you.. look somali girls don't know what they want.. they play too much games, that why you get boyz saying forget this, i'll find a simple white girl.. atleast they don't play games with you. i've only ever met one somali girl that i got one really well with. so girls don't judge a book by it's cover 'n' give somali men a change!! |
| me, myself, & I | Wednesday, February 28, 2001 - 05:00 am
hey come on now give us a break not all of us jump in to bed with every guy we hang out with. look you say it takes two to tango but what is going to happen to the girls..... come you know what happes when a guy and a girl ....
hey iam one of those V and proud of it. so all somali girls aren't alike. |
| Amoore20 | Wednesday, February 28, 2001 - 05:15 am
Asalaamu calaykum
Guyz I wouldn't agree with ya more, I mean what can I say it is all well said and presented...I wanna add that I'm also a Londoner too and NOT a Farax. U know I have tried to forget somali girls u know just close their book and just open a simple brand new page with an easy going person as u want it white, black, asian, etc... as long as it is ur taste, ur kinda girl n'mean...
I have also realised one thing with someli girls <especially Xalimoz or Cambaroz whatever>They think they clever buy asking u to pay for everything and also take them to shopping, OK thaz cool let's spend but it is gotta pay off n'mean as R.Kelly said new album "Don't say No"
""I have been doing this things for u now what u gonna do for me I ain't trying to spend no cash if u ain't spending that azz, Wanna ride all in my truck but u don't wanna let me Dooooo""
I wouldn't say it in any other way, girls u wanna get what u want give us what we want and u will get what u want as long as u ain't no dum going for the wrong type...
As u all mentioned they all not the same I agreewell over 100%, but hey we ain't da same either as my brotha said -Dark as the Night- Not all of us want to be Gansters and not all of us wanna be taken for a ride...
U Ladyzzz just reading it and agreeing but can't face us or even say how ya all feel about this situation...
thaz all I gotta say 4now
Peace and Love |
| DARKas-the-NIGHT | Wednesday, February 28, 2001 - 01:06 pm
In respons to the replays,
To the guys, need I say more you put my point across. I would like to add that I am not saying that the girls should jump into bed with every guy, on the conterary I am just against this hypocracy of only remembering the religion when you are alone with a Somali guy.
To RAKIYA,
Dear sis, you have lost me totaly, I was not talking about the sexual method. That should be kept private and out of public domain.
Where I live in London? come on girl I need some more information about you before I can disclouse any such details. Trust me I aint no FARAX |
| London sister | Wednesday, February 28, 2001 - 01:20 pm
You know what Amoore20 u said one thing in ur message which I can actually credit u for. Which is that u stick with white, black and asian girls to do ur dirty with. That may sound harsh to non- somalis but as far as I'm concerned ur doing us a favor. As long as ur not ruining a fellow muslim sister's life and taking her virginity and self-respect then screw as many non-muslims as u like.Not all somali girls are stupid enough to sleep around with any fool that shows them some interest. Sex should only come once ur in a "halal" relationship. To all u horny little boys that means marriage. Now b4 all u fools start pretending to be western and expecting those kind of priviligies why dont u remember what happens after u die and the fact that u have to answer for ur actions when the day of judgement comes!!!!
Open ur eyes and relise that u need to respect ur sisters and treat them as u'd want ur own sisters treated. For what u do to one girl someone else could be doing to ur own sister!!!
I hope not all muslim brother think like u guys!!!
Peace brothers and sisters. |
| ayaanick | Wednesday, February 28, 2001 - 01:38 pm
okay ayaanick to the rescure:
Where are your morals people!
Let me ask you guys this? If a girl say sleeps with ya, do you know all the things that can go wrong? Unwanted pragnacies, diseases, and most of all hell. So it is okay for a Somalain guy to sleep around, and hey he is just a man right? But I can bet you that not a single Somalian guy would go after a girl(who has been around, just because we are meant to beleive that she is hoe, a disgrace to our culuture). I don't think sex is a big thing, and the reason many girls don't understand why guys are so in hurry to get them in bed is because they never had sex before(speaking of expreince)!!, How can you miss something you never had? If you are man enough you would step up to the blate, and get married, but on the other hand, if you just want to statisfy your twenty second urge then I suggest you go for whatever kind(not Somalis), don't forget that Allah is everywhere. You guys I am sure are grown man, and should be ashamed of yourselves. I don't care where we live in the world, we are still muslims, and that should mean a lot. Sex is meant for the reproduction human kind, and should be done in a halaal way(meaning marriage only).
I understand that we are in a society which promotes a lot of pressure to have sex, but that doesn't mean you have to force that idea upon the young girls who don't know any better. One more question how dare you compare lyrics from R-kelly to how you should treat your own kind. Excuse me, he is getting paid to say those things, and I frankly don't think(you have that type of money or fame) nor do we have the same religion or culture. He is talking about his hood rats, while we are the queens(gabdhaha boqalaalka geel laga bixiyo, dagaalada loogalay? of Africa. We deserve patience, a little understand, and open minded brothers. I am sure you all want to end up with a girl who has it all, but are willing to mess around with someone's daughter mean while. Think about this, Allah gave you all brains, and you should use it instead of your penises?? Sorry I had to go there. I am really mad, and I can't seem to stop!! ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!
The part about the money(doqoni ushay keen sataa dushayda lagu tumaa),
Ayaanick??? |
| Amina | Wednesday, February 28, 2001 - 03:24 pm
Ayaaaaaaanick damn girl, i couldn't put it better.
Can just ask how old da brothers here are????
Brothers i know wat your on... but hey just imagin YOUR lil sis was in the same situation wld You Be giving them same advice???? Honestly, brothers really have this confusion as to how things should be with their gal.
Speaking from experince, i see that brothers want a full -on realtionship wit their girlfriends but are soo quick to discourage their own sisters or the girls their care about from giving themselfs to a man_ don't even go in the job of denying it aight_ waa laidin ku yaqaan.
I think that ya'll should be respecting your somali sisters even if they seem to be lacking in the self respect department... remeber sex b4 marrieg is xaraaam and the consequences are great--- is any girl no matter how pretty, sexy or watevah worth going to hell ovah.. is five minutes of worth years of misery...is a quick shag worth Aids etc???
And if a girl is all that, shouldn't she be worth every second of the wait??? It ain't all about sex and you can have an beautifull realtionship wit some1 without getting down n dirty na mean.. good relationships are based on quality stuff i.e friendship, understanding etc.
About money, in this day and age brothers wit all these "independent" women arround ya'll need to put ur wallets away n tell the girl 2 pay (if ya'll have a problem wit that). Theres no point in running 2 somalinet n complaining.
Guys lyk yous waan ka didaaaa 4real- Ur post just screams playa, playa, playa Or maybe your just going through puperty (i heard boys get sex crazed) in any case may Allah Guide Ya.
Peace, Love and Happiness 4 ya |
| badboykiller | Thursday, March 01, 2001 - 12:03 am
look all of u look sex is not big thing if u know how to not make our sis pragance. and love is all about go out with the girl go to the cinema with them go to the shop with them and have sex that all about love. |
| Platinum Player | Thursday, March 01, 2001 - 12:42 am
When the Sex Department is Charged I only think about the Moment. But After I got OFF I think about .....Damn! I should Not had done it....Look the Sin I'm in...Sure is Hot in Hell....It's too late and I did not realized had committed a Sin but I enjoyed......It's a Man Nature and Thangggggggg!!!! |
| Juxa | Thursday, March 01, 2001 - 03:47 am
This was the most interesting discussion i have ever read in this page. i have one thing to add keep discussing because that is the only way to solve any problem unlike what is happening in our country. |
| malik | Thursday, March 01, 2001 - 04:45 am
please stand up please stand up for ayaanick wow
wow wow wow we're from west london and we're very impres by your outstandidng perfomance a memoroable speech. once again we proud of you (hooyadaa magablamin)lol.lol.lol wooooooooooow
wishing you all the the best from : malik,baylax,outlow anwar and fartuun. |
| outlawrider | Thursday, March 01, 2001 - 06:10 am
i knew it , i fucking knew it, all u somalian sloshers talking •••• and want to be seen as nice girls but u know what the other night at south harrow station must've been at around 1-1.30 in the morning when i got of my car (GTE ASTRA 16 VALVE) when i saw a girl on her fucking knees giving shiners to a black bre at a bus stop, went in da shop came out, then there was a somalian girl standing front of me while her face was covered with cum shot . u know that this is da girl that my best friend of 7 years wanted to mary because she used 2 fill his head with bullshit. then she asked me to give her a lift and she offered me shiners, the there was the moment i will never forget, my blood reached 100%, if there was no police station near me i would've killed her 4 reeeeeeeaaaaaaaaal.
it wouldn't be fair 2 say all u somalian grls r da same but 90% of u go secretly with jamaicans, nigerians, ghanians, cameroon, 4 show. i am only 21 and in 3 to 4 years when i am ready 2 settle down i am going back home where i will get much nicer, smarter, experienced about life with iman, virgin somalian girls with no makeup, with no huuro. talk back if u got some 2 say, talk 2 me, talk 2 me. bbyyyyyyyyyyyyyyeeeeeeeee... |
| SOUTHALL QUEENS | Thursday, March 01, 2001 - 06:10 am
BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM!!
BIG UP 2 LONDON LADY,AMINA AND AYAANICK Y'ALL DA BOMB NUFF RESPECTS 2 U SISTAS GOT NOTHIN BUT LOVE AND RESPECT 4 YA HOLD DAT •••• UP MAN 4REAL
KEEP REPRESENTING 1 LOVE |
| amina | Thursday, March 01, 2001 - 06:13 am
this is how they go
southall galls with da stinking pussy, shut up and move back 2 india |
| amina | Thursday, March 01, 2001 - 06:13 am
this is how they go
southall galls with da stinking pussy, shut up and move back 2 india |
| outlawrider | Thursday, March 01, 2001 - 06:31 am
say some, say some see the truth hurts •••• all u |
| TRUTH | Thursday, March 01, 2001 - 06:34 am
WELL SAID GIRLZ...
I'M A MAN, SO LET ME TELL YOU A SECRET AS SOON AS YOU SLEEP WITH A MAN, HE DOESN'T LOOK AT YOU THE SAME!! AND HE'S SURELY NOT GONA MERRY YOU, BECAUSE HE'LL THINK IF SHE SLEPT WITH ME, HOW MANY OTHERS BEFORE ME. SO PLZ KEEP YOUR VIRGINTY UNTILL IT'S BECAMES HALAL., AND SURELY YOU WILL BE REWARDED.
Peace |
| Concerned Bro. | Thursday, March 01, 2001 - 06:34 am
Wooow Wooow Well said to yo'll!
First I just want to say Hi & welcomeback to Amina! & Ayaanick.
It looks like you guys are all missing one thing. SEX B4 MARRIAGE IS HARAM....SEX B4 MARRIAGE IS HARAM. I am sure everyone will agree with me that. But the question which is what y'll missing is: WHAT IS SEX?
For non-muslims consider sex is putting in Man's D...k into woman's vi..na. as well as some of our sisters.
But that is not what our religion consider as sex. Muslims Religion consider Macsi or Sex eye contact, touching, hugging, kissing, etc. or should I say any contact between man and woman which aren't immidiete family "except for health purposes". So the point that I am trying to make here is if you thought Sex is the way I describe it above "non-muslim way", and you consider your self a real muslim, than you thought wrong. But if you were doing the real muslim way than I am proud of you, and admire you "Walaahi" Keep it up.
Now let me share some exprience of mind. I have had a relationship with a girl for three yrs, and never had sex. That was the best relationship I have ever had "Wallaahi". Some of you may disagree with me about this specially men, but trust me it was somin else, undescribable.
Do me a favor for those of you that are in a relationship that based on sex, try this: After you have sex one day, just sit somewhere alone, and think about what you just did, think about the consiquences, Allah and its doomsday. After that try for atleast a month not to have a sex and let me know what the out come was..
I think I've said enough. till next time peace and luv bro.& Sis |
| ayaanick | Thursday, March 01, 2001 - 09:06 am
To: malik,baylax,outlow anwar and fartuun:
Big ups to you all, I really don't deserve all that, but thanks really. I was just expressing my stress towards these ignorant little "boys." It just amazed me of how little they know. I wish there was a way that I could put these "little boys", in real check, but unfortunatly I can't. Girls take my word for it. (GIRLS) if you are Muslim, and have faith in Allah then you should know how much your worth. Allah created so you can respect yourself, and obey his rules. He didn't put on this earth so a man can use you, for his pleasures.
I know that a lot of men(Somalian men that is) that really push girls to edge, when they don't even care about the girl cause if they did(they wouldn't)!!
One other thing that caught my attention is that how grown guys come in here talking about "how they like to take girls to the movies, shopping, and then expect something?? Okay I need to know where you all live? It just sounds so back in 8th grade or something, please have class. A real man wouldn't talk about things like that. If you want to buy love you might was well go the streets, but don't come in here with that trash talking as if all Somalian girls are broke and the only reason they date is to go the movies or to shop!! Please I will have you know that we have self respect, dignity, and pride in ourselves!
See ya when I see(better watch out cause I am ellergic to B*S so please don't ever B*S me aight)!! |
| Anonymous | Thursday, March 01, 2001 - 03:52 pm
To The guy's that started the confo I never really dated a Somalis cause I have not been attracted 2 one, no disrespect when I say " THEY ARE 2 DAME SKINNY FOR MY LIKING" I mean u got 2 have the physical attraction there 2 get down 2 the business now what I mean and looks always comes first before brains.
To my sis that are talking •••• go 2 a different topic cause u lost.
To-Rakiya
Good on u sis. Never every let a bunk ass man break u'r •••• unless u want it. |
| cilmi | Friday, March 02, 2001 - 04:50 pm
damn guys why u all whining all girls r the same
so go to white or black and do the do and dont back up like u ant getting nothing tango with her
no for real if i wana get marry the right why witch is allah's i like my girl to be virgin
na'amean
give it rest guys and get of their back leave the girls alone |
| LILWITCH | Friday, March 02, 2001 - 05:35 pm
WOW I SEE IN HERE A LOTS OF OUR SOMALI BROTHERS AND SISTER ARE LOSING THEIR RELIGION AND CLUTURE FORGET DAT WE SOMALI JUST REMEMBER DAT WE ARE MUSLIM WHEN EVER U DO SOMETHING XARAM ALLAAH IS WATCHING ITS EVEN WORST WHEN U KNOW WHA U DOING IS WRONG.
SEX IS OUT OF THE QUESTION ITS SOMETHING WE DONT'T HAVE TO TALK ABOUT EACH AND EVERY ONE OF U KNOW ABOUT SEX ALL WE HAVE TO DO IS JUST WAIT FOR THE RIGHT MOMENT WITH DA RIGHT PERSON. YO WALAAHI I HEAR LONG TIME AGO WHEN A COUPLE MARRY, AT NIGHT SOME GIRLS USE TO RUN AWAY FROM DA HUSBAN CUZ THEY DON'T WANT TO HAVE SEX OH COMON NOW AND DA SOME OF DA BROTHERS IN HERE ARE SAYIN HAVE SEX WIT UR BOYFRIEND LOL LOL LOL WALAAHI DAT MAKES LOL LOL LOL A LOT ANYWAYS FINALLY ALL I HAVE TO SAY IN MY OPENION IS ONCE A GIRL HAVE A SEX WIT A BRO WHO IS NOT A HUSBAN IN XALAAL MEANS SHE LOST HER SELF RESPECT.
ITS ME
lilwitch |
| ZEE2001 | Sunday, March 04, 2001 - 08:55 am
OKAY...THIS MESSAGE IS FOR 'DARK AS THE NIGHT'! LOOK LET ME GIVE U MY PERSONAL INTAKE...SOUNDS TO ME LIKE UR A GENUINE GUY WHO HAS BEN HURT A FEW TIMES...I THINK U HAVE BEEN LOOKING IN ALL THE WRONG PLACES FOR THAT ONE SPECIAL SOMALI GIRL...AS FAR AS I'M CONCERNED I AIN'T YOUR TYPICALT SOMALI GIRL...I DONT REALLY BELIEVE IN ALL OF OUR CULTURES EITHER SO IF I WOZ TO FIND A FLY, OR BUFF GUY THEN HOLDING HANDS WOULD BE THE LAST THING ON MY MIND!!! SOUNDS TO ME U HAVE BEEN GIVING BUT NOT RECIEVING...ITS ALL ABOUT 50/50 IN THIS DAY AND AGE SO NEXT TIME YOUR VEXED...JUST REMEMBER THAT NOT ALL OF US ARE SCARED BITCHES WHO HAVE NO WHERE TO GO IN LIVE! U HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THAT ITS REALLY HARD FOR A GIRL BORN AND RAISED IN ENGLAND TO FIND HERSELF A FLY, ENGLISH SPEAKEN SOMALI GUY WHO ISNT A FREAK OR AFTER ONE THING!!! OBVIOUSLY I AINT GONA GIVE IT UP TO ANYONE!!! SO APPRECIATE WHERE I'M COMING FROM 2 YEAH...AS FAR AS I CAN SEE IT ITS GONNA BE ALL ABOUT MY BLACK NIGGAS...UNTILL I FIND MYSELF A BUFF SOMALI GUY WHO IS ON MY WAVE LEVEL AND KNOWS WHERE IM COMING FROM AT ALL TIMES!!!
PEACE BRO xXx
GET BACK 2 ME! |
| playboy | Sunday, March 04, 2001 - 11:07 am
suppppppppp my subjects
before it was tribal sh*t now it is sex.
damn somalis waz up with yall. see this
is how i do my thing u know, go to the
club •••• some bitchs don't give a damn
if they somalis or not then go to sleep
go to school work and chill. so what one
somali girl said no to me when i ask fo
head. mybe next time but sh*t always there
is a somali hoe around the corner down fo
what eva. so stop this dicussion and let me
be the closing nigga fo this sh*t. peace out. |
| spancky | Sunday, March 04, 2001 - 08:30 pm
hey motherfucker i didn't like what u said and i hate u assh*le u hear me yeah u the person that started this sh*t and all yo that is with him or her can go 2 helll u know that funny part is i didn't even read what the hell he or she said about sex/somaligurlsss i have much respect 2 somali gur n i love all the somali gurllllll can u hear yeah i love allllllllllllllllll ugly/orbeautifull
1 luv |
| spancky | Sunday, March 04, 2001 - 08:36 pm
playboy u the only hoe in here u hear me u angreatful son of bird u don't even now what playboy mean n if u don't ask your mama if she nowwww or your papa u low life assh*le an to all yo that siad sh*t 2 somaligurl 1 more time u can go 2 helllllll assh*le
1 luv |
| Dark-As-the-Night | Monday, March 05, 2001 - 03:11 am
Dear all,
First EIID MUBARAK to the Muslim masses where ever they are.
It has been quite amusing and somewhat surprising at the replays you have left on this topic.
As always it has alarmed a few, who have accused me of promoting sex, I wonder have I?
To this I would reply no, I have just started to discuss a matter which has bothered me for some time, which is our behaviour towards each other when it comes to dating.
I have highlighted the problems young Somali males’ face in London.
We struggle for everything, getting an education, work and even staying on the right side of the law.
Then there is the culture clash, being a Somali over the last decade has not been easy, with all the upheaval we had to face, and that goes for every on of us. Then you have the issue of dating, most of us(young men) have dated outside of our community. I myself have but the chemistry is never as strong as it is with a Somali. Never the less it is tough dating a Somali girl, why?
This is simply due to all the contradictions, which makes up the mentality of our ladies.
Your relationship is under scrutiny from the first moment, her friends, her close family members and the expectation that she has. You can never satisfy all the people and never live up to her standards.
Why? Somali girls want a Nuclear Physicist with a gangster street credibility. This as I have learned is not possible, even if it is it is very rare.
Even if you have the above credentials, you will have to go through all sorts of tests, which if I may say (piss mans of). “Drive me and my friends” to every rave and party in the city, “but honey I have friends to” plus a brother got work. They don’t seem to understand that your love for her doesn’t override your everyday commitments. The paranoia of some girls is hard to take, I have to admit brothers are just as bad. Take for example how they want to know every thing you do, and when you try and explain you can see from her expression that she doesn’t or wont believe what you say.
Even when you do get a long, our girls will tend to make it difficult for you. This makes a brother ignore her and this results in reawakening her interest towards you. People fight and differences are the hallmark of any relationship yet we don’t seem to understand this. We fight and it becomes like a scene from Saving Private Ryan. All hell is let lose, she can’t stand you all of a sudden, and her friends also seem to have a major problem with you and forget about the family. It’s all civil “Hi BRO how are you” is the greeting, as she stands next to her new supposed man. Damn you fought yesterday and she already got a new man. Again the sex is just the tip of the Ice berg, we got a lot of issues………
To Ayaanick and Amina,
Girls you made good points, but you reinforced what I thought before. You don’t have sex because of the religion, or because you are afraid the guy might leave you? Come on be more direct next time.
Your response was good though.
To ZEE201,
Girl you touched a nerve in me, but love you can do better than that, this 2001 and there are plenty of brothers out there,(LONDON) that you can get, and please be careful darling.
You holla back aight..........
Peace |
| SNOOOOOOOOP | Monday, March 05, 2001 - 05:30 am
THAT WAS ONE LONG COMMENT.........DAMMN NIGGA DID YOU REALY EXPERIENCE THAT....SHITT IT IS OK THOUGH..
YO WHERE ARE ALL DEM BITCHES UP IN HERE. |
| SOME_GUY | Monday, March 05, 2001 - 03:09 pm
ciiiiiiiiiid mubabrak all,
yoo Dark-As-the-Night nigga thanx & much appreciation 4 bringing this issue up!!
now i wish i had more time to really write my views and express my experience in a detailed way, but i just have fiew minutes to spare right now , and hopefully i'll b back 2 wirte more in the not too-distant future!
coming back to the core issue in here! i must say its quite unique, co-incidental if not utterly bizzare how many somali girls tend to share the same sort of values and perhaps predictabile actions!
there r 3 kind of girls as i far as i'm concerend....
1-1 type r the real good sisters who r really commited 2 theri religion and culture, and those i love respect most 'couz they know what they r, where they come from and where they going to!
2- the second type of girls r also pretty understandible and excusible, these kind tend 2 b easy going, westernised ( bascily as we say in london '''no long thing'') and these might not have solid princiles and correct morals but at least they r honest plain and very simple!
3- now the third type that i hate most and i really can't understand, r the once that gold-digging, time-wasting, 2 faced, confused who think they all that.
and dont appreciate what ever the brother might do for them.
if u good 2 them, then they call u a wipm and a wus..... if u treat like a ruud boy they call u nigga wanna b, fucked up fagget!!
these sort of sisters taht i really really dont like, they ultumatly wanna give u what u want whether in halla or haram, but they just like playing games and sh*t, and that aint cool, and it dont work 'couz we know all their games even b 4 they start playing it!
now, my recommendation as to how 2 treat those funny sector of sisters........
is simply puttttttt)))))))))))))like a dym FAARAAX((((((((((((((((
THAT IS HOW THEY LIKE IT, DONT LISTEN 2 HER, DONT RESPECT HER UNLESS SHE PROMISES 2 GIVE SOMING 2 U THAT NIGHT, TO CHEW QAAT LIKE A COW CHEWING GRASS!
AND IF U HAPPEND 2 B VISITING SOMALIA OR ANY OTHER COUNTRY FOR THAT MATTER MAKE SURE U DONT FORGET 2 MARRY 1 OR 2 OTHER LADIES ON THE WAY!
seriously, some sisters just dont know what they want, or they think they know what they want, but really its quite obviouslly 2 every sighted person that they really don't know what they want! na'mean?
<<<<<<<<<<<so ladies compare ur self 2 the above categories, and i'm sure u'll find that u fall in 1 of the above categories, and as i sayed i respect, categories #1 & #2.... but #3 well what can i say, identafity, justify, analyse, evaluate and last but not least CONCLUDE ur pathtic behavior and bloody start taking inti account that this is 21 century and we know all ur little pathtic ways, so just stop it and play it nice and simple baby! ok
safe ya'all 'nough love & respect 2 my real ladies! who r not on a longgggg thingggg (~0^)
__________________________________________________ |
| Amina | Tuesday, March 06, 2001 - 04:29 am
 EID MUBAAREK MY PEOPLE
Dark as night bro,
I read Ur post with interest, as a london girl myself i kinda see your point (though i don't entirely agree with ya), but this aint about sex is it?? Secondly, U kinda generalising, don't U think... are all london girls like dat? or just the ones that You date?
You said that its difficult being a somali in the west. I say yes, but ONLY if you try to assimilate with the western way of life. The fact that you live in London or where evah in the wetern hemisphere should not change YOu as a person. And it does not mean that YOUR religious and cultural Values, morales should change to suite that of the people (kuffar).
if you were back in somalia wld you even contemplate talking about sex before marriege to a sis? just a thought
As regards for my reasons 4 saying NO to sex- it is simply due to my obedience to Allah (swt). i said in my last post is any girl worth the hell fire... maybe you'v missed it....or misuderstood it.. but i think that it has a religious basis. I wrote what i wrote (about HIV etc) coz i know there are ppl that don't give a damn about what is halal and haram- so it only makes sense to speak 'on-the-level' with them na mean. But i'll try n b direct in the future! (How i am i doing in this post?)
I can go on forever but i don't wanna risk boring everyone to death lol.
To the amina wannabe up in here- U need to check urself honey and if U wanna be dissin ppl do it the prober way not the coward way. i'd appreciate it if found yo self another nick coz dat one is taken- try clue-less. suits ur comments just fine!!!
Peace, Love and Happiness |
| secret 2 war | Sunday, March 11, 2001 - 06:38 am
u suckers r writing a lot |
| ZEE2001 | Monday, March 12, 2001 - 12:48 am
This is to...'dark as the nite'...yo bro...i can't believe you replied back u know!!! oi, man don't be taking the piss out of my STAR NAME yeah!. i woz actually gonna call myself 'SexYZee'...but i thought i'd leave sum imagination in ur head!!! hehehe
NEWAYS...U HAVE YET AGAIN STATED TRUE LIFE FACTS ABOUT SOMALIANS AND LOVE RELATIONSHIPS...I SERIOUSLY FEEL THAT, EITHER SOMAILANS HAVE A PROBLEM WITH DATING OR THEY DONT KNOW HOW TO DATE PROPERLY!!! WHAT I REALLY WANTED TO KNOW IS WHERE YOUR FROM???
THE REALLY FUNNY THING IS HOW EVERYTHING I SAY ABOUT SOMALIAN BLOKES YOU TURN AROUND AND SAY ABOUT SOMALIAN GIRLS.....YOUR PROPERLY THE FIRST SOMALIAN BOY THAT HAS ACTUALLY UNDERSTOOD WHERE I'M COMING FROM!!! BY THE WAY....DONT BE TOO WORRIED ABOUT ME....COZ I'M KNOWN BY ALL MY CLOSE FRIENDS AS BEING ONE FIESTY BITCH WHO KNOWS WHAT SHE'S DOING IN LIFE....AND NO I AINT GONA TURN OUT LIKE ONE OF THOSE GIRLS WHOSE MARRIED OR PREGNANT IN HER 20'S SCAMMING OF THE WELFARE SYSTEM! I JUST WANTED 2 LET U KNOW THAT NAH...I DONT AGREE WID U...THERE R AND I'LL REPEAT THAT ...THERE R NOooooooooooooooooooooooooooo. fly, sweet or BUFF SOMALIAN GUYS IN LONDON..THAT'S A TRUE FACT!!! IF U CAN FIND ONE THAT FITS ALL PARTS OF MY EXPECTATIONS THEN I'LL PAY U £1000 BOO!!!!!!! BUT ON A SERIOUS NOTE, U SOUND REALLY ANGRY! HAVE U BEEN HURT OR DUMPED COZ U REALLY GENERALIZE ALOT (YEAH I KNOW I AINT NE BETTER THAN U...BUT THAT'S ME DOUGH!)
GOTTA GO TO A LECTR......SO GET BACK 2 ME YEAH!
..KEEP LOOKING SOMEWHERE OUT THERE LIES YOUR BOO!!
I KNOW FOR SURE I AINT EVEN THINK ABOUT GETTING WITH NOONE BUT MY MISTER PERFECT!!! |
| zee2001 | Monday, March 12, 2001 - 01:24 am
this message is to no other than 'dark as the nite'.....hey bro wots happen?? dogg dont be dissn my STAR NAME yeah..hehehe! i woz gonna call myslef sexYZee..but i though i'd leave sum ting 2 your imagination!!!
Neways.. i just wanted to let u know that there r NOoooooooooooooooooooo. fly or buff guys in London! as usual u raised bare real life true facts when it cums to dating somalians....i seriously think that people dont know how to do it properly!!!Its so funny how everything i say about somalian blokes u say about somalian girls...its good to know u uderstand where i'm coming from dough! all i really wanted to know is where bouts r u from??? sorry this message is pretty short 2day!! i'm late for a lectr....so get back 2 me
peace!!! |
| ZEE2001 | Monday, March 12, 2001 - 01:27 am
hey DARK AS NITE..OOOPS.....MY BAD I DID THAT LAST MESSAGE TWICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ITS ALL GUD DOUGH....FEEL PRIVALGED THAT I TOOK THE TIME OUT LATA! |
| ZEE2001 | Monday, March 12, 2001 - 01:27 am
hey DARK AS NITE..OOOPS.....MY BAD I DID THAT LAST MESSAGE TWICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ITS ALL GUD DOUGH....FEEL PRIVALGED THAT I TOOK THE TIME OUT LATA! |
| Dark-as-The-Night | Monday, March 12, 2001 - 08:36 am
To Amina and Zee2001,
Before I begun to respond, I would like to clear up a few things.
I created this discussion due to certain habits, which I have noticed concerning the fairer sex.
It was not my intention to put all the girls in the same bracket. It is also true that I have experienced some of the things, which I have discussed. Yet It seems that some people have attributed the reason behind my comments to have stemmed from anger. To the contrary I am neither angry nor resentful, at any one least of all those beautiful ladies who I have fortunate enough to date. It does confuse me when sisters say they agree with some of my comments, and at the same time deny there is any problem.
To Amina, girl thanks again for the mature way that you have presented your argument.
We do disagree though, in that this has never been about me distorting faith.
I am just talking about why our girls trust to make love with foreigners yet shy away from us?
Is it about trust, or our we too ugly as ZEE2001 stated?
To ZEE2001 you darling, you agree with me ha, yet you have not seen any brother who takes your fancy. I wonder where you have been looking, maybe where you live there are way to many FARAX.
Like you I will make a simple assumption, that you lack confidence in us as a people, and therefore lack some in your self. If you believe that Somali brothers in London are not good enough for you, then you have some issues. Where are what we are love, and I wonder are the males in your family Ugly?
Now I am only making an assumption, so boo don't get mad aight?
As for where I live, I live in Stratford East London, what about you ???????
To everyone peace
To Amina and ZEE stay beautiful |
| Dark-as-the-Night | Monday, March 12, 2001 - 08:49 am
To Amina and Zee2001,
Before I begun to respond, I would like to clear up a few things.
I created this discussion due to certain habits, which I have noticed concerning the fairer sex.
It was not my intention to put all the girls in the same bracket. It is also true that I have experienced some of the things, which I have discussed. Yet It seems that some people have attributed the reason behind my comments to have stemmed from anger. To the contrary I am neither angry nor resentful, at any one least of all those beautiful ladies who I have fortunate enough to date. It does confuse me when sisters say they agree with some of my comments, and at the same time deny there is any problem.
To Amina, girl thanks again for the mature way that you have presented your argument.
We do disagree though, in that this has never been about me distorting faith.
I am just talking about why our girls trust to make love with foreigners yet shy away from us?
Is it about trust, or our we too ugly as ZEE2001 stated?
To ZEE2001 you darling, you agree with me ha, yet you have not seen any brother who takes your fancy. I wonder where you have been looking, maybe where you live there are way to many FARAX.
Like you I will make a simple assumption, that you lack confidence in us as a people, and therefore lack some in your self. If you believe that Somali brothers in London are not good enough for you, then you have some issues. We are what we want to love, and I wonder are the males in your family Ugly?
Now I am only making an assumption, so boo don't get mad aight?
As for where I live, I live in Stratford East London, what about you ???????
To everyone peace
To Amina and ZEE stay beautiful |
| Mursal | Monday, March 12, 2001 - 08:59 am
In conclusion, SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS "haraam" FOR BOTH SEXES. |
| hanad | Monday, March 12, 2001 - 09:13 am
AS IF YOU DONT HAVE SEX MURSA, YOU PLAYER!!!!!!!!! |
| secret 2 war | Tuesday, March 13, 2001 - 08:32 am
to mursal
so do u wank your ass off in da toilets then even the devil in da toilet can afford to sleep because u allways in da toilet |
| Amina | Tuesday, March 13, 2001 - 05:25 pm
First of all nuff respect to mursal and brothers and sisters like him
Hanad and secret war - having sex b4 marriege does not proof your manhood - but your weakness
So lay of da bro, aight.
Dark -as-night.
Ciyaal startford, huh.
My bad- i wasn't questioning your faith_coz I know i shouldn't be_lets us let Allah be the judge of that aight. All i was saying was that if you have strong faith- you have a way of dealing with temptations
Somaali girls that go with bide men and somali boys that go else where :
Obviously_ i have no respect 4 this group of gals and boys like them. It's all about pure dis-respecting on so many levels. I just hope Allah guides them.
But what is the difference of who U do it wit.....if U is gonna commit that sin anyways? why are brothers soo bothered by this, when
they don't have 'pure intentions with the sisters themselves?
why should the actions of a few somaali girls reflect on the reputation of all somali girls?
why should we be questioned about their actions? esp. when we don't approve of it in da first place?
I have seen both ugly and buff in london (and elsewhere). But you know looks arn't everything... There are very few brothers that have 'got -it going-on' and even worse a only few have any clue, which is kinda sad ......considering. The same can be said about the sister of course- and this ain't a general comment aight.
Did you hear Lauren Hills singl 'That Thing' its kinda dated now but the lyrics are just so of da hook! She even addresses islam.
Sorry for taking up 2 much of ya, time yet again...i find it so hard to stop writing. i'll make it my last!!
And yeah, beauty is in me nature, yeah i am big headed 2 lol.
Peace, Love and Happiness |
| mulki | Wednesday, March 14, 2001 - 02:21 pm
I DON'T THINK THERE IS ANYTHING WRONG WITH HAVING SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE AS LONG AS YOU LOVE THE PERSON.PEOPLE THIS IS JUST MY OPTION SO NO NEED IN GETTING BITCHY. |
| ZEE2001 | Sunday, March 18, 2001 - 11:43 am
firslty, nuff respect to Amina...Girl is so talking sense!!! keep it real sweety!!!
Secondly, this message is mainly addressed to 'dark as nite'. The main reason why I have not seen or dated any guys from my neighbourhood is coz they are all typical guys with no clue of what they are saying or doing half the time. By this I mean that they catagorise somalian girls to all be clueless brats...who will provide with sum Slap & Tickle!!!! BUT NOT ME...........U SEE THAT AINT MY STYLE! I LIKE MY MAN NOT ONLY TO BE FULLY EDUCATED, BUT TO KNOW HOW TO DRESS AND ACT!....MEANING CLUED UP ABOUT ALL ASPECTS OF LIFE ! CONFIDENCE IS MY SECOND NAME, BY THE WAY! I AINT HAD ANY PROBLEMS WITH PULLING BOO!.....SO FOR U TO ASSUME THAT I HAVE ISSUES WITH CONFIDENCE IS A BIT OF A JOKE TO ME! IT AINT MY FAULT THAT i AINT FOUND MY ONE BRAE IN LIFE!!! IM NOT PLAYA HATING ANY SOMALIAN GUYS....INFACT IM SURE THAT THERE ARE NICE, SWEET GUYS OUT THERE...MY POINT IS THAT I AINT HAD THE PLEASUE OF MEETING ANY OF THEM!!!
MY LAST POINT TO U IS TO ASSURE YOU THAT ALL THE MALE MEMEBERS IN MY FAMILY ARE BEAUTIFUL IN EVERY ASPECT OF THE WORD BOO!.....SO DON'T EVEN BE DISSING MY BLOOD! ANY GIRL 2 GET WID THEM HAS WON THE LOTTERY!!!!!!ONLY PROBLEM IS, IS THAT THEY'RE ALL MY BROS & COUSINS....SO U DO THE MATHS!!!!!
UNFORTUANTELY, I LIVE IN WEST LONDON BABE!....NOW U KNOW WHY I HAVE ISSUES!!!!!!!!BIT TO FAR 4 U HUH???? OH AND BEING NATURALLY BEAUTIFUL IS IN MY NATURE BOO!!!! SO DON'T U WORRY ABOUT THAT! LOL LOL LOL LOL....................SEE TOLD U I HAD BARE CONFIDENCE IN MYSELF!!!
IM GOING NOW SO..............SORRY TO BORE U WID MY ESSAY BUT IT HAD TO BE DONE, U KNOW ME!!! (CAN'T LIVE WID OUT A QUICK FIGHT) |
| zee2001 | Monday, March 19, 2001 - 12:23 am
Hey I'm back.......Boy your taking your time to holla back!!!...................don't you know never to leave a girl waiting!!! |
| READER | Tuesday, March 20, 2001 - 03:16 am
HEY GUYS LISTEN UP "BLACK AS THE NIGHT.
YOU SAID IN YOUR OWN WORDS THAT YOU CAN'T STAND THAT IF YOU WANT TO DO IT WITH A GIRL THEY REMEMBER THEIR RELIGION.
OFFCOURSE THEY SHOULD I MEAN YOU ARE SAYING THEY SHOULDN'T. BOY I WAS SO ANGRY AT YOU. BUT MY GIRLS BACKED ME UP(YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE) BUT AS YOU POSTED MORE I KINDA UNDERSTOOD WHERE YOU'RE COMING FROM. YOU DO SAY THE THINGS THAT ARE REAL BUT I ADVICE YOU TO FIRST OF ALL LOOK FOR A GIRL WHO IS AT YOUR LEVEL(IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN) THEN YOU WON'T BE DISSAPPOINTED AT THE END. AND LEAVE THE OTHER GIRLS ALONE.
BYE!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
