     Mr. X | Friday, December 08, 2000 - 04:18 pm
Walaalayaal waxaan rabaa inaan indila wadaago arin aad u muhiimsan.
Run ahaantii arintan aan rabo waa arin aad u muhiimsan.
Aad ayaaan uga xumahay somaliga ayaa xoogaa igu adag.
Truthfully, we all want to find the right person but we don't know how and where to look for them. Here is a trick that I know it would work for many people and I am trying these days. We try to find the perfect companion in a place that we think they hang out and these days it is in the chat rooms but to tell you the truth; they aren't in there. Mostly, They are just like you wondering around the chat rooms and confusedt. They are around you, they are the once that you hang out with, go to school with, and mostly they are more closer than you think. So just let us take sometime off for ourselves and wonder that this thing happen naturally. For those of you who can remember the old days, When you see someone you like on the street and you go to him/her quickly and mostly you don't succeed but sometimes you used to win and when that happens, You feel like you are on top of the world so honestly and I know people don't like to talk about the truth, The place that you can find your perfect compaion is not the chat room because you know you lied to him/her trying to make yourself more appealing and they did the same thing. So whatever that it is that they do and how many times they tell you that they love you, you won't believe them. So please let us not keep ourselves in an fake world because I know the feeling you have when a person emails you and tell you the words that you want to hear are so overwelmingly beautiful, but somehow you know that you are lying to yourself because that peroson was just trying to be creative so that you will email them back. I know that I can keep going like this forever, but Usually the most successful ways of find the right person is on the street, on the supermarket, on the busses and the worst way is the chat room.
I know we all knew that but since we are Somalis, we like to ignore the truth so please whatever it is that you do, do not depend on those you meet on the chat and lose the lover of your life on the street wondering and dreaming about a person that you have never seen.
Take chances and be willing to lose and win with everything that you got that is the right way.
Thanks for taking the time to read this
I am MR. X |
| Anonymous | Saturday, December 09, 2000 - 11:41 pm
MR X
THAT IS WHAT'VE TELLING MY FRIENDS.NOTHING THAT CAN REPLACE REAL LOVE IN THE STREET,IN THE MALL OR AT THE MOVIE SIDE.
OLD FASHION BUT THE BEST FUN.AT LEAST YOU GET INSTANCE RESULT.AND NOTHING IS WOULD HANG OVER YOUR HEAD FOR MONTHS. |
| Amal | Sunday, December 10, 2000 - 04:14 am
Salaam everyone and Ramadan kariim.
Mr X...I would like to tell you that there is always an exception to every rule. I have met a guy our the internet (chat rooms) and guess what? He turned out to be my soulmate...I didn't lie to him, I saw no need to do that to anyone (I even went in by my real name in the chat). Least to say that now we are going to be married in the summer, and Alumdulilah that I decided to go into that chat room, on that particular day, at that particular time.
Amazing ain't it? Although this isn't always the case, as in real life, you get the successful stories and the unhappy tradegies. |
| down 2 earth | Monday, December 11, 2000 - 05:58 am
i agree with everything you said. but i think that there is no harm in talking to people on the net as long as they keep in mind that this person is not telling the truth.the aim is to enjoy talking to people and exchange ideas but to look for a you life time partner is something stupid to do, coz i personally wouldn't like to meet someone on the net and say we're dating for all i know this guy could be old enough to be my dad.lol
basically what i am trying to say is take the net to be an entertainment tool not a dating service! |
| mr. x | Thursday, December 14, 2000 - 09:57 am
I know that there is always exception to every law in the world, mucjiso waa dhacdaa but only in sometimes, And Amal, totally I am very happy for you, look at my point this way, Of about 100 people fail and only one person wins, that is not win for every body that is the true nature of life. All people hope that some day they can fall in true love and not all of them find it and Amal you are lucky and hang on to what you have.
And down to earth girl, peole first take it easy and always cool down because it is the normal thing to. however, things don't happen the way everyone likes and things go out of hand and when it does, you will see yourself imagining things that are not there and when you meet that person there is high possiblity that they will be uuuugggllyyyy. But What are we going to, who are we to say things about love. So Let us just enjoy the ride. |
