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I am not a Somali but looking for a beautiful intelligent Somali girl

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Riduan

Friday, November 03, 2000 - 05:52 pm
Hello,
I am a well-educated muslim Oromo man looking for a friendship with an educated and intelligent beautiful Somali girl. I am 27, athletic and considered handsome. If you are interested, please leave a message, we'll make an arrangement.

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yare

Saturday, November 04, 2000 - 04:04 am
We dont offer donations.
we are very sorry.

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Anonymous

Saturday, November 04, 2000 - 02:59 pm
Hey Mr Oromo we know that we lost many men in the war but they r still enough for us and we dont need to choose other nationalities. so pls go to another page I think u r in the wrong one.

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Anab

Saturday, November 04, 2000 - 03:19 pm
hey, Riduan,
Do not be disappointed because of some rude responses. They cannot speak for all Somali women.
My name is Anab and I am 22, college graduate professionally employed. I am very tall and attractive. If you are serious, tell me whereabouts you live and we will take it from there.

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faarax

Saturday, November 04, 2000 - 05:03 pm
there is always a race traitor among us Anab just happened to be one of them...........

Mr:oromo let me ask u this question do u see us(somalimen)going for oromo girls------->No,u know why coz we like our own country-women so why don't u find urself a oromo woman!!!!!!!!!!?????

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abshira

Sunday, November 05, 2000 - 04:11 am
hello Riduan,
I dated an Oromo man who treated me like a queen.
The problem is that we had differences although we are both muslims. Some of our incompatibilities include the concept of time and space. See, we Somalis are more relaxed about life. So, eventhough I know that time travels in a straight line, I would like to think that there is always tomorrow. For him, every thing had to be done on time, every word had to be true and there was no sunshine after rain. But I just could not keep up with that kind of a pace. Other than that, he was the greatest man I have ever met. But since you are looking for just a friendship, i will give it a shot and see what is gonna develope.

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Leyla

Sunday, November 05, 2000 - 05:06 am
Can Anyone tell me what "Oromo" is..I don't seem to understand who "Oromos" are

Your help is very much appriciated...

Leyla

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Jaamaa

Sunday, November 05, 2000 - 12:18 pm
Leyla,
Oromos are our closet cousins numbering about 40 million in Ethiopia and Kenya. We share about 30%
of vocabulary with them. For example, 90% of our counting system is the same. They are 60% muslims and the rest follow traditional beliefs and protestant christianity.
hope this will help

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jaamac

Sunday, November 05, 2000 - 02:14 pm
to canab

naayaa sharmuutooyinka qaribay haweynka soomaalida waa adookale magaratay ee diin iyo dhaqanba laheen iyo wax aytaqaano aanjirin, magaca aad sidatid dhig soomaalina meel kamasoogishid asalkaagana waxaaa uu kasoojeedaa askartii gumeestayaashii naagihii jirkooda ka'iibsaday dhaxdooda ayaad kasookorortay magaratay.

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Anab

Monday, November 06, 2000 - 05:32 am
To Jaamac
War anu naagataagi ma aha. Ikhtiyaaraan hayyaa. Kaas waxaad uu sheegi laxaa, naagtaaga. Waxaas waxa ka soo baxaa jaahil iyyo nacas afkiisa waaye.

Just for your information, I was born, raised and educated among the Oromos.Perhaps, that is where my open-mindedness comes from. You need to stop being ignorant and chauvinist and get to know other cultures. No body knows me better than I know myself. So, anything you say about me has no validity.

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kenadiid

Tuesday, November 07, 2000 - 11:40 am
lol@jaamac

wallaahi jaamac waad soo qabatey naagta waxaan ku qosley"waar anagu naagtaa maahaa, akhtayaaraa hayaa".......odyaashii soomaalieed ee af soomaaliga soo alifey hadey maqli lahaayeen, waxay ku xuki lahaayeen, in la xiro naagtaas


ps; we Somalis don,t appreciate mingling with other societies,

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Anonymous

Tuesday, November 07, 2000 - 12:31 pm
jaaamac.

brother how much somali u understood there is nothing wrong she said anab and she talk as human who is realy nice why you insutling her like that we having trouble ppl like you alwys belive negative but pls make sure what you saying and allha will count all you said if you thing no one seen you iam sure you are wrong confuision so be polite and respect every one.

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Anab

Wednesday, November 08, 2000 - 04:29 am
To Jaamac,
I would like to inform you that our language did not have letters 'C', 'X' and 'Q' before the arrival of the Islam. We addopted these letters in
ordr to read Qur'an properly. These letters are only found in semetic languages among the Afro-Asiatic group. But our language is among the cushetic languages such as afar, Oromo, bantu etc.
Therefore, it makes the use of lips, tongue and mouth wall, but not the throat. My point is that the absence of these letters cannot constitue ignorance about the language. Somali is taking different shapes as it is spoken in many countries including Kenya, Ethiopia, Tanzania and Uganda. So, you may see and hear things that seem strange to people who just came out of the closet. Bear with me brother, most of us are out of the closet.
Let me ask you this. How do you characterize Iman?
A sharmuuta or a beautiful, smart and successful Samali girl who made it to the top?

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Anonymous

Wednesday, November 08, 2000 - 01:29 pm
anb i agree,iman is intelligent girl who actually did what her mind told her,not what stupid ignorant people told her,actually people get joules especially somali people they give hard time when u doing well and when u poor they told u to get a job,which is crazy.
persoanlly,iman did well,infact she is the most successful girl i know,and probably the richest.is that what people bothering.
common guys no one is perfect,get a life.

and also,riduan,dont listen to these stupid people if u are muslim that is what matters,u can have any somali girl u want,rememeber no one controls your attraction,that is how iman get to the top,so riduan go forit.get ur babe.
and i hope u get lang way thie relationship

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Hammer

Wednesday, November 08, 2000 - 02:52 pm
Keenedid& Jammac,

I think you are wrong to insult Anab.She tried her best to tell you something secretively in your own language.You are doing it in a wrong way.That is not the way to keep the girl away from the Oromo man.Beside if a Somali woman can't get what she want from her own society oviously she will try other nationality.I would rather she go to Oromo than others...IAM SURE YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN!.
IF YOU REALLY WANNA KEEP YOUR SISTERS...MAKE THEM HAPPY....THATS ALL THEY ARE ASKING FOR.WHEN THEY CANT FIND ONE OF THEIR OWN, IS WHEN THEY ALWAYS STRAY AWAY.

YOU DONT HAVE TO FEEL BAD WHEN ANOTHER MAN MOVE INTO YOUR TURF, WHICH YOU SENSELESSLY VACATED.AND BESIDE OROMOS ARE OUR CLOSEST RELATIVES{CUSHITIC} AS ANAB EXPLAINED.AND THEY GOT VERY BEAUTIFUL WOMEN.JUST LIKE SOMALI.YOU SHOULD TRY THEM.

So brothers lets take each and every one of our women to the moon,And trust me they will never ever look at any other man of any other kind.

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GabarSomali

Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 05:52 am
yo all
first of all am somali girl and thankz to our brothers Oromo we dont go out ithobians got that only somali guys, cuz they deserve us and we share something 100%

i love my people only kuwa handsome ka ah.

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Aaliya

Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 05:56 am
yo Hammar

adi marka hore gabdhaha somaalida oo dhan mas'uul kama noqon kartid we can go out any guy who treat us QUEEN.

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Anonymous

Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 08:28 am
hey Riduan if you like somali girls why done you come to the somali community where the all somali girls are sitting bye

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Anonymous

Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 08:38 am
HI Riduan I am Somali girl very attractive tall study kings collage university so if you want to only friendship you are welcome to be friend

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Anonymous

Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 08:43 am
HI Riduan I am Somali girl very attractive tall study kings collage university so if you want to only friendship you are welcome to be friend

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Anonymous

Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 08:45 am
HI Riduan I am Somali girl very attractive tall study kings collage university so if you want to only friendship you are welcome to be my friend

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REALITY CHECK

Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 10:50 am
SURE KENADIID..."WE SOMALIS MAY NOT APPREACIATE MIXING WITH OTHER RACES....BUT WE LOOOOOVVVVVVVVVEEEE KILLING EACH OTHER!" :)

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Yasine

Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 11:30 am
Hi Riduan, I am a Somali guy from the Uk . My tribe is from Diredawa (gurgura i.e DIR ), so we know the Oromo's very well.
Like someone wrote earlier we are brothers, so I say goodluck with you quest for a Somali girl.

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HANNA

Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 12:28 pm
Hi yasine bro r u really gurgure my aunt is gurgure and so because of her I know the gurgure they r very nice and beautiful people. RIDUAN BRO NEVER GIVE UP IF THE RIGHT ONE SHOULD BE SOMALI U WILL BE FIND HER GOOD LUCK BRO. YASINE I hope u give your e-mail to me if u dont mind it bro.

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Hammer

Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 02:56 pm
THIS IS A BACKLASH LADDIES....yesterday i sided with you but today iam agianst you....Question....why do you show up in large numbers when a foreigner shows up,and why do you ignore most of your brothers who are posting here looking for you....Is that hypocrasy or just plain ignorance.Or you think your brothers cant dig deep and good.If you think the "others" are better than your brothers you are wrong.Just listen to what thier women say about them.And please separate fiction from reality.Every thing that glimmers is not gold.

Please note this: when a society fails the root cause of the failure is not always as a result of men's incompetance, but of the women. Women are the pillars of every community or race,and when they break, the community breaks down as whole.

I agree Men of other races are far ahead of somali men, be it economic,political or otherwise .But they are not better men than Us in every which way you look at it....But They have better women.Women who show them love and build them from bottom up.Women who are modern and advance,up to date...and without antique mentality.Women who would do anything in order to feed her family...be it driving a Tractor-Trailer.

One thing you should remember only a Somali man would take you "AS-IS".Other men expect you to be as tough as their women....But i know you are a bunch of hypocrates.You will be tough for foreingers and biuld "loosers" into men, but you won't take sacrifice for your brothers who needs you the most....So who are the damn antique loosers?....Is it you or Us.

And finaly to Aaliya:....Iam not responsible for you or any other somali female.But i will make sure my own sisters dont become a slave of a foreigner.........Good luck for your adventure.

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riduan

Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 04:49 pm
Thank you my Somali brothers and sisters. I would like to extend my appreciation for your kind responses. this shows that we are re-uniting after along time of separation. The best thing for us is to recognize each other as true cousins whom misunderstanding and colonial conspiracies kept apart for so many years. We, the Somalis, the Oromos, the Afars, the Isaas, the sidamas and the Gurguras share much more than a common ancestory. As brother Jaamaa stated in his response to Leyla's question, we share a lot including 30% of our vocabularies. Please do not read me wrong because I am not suggesting that we should share our women and men. I did not go that far because I knew that this would upset some Somali brothers who do not have enough information about us. I would like to invite those brothers to every Oromo events that I take part in free of charge. i wold also like to invite them to our discussion forumss and chat rooms at Oromo.org, oromonet.com, oromo.com and bilisumma.com. Let me get back to what I said earlier. When I said "I did not go thatfar", I was referring to my original message. My request was neither for a girlfriend nor for a wife. Nor was it for a mistress. It was rather for a good friend.i don't think those ladies who responded to my message intended anything else either, judging from what they posted. In my opinion, they did nothing that would indicate that were prostituting or betraying their own country men. I do not spak Somali but I can read and understand some words that are common to our languages. Combining these with responses, I know exactly what the atmosphere feels like. Let me say this to those brothers who reacted out of jealousy or strong feeling of nationalism. I have a beautiful sister.(Remember, we Oromos are just as beautiful as Somalis if not more). If my sister decides to marry a soamli man today, I will be more than happy to help here in any way I can. This is because I know Somalis very well and i know that they are just like us. Secondly, it would be up to my sister to decide with whom to spend the rest of her life but not up to me. I have made a lot of somali male friends through my school and we have come to understanding each other. If you are interested in being united with your long lost brothers and sisters, please welcome to our home everywhere.
To Anab, Abshira and the anonymous, thank you very much and visit us at oromonet.com chat room. If you sign in and just ask for riduan, i will espond provided that i am there. I go chating usually Friday afternoons in US calendar.
Thnk you to all who responded because if you did not, I would not be able to konw your positions.

Assalamu aleykum.

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Anonymous

Thursday, November 09, 2000 - 07:57 pm
let the girls choice whom ever they feel comfortable with.

Elmi

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Yasine

Friday, November 10, 2000 - 12:09 am
Hanna,Nice to meet you,

Contact me on alia@cardiff.ac.uk.

Riduan, What part of Ethiopia are you from?

Look forward to talking to you on Oromo Chat rooms.

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Khadra

Friday, November 10, 2000 - 02:43 pm
hello Riduan,
My name is Khadra and I was born in Oromia(adama)
but both my father and mother are Somali. My parents had a very successful business in Adama until the Amharas arrested my father and looted their store just for being Somali. We moved to Harer when I was very young wher my father started a similar business and my mother taught at a Islamic school. Again, the government arrested my father on a suspicion that he spied for Somali government. But this time they could not loot our store because thanks to the oromos they moved all the products to Dirre Dawa. Because of our oromo friends, my father was released within three weeks and we finally left the country for Somalia literaly empty handed. But our oromo friends sold all the products and sent the money to us through Djibouti. When we went back in 1993, some of those people who helped us were killed and some of them were in prison. We felt really bad because we could not do anything to help since we were refugees ourselves. I would like to ask my Somali brothers and sisters to learn about these great people and help them free for once and for all. oromo means Somali. We are one.
Riduan, good luck with your search. As for me, i am already married but you welcome to be a friend.
If i was not married, i would not even think twice
You people are great.

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Anonymous

Saturday, November 11, 2000 - 06:55 am
half of hargeysa population is Oromo. no body is aginst them. we believe we r brothers and sisters and there is nothing wrong with that.

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jaamac

Saturday, November 11, 2000 - 08:50 am
jaamac


canab

sorry canab
waan kaxumahay sis sidii aan kuumalaynaayay iyo sidii aad iisheegtay tan labaad ingiriiska sifiican uma aqaan markale raali noqo canab

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farxaan

Saturday, November 11, 2000 - 03:01 pm
Riduan,
We (somalis) will help you to get your freedom from tigrey and amhara, we know that we share almost everything but not marriage, brother it is not we hate you, but it is that you have some kufars, so it is sometimes difficult to identify who is muslim and who is not.
But again every somalian with national sense knows that one day we will set Orromo free and that we will support them to get back all their rights.

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Anab

Saturday, November 11, 2000 - 05:38 pm
Jaamac,
I know there is a misunderstanding among us. Our society is probably one of the freeiest (most free)societies where disagreements are more common than agreements. That is ok but disrespecting each other is not. It would be better if we could express our opinions in a more civil and repectful way. This is not just for you but for all of us. Brother, I have no hard feelings towards you. So, apology is more than accepted.
Thanks

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BADRA

Sunday, November 12, 2000 - 05:38 pm
TOO BAD I DON'T DATE OROMO PPLE

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anonymous

Monday, November 13, 2000 - 03:10 pm
To Badra,
Perhaps Oromos woun't date you because you don't seem to have much to say

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badra

Monday, November 13, 2000 - 10:55 pm
loool....anonymouse what more would you expect me to say i've made my point

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anonymous

Tuesday, November 14, 2000 - 02:48 pm
To badra,
Perhaps you should've stated your reasons when you made such a strorng and biased statement or you could've kept your prejudice to yourself. I have nothing against your personal preference just in case that is your line of defence but when you make such a generalized statement, it is not a personal preference but prejudice. If the last ten years of distruction and statelessness has not taught us what ignorance, selfishness and prejudice can do, nothing else will. And it is a big hypocracy to complain about racism and discrimination here in the west when these shameful behaviours are part of our own culture.
Jazakillah kheeran!

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anonymous

Tuesday, November 14, 2000 - 02:54 pm
To badra,
Perhaps you should've stated your reasons when you made such a strorng and biased statement or you could've kept your prejudice to yourself. I have nothing against your personal preference just in case that is your line of defence but when you make such a generalized statement, it is not a personal preference but prejudice. If the last ten years of distruction and statelessness has not taught us what ignorance, selfishness and prejudice can do, nothing else will. And it is a big hypocracy to complain about racism and discrimination here in the west when these shameful behaviours are part of our own culture.
No doubt that you made your point, but I wish that you made an intelligent one.
Jazakillah kheeyran!

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Sahra

Wednesday, November 15, 2000 - 06:45 am
Badra shame on you nobody said you have to date them. But one advice be intellegent if you dont wanna date they dont want you too so leave the people alone. And try to express you statements a bit more then only "TOO BAD I DIDNT DATE OROMOS".

And to riduan dear it is normal to somalian ppl bro so dont think we hate you guys. Even if a girl married her cousin they will say tomorrow something against it. And we are not all like badran.So take care you gonna find the right one if somali or oromo it is you choice.

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Anab

Wednesday, November 15, 2000 - 08:16 am
To Riduan,
I visited oromonet.com chatroom last Friday and I was there for about 30 minutes but I didn't see you there.
I will try this Friday or let me know if you go there before Friday and at what time you will be there.
Take care
Anab

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Anonymous

Wednesday, November 15, 2000 - 08:54 am
What's with desperation Sis Anab,
There are plenty of fish out there!! OR you're that determined for hook up?
Be real Honey....Go meet other individuals..Its OK you know. Don't be dumb founded Explore other avenues

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muna

Wednesday, November 15, 2000 - 08:57 am
anad = dhilo weynaatey.

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muslim

Wednesday, November 15, 2000 - 11:29 am
oh my God. Somali folks are Mean. Can you all just leave the brother alone. If you don't wanna get with him, don't get all mad if someone else wants to do so. Take a chill pill loosers.

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lee

Wednesday, November 15, 2000 - 01:15 pm
To: anab / aliya

honey's u can date any body u want aight but don't come back to us ,,, probably i have seen some sisters married bangledhesh, arabs ,zair's and most of them they were regretting for their choise anyways all i can say to u is watchout ,,,

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zero

Wednesday, November 15, 2000 - 01:18 pm
show the brother some respect aight there r some bitches who fucking everybody from jamican to zair e so why do hate when a fellow orromo muslim want a sis.

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shire

Wednesday, November 15, 2000 - 04:56 pm
Stop player hating. Anab, sis, u are too intelligent for most of these ignorant guys. It is time like this that i feel embarased to call them `brothers`. What on earth is wrong with a guy looking for a girl. It is the year 2000, the days af descrimination are over. Shame to ignorance.

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Anonymous

Wednesday, November 15, 2000 - 08:21 pm
Well listen bud, no Somali girl of her right mind and who is born and bred in a wholesome home, should even have the slightest inclination to take your sorry offer. First of all, you ask for us girls in a disgusting manner, looking for a "pretty girl" eh ??? Well there is a whole lot to choose from in other cultures, why "Somalian" girls. I think I know the answer to this question, it's because you know that we "Somalis" are not pleased to see our girls off with any men of any other cultures, you see we are extremely racist when it comes to those things. So you being a Nigerian, why don't you stick to your own kind. Because you will surely have a clash with our cultural notions, for we are a distinct people, who view ourselves supremely. So in the future don't tred on our waters, stick to what you know best. For those sell outs, who fell for this men's plea, I would check my confidence first of all. Ladies are you so desperate that you have know come to consider marrying "Nigerians".

Nasra

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shire

Thursday, November 16, 2000 - 03:21 pm
that`s your choice nasra, i respect that. i am a somali brother. honestly speaking, if u were cool
and a aromo girl but - my type- i would give u a chance. go beyond the surface and u would be a much happier person.
For my Oromo brother. Don`t let these folks put u down man. vibe a somali girl in sensitive way cause most of our brothers don`t - be romantic, rent an indian movie and u are set.
they talk all this mess here (acting all tough) but I gurantee u girls like nasra and many others just look for MR right, inside they don`t care. they fantasize about Joe and R`kelly all the time.
tune up your game in the street - that`s were the action is at. some of these girls ain`t even worth the crap they preach on here.
peace to all the real and unreal people here.

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Naz

Thursday, November 16, 2000 - 06:18 pm
I am so sorry Oromo man, I thought you were Nigerian. I have this thing against Nigerians. So please escuse my ignorance. But I still enforce my rule against Nigerians !!! Somalians stay away from them. They are sour apples.

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Ifrah

Friday, November 17, 2000 - 04:41 am
To Riduan,
Brother, what is wrong with you and what do you think is wrong with us Oromo girls that you decided to venture into a territory that is so hostile? If you want to go out of your own race, that is your prerogative but I would just go for a blond and blue eyed if I decided to go for another race. Some of the messages posted here make me upset because they have the impression that either you are desperate or just trying to measure up to the Somalis who consider themselves to be Arabs as if that makes them a better human beings than the rest of the Africans. But then again, that is their right, I am just trying to let you know that we are as different in mentality as days and nights are. We Oromos know ( at least have come to know) that we have a common ancestry, culture and border. However, most Somalis ( as Mrs. NAZ or NAZI) demonstrated above, are not even aware that we have a common border. So, I think it is a good idea to wait until they reach our level of awareness to even consider a friendship with them. They can keep their women whatever they want to keep them, but they should wake up to the political reality in East Africa which require the co-operation of the two peoples more than ever. The Abyssinian rulers have big plans to keep Somalia divided for as long as it is possible, to keep Oromos divided for as long as it is possible and keep the two peoples apart( by instigating conflicts between them) for as long as possible.
I don't have to tell you why but the remedy is unity.
Ifrah

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Jamaal

Friday, November 17, 2000 - 05:39 am
Ifrah,
You are the best sis.
I am a Somali and i do beieve that Somalis and Oromos have common ancestors.

I really liked the way you expressed your opinion.
And as a matter of fact this is an issue i am very interested in.
If u wanna chat some more, my email is
jamaaldheere@hotmail.com

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Pretty Woman

Friday, November 17, 2000 - 05:53 am
Nasra Gurl for once I actually agree with U do have some sence after all!
Ridwan Hit da road hon cuz we somali Hot Honeyz aint interrested

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Riduan

Friday, November 17, 2000 - 04:16 pm
To Ifrah,
Yes I can date any woman I want if I want her bad enough. I have been here since I was 15 and did ten years of schooling here. 98% of the students in the highschool that I went to were white. Yes, I dated all kinds of them: tall, blond, brunet, blue, green eyed, you name it. I still am considered a very good-looking guy. So, I can pick up any girl in the gym, in the bar etc. But I kind of grew out of those places. I am not in a hurry for any thing at this moment. If you read my original message, you could see that I was looking for a friendship, not for a girlfriend or marriage. Perhaps what is giving a wrong impression is fact that I added the word "beautiful". If that is so mileading, I'll take it back. Unlike what NASRA said, I am not pleading for a Somali girl. I was just looking for a friend. I don't know why that is bad. I agree with you that most important issue in the horn is the political one and it requires the co-operation of the two people whether we like or not. We need the Somalis and the Somalis need us in order to find a durable solution to the ligering problem. The conspiracy starts here. Big daddy wants a strong christian country in the horn. We have to say no to that and drive the dabtaras ( amhara priests) back to where they came from (Gondar). We can do it together.
Riduan

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WADANI

Friday, November 17, 2000 - 08:11 pm
Riduan,LOL!!!!!!BRo.
The time has almost came to send amharo back to israel, trust me bro, we will deport them sooner or later. if amharo failed to remember the lesson we taught them 1977, we will re-teach them very soon and punish them even more harder.
We will finish them once and for all, this time no help from cuba or russia.

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Most_Passionate

Friday, November 17, 2000 - 08:33 pm
I thought this was a man in search of a "beautiful girl", I didn't know that it was really and operation or a cover-up for a revival. You need militia don't you, and you are in the process of recruiting. I get your drift, the girl thing was just instigation, so that you can bring men in rage over the "non Somailian" moving in on their territory, and you somehow in your scheming way fueled their anger to recognizing your political agenda.
So all I wanted to know was....Where do I sign my son up for this battle against the "amharo", who ever they are, you see with the true Somalian spirit and the love to bear arms, is what I have and has been instilled in me for generations passed. So tell me Mister, since you're call beckons me, where do we sign up. We will fight for the Oromos who I have just learned are our closest cousins. I will do what ever it takes to assemble a fort starting with my household, by 14 year old son I think will make a great commanding officer. He shares the same love for the rifle as his father, brings a tear to my eyes :O As you can see this won't take much coaxing on my part, I think I can gather hundreds of people for you...Just know we are ready and prepared to fight this battle with you, and in the process we will eliminate the ignorance that we have for our Oromo brothers and sisters. I will not stop until every Somalian man, woman and child have heard the call of their Oromo brothers and sisters. I am your Man, I am ready and prepared to fight against all odds. The question is are you with me ?

Sincerely,

Most_Passionate

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Anonymous

Saturday, November 18, 2000 - 05:15 am
Hi Riduan sorry about these people who just been rude to you and ignore these jalousie guys they cannot speak all Somali girls. We can go with anyone we like. So do not get upset brother you are more than welcome to be my friend...............
Leave me a message

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Riduan

Saturday, November 18, 2000 - 10:35 am
Dear most Passionate one,
I would say that you are very humourous and I enjoyed your message. But unfortunately you read me all wrong. I did not even plan to come to this site let alone having such a scheme to recruit young somali men for another round of Somali-ethiopian war. I accidentally stumbled on this site while looking for news regarding Somalia because I have been following the development in the process of forming the government. I was not the one who first brought politics into play. I am still looking for a friend. But I cannot deny that politics in the Horn is a common concern. No body wants to go to war and die for naught. But whether we live to tell or die, that seems to be the only solution since force is the only language that the Habashas speak and understand. If there are Somalis who believe that there is a peaceful co-existence with Ethiopia under the habasha rule, it will never happen at least in our life time. It is not hard to see this if we carefully analize the roles that the Woyanes (tigres) have been playing since the collapse of the Siad Barre government even if we are not familiar with long history between the two countries. My point is that we cannot avoid politics or pretend that everything is just fine or will be fine when we see the reality. I don't think I should get into details to be considered a political agitator or a "recruitor". We each have the responsibility to find out what the pressing issue is and do our part to seek a solution. Again, politics is not my agenda at least on this website. But my problem is that I cannot be quiet when someone brings it up.
Yes, I am still looking for a friend. I hope I am politically correct to say that.....blieve me I have gotton in a lot of trouble since I posted my first message in this forums.
Best regards!
Riduan

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RAIDER

Saturday, November 18, 2000 - 05:55 pm
My Fellow Somalis, Oromos and Others,
I stumbled into this conversation about Oromos and Somalis. What does Oromo-Somali interests have to do with Riduan getting a Somali woman ?
Personally, Riduan, Somalis are not the mixing type. They loathe foreigners more than themselves.
Second of all, I advise you to get away from
the female dwellers of SomaliNet. Nothing good comes out of the internet. If you want a good woman, you must look out into the real world.
I am a Somali but I doubt that I can marry a Somali woman. They are full of drama, attitude and personal problems. If u want a quiet and respectful woman who will treat you like a God, get a nice Asian woman. I have and I am 100% satisfied.

RAIDER.

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Nasra/Naz/Most_Passionate

Sunday, November 19, 2000 - 05:48 pm
Obviously our friend Raider has his own preference for a so called wife. I can imagine the sort of advertisement he can create, a "100% satisfied", as if he just made a mailing order and was pleased with his package. There is nothing wrong with choosing to marry outside one's race, but when one belittles the women of his race, then he's asking for it. So Raider sought after an Asian woman, because he knows that the traditional Asian culture is based on silence and the notion that "a woman should be seen and not heard" has stemmed from such a culture. Now what kind of partner is he trying to recommend to others, a complete vegetable that has no opinions and views. So Riduan (aka Oromo man) I wouldn't solicit such advice. You see some men are spineless and cannot handle an out spoken woman, for fear or intimidation sake, and so they choose to run the other way.
Somalian women he states are full of drama, attitude and personal problems. I actually like drama and attitude and I don't dismiss that, but buddy not all Somalian women are a like. The personal bid, seems he's talking from experience. The lesson in this Gentlemen is that one should not clump all Somalian women into one profile, because there is variation to us. I think that women are the pillars of our society, and they are the essence of our culture.
Alas, my main goal tonight Riduan was really to tell you once again, how sorry I am for my previous blunder. I mean I was so ashamed of myself I had to take on a new alias "Most_Passionate", yep that was me, trying to redeem myself with a few laughs. I want you to know that I still dedicate my life into spreading the word.

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Anonymous

Tuesday, November 21, 2000 - 04:53 am
Hey Riduan thanks for you replying to me. I did not read you wrong but i see alot of people who read your message wrong way. So that is why i says to you do not get upset.
by the way my name is samsam and Iam 24 year old and my email is you can email me

mandaas56@yahoo.co.uk

bye riduan have nice time

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Anonymous

Tuesday, November 21, 2000 - 04:57 am
Hey Riduan thanks for you replying to me. I did not read you wrong but i see alot of people who read your message wrong way. So that is why i says to you do not get upset.
by the way my name is samsam and Iam 24 year old and my email is you can email me

mandaas56@yahoo.co.uk

bye riduan have nice time

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zak

Tuesday, November 21, 2000 - 03:00 pm
hey ridwan? what's up bro the good news is we donate u to this girl, her name is anon aight so chill out bro.


zikzak.

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sakariyee

Friday, November 24, 2000 - 05:36 am
marka hore asalama calaykoum dhamaan tiin marka hore waxaan hayay niin reer djibouti ah . waxana aad aan ulaa yaabay sidey hablaha somaaliyeed usoo dhaweyeen niin anuu isku diinta nahay ee oromadaa ah . maanta waxaa kaa jiraa somaliya wax
la idha is yaas oo dad somaliya ayaa midqo laku sheega marka idba kama gursatoo . taa waxan uka jeeda hablahan soo dhaweeyay ninkaan waa <midqo>
oo id gursataa ayay wayeen marka la yaab malee hadii inamadii somaliyed ay dideen in ay oromo ay dontaan
wasalama calaykum

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dalmar

Friday, November 24, 2000 - 04:24 pm
i can not believe how some somali men are behaving, when oromo guy asked to have a somali girlfreind, what is wrong with oromos, they are our neigbors or may be our cousins, another thing somali women are free to befreind any human being they choose. they don't deserve to be insulted by narrow minded idiots, i lived in diredawa with oromos, they are just like us or better, stop being ignorant about your surroundings. Anab sister you deserve an apology

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Anonymous

Friday, November 24, 2000 - 07:45 pm
hey somalis dhamaantii waxaan idin dhihi horta diin ahaan wanaag hadadan sheegeyn inaad amustid ayaa qayr badan intaa kadib walal canab hadii aad rabtid ninka iqiyaar ayaad ledahay lakiin ha uga dhicin somalida meel hana caayin and whatever you do is adiga iyo Allah wax idin ka dhexeeya and wiilasha somaliyee hadii aad aragtii gabar somaliyeed oo wax ayanan jeceleyn samayneeysa ama ku hadlaysa ha xanaqina hana caayina because xasusta hooyoyinkiin ama inta gabar aad u wanaagsanmarka dadku ma wada wangsanee ama ma wada xumee wanaaga sameeya love all you.

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Anonymous

Sunday, November 26, 2000 - 03:58 am
To dalmar
thanks brother tell the ignores people what they have to do and tell them to educate their self
instead they just talking with non since things

bye
dalmar

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ballidhiig

Sunday, November 26, 2000 - 07:11 am
Hi.Mr Oromo
i want to say you congaretolitoin
coz you get alot of somalian girls and for sure you will teste all of thim
but i would like to tell our sisters be careful
coz the man wants to aspol our name

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Haatuf

Sunday, November 26, 2000 - 01:02 pm
Dear Riduan,

You said that you're a Moslem man. Well bro all I can say is that you're my brother. Any Moslem man is welcome to be our in-law.

There are so many Somaligirls who share their beds with white non-Moslem men. I'll be happy to see an Oromo brother(who's Moslem of course) sharing his life with a sister.

If you're looking for a Somaligirl to wed, I'll say go for it. But bro, drop the friendship thing. Our religion doesn't approve such relationships between opposite genders. Besides, if you're serious about this, you should go to the right places such as mosques.

This was your brother who's wishing you good luck.....

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another oromo boy

Wednesday, November 29, 2000 - 01:57 am
To riduan
A friendship or something else?u well come bro.i am an oromo who is living in finland so i know verry well about the somalis they are coooooooooool just chewing KAT ...

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deeeq

Wednesday, November 29, 2000 - 10:25 am
salaam dhamaan tiin rag iyo dumara

salaan kadib

to jamac or those who share same idea?

brothers,,, mid ogaada dumaraka dadka ayay kadhexeeyaan siiba hadii qofku uu yahay muslim diid ama doon taasi waa shareecada islaamka takale xaq ayaad uleedihiin in aad kuwa aad ladhalateen ama aad dhaseen utalisaan kuwa aan soomaaalinimo wadaagno talo ayaan kuleenahay,,,,,,dumarkana nin ka xaqooda siiya ayay nin u ah oo waajibkooda mariya,,,,.caydu way reebantahay ==== brothers waxaajira naago cidwalba raaca (((gal iyo waxaaan diinlahayn oo indhahayaga ku aragnay waxba kama qaban kartaan kuwa nala dhashay ama aan dhanlayn hala ilaa liyo oo rag wannaaagsan halloodhiso si ay udagaan nin walba haduu walaashii nin soomaali ah oo wanaagsan udhiso dadku waa ay wanaag sanaan

taasi waa iga talo


naagahan hawaayo arkaane haka waalinina (((hasoo kacsigooyaan qaarkood kacsiga ayaa fikirkiiba kaqaaday oo wax u wannaaagsan iyo wax kale makala garanayaa ee daaya duni ha arkaane inta kale eekudayan lahayd markay arkaan dhibka ay martay tiihore ayaytakalena kajoogsan doontaa?????

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fdfd

Saturday, December 02, 2000 - 03:17 pm
Yo Mr Oromo can't you get your own race? Somalian girls aren't that cheap so get your own lady dude. those girls who said that they wanna give it try, they are over wight once, who can't get somalian guy, so back off dude, and get your own chick.

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Mustaf

Saturday, December 02, 2000 - 03:35 pm
Thanx for NASRAAAAA.
One thing I wanna say this sell out shire ass guy, you telling the world that your girls are as cheap as a Indian movies? you said you can rent a movie for somalian girl, and you can do whatever you want? is that your opinion towards your somalian queens? let me tell you something kid, Somalian girls are the most beautiful women in the whole world. Further more they are more superior, proud women in the universe, therefore, you should apologize to them for your disgusting speech. bye

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layla

Saturday, December 02, 2000 - 04:01 pm
hi guys
frist and formost this was one hell of discussion, but i will say one thing, i have never seen ppl like u, guys this women ur talking about are ur women specially that ignorant guy called (SHIRE)...i think ur one of those we(somali) girls dump his ass on the street that is why u sound so angry,
...Mustafa....thank u so dearly walaalo, for speaking of our sisters the way did..we 'r queens to u guys(somalian) and ur kings to us

for rudian...we're welcoming u and can be our friend if u wish, i think anyone in this world can be a friend as long as ppl understand each other.

for the rest even though i havn't read most of ur posting, i feel sorry for who ever is trying to put down their own ppl

peace out

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KUMI

Sunday, December 03, 2000 - 03:15 pm
KUMI believes Riduan, as MUSLIM man, has any right to know any Muslim woman, Somali or not. Besides there is no rule that says "Somali women are created for Somali men and ONLY for somali men". The nationalistic and emotional statements is something we should avoid as Muslims.

Moreoever, I do not think that Riduan should have appealled to our common ancestry to avoid the sniping of our emotional Somali brothers and sisters. Riduan, as a Muslim, is fully qualified and free to even MARRY (I stress that as he only wanted friendship) any Somali girl of his choice.

And last but not least, thanx, RIDUAN, for telling us about the existence of the Oromo Websites. Some of us might post similar ads on these web sites:-) Afer all, Who knows what may come out of it??

KUMI

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Riduan

Monday, December 04, 2000 - 04:40 am
Yo fdfd dude,
Chill out man, you can't marry all Soamle women.
You can only marry one or may be four depending on where you live and who you marry. So, what is all this jelousy about, dude? Stay cool, yo. I told you before that I could get any woman I want but I wanted to know my Somali cousins. I just want to talk to them and know them, nothing else. Moreover, I am not after one of your "Chicks" as you put it. So, chill out dude!

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ali yare

Monday, December 04, 2000 - 11:48 am
hey oroma you can't fine any oromo girls or you don't wanted b/c they sting and you want good looking,cheap and clean somalian girls get lost man oromo is not good people so forget somalian girls fooo

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Anonymous

Tuesday, December 05, 2000 - 07:41 am
To crazy somali mens
live him the guy alone he is one of your brother
so please live brother peace and chill up guys

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Gurey jr.

Wednesday, December 06, 2000 - 04:55 am
TO Somali Honies

I find it hard to understand that somalian girls tend to give more attention to the foreigners then they do to their fellow somali man. Why is that? can somebody enlighten me about that? It would have easy been and exciting had you given more attention and respect to somali man; assuming that they treat you like a queen and have more in commom than any foreign that you can think off. Give the somali man a chance. It's obvious that the only reason foreigners are interested in somali girls is that they think they are cheap,and to somali man they are very expensive and respectable.Who ahould you rather have, a person you have more things in common or a complete stranger that might sell you out?
My follow somali sisters you make the choice and certainly you know what is best.

Mohammed Noor

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Mustaf

Wednesday, December 06, 2000 - 02:39 pm
I feel sorry for brother Rudan, what is his name?oh my bad Riduan.. Bro you haven't make any mistake at all, you just happen to be in the wrong society. What I am trying to say is that Somalian people are consider then selves as supirior society, they never appriciate anyone who trys to be part of them, unless he/she is pure somali. We have very strong culture that based on our traditional value,which any somalian person usally respect. Personally I did dated Oromo girl, and everthing was great except there was some chimistry that was mising in our relationship. See there are million thing that I can relate to somali lady, however, in Oromo girl there was none. I am not trying to disappointed you dude, but this is the fact. hope you find one of your girls dude.

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SomaliDude

Wednesday, December 06, 2000 - 02:57 pm
riduan :

I would be much happy for you to get a somali girl. Jamacians are doing our women. So you might wanna be carefull as some of them might not be suitable for a decent muslim brother like you.

good luck

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Riduan

Thursday, December 07, 2000 - 05:54 am
RAMADAN MUBARAK to all muslims!
This is the greatest of all the months in which Allah (SBW) forgives us for all our sins except those zulms that we have commited against others.

Considering onself superior is shirk. There is one and only one superior being. And that is the creator of all the creatures, the heaven, the earth, the paradise, and the hell. His superiority can be seen and heard by the blind, the deaf, by the humans and animals alike, and testified to by all his creations. Those nations (Qowm) who mistook Allah's ability as their own, who greatly underestimated their own limitations and boldly called themselves the "gods" such as the Egyptians, the Mayans, the Azteks and the Romans, all perished. These so called civilizations had many things in common including arrogance and brutality against others which are forbidden. As far as race superiority is concerned, today, if you go to Rome, you will not find any person with pure Roman blood, if you go to Egypt, you will not find any one with pure Egyptian blood, if you go to Mexico, you will not find anyone with pure Aztek blood. The races of those Qoowm have perished. Well, if they were superior to others, then they would have been able to preserve at least their own races, in my opinion. Even their stories are so badly destroyed that even the most sophisticated technology cannot reassemble the pieces of the puzzle and tell the complete story about how they lived. But for those who believe, there is a very clear lesson to learn. You don't have to go far to learn how God punishes those who consider themselves superior. Just look what happened to Germany just 55 years a go. Allah tolerates a lot of things but not shirk. He also forgives for all our sins but not those that we commit against others.
As for me, please stop responding to my original message because I have found many friends with whom I have been exchanging e-mail messages. As you may have suspected, one of them is Anab.

Have a wonderful Ramadan!

Riduan

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Somalilander

Saturday, December 09, 2000 - 04:02 am
To riduan

i Couldn't help noticing this message about oromas ans somali thing. let me tell u that somalis them selve don't even trust each other let alone oromas
and as somalilanders we can no longer trust other somalis ,and u are talking about the common ancestry between somalis and oromas. i'm aware of the fact that we have the same relegion and sharing the same traditions.

one thing u must know about somalis is that they are ruthless, ignorant and cruel people who don't understands the definition of human being.
the evidence of this is what's happening in somalia right now as we speak.

so Oromas be warned! or you will learn the way which we have learnt about somalis. which was through distruction and sluaghter. But i can happily say that we are having the last laugh

coz somalis wants our help, we don't need them, they need us thats why they can't agree to our statehood, but we are independent state somaliland.

longer, longer time ago, we were very keen on somalia, infact no other community in somalia was much patrioic then us,We had this notion of the common ancestry, language, religion and tradition, just the way u are thinking right now.

so my advice to our oromo brother is that plzzz go on other sites where you would find, more respectiful ppl. ppl who understand the definition of HUMAN BEING.

PIECE

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sijui

Thursday, December 14, 2000 - 10:01 am
Somalilander,

since your love of ethiopians knows no bounds, feel free to offer your blood-sisters to the thirsty man and while you are at it, you might as well pimp your divorced mother-a buy one get three kind of thing.

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