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How can we help our somali sister to stop drinking?

SomaliNet Forum (Archive): Ila Qosol - Jokes: Archive (August 2000): How can we help our somali sister to stop drinking?
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Maimuna

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Know a days our somali sisters are starting to drink and smoke weed. Young and old they are doing it. I know you guys know what i am talking about, couse we have seen them do it. Please let me know if you do and why you do it. I am not judging you or anythink i just like to know.

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Anonymous

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Why do you wanna know? Curiosity kills the cat. If you are not doing it, then you don't wanna know it. Period.

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Maimuna

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asking a question won't hurt. If you don't like my question then ignore my page sis. You learn by asking.

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Maimuna

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if you don't like the question i asked well sis, then stay away from my room. Its us easy as that. no harm to it.take care know

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Gacalka

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Maimun, i love sisters who drink alcohol and smoke weed and if u r one of them please welcome to our club...all our members r somali men and women who enjoy alcohol and weed, we love each other and stick together... read my lipps:-
Somali girls who drink alcohol r much better than girls who don't

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Fatima

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3yrs ago, i started smokin' weed and then i went on to drinkin'
first, my friend brought to me on my 18th b-day, it was like her birthday gift to me n'mean...
then my other homegirl started seeing this dude that sells weed...so we asked him to get us some.Basically, our aim was to get high, it was my second time..unfortunately it was her first time.Then after that..everyweekend we would smoke before we go to clubs,pool, or movies..as long as we weren't home, we even started smoking cigarettes. As for drinkin i started drinkin COolers at the clubs, my homegirl and i thought it was ill, so we went on to Baileys, chardonnays, dry martinis.(basically heavy dosages if you get my drift).
now at age 21, going 22 i aint wit that nomore, cuz i was getting wit it all the time. Eventually as the situation progressed my homegirl and i decided it was getting outta hand, and we dont need them thangs...n'mean!
we never had accidents, we would sober up before we start the engine..and we never actually took guys wit us. we were no limit soldiers(as we thought).
some of my family members drink for pleasure, and it became a NORMAL everyday thang for them and me. As for weed.. first,i wanted to discover what its like, after i done that, i was smoking to release tension and anger, cuz weed makes you relax .n'mean
so there!!! thats my story, i also know alot women(25+) not girls who are just startin alcohol.

ciao tutti

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Maimuna

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Fatima
sis i know what you mean,was it hard for you to stop drinking and smoking weed or was it easy? Cause i tell my friend to stop and they will, until they get to a club and they will not stop drinking. the good thing is you guys know your limit,and as long as you know your limit then you are a save drinker and smoker.

thanks for your responds
ps I was just like you.

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BI-LADY

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Ayyo, PR rum, moet, jack Daniels just to name a few...

Moet drinkin marijuana smoking, am a street dweller..i dont think i can live without these..their like my blood ...

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SmOoThY

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Walaahi U peolple..have lost all sense of culture and diin...I can't believe this walaahi ...

To:: Matimuna Walaalow Maccan...I understand why U wanna know about this madness "Marijana and alcohol" are U thinking about maybe trying it one day????????????......

To the other Somalian sisters that wanna go down that road to hell ....may allah ...*SWT*..help U see the light ...If I HAD MY WAY I'D SENT Y'ALL BACK TO SOMALIA WALAAHI ..SEE HOW MUCH "MOET AND WEED" YO AZZ GETZ THERE...

PEACE U PPL NEED IT ...

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MissX

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lol@Smoothy ahahahaha


good god! y'all definately brain-washed! marijuana?!?!?! rumm?!?!?!? c'mon gurls, next thing y'all gonna tell me is y'all baby-mama's..ha! I guess we should have a somali rehab centre in the west communities, cuz y'all gurls are truly F*cked! Y'all need some self-respect

peace

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Maimuna

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smoothy
Walaal i am not thinking of starting anything. i am not saying drinking and smoking weed is good i am just saying to all my sister to explain why they are doing this and how they can stop it.
the problem is that we judge people and we should not judge ,we should let god judge as.

drinking and smoking weed is a problem that they are going through and for them to over come the problem they need to find out why they are doing this to them self and that is why i asked this question.

take care guys

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Caraweelo

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to Maimuna;
Why should one be interested in something that would lead to damaging your brain! Do you know that weed/pot/marijuana kills brain cells? Do you know that the brain cells do not renew themselves?
Hence the word "pot-head"! Now you know where that comes from.
As for alcohol- there is no such thing as "safe" drinker. When one drinks, he/she looses control. You can not control your behaviour, what you say or who you say it to. When a person drinks, they look and act stupid. Hence the word "drunkard", "boozer"! It is not a compliment. People in the west are realizing the problems with drinking. They are beginning to quit. As a matter of fact the only ones that glorify the "drinking" scene- are the loosers in the inner cities.
So why start doing something that is so "passe"!
What is "in" is looking healthy, being fit- working-out, eating healthy food!
Not doping, drinking and living the night life looking all tired and "grey"!

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Maimuna

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caraweelo
I hear you sis and i thank you for you educated responds. but not many people know the evil thing behind drinking and smoking weed.
take care sis

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Alex

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do u care about life, i don't...all my pple being shot in Somalia....life is too short, enjoy while u can.

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Alex

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Some one is using my name Alex. It's not me sister. I knew I should have patented my name, now it's too late. Let alone patenting the name Alex, I don't even have more for a security deposit for a place of my own. Bother or sister the only thing left for me is my name please leave it alone.

Thank you.

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ThugGirl

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80% of the somali girls that i know drink, they smoke. most of the girls that i know started drinking a year ago and so. them girls dont do nothing anywayz , so they might as well drink.
sis anticipate alot of somali female-alcoholiks for the next coming years.

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Sinan

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Hello Everyone,

I am a 23-year old Somali student in Toronto and
this is my first time on Somalinet. I am very surprised to see this type of discussion concerning drinkining and drugs etc... Personally,
I consider myself muslim but I'm not very strict. I occasionally drink, but I never told any other Somalis about it because I was always afraid it would get back to my family (especially mother) and younger brothers. Anyways, my point is I too drink and like to have a good time (no drugs though). But I always do it with my non-somali friends. Where are all these Somali girls who appear to be laid back. I would like to meet these
sisters. Until now, all the somali girls I have met have been extremely religious. Which is good, except I'm not like that. Anyways, is there a club where most Somali's hang out in Toronto. I'm tired of going to clubs and seeing all these white girls. I'm not a junkie or anything. I just want to chill with my people. Only I'm new in this city and I can't find any young somalis my age who like to do the things I like to do. Keep the peace!

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ZadiiQ

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salamu calaykum

Ilaahoow noo naxariiso. It is sad to see our somali muslim girls drinking, and still looking others like them to drink with. May Allah show you the right path.
Sinan think about here after and Stop all those bad habits you have, just an advice.

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CoolMan

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Sinan!,

I like your type. Give me your e-mail.
We'll go have fun sometimes with my other boys and girls here in toronto

CoolMan

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ThugGirl

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To Sinan

you want to see female somali drinkers..?
go to studio69, on saturdays..and phoenix on sundays, i doubt that you will miss the big ballers..ooh i forgot...Statik, saturdays...Guvernment, (i think thats how its spelled),and the Docks on friday..
nuff said

check those out first, and let me know if you link with the alcoholik sistas...
peace

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Huda

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to sinan
sis i am a 21 year old sister that was born in Ottawa and i am now living in Toronto know. All my life i was chilling with non somali girls and boys, I drink and i smoke week sometime. I am not happy about it but i like to have fun and i grow up by having fun when drinking. anyways as you said i am sick and tired of non somali's around me all the time. I once want to find my somali sister and chill with them. Today is friday and i heard that there is a somali party some were in the west and insha alah i am going to check it out. I am not going to drink or smoke up i am just going to make some friends. I love our somali people but they judge you to much and that is one of the reason i stayed away from them this long. but i realise that no one is good for you other then your own kind.
so Sinan or anyone who likes to party email me at
huda134@hotmail.com
thanks and take care guys

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True say!

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Smoothy this is true say!. Do you wanna chat?

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SmOoThY

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TO::True say!..I don't follow sweetie what U mean

"Do U wanna chat"? Would U like my e-mail addy??

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Sinan

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Sinan's email:

sinan_99@hotmail.com

Anyone who wants to chill in T.O. can give
me a shout.

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Milk

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Ya.....first of all no one was born perfect. each and everyone of us made some kinds of so called mistakes allong the way....so plz lets not be b the judge here instead give a incuraging opinion and if u dont have any, shut up!!!! LOL
after all no one is perfect.
I lived in T.O and now attending school in V.A and sure some of my boys drink and some dont, by the way u came to America so u better learn how to deal with it in peace way or u'll else no winners.....Get it?

Bro Milk/Caano/Maziwa/or Leche as they say in spanish


peace

luv ya
ahahhahLOOL

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USgirl.

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I was born in America and I'm glad to say that I don't smoke or do drugs. I'm only 17 and I'm already afraid of what that stuff will do to ya. I know that y'all want to have fun and do those kind of stuff but please, if you have any fear of the Almighty Lord Allah (subhana wa t'ala) don't get other muslim ppl involved with these bad habits.
Don't get pissed with me I don't mean to get anyone angry I know that people make mistakes, thats why I'm warning y'all before it's too late.

Peace ppl!

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muxammad

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To USgirl keep on doing whatcha doing I like that and God bless you.

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Anonymous

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TO huda& sinan

It's not excuse that u guys were born here in the west to be drinking ok. so please get another one

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USgirl.

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Muxammad thanks bro god bless you too.
Anonymous I totaly agree with you.

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Anonymous

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I DRINK, I ENJOYING DRINKING AND I HAVE BEENING DOING IT FOR 3YRS.

I STARTED WHEN I WAS 17YRS OLD AND MY FRIEND TOLD ME TO TRY IT AND I HAD THE BEST NIGHT OF MY LIFE.

BUT I ONLY DRINK WHEN I AM CLUBBING.

DRINKING IS FUN IF YOU KNOW WHAT U R DOING AND WHO U R DOING IT WITH.

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NOWAL

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THE PROBLEM IS THERE ISN'T ENOUGH FOUNDATION IN THE WESTERN CULTURE WE ARE WET SPONGE'S SOAKING UP WHATEVER THAT IS THROWN AT US IN THIS CASE IT IT THOSE BODY MUTILATING SUBSTANCES. COME ON NOW, WE CAME TO THIS COUNTRY TO MAKE SOMETHING OUT OF OUR SELVES SO THAT WE CAN TAKE OUR ARCHIVEMENTS BACK TO OUR MOTHERLAND, INSTEAD WE ARE TAKING THEIR CULTURE BACK OF THE WHITE AND THE JAMICAN MAN, AND TAKING THEM TO BURCO,HARIIGASA AND WHEREEVER YOUR FROM INCLUDING THE BUSH.

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