     GIBREAL | Saturday, September 23, 2000 - 09:30 am
THIS QUESTION REALLY BOTHERS ME.AS SOON AS SHE GIVES U SOME,SHE FEELS U ARE OBLIGATED TO MARRY HER.I LIVE BY MYSELF GO TO COLLEGE AND WORK,MARRIAGE IS THE LAST THING ON MY MIND.WHAT IS THE RUSH?IF U SAY NO THEY CONSIDER IT A HIT AND RUN.IF ANYBODY FEELS WHAT AM SAYING HOLLA AT ME,AND LET ME KNOW WHAT THE DEAL IS. |
| AFRA | Saturday, September 23, 2000 - 09:56 am
GIBREAL,
THE REASON BEING IS THAT SOMALI WOMEN HAVE A CULTURE AND TRADITION AND U SHOULD UNDERSTAND THAT .
DON'T GENERALISE NOT ALL SOMALI WOMEN ARE IN A RUSH TO GET MARRIED, MOST OF US WANT A CAREER AND HAVE DREAMS AND GOALS WE DON'T HAVE THAT INTENTION WELL AS I SAID DON'T GENERALISE I FOR INSTANCE HAVE GOALS
CHECK YOURSELF BRO |
| GIBREAL | Saturday, September 23, 2000 - 11:36 am
AM NOT TRYING TO GENERALIZE NOBODY I HAVE BEEN IN FIVE DIFFERENT RELATIONSHIPS WITH SOMALI GIRLS AND THE WORD MARRIAGE ALWAYS POPS UP.SO U BE THE JUDGE AND TELL ME WHAT THE F*** IS GOING ON. |
| Anonymous | Saturday, September 23, 2000 - 12:03 pm
lol@ Gibreal. Next time put a big sign saying
"Not For Marriage...just for Pleasure" LOL |
| pleasure | Saturday, September 23, 2000 - 01:36 pm
lol Gibreal bro I have the same problem...but with guys......I mean one guy had the audacity to ask me to marry him without asking me out! |
| GIBREAL | Saturday, September 23, 2000 - 01:53 pm
I AM A PLAYER BY BLOOD MY OLD MAN GOT 3 WIVES.AM JUST A SQUIRREL TRYING TO BUST A NUT. I FEEL ITS MY CIVIC DUTY TO BANG THAT SEXY SOMALI BOODY.I WOULD RATHER DO THE JOB THAN SAME JAMAICAN OR YANKEE DOING IT FOR ME AND PUTTING IT IN THE STREET.U WONDER WHY OUR LADIES ARE WITH THESE NONSOMALIS IT IS BECOUSE THE MEN ARE TOO OCCUPIED LOOKING FOR WHITE GIRLS. |
| HANUUNIYE | Saturday, September 23, 2000 - 05:31 pm
GIBREAL
GET A LIFE .......MAN.......YOUR TALK IS NONESENSELESS COZ YOU SUCK........ HAHAHAHAH.
YOU SEEM A LOSER........SO WHY ON EARTH DO THOSE LADIES ASKED YOU TO MARRY THEM....OR DID U MADE IT UP........ I WONDER......... |
| GIBREAL | Sunday, September 24, 2000 - 07:07 am
DEAR MISS HANUUNIYE I ASSURE U I AM NOT A LOOSER AND I AM NOT MAKING THIS UP.I AM A HARD WORKING GUY TRYING TO BUILD A FUTURE FOR HIMSELF.I GUESS THEY KNOW A GOOD CATCH WHEN THEY SEE ONE.BY THE WAY WHAT DO YOU MEAN NONESENSELESS,PERHAPS YOU NEED TO GO BACK TO E.S.L AND PRACTISE YOUR VOCABULARY SKILLS BECOUSE HONEY THEY DID NOT DO A GOOD JOB.BY THE WAY YOU PROBABLY A TEENAGER THIS IS THE WRONG PLACE FOR YOU TO CAST YOUR OPINION TRY TEEN CHAT. |
| unknown | Monday, September 25, 2000 - 03:03 am
lesson boy let me tell one or two thinks about somali woman's not all of us are rush to marry , most of us we got our career's to think about it...
my guess is this it could be the other way round that you wanted to get married and they refuse blank i think and you wanted to get married and they have let you down, anway you only go to college it is nothing you still have a lot to go... so next time you writting yeah write some thing intelligent to say.. ciao |
| Amoore | Monday, September 25, 2000 - 09:39 am
Dear Gibreal
I understand bro what u sayin and I feel where u coming from coz thaz what i waz planing too a nice Business and a nice car and a a good life...
But one thing I thought is that there is something called "Ninkaax" or "Engagement", So why not try something like that. I know what u sayin u want fun, and u want life, well u cannot have it with somali ladyz and I agree with them... So brothaz my advice to, coz at da end of da day fun is not gonna last long and not gonna take u long way, but marriage or engament will...
Why did I say engagment?
Coz u can have fun...
U have somaone in ur life 4 sure...
U r a amn with a future...
Damn I'm establishing my whole plan well I don't mind as long as it helps u my bro Gibreall...
Gibreall mate tell me u from UK London, coz I see weddingz going on every SATURDAY or FRIDAY...Funny huh they don't miss one SATURDAY
Peace N Love
Ciao |
| GIBREAL | Monday, September 25, 2000 - 10:07 am
DEAR MR OR MISS UNKNOWN I AM SORRY TO SAY I BARELY UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU WROTE. I SUGGEST YOU JOIN YOUR FRIEND MISS HANNUUNYE FOR E.S.L CLASSES BECAUSE YOUR VOCABULARY AND GRAMMAR SUCK.HOW DO YOU KNOW WHAT IS GOING ON IN MY LIFE ???.WHAT ARE YOU A FUCKIN PSYCHIC??. YOU SAY YOU HAVE A CAREER TO THINK ABOUT .I WISH YOU ALL THE LUCK IN THE WORLD GOD KNOWS YOU NEED IT!!!. |
| fair lady | Monday, September 25, 2000 - 11:51 am
Gebreal
bro getting married is in our blood, our mothers fathers did. is rules we have to flow and we can break it. and if you got married you can still have a career.
money and cars and fun is not what life is all about, life is about to love and to be loved. but there shouldn't be a rush.
Somali girls are insecure they believe that if a guy marries them that the guys won't miss around, it gaves, and shows them that they can trues.
peace |
| GIBREAL | Monday, September 25, 2000 - 07:23 pm
DEAR MR AMOORE THANKS FOR THE BRILLIANT ADVICE MATE.YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT I LIVED IN ENGLAND FOR SIX YEARS.I REMEMBER GOING TO A WEDDING WITH MY GIRL IN CARDIFF .I COULD JUST LOOK IN HER EYES AND KNEW SHE WAS THINKING OF OUR FUTURE WEDDING AND HER COMMENTS O MY GOD!!.EXAMPLE "WE SHOULD KNOW HOW MANY PEOPLE ARE COMING TO OUR WEDDING SO THERE IS ENOUGH FOOD FOR EVERYBODY"THAT SCARED THE •••• OUT OF ME.I WOULD NOT DARE SAY HELL NO BECAUSE YOU WHAT KIND OF TEMPER OUR WOMEN HAVE IT CAN EASILY END UP BEING A MURDER CASE ME BEING THE VICTIM .THANK GOD I GOT OUT OF THAT RELATIONSHIP IN ONE PEACE.THANKS AGAIN FOR THE ADVISE BRO. |
| GIBREAL | Monday, September 25, 2000 - 07:37 pm
DEAR FAIR LADY MY BEUTIFUL SOMALI QUEEN THANKS FOR THE ADVISE.YOU HAVE A VERY GOOD POINT. |
| lucky | Tuesday, September 26, 2000 - 03:04 am
Yo!Gibreal>>>..
First of all i would like to say that not every women thinks of marriege.......We as women work hard to learn how to be a successfull womens, concentrating with our education, wealth and most of all to have power over everything in live that we want.
Personaly i have seen many women talking and planning weddings......but it never crossed my mind deeply or thoughtfully.....To me marriege is a mission imposible because you are looking for a reflection of yourself meaning inner and outer quality as you ...........This needs time and mind .Which i haven't got now!! like i said before,
i guess the age of 30yr will do ......... |
| Anonymous | Tuesday, September 26, 2000 - 03:48 am
AQYAARTA QOFKII AF INGRIIS YAQAANO UUN MAA KA HADLI KARO ARINTAAN II SOO JAWAABA ANIGU MA GARANAAYO WAXA AAD SHEEGEEYSAAN BARYAHAN
DANBE WAXAAD MOODAA QOFKII INGRIIS KU HADLI
KARO INUU KA FIKRADO FIICAN YAHAY QOFKA AAN KU HADLIN MARKA AQYAARTA WAAD NA HANDADEEN MIYAA
MISE ANAA QALDAN HANA U MALEEYNINA INAAN LUQADA
NECBAHAY WAAD MAHADSANTIHIIN
SHAKUUR |
| GIBREAL | Tuesday, September 26, 2000 - 07:08 am
dear lucky
SWEETY I AM SORRY FOR STEREO TYPING SOMALI WOMEN .IT IS JUST I HAVE BEEN APPROACHED BY SOMALI WOMEN ON THIS SUBJECT MORE THEN A COUPLE OF TIMES.THANKS FOR THE COMMENT I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST SWEETY. |
| GIBREAL | Tuesday, September 26, 2000 - 07:12 am
I WISH I COULD READ SOMALI .SORRY |
| Ayaan | Tuesday, September 26, 2000 - 07:31 am
To Gibreal
Boy u must be having a laugh, like my lady said before you generalise pple, as their are some somali ladies that would not give u the of day let alone a long commitment ensuing marriage.
If anything it would have been more appropriate to have said why is that some somalians are eager to marry rather than isolating the woman to your unthought, nonesensical generalisation.
People mention marriage because at that point in time they feel they are ready to commit to their partner and go to that next level.
I don't know what type of calibre of woman u know but, i very much doubt a somali woman is gonna sell herself short and ask a man to marry her.
Besides, you should declare your intention from the get go and say that u seek a casual relation rather leading a person on.
In conclusion your comment is weak badly thought of and lacks substance never generalise as there are some somalian ladies that wouldn't give u the time of day let alone hear your pathetic yeah i'm a player this and that foolishness. So get a life grow up and drop your fantasy based on illusion |
| ladywitda-attitude | Tuesday, September 26, 2000 - 02:24 pm
listen! you qaxxotis ,"confused children" yall trying to BUST western life style!WHAT IS HAPPENING TO US MY CHILDREN?!
DO YOU GUYS REALIZE DAT IN THIS GENERATION WE IN,ITS VERY HARD TO GET MARRIED! PPL DON;T TRUST EACH OR SIMPLY BECUZ THEY'RE AFRAID!I CALL DIS SHEEEEEDAN TAKEN OVER!SO STOP FUCKING AROUND AND START PLACING YOUR BUTT SOMEWHERE!
ITS xaaaaaaram TO DATE..BUT ITS HALLAL TO GET MARRIED,GET MARRIED,HAVE CHILDREN,,LIVE LIFE!!CUZ
..........DATS JUST DA WAY IT IS! |
| BEAUTY FROM OTTAWA | Wednesday, October 04, 2000 - 08:45 pm
WARAYA YOU AINT A PLAYA JUST TRYING TO BE ONE!!
I THINK NORTH AMERICA GOT IN TO YOUR HEAD!!
I THINK IS TIME FOR YOU TO SIT DOWN AND REMEMBER WHO YOU REALLY ARE! ""STRAIGHT UP FROM SOMALIA"""
BY THE WAY DO ME A FAVOR AND WRITE YOUR NAME PROPERLY!! I THINK THE MUSLIM VERSION IS JABRIL!
AND IF I GET IN TO THE SUBJECT WHY ARE YOU GONNA SLEEP WITH A MUSLIM SISTA IF SHE AINT YOUR WIFE IN THE FIRST PLACE???? OOOOPS I FORGOT HIS TRYING TO BE A PLAYA!
ANYWAYS PLAYA I HOPE YOU HAVE FUN IN YOUR "LIFESTYLE"" SEEMS PREETY INTERESTING!!
SALUT! |
| unknown | Friday, October 06, 2000 - 03:51 am
You of all people should not be saying that i have to go to E S L glass's firstly you are no angle your self and secondly, if you could written a better english then me i could understand that..
pls i'll advise you to go back to you're words and read it out loudly to u're self do you hear... tell me what u think. if you did not understand what i wrote then i suggest that u need to go back to you're college tutor and ask them to explain it to you, it seems that you can not read bro... next time come up with better words to say..
later |
| khalid | Tuesday, October 17, 2000 - 09:53 pm
waxaan lajiraa AFRA waana kuraac sanahay waxay
tiray.
NAC AMA JECLOW |
| khalid | Tuesday, October 17, 2000 - 09:56 pm
waxaan lajiraa AFRA waana kuraac sanahay waxay
tiray.
NAC AMA JECLOW |
| GirlWithHijab | Friday, October 20, 2000 - 04:43 am
To Gabrial and the crow!!!
Doesn't anybody think or talk about the religion. The beautiful and understanding that we have......
It seems like you guys don't know this but our religion said "Nobody (man or woman) should have sex before marriage." Actually it is a sin for every religion. Think about that.
Why people do it..................to show as a sign that the world is coming to an end.
To answer the question Gabreial is asking???
Why are Somali Beauties are in rush..........because they don't want to commit that sin. It is called fear of Allah(SWT). If you are dating somebody, things like that come up and it needs disscussion. Also, tell the person if you are in for the pleasure only from the beginning...........believe me it is much easier to analyse then. Gabriel, stop trying to be Westernized and remember where you came from!!
I'm a University Student.........and I don't mind getting Engagement......it is more secure and safe towards the religion. Think about this and write back to me. |
