     perfect~gal | Sunday, September 24, 2000 - 01:35 am
I heard that most of the somalian ladies fight with their husbands the first night of their wedding.And as i believe the reason is that the guys are not so romantic with the ladies coz they don't have good experience of sex life!!
Without doing any other romantic stuffs they want to start the in and out game imediately and of course the gals will be terrified.
have some sex lessons somalian men plz.. |
| GIBREAL | Sunday, September 24, 2000 - 08:13 am
JUST EXACTLY WHAT PART OF SOMALIA ARE U FROM ????DEFINETLY NOT THE CITY.ONCE U GO SOMALI U NEVER GO BACK HONEY.JUST WAIT TILL YOUR TURN COMES I GURANTEE IT WILL BE PERFECT ,PERFECTGIRL .TAKE MY ADVISE DONT BELIEVE THE HYPE SWEETY. |
| perfect~gal | Monday, September 25, 2000 - 01:29 am
Thanks for the advice Gibreal but fortunelty my husband is not gonna be from somalia so i am not scaring at all as long as i gurantee that my husband is not somali |
| 651 RANGER | Monday, September 25, 2000 - 07:07 am
we will really miss you perfect girl.
is your husband atleast gonna be a human that would really make a whole lots of different. |
| Anonymous | Monday, September 25, 2000 - 08:31 am
Aniga oo wax kasoo qaadanaya maxaa gabdha Soomaliyeed uga baqaan habeenka u horeeya, waa su'aal la is weydiin karo una baahan in laga jawaabo iyada oo ann gabdhu xanaaqin.
1- Marka hore waxaa keentay iyada oo markii hore gabdha la siinjiray nin aanay garanayn, lagana yaabo in aanay maalin qudha xataa wada hadlin.
Gabadhu waa nafley, wax kasta oo nafleey ahina waa baqaa haddii uu arko ama maqlo wax aanu garanayn ama sanqadh aanu garanay. It is human nature that you scare anything that you don,t know. Yaana la caayin raga ama gabdhaha laakiin aan wada garano in ay jir-jirtay marxalad qalafsan oo ina soo wada martay xataa raguba ha ku jire. Sida wiil la siiyey gabadh aanu wiligii arag isba waa ka baqilahaa. Balse waxay kukala duwan yihii waa sidan: Gabadhu waa shay la isticmaalayo sida dhankeenu yahay, ragu uma arko ( mutual feeling), waxayna isbidaan geesinimo keenta nacasnimo ama ka baqid. Hadalkii oo yar waxaa weeye, ma baqdo gabadh soo baratay xeelada loo raali geliyo inan rag balse waxaa baqda gabadh ah inan, una baqaysa (phisically and mentally) iyada oo ay weliba jirto xishood rabaani ah oo Eebe siiyey dumarka laguna tixgeliyo.
waad mahasantihiin dhamaan akhristayaasha ila qosol. |
| Anonymous | Monday, September 25, 2000 - 08:42 am
Waxaan aad ula cajabay gabadha Soomaaliyeed ee tidhi, anigu guursan maayo wiil Soomaaliyeed.
Waxaana ka sii xanaaqay kan ugu jawaabay macno ma leh haddi uu yahay uun dad. It really makes difference because what you know how it takes is different than what you don,t know. I feel sorry for that girl because what you missing is soo good and it does not mean because they don,t know about sex, but it is how you give the Somali man about your pleasure. Is there something that you need to know about our men. Excuse me my sister, if I am so rude about your version, but the reality is eat what you know. If you are not looking the different tastes of food. You may not liked. Shop your taste but don,t buy what you will not liking so long. I know many Somali girls who has such horrible ideas but they always loose because they are not honest to their feelings. When we meet on the streets you always look down because you feel inferior and guilty for yourselves. A whiteman stings, forget the blackman. Caws jiilaal waa lama huraan. Yaan lagaa tegin inta aad yartahay ee soo raac geediga. Raadi wiil jalaqsan oo ku raali geliya walaal. |
| Amoore | Monday, September 25, 2000 - 09:12 am
Hi guyz
Waa idin salaamay dhamaantiin
Horta horay labadiina "Anonymous" waxaa fiicnaanleheed in aa magac isku bixisaan, coz ur ideaz exactlly da answers of her questions and I like da way u guyz set it up, coz to be honest I have learned something tonight...
Let me come back to u sis Perfect~Gal, well what can I say it is ur choice at da end of da day, and it is ur life, but sis plzzz listen to them 4 a second and think and then do what u want to do, but I think that they have made a point wich u needed to know...
Why wouldn't u marry one of uz? coz of our sex life? well listen sis our gurls r never intrested in sex while they r young and we know da reason da other main important thing is " It is better for da girls, coz they will be clean" I hope that made a sence...
Let me try to tell u thiz Somali ladyz and Romantic pleaseeee... I don't mean to sound so bold and forward but I gotta tell ya u ladyz don't know what it is to be romantic, it takes alot especially willing to give, u know what i mean. I mean in order to be romantic it takes to be trusty,
to be willing to give everything,
willing to be feeled,
willing to be touched,
willing to be hibnoticed,
willing to say what u feel,
there r more that I don't even know myself but I know it takes alot to be romatic...
My point is, a somali lady can't even look u in da eye I mean u cannot even hold them or hug them, allthought they really want all that u want and 101% more. I know it is hard to admit but plzzzz ladyz if u want to learn and be da best of urself and da other partner try to admit and willing to give, if if if u know da person and u sure of them not any somalian guy coz I know some somalian man don't even know what romance is they onlly turn da lights off and get on with it LOL I mean damn...Some of them don't even believe in it...So somehow Perfect~Gal I agree with ya, But they all not da same open ur eyes and pick up a basket and go for shoppin...
I have said enough I hope I helped even 1% Perfect~Gal...
I did not mean to be rude or establishing but I had to say so no heard feelingz ppl...
Peace N Love
ciao |
| Amoore | Monday, September 25, 2000 - 09:13 am
I'm back again
By the way Perfect~Gal just a question "Where u from" ?????
thnx
Peace N Love
Ciao |
| GIBREAL | Monday, September 25, 2000 - 06:42 pm
DEAR MISS PERFECT WHEN YOU SAID YOU WILL NOT MARRY A SOMALI MAN MY HEART BROKE INTO A MILLION PEACES . I WISH I KNEW YOU IN PERSON. I WOULD DO EVERYTHING IN MY POWER TO CHANGE YOUR MIND. SATISFACTION GARANTEED.PLEASE TAKE THIS IN A NICE WAY.I AM JUST A SOMALI BROTHA TRYING TO HELP MY LOST QUEEN. |
| perfect~gal | Tuesday, September 26, 2000 - 01:08 am
Dear brothers thank all of ya.It is not that we like other men more than you but the problem is that we heard some horrible stories about you .
When we observe how romance is totally missing in somalian famialies and how others are living, we are then willing to live like the others as long as we can get those romantic men and guys make sure that we somalian ladies are among the sexies ladies in the world.Walaahi i am not lying to you sometimes other guys fight each other coz of us.
I guess most of you believe that if you be romantic to your wife maybe u are committing a big sin......Am i wrong.
But when i read some of the things you guys wrote
it sounds really sweet but the question is if it comes to the real life, will you sound like that or it the just fake side only.
Hey amore i am from some where on this small earth, although i don't wanna mention it bro..sorry
Thanks all of you walaalayaal
Love N peace |
| Anonymous | Tuesday, September 26, 2000 - 09:32 am
I would like to come back to chat line and discuss few things that has been hightlighted in this discussion. especially the guy who called himself Amoore. The word amoore is not totally acceptable in this chat because you have to use another somali sweet name. I use this unknown name to keep my name conficential. I think it is polite to do this for both of us. But the main point is I am somali from Toronto for brief inf.
let us understand about the whole issue about romance. We are all romance and we can play and it depends how you love your partner, lover, wife, girlfreind and what ever there is in North America and around the world. I found Somali men knows ramace and our women know ramance but depends who, where, what and when you do and how.
I based my idea about the giving you an example about two foods with the same flavour but two people make with which you want to eat one's food and you hate the others food. No matter how the food is so tasty you will not feel it the one who you hate. this is how you can classify the so called rom.what ever it means to you. |
| Amoore | Wednesday, September 27, 2000 - 05:07 am
Back again
Listen mate who ever u r AMOORE is a name atleast brotha and it means something to do with this dicussion aight so don't be goin dissin me just coz u don't have an sweet name or any name.. Confidential plzz brotha give me a break wacha hidin? Anywayz bro I'm not hatin I'm sayin after all this is an discussion if it is a fight or an argument I'm out of here...
Pefect~Gal LOL u thought that I'm gonna hunt u down... sis da reason why I asked u that is coz i wanted to know da country that u live in coz I could imagine what kinda admosphere u r in and if that is something to do with ur confusion of romance thaz all so plzzz my sweet sista don't get any ideaz....
Sweety one thing I know is that I cannot wait 4 da right one that is gonna lay next to me, coz I know that I'm 4reall I guess my name AMOORE should give u a point of my view what I think of myself... da reason why I said thiz is coz Perfect~Gal I'm damn sure of myself and know what it takes to be what I want to be... Hope that made u see where I'm coming from,,, If u don't understand plzzz ask me back, coz I enjoy thiz honestlly....
OneLove
Peace N Love
Ciao |
| perfect~gal | Thursday, September 28, 2000 - 01:44 am
Dear amoore i am really sorry coz i am not in search of a boyfreind, lover or husband now as i had already get the one i was looking for and as i told you he is totally different from somalians. I am happy to get him and i feel i am gonna have the same romantic life like the other women than somalain ladies in this world.
Any way good luck for you walaal.
Perfect~gal |
| Anonymous | Thursday, September 28, 2000 - 02:00 am
u all need some time out to look at what is important in life. here u r chatting about romance , which i'm not saying is not imporatent but i believe there r more important issues that should be considered amongs such intelligent somalians that i am very proud of.
lul |
| Anonymous | Thursday, September 28, 2000 - 02:00 am
u all need some time out to look at what is important in life. here u r chatting about romance , which i'm not saying is not imporatent but i believe there r more important issues that should be considered amongs such intelligent somalians that i am very proud of.
lul |
| Aaxey | Thursday, September 28, 2000 - 05:19 am
Perfect gal:: N How r u going to communicate with ur husband? Just wondering... as far I know this lang.. I don't think he will understand you that well.. I am somali n I am having hard time.. comprehending your words.. I wonder how he well he will do? No offense though |
| M.Khadar | Saturday, September 30, 2000 - 12:17 am
To: GAbdha tiri Wiil somaliyeed guursan maayo.
Hada ka hor ayy qiso ka dhacday wadan ka mid ah wadama yurub. Gabadh soomaaliyeed ayaa ka heshay wiil cadaan ah(gaal iyo muslin wuxuu ahaa ma garanayo)GAbdhii ninkii ayay guursatay, gabdgii waad garan kartaa gabar soomaaliyeed oo aad shaki uga qabtay wiilasha soomaaliyeed, ninkii gabdhii wuu raaxeeyay, oo kor hoos maxaa kuu macaan, dear, darling honey, iyo kuwa kale ayuu ugu roonaaday, gabadhii uur ayay yeelatay ninkiina way isku xumaadeen markaas ayuu ka tagay. waxaa ilaahay qadaray gabdhii raga soomaaliyeed caayaysay inay amaan u soo jeedisay iyada oo leh, wiil soomaliyeed haduu ahaan lahaa meel aan u raadiyo ayaan aqoon lahaaye, xageen midkaa diirka cad ka raadiyaa.
Gabdhaha qaasatan, fadlan guursada waxaad taqaanaan si aad u dhashaan waxaad taqaanaan:- adeerkood eedadood iwm.
mahadsanidiin |
| Somaligirl | Saturday, September 30, 2000 - 06:35 am
somaligirl,
As i was reading these conversations i learned one thing. i learned that the new generation of somali's are becoming more open! and understanding what life really means.. I am not trying to say that our parents didn't know how to live, but we have a culture that doesn't allow us to show our feelings! i mean if a somali woman shows that she loves the man she is dating/WADASHEEKAYSTAAN, some men will back down or change their minds! Or they will change how they were acting after u told them how u feel! Seriously, this issue of not letting ladies to show their feelings is a shame! and we need to learn to communicate well.So we learn more from each other. Especially when a somali woman tells a somali man that she loves him or wants to have a good relationship that can lead to a better future HALAL. SOMALI Guys don't need to "Back down". Just because she was honest,and he knows that this woman is discent and she is the woman of his dreams!!! I THINK THAT WILL CAUSE YOU A BIG MISTAKE AND LOSING UR OPPORTUNITY OF LIFETIME!
Because when you break some women's heart they can't never come back!!
Hey brothers no offence but make sure u think about before u make any excuses or any judgement when a good, honest, somali girl looking for the right "MAN IN HER LIFE" tells u that she CARES ABOUT U!!
thanks for ur attention! |
| south-mpls | Saturday, September 30, 2000 - 11:10 pm
Anyway if u insult somali men U FATHER IS SOMALI
if u insult somali WOMEN U MAM is somali
so u arrogant u ppl need education.cuz educated ppl always speek respect way. |
| Amoore | Monday, October 09, 2000 - 06:58 am
Somaligirl
waaaaaaw
I'm so thrilled sis walahi I'm so happy that there is someone like u out there I mean why can't they all be like u? why why
I gotta give it to u striaght I wouldn't add or take nathing away from what u wrote or said on ur message....
The other thing is that I agree that our culture is a good culture but old now we gotta take some and leave some of the things for example the religion side and respect (aqlaaqda) I hope that made sence...Besically this is 2k so as tupac said we gotta make chage LOL so ppl lets try to choose some better than da old fashion OK
One Love
Peace N love
Cioa |
| Suban | Monday, October 09, 2000 - 06:55 pm
this Q was really interesting; When I read every one's comment , I couldn't believe the differences between M. Khadar and Amoore.
I guess prefect-gril was talking about a guys like M.Khadar;
Amoore you are the best somalian romantic man alive. |
| Anonymous | Tuesday, October 10, 2000 - 04:48 am
should you ,Oi mean all you just shut the hell up,
I MEAN COME ON IF SHE LIKE OTHER MAN THAN OUR KING . IT HER LOSE , SHE MISSING SOME GOOD THEING BOYS ALL I AM SAYING IS LIFE HER ALONG
PERSON LIKE THAT DON'T EVEN HAVE A KING LIKE YOU MAN . SHE JUST SAYING THAT BECAUSE SHE WANT A PADDY |
| SWTY | Tuesday, October 10, 2000 - 04:15 pm
Hi All!!! Perfect~gal the only time a lady is scared on her wedding night is when she doesn't know the guy, which is arranged marriage...But if she and the guy decided to get married and know each other well i don't see...the point of being scared at all...
B'coz thats who you chose to be spending the rest of ya life with...there ain't nothing wrong with our culture but it would have been just perfect if women were able express themselves...
I think personally its aight to speak what you feel B'coz it ain't like you R jumpin into bed or doing anything against your religion or even culture...when u tell the one u think is right exactly how u feel..
But also not all of our somalian Brothas are the same there is always the good and the bad..those 2 always mix up..so just B'coz u seen one it don't mean they all the same..look in the right places and plzzz think about what u do...before u do it...we feel for ya we don't like to see our own ppl get hurt...enough damage has been done to the somalians...
But then again it is after all ur choice if u think u ain't gonna have the life u want with a somalian man..go find what suits u best...
LUV&PEACE TO Y'ALL!!! |
| somalibro | Saturday, October 14, 2000 - 12:57 am
SWTY I'M MOVED, WELL SAID MY WISE SISTER,I HOPE U FIND Mr:RIGHT WHO TREATS U RIGHT. |
| NELLY. | Sunday, October 22, 2000 - 11:00 am
LOL PERFECT GIRL I GUESS UR A PREJUDICE. JUST CAUE UR DAD AND MOM AREN'T ROMANTIC DON'T MEAN ALL SOMALI MEN AREN'T NA MEAN. SO U BETTER HOP ON IT GIRL. I HAVE TWO OPINION U EITHER WANNA MARRY SOME FOOL THAT'S NOT SOMALI BECAUSE U WANT BIGGER...... OR UR REALY REALY UGLY AND U KNOW UR NOT THE WORTHY OF ANY SOMALI GUY LOL JUST SPEAKING MY MIND DON'T HATE!CAUSE ALL MY SAN DIEGO CHICKS DIG SOAMLI MEN AND WHAT ARE U TALKING ABOUT LEARN SEX?????? U DON'T NEED A DEGREE TO F*** NA MEAN. |
| Amal | Thursday, October 26, 2000 - 09:21 am
HI ALL
WELL WELL, CONGRATULATIONS TO THE POSITIVE FEEDBACKS HERE. ALL THE AREAS HAVE BEEN DEALT WITH SO I HAVE NOTHING TO ADD, BUT WE ALL KNOW THAT PERFECT GAL SIS U HAVE A RIGHT TO CHOOSE. AND AS FOR BEING A ROMANTIC,WELL EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT, IF U AND YOUR PARTNER BOTH CARE FOR EACH OTHER SIS THIS COMES OUT NATURALLY COZ U WANT TO ADD TO YOUR HAPPINESS.
NELLY DONT DISS THE SISTER, SHE WAS JUST EXPRESSING HER VIEW, IF SHE WANTS A DIFFERENT TASTE, WHICH AM SURE MANY PEOPLE HAVE,LET HER, BUT SIS I GOTTA TELL YOU, SOMETIMES THE STORIES YOU HEAR MIGHT HAVE BEEN EXAGERATTED OR THE PARTNERS NEVER KNEW EACH OTHER WELL HENCE THERE WAS NOT MUCH REFLEX. PEOPLE HAVE TO KNOW EACH OTHER TO KNOW WHAT THE OTHER LIKES OR DISLIKES, I AM NOT SAYING THE IDEA OF MARRYING SOMEONE U DONT KNOW IS WRONG BUT LET US FACE IT, WE HAVE CHANGED FOR NOW WE KNOW WHAT WE WANT A BIT,AND HENCE WE QUESTION THE WHAT IF'S. A GOOD RELATIONSHIP IS A GIVE AND TAKE SIS, SO GOOD LUCK DEAR.
HOPE U CHANGE YOUR MIND SIS, COZ YOUR PEOPLE ARE THE BEST, JUST MAKE SURE THAT WHOEVER U ARE WITH NO MATTER WHICH CULTURE HIS FROM HE CARES ABOUT U OTHERWISE U WILL STILL BE IN THE SAME SPOT AS B4.
TAKE CARE SIS |
