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"what is love", and "does it have different kinds" if you know, let me know.

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skyhigh

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salaama aleykum


This question if for all the people viewing this writting right now. as humans we all have different entrepretations of love. how ever , most of us dont know what love is realy about. to some people iam not talking about girlfriend boyfriend, or husband wife love only, iam talkin about all kinds of love. also, to the religous people, please do not jump to conclusions about this question, cause it is love that you have for your religion too. coming back to this question, is it a feeling, is it a choice, is it a natural thing that just happens. i am not asking for questions or advices, i am simply searching for opinions and answers. what is the difference between the love you have for your friends and family, or your wife and your money etc or your religion and your kids. i am not comparing these loves, but simply trying to observe the difference. i think i said too much already, how ever remember\


no critizm
no advice
no question

simply share your thoughts

thank you

macsalaama!

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stranger

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THE BEST LOVE IS THE LOVE
FOR THE SEAK OF ALLAH.ONE OF
THE PEOPLE WHO WILL BE UNDER THE
SHADE OF ALLAH ON THE DAY OF JUDGEMENT
WHEN THERE IS NO SHADE EXCEPT ALLAH'S SHADE
IS A PERSON WHO LOVED ANOTHER PERSON FOR THE SEAK
OF ALLAH. AND THAT IS THE BEST KIND OF LOVE.
AND ALLAH KNOW'S BEST!

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PreCiouS

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Good Topic SkyHigh, but my Q to you is that Y did you come up with it if U don't need advice from anyone? I understand how you might have a hard time figuring that out but at the meantime I'll give you my thoughtz about LOVE ...Love is pretty much like LUST from my experience it can also be discribed as a chemical bond that attract two individual and forces them to fall in-love with each other, but be carefull you may not get what you see sometimes because the misterious package may not be complete or the labels ain't how they read like..i mean imagine if you fall 4 somebody, but latta on you find you that you ain't really connect to that person ..oopz! i don't think so
Saying the L-word to someone or saying it too soon is a blunder you might utter this as early as 2 weeks into a realtionship! and slep away by feelingz and be like all loveydovey after just fre weeks of dating, bite your tongue. Truest me you don't know your Guy or Girl on this case well enuf yet to know if you love him/her plus you might scare them off by getting too emotional 2..But there is no harm in waiting the real deal won't fade cause it's unspoken.. am sorry i got cought up in the moment, but what am trying to point of is LOVE is the most Precious thing in life..

I gotta go

XXX

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Ubax

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I agree with you preCious. Most our ppl said I love you too soon then we expext them to. In my personal view I was dating this guy for about 3 weeks and I was almost gonna broken it off because i did have the kind feeling he had for so, When he told me he love I was in shock...because here he was tell me he love and i was gonna tell it over...So sometime u have see what do u want from this person.....what kind of feeling do you have fo rthis person......I love my mother, father , brother, sister and I love all muslims. To your question skyhigh, it dependening on the person you are referece to. Love is something that there but neeeds someone to point out that is really inside of you. I myslef have never been in love but i know that love is something that is strong and went the right person cames you will then reliaze is an wonderfull thing with paying for it.
Love is free so very human need it. No matter what.

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Alyisa

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Basicaly love is what u make it and who u make it with, nothing more nothing less.

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LAYLA ABDI

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I AGREE WITH PARTS OF WHAT YOU ALL SAID . ME PERSONALLY I HAVE NEVER BEEN IN LOVE EVEN THOUGH I HAVE HAD RELATIONSHIPS WHERE THE GUY HAS SAID IT TO ME BUT THE GUY IN THIS PARTICULAR RELATIONSHIP WAS ONLY SAYING WHAT HE THOUGHT I WANT TO HEAR . I DON'T MEAN TO ANSWER A QUESTION WITH ANOTHER QUESTION BUT WHY DO ALL GUYS SAY THEY LOVE YOU AFTER 2 WEEKS COME ON GUYS BE REALISTIC.( I'M NOT STEROTYPING )
I DON'T BELEIVE IN FALLING IN LOVE OR LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT BUT I BELEIVE THAT YOU GROW TO LOVE THAT PERSON BUT IT STARTS OFF WITH LUST. SO GIRLS AND BOYS KEEP THE BIG WORD L..... OUT OF IT UNTIL YOU REALLY MEAN IT . IF ANYONE WANTS TO COMMENT ON MY THOUGHT THEN PLS FEEL FREE , U CAN EITHER REPLY ON THIS WEB PAGE OR EMAIL ME AT
LAYLA121@HOTMAIL.COM.

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Anonymous

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Most guys says this in 2 weeks because they just want to F* U.so dont buy it.And does it mean if you love someone you should F* them?
because most guys think that.

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Fayrus22

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Hej Anonymous!
I just wanted to tale u that not or never lisean to the guys who use the word love in 2 weeks becoz u are right about the F* U, word, coz the one who realy cares about u will never maintion the L,or the word F*U.And that don´t mean that If u realy deeply care or Love the person u realy won´t do it an til u´re ready for It..Always follow ur heart and not what other pple say,coz Love is very special,especialy If he´s the one to be,u know the futur.If u want to talk contact me in my E-mail is written down...see or hopping to here from u soon.....

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skyhigh

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sky high again thanks for answering people, and helping me understand what this love thing is all about, you are like my teachers and i am gratefull
how ever i have couple of more questions???

-can loving someone or something too much be bad?
-can you be blind sometimes to see that love is infront of you
-can you tell if you are in love
-what is the method of love
i mean some say you grow into love, like if you were around someone for a long time , you will fall in love with them...and to me it makes sense cause how many of you would love your family member if you just met them??? me i would kick my brothers ass... lol.. but know that we have that brother connection and we been around each other all our lives , i would give my life to say him. and also like two long time friends could love each other..i dont know but that is one method, you got any more,give me your thoughts.

last question..
- can you love someone you have just met, and how do you know that is real love.
and yeah a thought comes into my mind, we say real love, does love have different levels?

i am a hard student with too many questions?
but my goal is to make you think
and for me to get some answers from you

peace
sky high
sky is the limit

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ahmed

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I think It's agood point of view to say a word in this excellent topic According to my point of view Love is a serious feeling that creates different emotions and feeling in your soul, In the start it gives you headaches and hardtime in life , furthermore you suffer with arrows and difficulties.Itis natural that the two feel Deep emotions and passions and and fall in real love if time allows.Anyway I welcome your points also and appreciate them all but Love is a feeling and once you are in You can't manage it unless you succed your mission. love for parents and kids ,religion and other world issues are far different from Normal love. By Abdiwelli MOhamed Suber

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ahmed

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I think It's agood point of view to say a word in this excellent topic According to my point of view Love is a serious feeling that creates different emotions and feeling in your soul, In the start it gives you headaches and hardtime in life , furthermore you suffer with arrows and difficulties.Itis natural that the two feel Deep emotions and passions and and fall in real love if time allows.Anyway I welcome your points also and appreciate them all but Love is a feeling and once you are in You can't manage it unless you succed your mission. love for parents and kids ,religion and other world issues are far different from Normal love. By Abdiwelli MOhamed Suber
Ahmedbaraki@hotmail.com

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ahmed

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I think It's agood point of view to say a word in this excellent topic According to my point of view Love is a serious feeling that creates different emotions and feeling in your soul, In the start it gives you headaches and hardtime in life , furthermore you suffer with arrows and difficulties.Itis natural that the two feel Deep emotions and passions and and fall in real love if time allows.Anyway I welcome your points also and appreciate them all but Love is a feeling and once you are in You can't manage it unless you succed your mission. love for parents and kids ,religion and other world issues are far different from Normal love. By Abdiwelli MOhamed Suber
Ahmedbaraki@hotmail.com

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M.K

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WOW! LOVE> Man it's a big thing.
Love is a whole world itself. It's full of emotions, feelings, and most of all trust.
When you love someone, you create a force that's greater then anything humans can make, and unbreakable until death does apart(like romeo and Juliet). Because you love from deep down, and it's hardly that you use your heart for other stuff. So when you fall in love your heart comes to work. Making you feel so engraved and joyfull. When you love you create something so special that inriches your soul.
And you will know when your in love, because you hear your heart make sounds. And if the other person you fell in love makes those noises. Then Nothing is stoping you from making great decisions. And ofcourse you can't love someone too much, because however much you love is the desired amount. You will see and know that your in love when your heart makes noises like drums.
And you will know the method of love, because your soul makes you things that make you feel good, and the other person.

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PLAYAfromHIMALAYA

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hey ya'all, all i am saying is this, aint no such thing as love, it is all LUST!, yea you know i am right, all of us love lust and we fell in love when we get it. so people dont waste your time on love, as long as you getting good sex and occasional teasing from your man or your girl, you got love

i am out!

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Samatar

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LET ME ADDRESS THE QEUSTION ASKED PROPERLY, IT SAYS "WHAT IS LOVE AND WHAT ARE THE DIFF KINDS OF IT"? WELL IN A SIMPLE PLAIN ENGLISH LOVE IS SOMETHING THAT YOU HAVE UNCONTROLABLE URGE TO BE WANTING/NEEDING. THE LITERAL MEANING STEMS FROM THE ANCIENT GREEK WORD OF 'LOVAGE' WHICH MEANS A HERB USED FOR FLAVOURING. IN A CONTEMPORARY ENGLISH DEFINITION IT IS WARM LIKING OR AFFECTION, SEXUAL PASSION. BUT THIS MEANING IS AN OBJECTIVE ONE, MOST PEOPLE USE IT EVERY NOW AND THEN LIKE, I LOVE THAT I LOVE THIS THUS MAKING SUBJECTIVE ONE. IN OTHER WORDS YOU CAN LOVE ANYTHING BASED ON YOUR PREFERENCES AND PERSONAL JUDGEMENT. MOST PEOPLE CONFUSE WITH THIS POWERFUL TERM "LOVE" WHAT IS IT?. I LIKE TO OFFER MY SUBJECTIVE OPINION ON THIS. WHEN YOU MEAT SOMEONE IN THE FIRST PLACE YOU ACTUALLY LIKE THEM (XIISO) SEXUALLY AND ROMANTICALLY, THEN YOU DEVELOP AN STAGE WHERE BY YOU COULD TELL YOUR SELF THAT YOU ACTUALLY LOVE THIS PERSON MEANING NOT LOVE BUT CARING AND COMPASSION(KALGAYAL IYO JACAYLBA). AS TIME GOES BY, WHEN YOU SPEND THIS INDIVIDUAL CERTAIN # OF YEARS THEN BECOMES WHAT IS CALLED ADORATION, MEANING A DEEP LOVE, IN SOMALI IT IS CALLED(CISHQI), THIS IS WHEN YOU CAN'T LEAVE WITHOUT THAT INDIVIDUAL BECAUSE YOUR WHOLE LIFE IS INDOCTRINATED WITH THAT HUMAN BEING. THIS IS THE SIGNIFICANT OF THE TERM LOVE, THIS IS WHERE IT ENDS, SO YOU CAN'T LEAPFROG AND ACTUALLY JUMP INTO THE LAST CHAIN, YOU HAVE GOT TO PASS THOSE TRANSITION PERIOD CHAINS. THE ARGUMENT PRESENTED HERE SUGGEST THAT MOST PEOPLE USE IT IN AN SUBJECTIVE WAY, THE WORD ITSELF IS AN OBJECTIVE ONE BUT IT CAN'T BE USED IN A DIFFERENT WAY, IT IS ONE WORD AND IT HAS ONE MEANIG.CONCLUSION PRESENTED HERE IS THEN LOVE IS A PRECONDITION FOR VIABLE ADORATION. ONE NEEDS NOT TO CONCIEVE HIM/HERSELF BY SAYING IT BECAUSE THE WORD ITSELF IS SOMETHING LIKABLE TO SAY ALL THE TIME IN A EVERY DAY LIFE.

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Anonymous

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well said samatar
but it would of been better if you said
it in somali
but i give you probs

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DEAN PHILOSOPHY

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hello............

i thought it was nice, of you, to ask us of our thoughts only, skyhigh.

i revere that a lot in a person, who asks of other people's thoughts.

in my point of view "Love" is a word, however, what follows it in the context that the word "love" is said in and where it is used is what gives it it's unique meaning.

Nice insight skyhigh, hope we keep this forums going.

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Sodaleykla

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all remarks are made throught different vision of different perceptions. one must remember that love is the only bridge that connects humans at all levels..........................to know "love" is to know the "self". to love another is to extend ones's own love for one's self..............to love your a family is realy more connection on a biological level................the pulse that your beloved makes u feel should be felt with yourself as a person and should be shared as an extention of it to your beloved........................

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skyhigh

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from sky high
sodaleykla well said sis, and all of you, iam speechlessi didnt know i would get so much information from all of you, but now that i see different point of views, i know we will get to the goal or the point i and we are all trying to clear. knowlege keeps it's existence by transferring from a teacher to a student, remember that.
thank you

sky high
happy ramadan
blessed millenium!
peace

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Anonymous

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love can't be described. When you are in love you will know. Trust your instincts and follow your heart!

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ibtisam

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i have been with my man for 1 year and the first time i said i love u was the last 2 months.
he doesn't doubt that i love him but i wanted to make sure that i could feel the love for him and also find a good reason to love him.
so saying it last isn't a crime as long as u r loyal and make sure that your partner is respectfull and loyal to u . that's what matters (trust).
if u know deep down u r in love and u have the person u don't have to say it to convince him/her your actions should do that.
action speaks louder then words.

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Anonymous

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FADLAN SOMALI KU QARO

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LOWFAR

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IGA RALI AHAADA WAXAAN OLA JEEDAA WAXAA JIRA DAD AAN AQRIYI KARIN ENGLISHKA SIDA ANIGOO KALE WAXAA IDNKA CODSANEENAA INAAD KU QORTAA QORAALKIINA SOOMAALI.


MAHADSANIDIN

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Anonymous

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Test

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forever love.

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hallo to all of u who shared there points.first of all love is a givet and something beautyfull.
as the guy ask what is the diffrent between the love u have for u baby or the one for u boyfriend or awm... well the only one who can tolk about love is the one who knows about love what it really is. i use to bileve love but some one stapt on my heart and sense iam starting all over iagen. i know i shuold write about love but in sted can i just listen to the ppl who is lucky and bileve in love. yours ladan.

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what is my prob.

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well to ibtisan . sweety it is like this i told my boyfriend of 5 munth last night that i lovet him. my problem is evry thing that i do, i thing i am not doing it ok .he do love me but, he has exspriant evrey thing that i do before.so i feel like he is not prisheat it me .and what iam mising is when do u think u r ready for this.i mean for me it is ok when ather ppl tolk about there love and so but when it is about me i dont believe it. what is my problem?i will give u my e.mael next time please write back. love ladan.

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OlDiRtY

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girl, come to me and i will appreciate you,
i make you feel like a woooman!

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kaaskop

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Hello, mensen waar zijn julli mee bezig julli weten niet wat liefde is. Ik zal julli iets over liefde vertelen ten eerste je praat niet over liefde en geloof tegerlijker tijd, Ten twede vrouwen mogen niet mee praten,ten derde kinderen onder de achtien mogen absolut nietmee praten. En nou een kort maar krachtig verhaal, liefde is niet wat je wint maar wat je krijgt als kedouwtje. daaaaaaaaaaag.

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UNKOWN

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TO MR KAASKOP
FIRST OFF ALL YOUR STUPID
WHY ARE YOU WRITTING DUTCH LANGUAGE ON THE NET PLS WRITE ENGLISH OR SOMALI BECAUSE HEHE IS SOMALI NET GO HOME AND HELP YOUR MAM BOY YOU DONT EVEN KNOW HOW TO USE THE INTERNET
GIVE ME A BREAKE LOL
TRY NEXT TIME ENGLISH OR SOMALI

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doklov

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Love is Love
you need it , i need it
it is simply something "you want"
you cant explain it
and girls are more likely to fall in love
than guys...fo real

out\\

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nasiib

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Do u think guys knows what's love is? i don't think so they all useres, yes they usually meet wonderful girls they don't even know how to treart them we know love isn't something that u can pretending it is feelling serious feelling that u can't ignore if i be honest to u i never been in fall whit someone why i don't trust u guys.

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naciimo

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waan idinsalaamay gidigiin

skyhigh horta hore waxaan ku waydiiyay adiga mataqaan wuxuu love yahay qof aan kala aqoonin in uu love kala duwanyahay malahane ii ga soo jawaab yaa suaashaydan ahigoo ku mahad san. mida kale of coures love wuu kala duwanyahay why waxaad u kala dareemikartaa noocyo badan.diintaada oo aad jeclaato waliba sixoojleh adigay kuu tahay wax kuu roon aaqiro iyo aduunyaba, waxaan u maleenaa ninkaaga oo aad jeclaataana waa responibility kan caruur taadana kaba daran teeda kale waaba dhashaye jaceelkooda maa lagu waydiinaa. familykaagana iskaba daa. hadaan isku dayo in aan kistoo kaaga sheego jeceelka qof u galo qofkale horta waligay wax ma jeclaanin.I mean i never been in love with someone laakiin saaxiibaday ayaan arkay oo dad ay aamineen oo ay si xun u jeclaadeen si xunugaleen anyway waxaan ogaaday in aan somali guys la'aamini karin oo aysan ogeen love wuxuu yahay.ma aqaano nimanyahoow waxa uu runahaan ugu taaban waayay jaceelka nimanka somaalida.waxaan ognaday in ay ku adeegtaan gabdaha walaalahood ah oo aysan marna u noqan daacad. waxaan la yaabay waryaada feelling dhan malihidiin miyaa mise jeceelka waxaaba u maleeseen in uu yahay afka oo dadaad dhahdaan waan ku jeclahay waaba idinkasoo dhamaatay. saas maahane jaceelka sida ka daaya nimanyo.

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abud

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assalam calleykum,
its an interseting thing to see people explaining love from different angle in different perspective
but to me the word "LOVE" is not as many may think.
in english there many phrases which are substitutes of LOVE. for instance a child may say "mom" to express maternal love or dadie 4 paternal love. like wise lovers from the opposite sexes may express their love 2 each other with words like; honey!! sweetie!! darling!! etc.further more, social friends can also share social love for example sweet words like bro., sis.,habiib and the like.
in general i can say that love is something that comes from the inner heart of a person. it's said to be from the "qalb". and it goes with the mind, the "aql". by mere sayings love cannot be the LOVE. the real love. so love is not love unless its from the inner heart of a suol regardless of sex, relations or kinship.

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abud

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waxaa cajiib ah sida ay aqristayaasha umacneeyen ereyga JACEYL ama LOVE sida kor kuqoranba.
hadaba aniga waxaan u arkaa sida kayaraduwan.
waayo JECEYLKU waa dareen dareenkaas oo ka imaado qalbiga amaba laabta. ma ahan erey kaliya ee afka lagagadhawaaaqo. maxaa yeelay kawar hadii uu cunugaada kudhoho Hooyo macaanto! ama Abe macaane!! miyuunan qalbiga kugilgilaneyn?
kawaran see hadii qof walaal kaa uu Abaayo! ama Aboowe! sidookale waa erey laabta ama qalbiga qaboojinaya. marka dadku markii lasheego JECEYL waxay badanaa ujeheeyaan dhanka jaceylka raga iyo dumarka oo kaliya.
Marka Jaceylku waa dareenkaas jilicsan ee qalbiga
jilciya. mararka qaarkood jacelka hadii uu aad uguxooganaado qalbiyo aad buu ujilciyaa oo caqliguu ka awoodbadnaadaa sida wiilka uu kudhoco
JECEYL gabar, oo uu ka tan badiyo. Ama hooyo aad ujeclaato cunug.
akhiritaankii, JEcEYLKU wuxuu ukala baxaa qeybo badan oo kaladuwan sida;
kan walidka (parental love)
kan raga & dumarka
kan bini aadminimo (social love)
kan qofka & Allihii (heavenly love)
kan qofka & bay'ada (nature love)
marka jacelka noocyadaas leh waxaad kufahmi kartaa
si wanaagsan markaad darasto waxyaabahas eg. somalida waxaa kuyar ereyada qalbiga jilciya oo sababa jeceyl dumarka & raga waayo kalimadaha ee kasba jaceylka waxaa kamid ah sida engiriiska;
"please! darling! sweet heart! sorry!" etc
ama luqadaha kale sida carabiga ; xabiibi/ xabiiba
iyo wax lamid ah.
marka Jaceylka waa wax qalbiga soo tufo ee ma ahada wax lagaraadiyo. matalan qofka jaceylka hayo waa qof aan miyir laheyn oo kale waayo awoodii caqliga waxaa kabadisay tii qalbiya ilmarkaas qofka qalbigiisa ayuu racaaye maraaco caqligiisa
mahadsanid!
cabud

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MAWAHMED

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THE LOVE BETWEEN OPPOSIT SEXES. LOVE IS NOT SOME THING YOU CAN PUT IN TO WORDS. HOWEVER, IF I TRY MY BEST ABILITY TO DESCRIPE LOVE AND MAKE AS SHOR AS POSSIBLE.THE TRUE LOVE IS THE ONE THAT AFFECT THE FIVE SENSES OF HUMANBEING: SIGHT,HEARING, TOUCHING,SMELL, AND TESTES. IN ANOTHER WORD LOVE PHSICAL, EMOTIONAL, SPRUTUAL AND COMPLETE SUBMITION TO THE OPPOSIT SEX. YOU CAN KNOW WHEN YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH OPPOSIT SEX HE/SHE IF TRUST 100% FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH THAT PERSON NO MATTER WHEN, WHERE, HOW, WHY AND WHO. IF YOU HASITATE WHEN ANSWRING THOSE QUESTIONS YOU ARE IN ILLUSION. ANY Q YOU MAY HAVE I WILL ANSWER I AM A LOVE EXPERT IN THE UNIVERSITY OF LOVE RESEARCH IN NASHVILLE, TENNESSE, U.S.A.

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HUGO45

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Hi ya'll doing.

these are all very interesting comments and it would only be fair if am to leave one as well
I pesonaly know, the more you try to avoid love the easier your life gets. they say heart is not ony for effection but for understanding as well, so understand the reasons and the purpose of that certain love or person then give your heart away IF its suitable then.
thankx all

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suuban

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kaalay su'aal kale mad soo waysay mise waligaaba wax ma jeclaanin oo feeling dhanba ma lihid su'aashaada yaab badanaa jeceel jeceel waaye noo teeda kale in uu kala gadisanyahay yaan ogeen of course waxaa ugu mihiinsan diin taada oo aad jeclaato ninkaaga taas waaba masuuliyadaadee yaa ku waydiinaanaayobo ilmahaaga oo aad jeclaatidna dhiigaaba ku jecleesiinaa I mean jirkaaga ay ka soo go'eene jeceel maalagaa sugaa tan familykaagana kaba sii daran nin ama naag jeceelkooda wax aan ka sheegi karo baaba iska yar why waligay wax ma jeclaanin in la i jeclaado ma ogiye waan ku jeclahay markiila idhaho funny leey ila tahay mar aan wax jeclaandoono maaqaano anyway
waxaan u maleenaa adiina ani camal lee tahay.

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skyhigh

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salaama caleykum..this is skyhigh saying
ahlan wasahlan to everyone!

first of all , i want to thank all the people that took the time to post me or the rest of us their personal perspectives . again i always read your messages and here's what i thought of what some of you said....

to naciimo...
abaay good question, ma aqaano micnaha runta ah ee love, laakiin waxa aan aqaanaa jaceyl in uu kala duwanyahay, oo uu kuu qaban kara siyaabo kala duwan. excuse me if my soomali is not good enough, but what i am trying to get to here, is get different prespectives, cause we all have some knowledge of love, we dont have it all, and to see it in different ways helps us to get closer to the point we need to focus into, so lets share..
and yes, nimco abaay you didnt still tell me your perspective of love, you just told me what kinds of love there is. and another point you made was that guys dont know the meaning of love...why is that?

to abud..

bro that is what i was lookin for...you gave me your perspective of love ..and to help me get it right.. is this what you are trying to say?

points.

1) love can be expressed with words
2)love is something that comes from the soul(qalbi)

to MAWAHMED

it is interesting how you describe what love is and how it effects us, like the five senses, but you did not go in great detail..i was hoping that you could explain it a little more, another thing is that you said you have to trust the other significant person 100%. what if you dont, does that mean you dont love them...for example a family member,a lover or a friend?

to hugo45

...are you saying that if you leave love alone that it will come to you? or that love messes up your understanding so just pick your suitable person and then love will grow? your points are not clear, but i am very glad that you left us your opinion.


to suuban.

abaay good question, i asked this question because there are other people who dont understand what love is really, including me. i mean if i ask you how does love feels like,, i bet you wouldnt give me the exact right answer that everyone will agree. everyone has their own perspective and it is really good to hear different kinds of feedback, and maybe you and i will really now how everyone else knows the subject. you said it seems funny to you if someone says that they love you ..why? i mean dont you trust the person to really love you? and what is that love? thank you for posting your thoughts sis, i hope to hear from ya.


last but not least, i think i have said too much...but i want to tell you guys about a friend of mine..who says he will neva fall in love..

i asked him why?
he said that loving someone requires you giving your heart, soul and control..he says that you will be weak and defenseless. so to prevent that ever happening he plans to play around and neva tell a girl that he loves her...

umh?..i am wondering , i think many of the guys that is said to break girls hearts are like that..the players what they call them...i mean they are weak themselves...so girls if a guy doesnt want to say he loves you..i bet he scared and this is assumption,, this here is really an interesting subject...but what we focusing is love..i mean why would someone be scared of love?
and does love realy make you that weak..

well, to all the people think they can answer my questions or might have their own perspective thoughts on LOVE..tell us and TEACH AWAY!

from skyhigh
lets keep the bowl rolling*

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abud

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skyhigh bro/sis i think u got it right but u missed 2 mention my point correctly. any way what i said is that sweet or passionate word can be an expresion of love. if u read the somali version of my explanation u can figure it out.
by mere saying i love u does not necessarily mean love. so i partly agree with u friend. coz i dont usually say i love u 2 someone whom i dont love. there is a difference between like & love. so someone u like doesn't neccessarily mean u love him/her.
lastly i think u shouldn't say p'ple r scared of love. usually people who love r happy but not scared so u will agree with me if the love is 4 opposite sex. but then we can say that the parties in love could be a bit frustrated due to love obsession.

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~adam~

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salams my dear brethren

now sky..hi :)

u must all Xcuse me i only read ur first Q, which was about love....now let me C hmmmmm

<3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3
LoVe is a *GifT* from 'The MosT HigH'
<3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3


love is an affection we have 4 our families
a warm feeling of kindness 4 the lovely things
in life.
love is a weakness 4 the one we find irresistable
its a spirit soother, it makes bliss
i could go on.....
all i know is i was born knowing how to love
and that Allah is loving :)

k
walaloo 's

peace and love 2 u all

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Amran

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SLAMU CALAYKUM DHAMAANTIIN
I been readin' your disscusion and I have a Q
I hope one of you will answer it!
here is my Q.HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN YOU ARE IN LOVE?

thanks

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Anonymous

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maryan that is what the whole discussion is about
daaaaaaaa!

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hussien

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my point of view of this toppic, first it is very interesting subject and anyone of us don't exactly know the meaning of love, as already my friends described it is feeling that we have it naturally, it isnot something we pretend to have it or not. personally i can say i have been falling in love and iam still are, but still it is very difficult to explain. All of you who never been that position have to waiting and hope oneday you will click that icon.

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Yasmin

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To suuban: I hate to break this to you but we in 21 century honey as ya know, losing it a bit and stop making things harder 4 your self.


First of all the word "LOVE" is way too strong and people just say it as matter of getting what they want at that point. Love is something that you feel for someone special and can't live without it no matter what and also willing to do anything in your power not to lose. It ain't something that you can fake it either.

There are people who can't love at all whatever they do, if you love somebody , you should consider your self a lucky. Cus some people
have love disorder as matter of fact.

I know that people are confuced with LOVE & LIKE. Love it ain't easy ladies & gentals, it's one thing that clicks your mind at the first stage. Infact we getting here some somali brothers who have no clue at all what so ever, as they approach they telling you that they got the fellings for ya.

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Warda

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WHAT IS LOVE?????Hmmmmmmmmmm???
I don't know!!!
A man and a woman could think they are in love and then after awhile what thought was love could fade away and the conflict begins.....Was that love or something else????
A person could love another as a friend and then through their journey something could happen which causes their separation....Was that love???
A brother or sister could love one another but in some cases they could lose their brotherly or sisterly love for something material like inheritance or money....Was that love???
The only thing i could call close to real love is that of a woman for her child, because a mother could give the altimate sacrefice for her child...Could that be the real love??? could be it is close enough.
And then there is the love some people have for their creator or allah subxaanahu wa tacaalaa, they are ready to die for allah and their religion,Maybe that is the greatest love of them all....
Walaahu aclam, but i believe love is something greater than feelings or desires, it is something we can't explain or understand...Only allah knows.

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BADGIRL

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WHAT IS LOVE??????Allow trouble to share my take on Love

Love is patience
Love is true
Love is when you admit to him/her....I love you
Love is a feeling beyond comprehension
Love is all that and the special connection
Love is Chemistry,Biology & Physics
Love happens to all and you know you can't miss it....
Kapishhhh...
Hey I know coz it happened to me.I fell in love once and I am one of the few fortunate ones who is still with their first loves.If you read this AJ......I love you more than I can put in words.I declare it...lol.....And thanx for loving me back.Much appreciated sweetie....U KNOW U R MY ONE & ONLY NIMCATULLFASHUUUUQ(LOL)

U know when you are in Love, When you wake up in the morning and your loved one comes into your mind...
The moment I wake up,
Before I put on my make up
I have a little though of him
It is midday now....
Im wondering what Xijaab to wear now
I have a little thought of him
Im going out now,I get on the bus dear
And on my way over I think about us dear
I save a litle thought of him.

But guys......the ultimate LOVE OF ALL IS THE ONE WE GOT FOR ALLAH......AM I RIGHT????Course I am l

(BADGIRL)

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Anonymous

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How to Know If You Are In Love!
What, then, is this elusive thing called love
that everyone so desperately needs? Sometimes, we sort of like this girl because she is beautiful ? Or the girl likes him because he is :handsome?

But this kind of "Cinderella Syndrome" when the
girl
is waiting on her Prince Charming, is not real
love.
It is better known as "infatuation"and there is a
vast difference between it and real love. Here,
we
help you to differentiate and find out if
you are really in love> and>not>just infatuation.
Infatuation is a feeling; real love involves
a commitment also.Infatuation is just love of
emotion. Real love, though,is love of devotion.
Only
the emotions are affected in infatuation, but
in real love both the emotions and the will
are involved.Next, a person >"fall into"
infatuation, but "grows into" reallove. :
Guys, have you ever seen a girl who was so
beautiful that you thought you'd faint? This is
infatuation!
It is based totally on physical attraction; you don't know much in-depth about the person
you
so-called love. Thus, infatuation is mostly
biological. Also remember, never tell a girl you
love her, unless you are willing to marry her.
Then,
infatuation is basically selfish where real love
is basically selfless . Infatuation is more
interested in satisfying yourself and the
"feeling" than it is
in the other person. Real love is primarily
interested in the other person. It seeks to give
instead
of get.Love unselfishly seeks the highestgood for the other person.Lastly,infatuation is weakened
by
time and separation where real love is
strengthened by time and separation. Thisdoes not
mean that there
will be no pain in separation. On the
contrary, there is great pain in separation
if you are truly in love.
Now you know what is infatuation, we will go on
to
discuss about the details of a true love.

Love is patient
The word translated "patient" means to wait
patiently
for the fulfillment of expectations.When you
have
difficulty dating this girl and she does not
want
to come out, f you truly love her,you will not
complain and blame her, you must look at the
situation from her point of view maybe she is
having some problems which prevented her from
coming out. You
must react to it with patience and
understanding.
Next, have you ever met someone you liked so much
that you wanted to push the relationship and
make
it progress faster? Sure you have!
Love,>however,
willing to allow it grow at a natural pace. It
does not push but is willing to wait for the
relationship to grow at a rate that is
satisfactory
to both parties.

Love is Kind
Love seeks to encourage and build up others. It
respects the feelings and emotions of others. It
finds its greatest satisfaction in >making others
happy.You can do the following:
(1) Give one another things such as gifts and
encouragement cards.
(2) Compliment one another. Magnify the other
party's strength.
3) Listen to one another. Pay close attention to
what each of you has to say and make each other
feel that
whateach says is important.
(4) Treat one another special in public.
Compliment and encourage one another sincerely in
the presence of others.

Love is Not Jealous
Jealousy usually indicates an insecure and
immature heart. Love wantsthe best for others,
but
jealousy is possessive. Jealous is reflected in
the childish statement, "If he is going to talk
to her,
then he can just forget about me!" Often, one
person wants to totally possess the other and to
restrict her relationships with others.

Love is Not Brag
Love is not a windbag and is not anxious to
impress.Often a guy will =brag to a girl, trying
impress her so that she will like him.
A truly great person, however, does not need
to exalt himself! Others will exalt him.

Love is Not Arrogant
Love is not conceited, boastful, cocky, or
stuck-up. Love, instead, is humble and has a
servant attitude. Sometimes, a guy may come across to
a girl with an "I can take you or leave
you" attitude. His demeanor implies, "You ought
to
be thankful that somebody as neat as me is
dating
you." Of course, this is not love.

Love always covers
This word cover means to pass over in silence, to
keep
confidential.Love is patient with the faults of
others. It doesn't criticize> and broadcast to
the
world the faults of others. Love is there even
when it knows the other is not perfect.

Love always Perseveres
Love always stands its ground and holds out. It
will
outlast anything.It will even love in the face of
unreturned love. Real love will last though all
sorts of trials, tribulations and stresses.

Love is Not Provoked
This means that love has a long fuse. It does not
become irritated>and angry. It is not easily
offended.

Love does not seek it's own
This is the heart of love. Love is>
other-centered
rather than self-centered. Love says, "I love
you, I
want to give to you."Selfishness says, "I love
you,
I want you!"
Love does not act unbecomingly This means that love does not behave
disgracefully,
dishonorably or indecently.It does not embarrass
others by its action. It is characterized by tact
and sensitivity.This also means that love
should have good manner. Be sure to do little things like opening
doors for your girl, or offering her your arm
when
you walk together.

Love is forgiving Lastly, this is a MUST for a successful love
story. If a guy is not willing to forgive and forget
when
his girlfriend is one hour late, he is not
exhibiting love. Love doesn't hold grudges when
it has
been wronged. It doesn't remain resentful.

LOVE IS PATIENT AND KIND ;
LOVE IS NOT JEALOUS OR BOASTFUL ;
IT IS NOT ARROGANT OR RUDE ;

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Anonymous

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first of all let me start off by sayin' that it honestly does my heart good to see a topic being discussed so openly & truthfully!
love is such a simlpe yet intercate feeeling....its'inate in all of us from birth.Although at times it 's used as a cliche,the true sense of love<which i yet have to comprehend>is beautiful. This can be said'bout all forms of love...whether it be a love for god ....to a love for your companion! the true essence of it is pure and forever untainted!

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impressed

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hey adam i like the way u put that man.
is cool, do u want my email brudder?

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Ayaan

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Waad salaamantihiin kuligiinba?

Kalgaceylku waa qani laakiin caashaqaa ka qara weyn?

Micniha oo ah Kalgaceyku waa kaad u qabtid hooyadaa abhaa walaalahaa familigaaga iyou asxaabtaada kaaga.

Kalgaceyku markaa ma guura oo waligaad waad u qabi hooyo aabo iyo familagaba meaninig you will always love your family no matter what?

Caashaqu laftirkiisa si gooni ni ah ayaa ugu dhacaa qofkastaba aad beyna u adegtahay inaan idiin micneeyo caashaqa madaama anen wali jeclaan igu dhicin.

Waxaa jira wax layiraahdo XIISO. Xiiso unfortunetly waxaad moodi inuu jaceylkii dhabta ahaa kugu dhacay oo it has all the signs that love will have the diffrence is Love will last but xiiso will not. Infact it will not last more than a month.

Unfortunetly i have to rush naw! I was reading all the articles that took me quite a long time.

I promise i will finish my piece asp till next time My Allah Bless All the Muslims!!!

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Homey

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Love is understanding and acceptance.... Lust
is infituation.... Until we learn how to
differentiate between the two, we will just
be shooting blanks.... Let us think below
the belt and we will be just fine....

cu

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Osman Akabe - Kaiser

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To whom it may concern

All Gentleman, and Ladies

After I have reviewed and checked your suggestions of the Love, I have these comments and recommendations, once again, I want tell the World reality and damage of women and to advise to the young generation behind me.

As you are well aware love is created by the woman, but it’s not a natural, Love always killed millions men but not even a single Lady, I can prove this to whole world not in only one things, but I have more than 200 Stories, that I have collected from the different Nations.

Firstly, I would like to transfer to you some Articles of my Life and then from the other nations. Long time ago, I had been fallen in love with a girl. It was really Fourteen years ago, we were classmate in the Intermediate School (Ali Hussein Giire – Madina) in Mogadishu. She was very kind to me and told me that she loves me. I believed it, this makes me a strong feeling affection deeply to the bottom of my heart and she created small hole the corner of my heart, our love of each other was obviously shown up, she has always had a love of learning and me too. We both worked hard and we passed the final examination with a high marks. We were praised by our teachers, at any how, suddenly I got visa UAE in that time she was in Kenya Refugee and determined to go the America than I agreed with this idea. After that she went to USA safely, I wrote to her several letters but she did not reply anyone of it. I really surprised I felt so anxious about her one year later, I heard that she got married with another man. It seemed to me that’s incredible, it was ridiculous, and the flames of my love had died now, I realized a woman never been in love but the men’s are!, This is one of definitions of the women’s damages, and next issue I will transfer to you the reality Love of Mr. Elmi Bodhari, Ali Maah and Others.

This is for your information and to avoid to be in love to a woman and never, never trust what they told you because they are big liars. Once again, I strongly recommended and strictly prohibited to all women not to share Love Suggestions. if you have any comments or clarifications regarding the subject matter, please write to me e-mail Osmanakabe@hotmail.com

Thanks all of you,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

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osman Akabe - Kaiser

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Comments to Miss. Ruqiya Omer

We welcomed your points and appreciated your early responses and hospitalities of our suggestions. Actually, as you requested, we have agreed some phrases of your article, for instance Islamic case, we are Muslim nations and it is obligatory to performance Islamic duties completely. Consequently, it seems to us you should not included or involved the Somali Women Hazardous for Islamic case, because every knows and believed What Allah Says in his Qurran and Sunnah of our Prophet Mohamed (SCW).

Secondly, we highlighted the SWH and their injuries of our earlier article, we can not repudiate the reality, so that we want to spread the world and avoid the young generation behind us. However, we strictly prohibited the women not to share any love negotiations because they were killed millions heroes and other millions will going to be absent-mined in the next century, simply they have create love with them, and destroyed after while, (Doqonow jaceylow dumarkaba ma layside ma ragaa laguu direy oo laguugu dow galey, sowdigii Cilmiba diley Qeys caloosha kala jarey, Kaiser geeyey dalshisheeye).

Thirdly, the target behind in our subject is to announce the facts, and try to change the Life Style of our SWH. Whatsoever, SW are not respects the meaning of the love, it is not vengeance or loathing but it is something true so-that. In the probability, coming weeks we are planning to prepare the Community to discuss the SWH. We are approaching to prepare draft report and we will pass to the concerned department in the world to take legal action.

Forthly, the one bad apple can damage others, and there is no chance to defence the others, you are daydreaming, do not waste your time digging to answer our negotiations, one of our habits are to create the mysteries, so that please Let the cat out of the window and try to enhace your sisters.

Eventually, if you have any comments regarding the SWH, or to take appeal to challenge negoatations, we are online. God bless you.

Looking forwards to receiving your REPLY.
osmanakabe@hotmail.com

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Anonymous

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bro, i dont know about the rest but i have no idea of what you talking about , an who is this ruqiya omer you are talkin about?

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Brit Girl

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I am one of those people who is still searching for love from a guy but i do have love from my family (mum & dad in particular). But i could not have asked for any other love in the world but the love of Allah subhaana watacaala.
Sometimes i have an argument with my mum, dad my brothers and my sister and i think why doesn't anyone love me? And then i think yes they do, and i feel happy because Allah's love is always in my heart.

From your sis faze AKA Brit girl

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IN LOVE

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FROM IN LOVE

TO EVERYONE WHO ANSWER THE BIG Q, I'M VERYGLAD TO SEE SOMALI PEOPLE HAVING DISCUSTION ABOUT SOMETHING SO MEANING FULL TO ALL HUMAN KIND, WITHOUT ANY DISAGREEMANT YOU GUYS BRING TEARS TO MY EYES I'M MOVE HOPE YOU ALL FEEL WHAT I FEEL IT IS LOVE THAT YOU CHOOSE TO DISCASS SO OPENLY....I BEEN IN LOVE MORE THEN 1 TIME AND I CAN'T TELL YOU HOW MUCH I ENJOYED BEING LOVE AND LOVE BY SOMEONE, IF YOU DON'T IN LOVE YET HOPE YOU FIND THAT ESPECAILY SOMEONE HIM/HER.....IT IS MOST WONDERFUL IN THE WORLD AND IF ANYONE TRY TO EXPLAIN THE FEELING IS ANEXPLAINABLE?????

PEACE AND LOVE YOU'LL

SINCERLY IN LOVE

PS SKYHIGH MORE POWER TO YOU SIS WITHOUT Q NO ONE WAS WILLING TO TALK ABOUT LOVE HOPE YOU DO THIS KIND OF QUESTIONS MORE OFTEN......

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skyhigh

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i am a brother, and thank you for your lovely comments.....i am just the student here, you guys are my teachers...so keep those explanations goin.

sky high
anything is possible..

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XABIIB

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jacayl waa mid kaan la jiranahay oo facay iyo fac xigeenkey aan la gaari kari waayaay by the way my name is xabiib and iam trying to write my comments in somali becouse i grown in somalia and love somali languge. walaalayaal waxaan idin waydiinayaa suaal ma jiraa wali qof idinka mid ah oo uu jacayl hayay mudo 5 sano oo xiriir ah ? tan labaad waxaad ka hadasheen jacaylka iyo siduu yahay iyo siduu qofka kale ee aad jeceshay u saameeyo MA IS WAYDIISEEN JACEY MAXAA LAGU GARTAA INUU KU HAYO MAXAASE KAMID AH WAXYAABAH LAGU OGAADO GABDHA AAD JECESHAHAY INTEY KU JECESHAHAY .... ????? WAAN IDIIN WADI DOONAA EE IIGA SOO JAWAABA SU AALAHAAS.

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Osman Akabe - Kaiser

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Comments to sky-high

Many thanks, of your regular comments and definitions of the Love. As you know we are human-being, and we are teaching/explaining the people the Human-Love and Somali Women Hazardous and their disrespected about the Love. Hence we are not a position to waste our time Family Love or Others, and advise our young generations behind us.

Firstly, you should minimize your articles and no need to surrounding the points, but you should catch the points and nudge at the subject by using knowledge, and also you should take care to contradict your previous articles. Certainly, whatever, you choose the main think to remember to be courteous and you should not go for wrong and to keep your writing simple and straightforward because anything which is too involved and complicated is bad writing.

Secondly, we have tried to rehabilitate our Somali Women and decrease their regular injuries and damages. The lack of central government, we arranged several meetings were held over a period 6 months and the best way to achieve this goal. The meetings culminated in the need to enlarge the membership bases and to establish Committees.


Chairman,
of Organization

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skyhigh..aka..dAsH..aka..Rajulun*..sayin bye-bye to the lovers in da house!!

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I want to say GOOD*BYE, to my fellow brothers and sisters, i have learned alot of things from you on the topic of LOVE*, and i hope ya'all keep on disscussin that topic, cause so far we HAVE enlightenin minds, farewells, and thank you for sharin your opinions and knowledge....
keep on , keep on~~


SKY*HIGH
sky is da limit..

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Filsan

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"Love is a beautiful thing, it must be treated with tenderness and compassion or, like a rose, it's thorns can make it dangerous
Filsan

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Anonymous

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if you love some body
Just
tell him/her and prove it
because fact are thing that every body understand clearly
and do not waste time
thinking about what to do if........
and if.....

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shimbir

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it makes your hart tingle every second of the day
powerfull stuff fragile too so dont joke with it

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Jiidaaye

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Since the term"love" has been dealt with by many skilful writers, i may as well share bit about my experience with the term.You have never been experienced love if you have not yet been an "slave for your partner". Let me clarify what i mean by this: I have seen love on 2 occasions, both so powerful to the extent that my soul was conquered and enslaved by these two lovely ladies.
Well, i was and still am one of those men who when their partner says jump would proudly say how high. A piece of advice for men:Do not invite love , if you cannot go that far"to become slave".Don't get me wrong this is not one-way thing, it is mutual it gotta be that way if you do it the right way, i found women to be generally understandable and willing to pay back but, in my view, it gotta start form men, or vice versa in some occasions .

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Scared Girl

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I am 17 yrs old and i have recently met this guy he is 23 and i really like him but he feels that he needs sex in a relationship. He asked me if i would have sex with him if i went out with him. I am really scared because i am a virgin and a good muslim. What should i do? What if my family find out? But i really like him and am scared to fall in love with him as well because i'm scared that i will become dependant on his love.

Help me out brothers and sisters. I would much appreciate your advice.

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BIG BROTHER

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To: Scared Girl
First of I would like to thank you for seeking an advice from others. Second of all, PLEASE DO NOT HAVE A SEX YET. If this guy really means that he likes you or cares about you, then he shouldn't pressured you to do this. The other thing is you are only 17yrs old, and have a lot to learn in life. Also, as you know our religion forbids sex before marriage, and like you say, you are a good muslim person so you should obey our believes in terms of sex. On the other hand, if you have sex now, what are you gonna do tomorrow wen you become a mature woman who is about to get marry. What are you gonna tell your husband, cause he is gonna notice the difference(virgin or not virgin).
And for guys prospective, this guy only wants to have sex with you, and when he gets it he will disappear.
In conclussion, the decission is yours, and at the end of the day, only you can decide what is best for you.

GOOD LUCK!!!!

P.S. Let me know if you need to talk.

BIG BROTHER.

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ur small sistha

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to big brother
thanks u so much i needed that too

bro i had the same proplem!
and i belive if someone really like u or loves u he
never going to ask for that
i am i right?

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Big Brother

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To:My small Sis

Yes! U are right. Cause if I my love for you is truely one, then sex should be the last thing in my mind. Unfortunately, some guys do not think that way, and all they think about is sex, which is wrong. You know, the reason these guys need to have sex is because of their ego. They believe the more girls they sex with, the more macho-man they will feel. In otherwords, sex builds thier self-steem (confidence).

So, my advise to you sis is do not let a man take your bride away. If he tells you he is going to leave if he doesn't get what he wants (sex), then don't stop him. Cause that shows you he doesn't see you as a human but as a sex toy. A gentleman guy would never force you to do something you don't feel comfortable. So sis, watch-out the bad boys who seem to want one thing only SEX....

P.S. I hope that answers your question. Let me know if that answer isn't enough for you.

Take Care!

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ur small sistha

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to big brother
ur answer was more than just enought for me
thanks u agian
and ur small sis want to tell u
i love u my big brother i feel much better now
byeeeeee

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luvchick

Saturday, July 01, 2000 - 12:00 pm
to kaaskop...
ja eigenlijk zegt je naam al alles, maar ik kan niet het gewoon niet voor me houden ik bedoel..
leer eens fatsoenlijk nederlands praten te tweede wie ben jij om te beoordelen wie wel mag mee praten en wie niet. jij weet niet eens wat dat woord betekent laat staan dat je er over kunt praten dus in de toekomst zou je beter je bek kunnen houden want het stinkt hier ontzettend door jou. en hoe durf je zo over vrouwen te praten seksist die je bent.

to the other people...
listen ladies and gentlemen...
love...
that's a little word with such a big meaning.
and those who get to feel that are the lucky one's cause the true love comes only ones in a life time....
it's not something that you get to feel just like that... it's something that you got to build, it takes long time before you get to feel the real love
and is something between two people who love eachother i mean really love...
i can only give ya one advice ....be careful with that love...cause it's turns very easy in to hate...
well i hope i helped you guys with my theorie..
peace

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zack

Thursday, July 06, 2000 - 10:48 am
what up ppl!!!!
NO nigga wouldn't love to have sex. when a sista says she is virgin, then it's a matter of believing. "Smallgirl"...if the brother cares for u he shouldn't be pushing to have sex.The thing yo' sistas need to understand is that we will ask u to have sex with us to find out who really are. i don't want to be dating no hoe..no offense pls. If the sista never had it(i mean sex) then as brother we should applaud and congradulate that particular sista. and if we care for that person continue to grow and mature with caring and love them.....but no matter what, the first thing a real nigga needs to do is test the girl to have sex with and find out what she says.

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IMAN

Friday, July 14, 2000 - 07:49 pm
love is something that brings two people together
allthough you should get intimate with the one you love and he loves you at the right time at the right place kalgacalku waa dhab waa dawo iyo malab waa nabar damqanayo dawadiisu adagtahay
ee waxa iga dardarana labadii iis dortow kuu
dadala cashaqa thats all i have to say bro/sis
and be patience with the one who loves you
and cares for you cause a player is always a
player like zack you big deceiver chatting about
asking if she want sex f!-- yo mama boy bye brothers and sisters and i do love you guys

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ABDI

Monday, July 17, 2000 - 07:55 am
LOVE IS A VARIABLE OF TIME, I.E. ONE CAN LOVE EVERYTHING AS LONG AS THE CIRCUMSTANCES ARE RIGHT LOVE IS THE SAME FOR YOUR WIFE, FAMILY AND GOD BUT EACH IS PRECIEVED DIFFERENT BY THE INDIVIDUAL.

PEACSE AND LOVE

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Anonymous

Tuesday, August 08, 2000 - 07:38 pm
Love is feeling that hamun feel when seaking some thing emotionly.
When ur heart bombing around and u couldn't control it that is really love. on the other hand love could be loving God that is truth love what the people know love now days isn't true.

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Anonymous

Sunday, August 13, 2000 - 04:31 pm
LOVE IS THE GREATEST THING IN HE WORLD AND EVERY ONE NEED SOMEONE TO LOVE AND SHARE THEIR LOVE.
I HAVE BOYFRIEND AND I NEVER SAY TO HIM I LOVE U BECAUSE IT'S SO HARD TO COME OUT BUT HE ALWAYS TELL ME THAT HE LOVES ME, AND THAT'S WHAT'A ALL ABOUT TRUE LOVER, AND I KNOW THAT I LOVE HIM MORE THAN WORDS, IT'S SO HARD FOR ME SAY.
PACE Y'ALL

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Anonymous

Tuesday, August 15, 2000 - 06:25 pm
that is very good q?
I was wondring when i was yong or let me say
when i was in the middle school what is love
trully mean?
i thouth when i was in that age love is only
based in sex?burden if i am rude people
but when i grow up my hol idea about that has
been changed to the batter i thing so
now i thing that love is something no one
can reach to it's real meaning so i want to
say is that love is something realy enormous
that can't be easeily explained.
what i reached to is that there is two loves
in the humanbeing life one is true and one
imagination that has build by oposite sex.
the one that is true is the one that you and
every body in this life was born with the love
that you had it for your mother father sister
brother the love that you had it for the food
the water that you drink the love that you had
it the interesting thing this life.
and the other love is the one that goes to
your mind when you hear the word {love}
and you know what i mean
and last thing i want to say {love aint simple}
piece up to y'll

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guled

Tuesday, August 15, 2000 - 06:27 pm
that is very good q?
I was wondring when i was yong or let me say
when i was in the middle school what is love
trully mean?
i thouth when i was in that age love is only
based in sex?burden if i am rude people
but when i grow up my hol idea about that has
been changed to the batter i thing so
now i thing that love is something no one
can reach to it's real meaning so i want to
say is that love is something realy enormous
that can't be easeily explained.
what i reached to is that there is two loves
in the humanbeing life one is true and one
imagination that has build by oposite sex.
the one that is true is the one that you and
every body in this life was born with the love
that you had it for your mother father sister
brother the love that you had it for the food
the water that you drink the love that you had
it the interesting thing this life.
and the other love is the one that goes to
your mind when you hear the word {love}
and you know what i mean
and last thing i want to say {love aint simple}
piece up to y'll

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KANAYOOOS

Wednesday, August 16, 2000 - 02:43 am
HI EVERYONE WE ALL SEEM TO HAVE DIFFERENT INTERPETATION OF WHAT LOVE IS ALL ABOUT. but in my explanation, some people find love with work, people, life, huspand, dogs,cat. Why I mentioned all of the above is because, we all have felt it some way or another. PLEASE DONT CONFUSE WITH THE IDEAR OF BEING IN LOVE, TO THE ACTUAL LOVING THINK. I KNOW FOR FACT SOMALIAN MEN USE TO GET WAT THEY WANT SO THEY USE TO IN ORDER TO TRICK THE PERSON THEY WITH. THAT IS MY OPINION AND EXPERIENCE ANY WAY.

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Ahmed-weli

Wednesday, August 16, 2000 - 09:01 am
Dear Brothers And Sisters

In my book love is a feeling, respecting
and trusting someone as the same way you wanna
be respected and the sameway you wanna be trusted
and love will only last long if the other person
feel the sameway......The more you build it together the higher it gets.
And that's my opinion... i welcome yours.

Ahmed-weli

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osmaan

Friday, March 30, 2001 - 07:52 am
None of you truly beleives until he wishes for his brother what he wishes for himself ( hadith) that is true love waxaad jeceshahay markaad la jeclaato walaalkaa ma jiro jaceel kaas ka wayn.
commedian once said all the world loves a lover except people who are waiting to use the phone.
National pastime of Bali is making love and we picked qaat(khad). love does not make the world go round but it sure makes the ride worthwhile.

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