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     | Monday, November 27, 2000 - 05:52 am QUESTION 4 ALL U LADIES WHY IS IT IF A SOMALI GIRL LIKES A BROTHER SHE WILL NEVER HAVE THE GUTS 2 ASK HIM OUT? ALL THE AGINABIES DO IT WHY NOT OR BEAUTIFULL SISTERS. FROM NOKIO
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| | Monday, November 27, 2000 - 12:37 pm Salam I got 2 answers to ur question.....First We sista's dont go searchin' for the men and when the right one comes along u wait for him to make the move...the reason for that is because we dont want to hear NO from da brother so we just play it low till he comes and asks then u either tell him to get lost or say sure. And 2nd...its BECAUSE we are hard to get....  SALAMZz
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| | Monday, December 04, 2000 - 05:26 am 4 sure, but pride shouldn't always be involved, if u like a brother, break the somalian girls tradition and ask him the q's. U shouldn't be afraid of rejection, cause what u don't know u will never know! All out until the next reply. Nokio
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| | Monday, December 04, 2000 - 06:31 am Right on NOKIO, Dogg, I feel you. Sisters need to loosen up and relax. The mindgames that they play,the 2 hard to get approach angle is tiring. Brothers get tired after a while, after all we are no longer 15 years old and ready to play high school games. This is the reason why I have stopped talking to Somali women. Its not only me but several other guys in my city have done so. I stick to my nice white girls that I understand. Girls who will express themselves. NOKIO, from one brother to another, I advise u to stopping wasting 2 much time on Somali Suuro and go to greener pastures. Cash.
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| | Tuesday, December 05, 2000 - 01:40 am and that's exactly what we want you to do!!! stick to your pretty white,sweet girlfriends coz there's enough of you to go round. out of the 100 that i see around me everyday, i'm sure i'll find one that i like. just coz you somali don't mean i have to make myself cheaper for you.we're not 15 anymore and allot of us have wised up. i can go on without a man in my life. if you're good looking and you ask me out do you think i'll go out with you? no, in your face rejection for the simple fact that i don't need to get my hands dirty. i could wait for years on end but i know there's someone for everyone. you don't understand that the girls you see are not playing hard to get, they are hard to get and you will never get them. face it boys, you're not all that , as a matter of fact you're all worthless.
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| | Tuesday, December 05, 2000 - 03:50 am HI!!! I AM A SOMALI SISTER HOW ALWAYS ASKES HER MEN OUT IF THERE IS A DOGG SHE LIKES MY GOD WHAT AREA DO Y`LL LIVE IN?????? CUS WHERE I LIVE THE GIRLS CHASE THE MEN AS MUCH AS THE MEN CHASE THE WOMEN ANYONE WANNA CHAT TO MECHAT TO ME ON EASYM10@HOTAMIL.COM
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| | Tuesday, December 05, 2000 - 04:06 am As a single Somali male, I have noticed that Somali women are more complex and hard to get to know. After a while, it gets pretty hard to deal with the attitude and suuro. There are plenty of us decent guys, but you all just don’t give us a chance. Frankly, I agree with Cash’s and Nokio’s points. Most of the other brothers like me see women who are not Somali. People insult us and it upsets the women that I know when they see me out with my girl. They ask me why don’t I date the many Sisters in town. The main reason is the drama and suuro. These days if you like someone, express it. No need to hide your feelings. Nothing is worse than not know if so and so had feelings towards you. I would like to go out and maybe establish a relationship with a nice sister but the stress is too much. Nokio and Cash keep the faith. Chemical.
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| | Tuesday, December 05, 2000 - 06:09 am did you know that the ones who have the lowest self esteem and full of drama are the ones who are man hungry? believe it buddy, they might start of being all nice and sweet and then turn sour. a girl who doesn't want you from the start and lets you know is the girl who is showing her true feelings. somali boys don't see it like that though. they think that if you don't want them and show them that you don't want them, your playing games. don't be so big headed boys, there are people in this world who can go on without the hassle. me in person, i don't see anything wrong with you somali boys seeing people from a different race. but i know you would bug if it was the other way around.
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| | Tuesday, December 05, 2000 - 07:37 am lol Y-bug! I'm man and have seen same what crash and others said but truly I believe what Y-bug said 100%. we somali man dont know no! means no!, I've heard when our girl says no! means yes! I couldnt take it coz I was touch no! means no! and never lived a world no! means yes!. at end guys onething you've to know our girls like to see all chances before making selection(specially when she looks fine) it's bad tactic sometimes, coz right guy won be around always and guess wrong hit when she laid down her guard,guys when U see that situation it's better to give up and move on before it's late coz out there always is somebody. believe me if u are first guy happened to meet she won see what u worth till she see others and then realise oh! I missed right man. NB. foreign girls are not solution if u believe she loves u, lets see after 10yrs! dont be big time loosers!!!
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| | Wednesday, December 06, 2000 - 04:20 am nokia are u for real.....i mean u are compering use to aginabiis we are much more responsible and have reputaions to consider ......ooooh pls bro do u have a brain if yes then figure it out........just make sure u dont hurt your self with taht powerfull tool in your head.
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| | Wednesday, December 06, 2000 - 05:35 am boys, boys, boys, girls look for class and not trash, so to all of you who are offended when we blast you, understand that it's because of presentaion and personality which is very important. i guess somethings will never change. you should all learn a lesson from keynadiid, Openmindedness.....
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| | Wednesday, December 06, 2000 - 05:50 am In Defense of the Brothers... Listen up Y-Bug, playing 2 hard to get and suuro is good when u are 14 but gets tiring when u are over 21. It is not a must that u give your # to every guy that approaches u but kill the attitude. U can tell the guy to bug off, politely. Ever notice how Somali women act different, if u approach them with someone they know ? The game is made easier but if u are some stranger well good luck. Chemical, Cash, Nokio, you all have valid points. If u can't deal with scenes of drama from the BOLD AND THE BEAUTIFUL, there are plenty of nice women who are not Somali. Approach those ones and ENJOY.. SFire
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| | Thursday, December 07, 2000 - 01:26 am you listen up, there's not much more that i can say to make you understand that no one is playing games but you playing them on your self. attitude is only given to you coz you ask for it, so avoid the situations in which you will come across it, otherwise quit complaining.
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| | Thursday, December 07, 2000 - 03:20 am as the originator of this message i should get some points in ok 1. somali girls always go 4 who there friends like. 2. They (try) 2 play hard 2 get 4 pride sake. 3. Few have religion reason's, respect that 4. But the majority r just Fish And Chips who r doing what they see in tv. plz ladies don't take it personally, im open 4 debate.
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| | Thursday, December 07, 2000 - 06:14 am so what exactly are you trying to say? that we should follow the trend set by other Somali girls who go out with anyone for the sake of having someone?you're contradicting your own words. what you see on TV is not what goes on in real life and i'd feel sorry for you if that's what you think. there's allot of girls who go out with certain people coz their friend like them, what does that have anything to do with girls who ARE hard to get?? ask yourselves what the meaning between a girl that plays to get and a girl that is hard to get is. coz you obviously don't know the answer. when you figure it out, accept them for who they are.......
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| | Thursday, December 07, 2000 - 08:47 am yo in reply to y bug (me)i like to say that it's not me being confused, it's u ladies who try 2 play hard to get, but when ur friends like some1, then like the chickens ya'll r u fantise about them 2.
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| | Friday, December 08, 2000 - 02:43 am what business of yours is it who we fantasize about? c it's the kind of people that you know that do these silly things and your trying to say that every girl does it. how can you prove something without evidence. since when was it your right to label me or any other sis for something that you think we are. how many times do i have to tell you that certain girls are not playing. when someone tells you to go it means go!!!! or why stress your self on a girl who's playing hard to get? this topic is irrelevant.how can you explain something to someone who is not willing to look at the story from two different angles
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| | Friday, December 08, 2000 - 03:52 am SFire's Weekly Statistics: Telephone Numbers Got: 5 Percentage of Dates and U know what: 76% No. of Somali: 1 No. of American: 3 Others: 1 Likelyhood to Get Some Before 2Nite: V. GOOD All in All: GOOD WEEK
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| | Saturday, December 09, 2000 - 05:28 am nokia bro i swear 90percent of somali girlz r cheap and derty if u chat 2 dem the rightway dey play hard 2 get at first but after 10 min they ease man .
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| | Monday, December 11, 2000 - 06:55 am Man.... Forget about Somali women. Save ya money, health and go elsewhere.
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| | Wednesday, December 13, 2000 - 03:46 am First thing first we the ladys don't play hard to get,because we don't play games as we find them childish so when we say NO it means NO not maybe or come and get me couse I'm playing hard 2 get. I know that must seem heartless but when we try to say it nisely they take it the wrong way and think that you just need more convicing( & believe me we don't). And second of all I don't think that you guys would like a lady asking you out as she would seem desparet( you know that is exackly what you would be thinking so please don't play us for fool). Anyway I personely like it the old fashing way "as it suppose to be" and just because it the 21ST century there is no need for change.
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| | Saturday, December 16, 2000 - 02:23 pm true mis somali wonderwomen! i agree totally with you and y-bug, i'll just like to add that the bro- need to face the girls are not if they were dying for you they wouldn't come and ask you out for simple fact that we were not raised that way! so no body is gonna breaks even though people are forgeting the fact of us being in a KUFAR country does not mean we behave like them and think everything is normal and exceptable.
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| | Saturday, December 16, 2000 - 02:38 pm Hey bro, this is why somali girls act hard. It's called simply SUROO. It is natural for girls just understand and just be laid back with somali chicks and u will ok AS for BUG, girl the brother asked a qn why... and all u seem to do is take your vengence and self promo. Stop being so defensive and give the brothers tips on how to just watch u all act like u always do and maintain his cool. Somali girls are the prettiest and they are worth the games they play but as a brother all u gota do is just watch and wait for that opportunity and bite it when it comes. Peace u all.
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| | Saturday, January 06, 2001 - 07:53 am nokia and da likes of u i suggest u stik 2 ur whore white bitches da only reasons ur saying we somali women play hard is because we dont give u wat u want. CORRECT. n u know da is da only reasons u guys r complaining. i'm sure there's more 2 lives then chasing us . GO N STUDY y-bug sis dont waste ur time with these lowlifes. they r old guys with little kids brain
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| | Wednesday, January 10, 2001 - 01:43 am Hi guys, I wanna tell you why you don't get to understand somalian girls, cus you always want succeed on her while she even does't love you or attracted to you so you have to understand that girls have their own rights to say no. About white girls that is what I couldn't get it, you slave yourselves for whites and you are"nin ragga" with us!!!!!
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| | Saturday, January 13, 2001 - 04:55 pm Waz up people, first of all playing hard to get lets interpret that. To most girls, playing hard to get is because she doesn't want to give in too easily. But to others, for e.g. a girl you ask out really likes you, you ask her out she says yeh sure why not, then and only then do you lose interest. What i think is that you boys get a buzz when a girl plays hard to get. Call me mad or what ever but think about it. Later......
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| | Friday, January 26, 2001 - 02:33 am *sigh* Hmmm To be honest i was way lost long before i reached the age which i even noticed girls, man we all been dis-franchised from our homes and moved about from place to place. Personaly i got no roots as such to relate to i don't know what a typical "relationship with a somali woman" is!. There is no education as such to show us bros what proper treatment is, that is why it is so easy to just say F*ck to somali girls and go with white girls who give you what ever you ask and let you treat them as you please.# There is a lack and a lose of tradition... believe me i feel ignorate about the whole issue of chatting to or seeing a somali girl as anything other the a walaalo... We are in a different culture and we just need to figure out what the rules o the game is..... one thing men are good at is playing games with rules, hence the reason why men like sport more then woman. I can't figure out the rule by which somali girls play this dating game...? it F*cks with my essence and drives me mad... The rule of a non-somali is so easy to deal with. There only 2 intail answers "YES" or "NO" with a somali girl there is a million possibilities and another million impossibilies... i can't play a game with too many unknowns it is not a F*cking game any more it is a bloody ridle and i hate ridles... My game is simple is it a "goal" or is a "no goal"... ************************ That should please the bros much... now something for the sisters... ;-) can't be unfair now. Well auudi bilahi mina shaytani rajiim... istakhfurlah... may allah forgive me for my bad use of the english langauge... Islam sets the rules for us and if we all knew our religioun even a bit at least the rules of conduct we would not have any problems at all. We would all know how to approach each other how to communicate our interest and how to retreat without loss of character if rejected! How many of you realy know the basic rules of conduct with respect to your prospective partner??? I say very few of you bros/sis! for sure i was ignorant and i still need to learn a lot but most important is we all must have IMAN cos shaytan will play with us and it is said "shaytan is in your body like the blood that moves through you veins... BUKHARI" So do what ever you can to learn about your diin and there are ahadith and sura that deal with every rule we need to know... salam calykum
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| | Monday, February 12, 2001 - 11:07 am Let me tell you why a somali girl can not ask a guy out because the moment she asks a guy out,he would go around and tell everybody heblaayo asked me out and the next minute everybody would call the girl bicth.
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