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     | Unrecorded Date HI EVERYBODY I HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY PLEASE ANSWER MY QUESTIONS IF U KNOW THE RIGHT ONE IF NOT DON'T EVEN TRY IT. WHY SOMALIAN GUYS DONT' UNDRESTAND WHEN U TELL THEM THAT U ARE DATING SOMEONE ALSE WHY DO THEY ALWAYS SAY "JARANJARADA WAAN SOO CIRIIRSANAA HUH" I MEAN EVEN THOUGH I DON'T LIKE TO DATA OUT OF MY RACE THE OTHER GUYS UNDRESTAND AND FEEL U WHEN U TELL THEM THAT U ARE IN A ANOTHER LINE WHY YA ALL WANA BE A PLAYERS HUH I NEED PACIFIC ANSWER I REALY DO I DON'T UNDRESTAND AND WHEN THOS KIND THINKS HAPPEN I DON'T TRUST NOBODY NOT EVEN MY MAN.
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| | Unrecorded Date They may do that because of you,I mean they may know you that you're dating with many diffrent guys. Also it's possible that they don't see dating as an engagement between two people. See, if you tell them you've already got a boy friend they wouldn't even try that but in our culture just dating isn't enough to stop a man. About dating with non blacks as you stated I can't say anything about it, it's your chioce but as a somali or moslim person I would like to advice you to reconsider about that and be open minded. Thanx Ayan and goodluck.
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| | Unrecorded Date the reson I think they do that is people somalian guys never take no for an answer they always think they can better then other people . Plus most of them act like players because they don't the difference between when you like someone and when your in love the reason why I say that is because they'll say anything to get with you they'll even lie telling you how much they love but in week they hit the road. This how you know a guy loves if he says it to you right away then it's a lie because if he really loves you he won't know how to say he'll be be too afraid to express himself and he doesn't act like something he's not ,he has all the respect in the world for you and doesn't put you in an unconfortable situation. for all the somalian guys here I'm not tring to disrespect you or anything.and also treat your women like the queens they really are .And my own opinion I can't Imagine myself with any other kind. but a somalian bother.
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| | Unrecorded Date Dear ayan OOH honey that is our brothers what can we do, we only have to get used to it. Sis am really glad about your idea coz it makes sence sis, n it would really hepl ya n the others that r in your possition sis ayan. Sist that happened to me n am sure 70% of somali girls happened to that problem. Sis i think is't because they don't know how to deal with the ladies am not accusing all the guys but that is 90% somali guys act that way n it's really bad. It's coz they don't know what the meaning of "love" is, am sure the guy emperienced luv world for a minut wouldn' be doin that. Do they know what they doing is forcing the girls, it's criminal sis n it's they harrassing the poor chicks, sis most of'em them they never give up whatever u do. Sis i know they lye most of'em then that is gonna make u hate even the honest ones coz u can tell which one is honest n which one is not. To HODAN Hodan u right sis the one luvs ya don' tell ya how he feels about ya staight away. The one say that he luvs ya staight away he is so despred for marrige or something. But the one that have the feelings for ya would take ages to aprouch ya coz they r human beings like us. They always say the girs r players but we r talking about general here n if we talk like that the girls r victims the most anyway sis. ********Back to ayan********* Ayan that is how they treat us they think we r damnn but we know we r smarter then them n world without a women u know what happends sis so as they say sis what comes around goes around we should show them that we got a feelings like them so we don' wanna get heart or anything they should treat as like prinses u know coz without a women they wouldn' be in this world. thanx sis n stay sweet.
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| | Unrecorded Date They r such a lossers i can't trust anybody no more i'm in the same situation. They aLL fuggets and ignorant let's try Mars.lol
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| | Unrecorded Date hello madar I agree with you the reason is they are too players and they give you green light if you don;t know(green means GO)SO MY SIS don't abus ass all right ppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppp
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| | Unrecorded Date To. Anonymous, AMRAN , Hodan , and AYAN Ladies, you all make me sick!! How could you say such things about your brothers, fathers, Uncles? In my opinion, I believed that U'll expressed to us the kind of relationship that u'll have with your fathers. You'll became so conical. u can not just around and blame men, while u claim to be an angels. forget it, u guys r hopeless.
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| | Unrecorded Date I don't know girls what to say to you, I've already made my piont. Some of the sisters here are really sounding dangerous feminist,like sis.Amran. She either joking or is an extremist.Because she talks like she is an expert in relationships and in perticularly with the Somalian guys. I doubted that by just reading her ideas. See, sis. you talk like a gang in first place, and you don't seem a person who is into our cultur at all. You know as a Somalian you should be proud of your culture, religion and your people even though when we know that we have our problems with each other. Somalian guys are your brothers and if you should act like a Somalian girl they'll treat you right, so if you're not into Somalian guys,Please don't try to discourage other sisters who're into like Hodan. Hodan you seem to me a lady. As you said I can't imagine my self too any other woman than Somalian. Thanks Girls, talk to you later.
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| | Unrecorded Date HI BROTHERS AND SISTERS THANKS FOR WRITTING THE MASSEGES ANY WAYS I SEE SOME BROTHERS GETING MAD ABOUT THIS THING BEEN DISCUSED IN HERE IAM SORRY I DIDN'T MEAN TO GET MY BROTHERS MAD OR THINK THAT IAM DISSING SOMALI GUYS. GUYS U REALY NEED TO UNDERSTAND ME IAM NOT INSULTING U IAM JUST ASKING I JUST ASK THAT QUESTION AND I WAS JUST BEING COURIOSE ABOUT IT IAM SORRY I REALY AM ANY WAYS I LOVE MY BROTHERS AND SISTERS I WON'T DO SOMETHING THAT WOULD HURT MY BROTHERS OR ANY SOMALI PERSON CAZ I LOVE MY PEOPLE AIGHT MADAR U NEED TO UNDERSTAND THIS U REALY DO PEACE YA
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| | Unrecorded Date To all our Somalian sisters : First of all why do you blame always to somalian guys in general? you have to know that 100% of Somalian men are not bad; even if you met some bad men. So don't generalize all men. Personaly I met some bad girls before but that didn't discourage me to look for another good ladies. thank you all, and peace u all.
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| | Unrecorded Date DEAR MADAR Hi bro First of all this was' for ya seconly as i said i an't accussing all the somali brothers coz i know evryone , everything n evry culture has bad people n good people ,bad thing n good thing. anyway bro as for me amran an proud of my culture religuon n tradition ok all am saying is incase u didn' get my point is most of the somali guys treat somali girls bad way. Bro am also consuming that i i got a brothers n father who has been that showered me with a luv n comfort. but bro to tell ya the true my brothers my also be the bad ones to the other girls like me u never know. Anyway guys u better change the attitude n help out the sisters take care all'f ya
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| | Unrecorded Date Thanks Amran 'n Ayan I got your point now. You were just curios and little bit not serious too, so, sisters I never meant to upset you so, please live in peace and thanks for your boliteness. Take care, seeya.
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| | Unrecorded Date i tell you why cuz u used to be scared of the dick Now u throw lips to the •••• Handle it like a real bitch Amran, and, Hoadan Take it in the butt. *if i'm wrong..correct me*
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| | Unrecorded Date Hi Ayan I read your complain and it seems to me that u getting what u deserve. Luckily I dont know ppl who use the words (Jaranjarada waan soo cirirsanaa) . They have to be uneducated , and if they know u, means u like them. bye for know Lexx
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| | Unrecorded Date Hey Lexx WHY DON'T YA RELAX MAN AND GET THE POINT B4 YA JUMP SOMEWHERE FAR! SHE AIN'T COMPLAINING AT THE FIRST PLACE. All we talked about was how jerk guys can get sometimes and answering by that Q's you should of said guys are not the same. And that would of leaved you a respect cus brotha first impressions are so important we know how vital it's to show your sense of self in a way you talk. instead of defending the whole lot. Since you counted your self one of those people who are educated, your point of view proved all. So peace sweetie, sisters stay strong
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| | Unrecorded Date To AYAN Sis how u doin'? ayan i hope your question is solved sis. Sis always consider there r really nice n gentelman somali guys aroud like the one i have lol kidding sis but we have to be nice to them sometimes that is if they do too.lol (don' get mad Madar lol) sorry brothers but u know as they say " LADIES R FIRST ALWAYS" so please u (Somali guys) should respect the sisters n the other ones cannot do that should saty with their white chicks or their one night stand coz the real ladies don not desorve that. jaaw ayaan. n the rest stay sweet guys .bye. To Geeljire Hey i don' talk to the geeljire people coz they don' know •••• about relations u shouldn' be here by the way u supposed to look after the cammels bro since u r trying to be the expert advicer. But if u try to help somebody don' go to other people's bussiness, please keep in mind that. OTHER WISE BYEEE STAY STRON AIGHT.
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| | Unrecorded Date GEELJIRE that goes for ya too honey so back off.
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| | Unrecorded Date People People..MAKE IT SHORT AND SWEET AND GET YOUR POINT ACROSS..we don't need you to write essay here. I am a somali female, I don't think that all somali men are bad. There is good and bad in every culture. If you are getting with the bad somalis..what does that say about you? regards, Naag
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| | Unrecorded Date TO: 4REALDAWG DAMN NIGGA..THAT IS RIGHT WAY DAWG.. ALL WHAT U SAID R CORRECT TO..AYAN..U.HAVE GOT A BIG ASS AND 4REALDAWG DICK'S CAN FIT ON IT WHILE I SCREW MY DICK IN HER PUSSY AND THAT IS WHAT" JARANJARADA WAAN SOO CIRIIRSANAA" MEANS. SO NEXT TIME WATCH U ASS SISTA..CUZ TWO DICKZ CAN FIT ON IT. HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHAHAHAHA
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| | Unrecorded Date To:Lexx yo yo fucking moron u need to undrestand the •••• otherewise don't read it and b4 u say any •••• thing search u fucking brain caz u need help u stupid azzz nigga i though i made clear about wat i was saying and what i ment and " Jaranjaro is wat freak jerks like u use to get grils which doesn't do any good nigga undrestand me or get the •••• out of here. and u Nas wana be u ain'g gana be like him what ever u do and my azz is better than u fucking dick u put everywhere and there is no way ia m gana •••• nas wana like u wiht H.I.V. did i make my self clear i hope so Amran thanks sis my question got solve in a way and the other way is those guys tripping who couldn't undrestand any •••• that i was saying but that is their fucking problem not mined so any ways sis thanks it was very helpful advices and sis i was just courise about all this i just had to ask caz there is no one i could of ask face to face iam very shy person i just had to and is not like iam talking about all somalian guys or something u know i love my somali people i would never go for othere races other than somalian and to tell u the truth guys i got the cutes, smartest, funneis somalian b/f and i am proud............. oh for got and the most educater somali dude. bye ya i hope those moron is to undrestand the •••• u guys got dirty think in ur mind so get that •••• out of u head before u wrote some •••• to Ayan aight
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| | Unrecorded Date Ayan: Show some respect sister. The way you're behaving is not lady like. Later!!
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| | Unrecorded Date To ayan Sis u r welcome, u know sis there nothing wrong with the curiasity so if u wanna know something u should go for it sis don' ever hasistate to ask your friends an so on sis u know asking someything is better than being ignorant, but anyway am proud of ya my beauty sis n am happy for ya girl. Honey about those losser they r niddle dicks ignore them sis they aint' got a life all they do for a living is thinking about facking pussy all the damnn time sis, so i guess sis they gotta mental illness but we'll pray for theM insha allah.jaa sis stay strong aight.
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| | Unrecorded Date Waad Salaamantihiin Dhaman Salaan ka dib Make the points Short and Clear as Naag said. Pleas! Don't use "X"rated words even if you are offended. OK! Any way I dont believe that all men are players nor they are gentlmen but mixed. So if you really come across the bad ones dont take them wait; I am sure the good ones are on the way.
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| | Unrecorded Date ayaan tell me about your boyfriend is he better than somali guys did you suck his dick why you like those whites and nigars while you can get your somali brothers bitch take care youyr little pussy
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| | Unrecorded Date SOMALI GIRL u ain't no girl so quite acting like a girl stop being gay we don't need gays around aight f FOR your information my boyfriend is a SOMALI thank god i don't •••• with other racises what i said in here is true and is happening right now in a real life fake it am proud that i got the best man .......not a gay azzzzzzzzzzzzz like u so u better reconize don't mess with a real sista nagge
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| | Unrecorded Date To ayan Listen sister their are alot of nice somalian guys around trust me out of all the other cultures we're the only culture that have real respectful, passionate , Romantic men so beore you go on about insulting somalian I thought you needed to hear that , yes your right you might meet the losers once or twice a day but their still little boys their not men yet so don't take to hear just laugh about it , and to all the guys that are using bad language towards ayan well know you know what she's talkin about it's kids like you that are insulting to all somalian men . So my only question for all of is do even know ayan befre you say she sucks dick so grow up and stop this attitude isn't going to get you anywhere and to nice bothers in here I have nothing but love bye Hafsa
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| | Unrecorded Date HAFSA: i feel ya sis and i know where u are coming from but any ways thanks alot sis that is what am talking about am not saying all somali men are ......u know but most of them i seen some old guys i swear they are older than me about 27 or older and talk trush man that is what am talking about not those sweet men u know what i mean peace and love yaaaaaaaa
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| | Unrecorded Date Sistah Ayan, I understand your point, that some brothers can be playas. However grl, You said you're seeing a man that makes you happy. I suggest that you forget about the losers that you might've came across, and stop complaining. We have enough forums space filled with complaints about the opposite sex. Grl, I blame our culture for this, we teach our boyz to go 4 what they want, and get it. Peace out.
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| | Unrecorded Date Aslamu Laykum Dear Sisters? TO AYAN: First of all, I am not even sure that you are my sisters! Secondly, who said a muslim woman/man can date? Where in the Qura'an or Hadithz allow that? Lastly but not least, AYAN, please don't use the term ALL SOMALI BROTHERS because not all of us date. Quoting from your articles "WHY SOMALIAN BROTERS ARE DIFFERENT"? Just count the loosers one that date. Peace! AM NOT DISRESPECTING ANYBODY AIGHT. Take it EZ and DONT DATE IT'S HARAM! JUST TELLING THE TRUTH HOW IT IS!
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| | Unrecorded Date TO all my somali sister I have a somali boyfriend and i have been with him of 3years. and i agree with ayan. I rather be with somali then others. I am not saying that i have never went out with known somali but i choose to. Not all somali man are the same. In ever counrty there are dogs and there are man who are amazing. Somali girl,if you were a girl i don't thing you would say something like that to ayan. what the hell happened to respect others. You have alot to learn sis/bro.I am in disrespecting you i am just telling you what is right and what is wrong, take it or leave it. take care all
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| | Unrecorded Date To: MAIMUN THAT IS WHAT AM TALKING ABOUT SIS be with somali dude other then suckers right . thanks alot sis and people some of ya need to get some respect peace is ramadan i can't go that far.
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| | Unrecorded Date To: Ayan, may be the reason that they don't believe you i'm referring to (the somalian guys at least the ones that you met) is because you don't tell the truth in the first place. And you r one of those who play (( hard to get)))
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| | Unrecorded Date Asalamu alaykum Tbone99 This is my kinda brother. A brother who can draw a line between culture and riligion.Cuz there is mothing near that in the Qur'an or Hadithz. A girl/woman should not look in the eyes of a man let alone date him and...... Anywayz I am a 15 year old girl who doesn't date and never will! Cuz you see baby, if you keep away from all worldly desires and love Allah(subhaanallahi wata aala) you surtenly will go in Jannah. Just think what you will get there.The most perfect partners and the most beuatiful ones. P.S:Tbone99 are you the one who writes those incredible poems? Bye to all my sisters and brothers.In Islaam that is.!
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| | Monday, August 07, 2000 - 06:17 am Well ya'' waz up im 22 years old live in San diego Ca and i gotta say i don't know this somali culture all i have fucked is black american and latin women mean i tryed with a somali girl but you know how it is they won't GIVE IT UP damn somali and im proud of who i am even though i don't •••• about the culture but im still proud im a player im muslim im proud of what i am i mean damn there some brothers who extremist on the religion i pray but i still do what i gotta do and too all these somali girls saying somali men are playerzs well damn WE ARE anyways take ya''ll peace
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| | Tuesday, November 28, 2000 - 02:59 pm TO Amran HI SISTER Where did you learn all those stuff, girl you kind looke a like smart I really like your adea honest, when i just read all the topic thier is nothing im common with your topic.anway let me indrust myself i live in New England which is North America i would like to communicat with you if you don't mind as you get this massage Let me know bye I'm kind hurring somewhere I will keep touching with you as soon as possible sencerly ladiesman
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| | Thursday, November 30, 2000 - 12:58 am this is to the lady by the name (Ayaan) as u mentioned in your topic the word (jaranjaro). In any kind of relationship is part of the (jaranjaro) you said before. in that long jaranjaro there is mr-right n mr-wrong and most of u seem to know where the good brothers at in that long jaranjaro. to help any of you find the right one (esp) lady-Ayaan here is what u should know:- know his family n him first! "" "" friends n back-ground. and if that person is mature enough n so on aight! as n old saying says (gabadhu kun ayay shukaan sataa kow na way kala baxdaa) so if ya kind be that then follow my instructions and respet ya men aight!!
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| | Friday, December 01, 2000 - 05:09 am Dear Ayan, I agree with you, Ma. It is a shame that Most of somalian brothers dont have any clue what they are talking about let alone underestand what somalian girls want or feel u know. Most somalian guys dont listen that is why they are not hearing what somalian girls are telling them, the only thing the somalian guys know is act hard which they are not, I dont mean to diss anybody but that is the truth and u know what they say "truth hurts". If u have any comments about what iam saying either good or bad then holla at me xamar4@yahoo.com ONE
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| | Wednesday, December 06, 2000 - 05:18 am to ayan public use let me break down your questions you say in here why somalian brothers are different than other,simple question because somalian guys don't want you to see your loser ass around the street or buging the other like peniss bitch or say hooker, we want you to make youhappy and give good apptunity, when somalian guys tell you waan soo ciriissanaa jaranjarada, means it feat me there because you bitch, the reason you are a bitch is how came someone says to you that, because you don't mind that, right, I wonder why your name is ayan public use because every guys is approach everyone and well comes your shite, beside me. I don't want your public shite. who knows if you have veriouses.
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| | Thursday, December 07, 2000 - 05:33 am A minute ago after I read all thiz i waz about to leave till I saw the comments that Wamo testo made I just want to say that I agree with ya Wamo testo u know how it goes deeeeep, keep it reall... Ayaan, I wonder if ur expression that u give a guy made them think that u ain't the kind to be in a long relationship or being with someone so called (Boyfriend) Honestlly Boyfriend is for kids if u would have used something like "My men" or "Partner" it would have been more suitable, see I can see a mistake allready, u said boyfriend which means that he is definetly temporary, see if u gave them the right answer "I'm not intrested" that would give a guy a way to back off from ya, I hope that made any sence I know it makes perfectlly clear to me... SouthBoy waraa sxb wax mukuu shegaa waa ognahay inee runtaa xanuunbadantahay sxb lakiin "Why u generelizing huh" ii sheeg bal taas waxaa iga keenay halaan sxb waxaa u malesaa inaa wiilasha necebtahay Gabdhahana ee yihiin "Angels"... Aniga hada maxaa u dhihiwaayay gabdaha oo dhan waa isku mid maya maya maya sxb >>>Two can become one but more than two cannot become the same, thaz what i believe.... Why didn't email u personally coz I wanna set an example that we cannot just luv but hate one another even brothaz and sisterz...U cannot run away from it u r who u r SOMALIAN u either live with it or die with it so sort urselves out, and stop critizing one another aight thaz all I gotta say>>>>> Peace N Love
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