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WHEN YOU ASK A SOMALIGIRL TO OUT WITH YOU WHY DO THEY ACT LIKE THEY DON'T HERE YOU SAMETHING?

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BURHAAN

Monday, August 21, 2000 - 09:24 am
WELL I NEED A REASON FOR THAT IF YOUR LADIES CAN HELP ME OUT. WHY DO THEY GET MAD WHEN WE GO OUT WITH WHITES,AND BLACKS THEY START TALKING ABOUT YOU FOR EXSAMPLE " LOOK AT HIM WHY DOES HE LEAVE IS ON RACES" I'M IN MID 20'S I REALY DON'T GET IT HAPPEN TO LIKE MORE THEN ONCE. AND ONE SOMALIGIRL CAME UP ME AND ASK ME WHY DO I GO OUT WITH OTHER RACE. I TOLD HER WHEN I ASK A SOMALI GIRL TO GO OUT WITH THEY ACT LIKE IN DIFFERENT WORLD OR SAMETHING AND THEY GETTING MAD AT ME FOR GOING OUT WITH OTHER RACE THAT DUMP. DON'T U YA THINK THAT IS. I LIKE TO HERE FROM Y'ALL THANK YOU

PEACE OUT

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ibtisaam

Monday, August 21, 2000 - 06:06 pm
First hi bro how are you.

bro there is one think you didn't mention and that is the being a Muslim. the second those girls you are taken to out are u taking them because you like them and u wanna have future with them or u just wanna have fun with them. on the other hand I think you know Muslim religion enough to understand that the religion do not allowed to go out with the guys. Specially when they are not our husbands. The reason somalian girls act like different is because these date staff is not our culture or religion.

I wish this can give some idea about reacting different when you ask a somlain girl out.

peace and love:

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crazydog

Monday, August 21, 2000 - 10:42 pm
boy listen to me god damn it

man you must a fool not to figure that out yet boy man u know somalians and how they are man jelousy is the only reason they do that man now tell me that was so hard to figure out foo.

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Anonymous

Tuesday, August 22, 2000 - 12:29 am
BURHAAN
Here are few lines for u dear brother. First of all i agree with sister Ibtisaam, coz that´s NOT in out culture OR DIIN, so this is the main reason. 2nd you guys are just killing time and WE do not want to waist our time with someone who is just looking for a single date. Anyway i hope u understand it now..


Ciao

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Anonymous

Wednesday, August 23, 2000 - 10:40 pm
•••• U BITCH
GET A LIFE

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soma

Thursday, August 24, 2000 - 04:41 am
Have u ever considered this, it could your breath!!, or way you dress, or the way your body looks!!!, maan for a guy who's really bussy with other national u sure are "hot and bothered" about somali girlz.. hey take my advise and ask a girl who likes you, not anygirl..

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faraxkilla

Sunday, August 27, 2000 - 01:59 pm
farax attack!!!!!
first of all let me give you some pointers you mad cow diseased friek of nature!!!
1) brush up on ya english then make a speech

2) i think you have 'daacuun'

3) and change your under wear daily (PLEAZZZE, for the sake of the human kind.)

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THE DARK ONE

Tuesday, August 29, 2000 - 03:17 am
People I think yo too crowcy to this guy. Give the niga chance. It can't be his breath, may be he get weak game and the ladies are not down with that. huuh . Bro no hard feelings but try to work on your game next time you going out.

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BURHAAN

Tuesday, August 29, 2000 - 09:57 am
than for the common for your info it's not my breath soma and whoever said it. dark one how u know I got weak game bro don't judge me cause u don't no me dawg. I said why do they get mad when I with white girls and blacks ?????

ibtisaam I know how u feel sis but what about if I want a relationship sis how u ever think about that sis . the Somali girls think most Somali guys want hit and run that's not true in most case . I know she want u but they acting like all that I'm sorry but that how it go's for me am a guy that deals with all kind girls that's not how it works

peace and love

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Anonymous

Tuesday, August 29, 2000 - 11:20 am
Ladies,and Gentlemen...First of all..give the brother a break..He is only asking a Question....and He needs an answer in good manner..I mean don't get too personal on him.
Second of all.this is your answer...first girls are mad cuz they don't want U to get some disease from these girls.. as U may aware of it .. HIV virus is spreading and could be transmitted from sex..So if U go out with someone who is infected and you go with Somali girl.. then We have problem. Thirdly. It is Haram to out with girl who is not our wife and sister...U are westernized . I feel bad.. but I have suggestion for U.. if U want go out with Somali girl.....Go to her house and introduce yourself to her family and you may have conversation with her in her house and call her up..in this case U save time and Money..just clue LOL...

Good luck on your search

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crazychick

Tuesday, August 29, 2000 - 11:32 am
crazydog...
i think you are very wrong about what ya said ...
us(somaligirls) being jalouse ...
actaully i feel sorry for ya ...

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gabad

Tuesday, August 29, 2000 - 11:42 am
i think the only reason american lady would go out with a somali guy is becuase she want to use him or the only reason ya somali man talk to the american ladies is becuase ya need yaa green card we somali girls talk about yaa looser lifes becuase what somali girl can give u there is no other american lady that can give it to u so before u run away from your rice find out who u real are and what u really want i know all somali man they want somali lady cuase they can understand each other we somali poeple can understand our somali man so think aobut that guys

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Amaal

Tuesday, August 29, 2000 - 11:49 am
TO START OFF, SOMALI GIRLS ARE JUST LIKE U GUYS, WE ALL DO THING OTHERS DON'T LIKE AND WE ARE NOT PERFECT LIKE ALLAH...WE ALL MAKE A MISTAKE AND THE GIRLS U ASK ARE NOT AMERICANIZED AND THEY ARE NOT OPENED UP OR THEY WANTING U LIKE A FREIND AND ONLY A FRIEND! EVERY GIRL IS DIFFENT LIKE U GUYS AND YOU HAVE TO ACCEPT THAT TO UNDERSTAND SOMALI LADIES!

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BURHAAN

Tuesday, August 29, 2000 - 12:48 pm
lol gabad for your info sis i have my passport i don't need a green card sis what makes u think of that i know most somali guys do it for just green card but not me. i do it for hell of it

amaal thnx for the common i understand what u saying sis and thnx anonymous who ever u are i only date clean once bro/sis but thnx for advise

peace and love

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Anonymous

Wednesday, August 30, 2000 - 04:50 am
This is a blind leading another blind!!

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Anonymous

Wednesday, August 30, 2000 - 07:11 pm
girls
ilaahiina wasa

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crazychick

Thursday, August 31, 2000 - 12:05 am
last anonymous...
dambiile ...
hana dambiileenin...
wasqaan yahow...get a life you lowlife ass nigga..

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Faze.. Email here

Friday, September 01, 2000 - 04:02 am
From London's Elaphant & Castle

I do agree with the first answer that "gointg out busniess" or "dating" if you like, is not in our culture.

So bros those of who adopted to the western style of living, dating you are to give the girls a chance coz the probably have not adopted to the Western Style.

On the hand couple days ago I was at the London carnival when I saw 2 Somalian girls, (very prety) when me and my friends (very HOT) try to dance with them the turned us down, Seconds later they were dancing with other guys that were not of same origin.

So what I am saying is that DO NOT GENARALISE, there are sum girls that are B.I.T.C.H.E.S and many are not.

Safe 2 all my Niggaz

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Anonymous

Saturday, September 02, 2000 - 08:20 am
stop talkin' about somalian ladies 'cuase they're
the most beautiful girls in the world and they deserve better than that,

U r totally wrong and you don't what you talkin'
about so next time be respectful to ladies and control your sexual frastration.

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Anonymous

Saturday, September 02, 2000 - 08:31 am
What a donkey!

Man you need to control your sexual frastration
and don't you ever talk about somalian ladies 'cause i
know they don't need your stinkin' ass......
our ladies are so beautiful and well-respected.
I'm somalian man and i know that our ladies are
the only ones who can control their bodies and always want to be clean..we somalian men are so lucky to have and to be with somalian women.

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ADIL from London

Saturday, September 02, 2000 - 12:32 pm
First of all, I think somalian girls are the most precious prety girls in the world, but then again there are some ugly ones too!!! everyone has different attitudes and personalities, there are good girls and bitches. To all those nice somalian girls I sing you the song called good girls by Joe, and to all those somalian bitches i rap pigeons 4 ya all,
Peace to Face, from london, i was at the carnival with my niggaz, and i saw the same ting, my black friends told me this:
there are three Fs' for bitches
find them
•••• them
forget them,
I know it is not our culture or our religion, i am sorry that some of us are too westernised and i admit i am one of them, let me tell you this, i have only went out with two somalian girls in my life, but countless of other races and i enjoy going out with other races, now dont get me wnong, somalian girls are my NUMBER 1 girls, but they are either too uptight, dump, pigeons, or religious, and those who are religious are the best ones. the other day i was going to somali wedding, carrying some sexy somalian girls in the back seat, and i was having arguments with every other car, because they all keep staring, tell me I was jeolous but thats what happened, now that shows how pretty somalian girls are.....
The only reason why i dont go out with somalian girls is because I respect them, but i dont give a •••• about other races. Every girl has a spot, the G SPOT, once you find that spot they will keep running back to you, but B careful with somalian girls, because they are too sensitive......

peace love and harmony

ADIL

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hot girl

Saturday, September 02, 2000 - 08:25 pm
Let me give you guys a hint a beutiful somali
girl can never be jalouse of a white slute
that doesn't have hygien. looool....
i forgot most of somali guys don'tknow what hygieneis they die only coz she white.
Ilaahay idin untay ka basha oo wa xun afkiina ka ilaaliya.

by the way the guy who said "illahiina wasa"
you are nadis nadis dhaleye illaahage u noqo
every one can see inaad tahay reerbadiye maraykanka lakeenay


peace sis qalanjo

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abwaan

Sunday, September 03, 2000 - 12:20 am
burhaan am not saying something that havnt been said already, i agree with ibtisan who i confess is the only reply i read about ur situation. having said that and still breathing, there is something that is not written in any social book, iam talking about "Hido iyo dhaqan" for a somali girl to come up to u and ask u why u going out with woman other than somali is not quite ready to eat, but i have no reason to disbelieve u, so lets say it happened and a somali girl walked up to you and said damn it am here what u wanna do with them, the answer you gave was the rite answer but then since you already figured it out on your own i dont see why u want our opion for a solved problem, unless the answer you gave the girl did not sound rite to you. which is were iam going with my opinion, do somali woman have priority over other nationals for somali men when it comes for lets just call it dating for argument sake. I think yes and that applies somali woman too. like I said earlier, it is not written but is understood part of our social norm and may I add that this is universal thing. people who belong same culture and geography interact with each other and have responsibily on each other. if you were in somalia you social life would have survived without woman other than somali woman but now the need for only somali woman does not apply to u because the culture and geography is different, u went your way around them thus betrayed them and urself, u betrayed urself because you know this is temprorary and your will end up with your own no matter how far you go. but then things can happen and you could end up (you will end up someone eventually) a woman other than somali princess, then i would say ha kaa saarto bubba.

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Anonymous

Sunday, September 03, 2000 - 07:45 am
Here is a piece of advice. You want to play, play with the white girls. When you are ready to marry, look for a nice Somali girl.

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moe

Monday, September 04, 2000 - 10:53 pm
I believe that me as a Somalia brother straight from MN think that all Somalia girl around the nation have the same problem. Somalian girls are not the ones we use to know back in our homes they are totally different the raison for that is because the people their with that one raison and the other one is they don't act like them self when they are surrounded by other people that are not somalian but mostly Jamaican. I remember one day at a DJ party I was kick with this somalie chick for like quite long time at the dance floor and suddenly she sees this Jamaican guy she completely changed from nice girl to bad girl I couldn't nothing but to watch wait he was doing to my sister he was holding her ass like no body business.... so wait iam saying is that we can't blame our self as a somalian brother all we could do is respect the one that are good to as and ignore those that won't take a advice from as like brother.. and i know that its very hard for a brother to let his own girl from his own homeland to walk a way form him to a jamaican man...so to all u brother from all around the nation don't be surprised when it happens to u aiight...

just wach out ..

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Preacher

Monday, September 04, 2000 - 11:55 pm
Idon't get why social issues with in the somali community are not handled in the light of our islamic religion on which our culture and tradition are based. I have gone through all that was posted and have hardly come across vitally important points that were woth discussions regarding the issue in the coconut. It is an undenaible principle for a man whose faith is deeply rooted in the heart that ladies, to what so ever races and nationalities they belong, are to be assigned the priority interms of every thing what so ever...respect...dignity...
Having said that this is the basic principle, i don't think that we need to talk too much to justify or to appose whether somali ladies are good or not.. ...who so ever goes on the right way is ok...while the opposite is the wrong...and this also goes for the men as well.....

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DooZ

Tuesday, September 05, 2000 - 06:31 am
DAMN YA'LL CRAZY
SOMALI GIRLS ACT LIKE THEY ALL THE CAZ A CULTURE AREGANCE, HARD HEADEDNESS AND SO ON AND SON
THEY ALL KNOW WHAT THEY FEEL BUT ITS FOBIDEN TO EXPRESS THE FEELING OR EVEN SHOW THEIR FEELINGS IN THEIR LITTLE WORLD AND FOR SOME WIERD REASONS
>>WELL GUESS WHAT THAT IS WHY SOMALIAN GUYS ARE GOIN AFTER ALL OTHER KINDS OF RACES<<<<
I SUGGEST TO ALL SOMALI WOMEN TO CHANGE..

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BURHAAN

Tuesday, September 05, 2000 - 11:56 am
ya moe tell them dawg that how they act i know they wanna but they try to heard to make us jelouse .. i realy don't care who am going to end up as long we get along and she must be good looking and nice person for all ya somali ladies who don't agree with it's all good most of u anit nothing to me {what ever and who ever} well i live the somali ladies are trying to heard to make us jelouse well that anit happened yet so far only a bitch niggga give up on him
i know our somali ladies are beutiful and all that but .... but they trying to heard on the soamli DJ ans weddings

thnx for the commom peace and love to all ya hater up in world much love to my somali ladies i don't hate u is just cause??????????

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faiza

Friday, September 08, 2000 - 10:03 am
ya know what kind of guys attract me the most. a guy with class. a guy who respects a girl. if you looking for sex i turn you down and rub it in your face. i don't hate somalian guys. actually they're all I like but they want sex and won't give. they wan't commitment sure. ( not a one-night stand)

Any guy who hates somali girl go and see what a girl can offer you other than sex. and how about when it gets boring. you goona leave her.

to all the good brothers, hope to bumb into ya.

later.

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Anonymous

Friday, September 08, 2000 - 10:26 am
HEY BURHAAN I AGREE W/ YOU A LITTLE. AS A SOMALIAN GURL I THINK THAT SOMALIAN GUYS SHOULD ASK US NICELY AND RESPECTLY TO GO OUT W/ THEM.
AND AS FOR MY SOMALIAN SISTAS DON'T GET MAD WHEN U SEE A SOMALIAN GUY W/ A WHITE OR BLACK GURLZ , THEY PROBABLY GOT TOO MUCH LIP FROM SOMALIAN GURLZ SO THEY TOOK THE EASY GURLZ. ANYWAYZ I KNOW THAT SOMALIAN GUYS LIKE TO DATE GURLZ WHO ARE PERMISGUAS.

FARHIA

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ah

Friday, September 08, 2000 - 10:30 am
Life is a struggle between reality and unreality. However, majority of the Somalis, scattered throughout the globe, are unaware of this struggle. I say so because whereas the youth in other communities talk about their welfare and the betterment of their respective societies, but the Somali counterparts are lost in dating and trying to fit into cultures that lead to the degeneration of their own. Shame on us all!!
Shouldn't we talk about the realities that goes around the world today.

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LIBAN

Tuesday, September 12, 2000 - 05:24 am
I had to stop when you got to the green card part.....it is not 1970s here you know when pple went out to meet any lady whether fat dum.....they didn't care but now Burhan don't take it personal but don't say "most somalis do it for green card".....we don't and am one of them.

and to help ya out for your question.......i would just say be yourself and don't make it so hard on you.......maybe you are all that....i don't know.....or different......and some of our girls are scared of a change...be loose in a way am saying......like don't flatter it is what am saying.....hey i went too look.....no heart feelings am just trying to help the brotha out.....mad love to yal.

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LIBAN

Tuesday, September 12, 2000 - 05:27 am
I MENT TO SAY " I WENT TOO LONG" NOT "TOO LOOK" LOL

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69

Tuesday, September 12, 2000 - 07:09 am
OK I WILL BE FAIR I HERE. BURHAM IS REJECTED BY THE SOM GALS OK LET HIM BLEND WITH THE WHITE
GIRLS. I SEEN A LOT OF BRO GOING OUT WITH THE NON SOMALI BECAUSE OF THE SIMPLICITY. THE MAN HAS TO DO WHAT HE HAS TO DO. I WOULD SAY THE OTHERS HAVE SOME THING EXTRA THE SOMALI GIRLS DO NOT HAVE, AND IT MAKE A BIG DIFFERENCE IN THE RELATIONSHIP.
SOMALI GIRLS HAVE THAT EXTRA THING AS WELL WHICH IS GOOD FOR THE MORAL , UNDERSTANDING STABILITY OF THE COUPLES, CUKLTURAL VALUE.
IN MY OPINION GO OUT PLAY WITH OTHERS AND LET SOMALI BECOMING UR WIFEYS.

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anon

Tuesday, September 12, 2000 - 07:22 am
and should the sisatas go out and play too 69???

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Hani

Friday, September 15, 2000 - 05:19 am
{^..^}

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Aaliyahlove@hotmail.com

Sunday, September 17, 2000 - 11:59 pm
all somalian honeyz need is love and respect!!!..bro do what u gota do
TO Ibtisaam i igree with u

To soma and fraxkilla..loooooooooooool

peace ppl,,,,no haraam aight

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ugaaso

Monday, September 18, 2000 - 10:40 pm
burhaan waxaatahay wiil buqar ah if u know what i mean u came up with question but most of them dont know how to unswer

the only reason somalia girls are acting deffered is decouce thay somalians and we all know who somalians are i mean we have culture.
our girls have [xishoot]dhac dhan na mayaqaanaan
i hope u understand where im caming from
peace and love

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GIBREAL

Friday, September 22, 2000 - 08:19 pm
ALMOST ALL U ARE NOT IN TUNE.IF SHE STARTS ACTING UP DONT BE SAD BE GLAD .SHE WOULD NOT ASK ABOUT YOUR ACTIVITIES WITH NONSOMALIS IF SHE WAS NOT INTERESTED.DONT BE FOOL TAKE THE CHALLENGE .THEY JUST PLAYING HARD TO GET.STOP GETTING EASY WHITE PUSSY AND TAKE THE CHALLENGE.STOP CRYING LIKE A LITTLE BITCH U JUST HAVE TO KNOW HOW TO BREAK IT DOWN TO THEM.

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Anonymous

Friday, September 22, 2000 - 10:59 pm
somaliwomen r >cheap-n-clean ask the jamiacans

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GIBREAL

Saturday, September 23, 2000 - 02:09 pm
DEAR ANONYMOUS WHAT THE F*** DO U MEAN CHEAP AND CLEAN.U LOOK LIKE THE TYPE THAT WAS IN JAIL WEARING KNEEPADS AND HAVING NIGGAZ TEAR U UP.HOW DARE U INSULT MY QUEEN.

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