     shinoby | Wednesday, December 13, 2000 - 01:01 am
yo ever since i can remember i can'y seem to get my head around what somali girls really like, and what from a brother, 1 min 1 thing & then the next min something else, so help a brother out and let me know what u sisters, i.e. like to do, where to go etc.
peace Shinoby |
| HAJI | Wednesday, December 13, 2000 - 06:28 am
They don't like any thing.
Because most of them don't have the brains to decide what they like or dislike. |
| SomalianWomenLover | Wednesday, December 13, 2000 - 10:03 am
The ones who enjoy good sex like to be teased a lot, hours of playing, kissing, making her laugh and not to mention a nice, delicate long kiss downtown. Trust me on that, i have become an expert. But, ultimatley, what they like is for you to keep your mouth shut after you have become intimate with her. THAT IS WHAT MADE ME SUCCESSFUL IN SOMALIAN GIRLS. KEEP IT LOW PROFILE, DON'T BE RUNNING AROUND TELLING YOUR FRIENDS YOUR INTIMACY. THAT'S NOT FAIR.
BYE |
| take your time | Thursday, December 14, 2000 - 05:26 am
you don't need to spend money on me but you gotta have clear objevtives.
gots to have a future.
small time bad boy is a no no.
confused young man following the trend is a no no.
one who has a small temper is a no no.
one who dares ask me for sex is a no no.
one who cheats on me is a no no.
one who gets pushed around is a no no.
one who learns to love me and not falls onlove with me on the first date is a yes yes.
one who really and trully cares about me is yes yes.
one who respects me is a yes yes.
one who is cute is a yes yes.
one does not rush into marriage is a yes yes.
one who loves me is a yes yes. |
| nasro | Thursday, December 14, 2000 - 02:57 pm
To Haji
you are obviously ignorant person. How dare you say all somalian girls have no brains. Judging from your comment your the one with no brains. |
| Anonymous | Thursday, December 14, 2000 - 03:10 pm
beats me too |
| shu shu | Thursday, December 14, 2000 - 04:47 pm
A man who was trained by his Nanny or Mommy on HOW TO RESPECT OR TREAT A WOMAN.....
GET THE POINT? |
| DR. RUTH | Friday, December 15, 2000 - 11:21 am
TO SOMALIANWOMAN LOVER, YOU GOT THE EXPERIENCE I SEE, YOU REALLY CRACKING ME UP WITH ALL THAT YOU SAID, LOW PROFILE IS THE KEY AND TREAT HER AS YOU WANT TO BE TREATED. BE YOURSELF, AND DON'T ACT UP IF SHE GETS MORE COMMITTED TO YOU FASTER THAN YOU, SET THE GIRL STRAIGHT THE FIRST TIME. NO LIES, BE HONEST AND SURPRISE HER SOMETIMES. GIRLS LIKE GUY WHO TAKE CONTROL BUT ALSO ASKS THE GIRL IF IT IS OK. GOOD LUCK
AS FOR HAJI, YOU MUST BE ATTRACTED TO SHALLOW GIRLS BECAUSE YOU SOUND VERY IGNORENT.
BYE DR. RUTH |
| Nancy Friday | Friday, December 15, 2000 - 01:09 pm
Dr Ruth, may i say that was neat.. way to go! |
| LOVELESS IN ATLANTA | Friday, December 15, 2000 - 02:03 pm
TO SOMALIIWOMAN LOVER,MY BROTHER YOU KNOW WHAT
YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT AND WHAT YOU ARE DOING.
IT IS VERY REFRESHING TO KNOW THAT THERE ARE FEW MEN OUT THERE WHO KNOW HOW TO DO IT AND WHAT TO DO. THE KEY WORD IS TO TREAT A WOMAN LIKE A LADY
AND TO KEEP YOUR BUSINESS TO YOUR SELF.
LOVER MY DEAR,I COULD NOT SAY IT ANY BETTER.
GOOD LUCK AND KEEP THE GOOD WORK UP.
AS FOR HAJI,YOU DO NOT HAVE A F***K*** CLUE.
IT IS NOT THE WOMEN WHO HAVE NO BRAINS,IT IS YOU.GROW THE F***UP.IT IS BOYS LIKE YOU WHO GIVE MEN A BAD NAME.WELL I DO NOT LIKE TO WASTE MY TIME ON INGNORENT PEOPLE,AND OBVISOUSLY YOU ARE A BIG ONE.
SHINOBY YOU HAVE RECEIVED SOME GOOD ADVISE,I HOPE YOU CAN TAKE ADVANTAGE OF IT.
BYE,LOVELESS BUT DEFINETLY NOT LONELY |
| Anonymous | Friday, December 15, 2000 - 03:39 pm
TO SHINOBY
You raised a good point. but at the same time, looks like you missed the point. It is not what the girls want. It's actually what you want. If you wana find the right girl, please choose her. and don't let her choose you. And don't choose her just because she looks good in your arms. she must have good personality, down to earth, have self-respect and respects others. she must be kind, have good sense of humor. she must look good too. in short, I believe if she has all the good qualities, she will earn your respect, your love and your commitment. |
| total | Friday, December 15, 2000 - 04:19 pm
So you guys agree all Somalian girls want is SEX AND SILENCE?? I mean nothing else!
I dn't think so. I mean sex is important, but what about other things like respect and love?? |
| Nina | Friday, December 15, 2000 - 04:53 pm
Hi...Shinoby
You pointed for a good subject.It is true most somali ladies are like that the man can't understand them and the reason is you men.Yes ,you because they can't find the kindness and peace in you people.From all who I know no one can trust a somali man specially our somali society is a big deal if a girl or a lady talks to a man and how is she gonna love and tell everyone that.It is you man who have to keep this secret and it is very rare when a man doesn't tell his friend that he loves that girl or cares about her.The second thing most of you like them selves they don't know how to treat a lady they start everything by saying I can give you what ever you like or you wish but when she needs him he turns his head and walks away.That is most of what I saw.And believe it or not it is only few the people who care about their future because if you love someone you have to think about your future with this person but, when a somali girl meets a somali man all he cares about is to talk on phone and go out and waste money but no future to disscus about.Because the somali man goes out with all ladiesin his life and when he is bored an wants to marry there is a ready woman for him and it doesn't matter if he likes her or not or if she is beautiful or ugly and that is a girl in the family his mother lied to her because she(the mother)is selling her son and she makes him a perfect man .Therefore, the girl used to go out with him no one is gonna marry her because she went out with more than one or some times once in her life.It is only you guys who makes the girls act that way.It isn't something they thought about it.Last thing if a somaliwoman loves believe me she will give you her self but you have to know the way to her heart and you have to respect her.Iknow all men are not the same but the people I am talking about are the most Iknow there are some perfect guys this days but few may be 1 in each 20 men. |
| DR RUTH | Friday, December 15, 2000 - 05:03 pm
NINA YOU WROTE A LOT OF STUFF, BUT BELIEVE ME YOU DON'T MAKE SENSE. BUNCH OF WORDS BUT YOU DID NOT COMPLETE YOUR THOUGHT. TAKE IT EASY AND FINISH YOUR THOUGHT.
DR RUTH |
| Sporty | Monday, December 18, 2000 - 10:48 am
As you know every one likes his/her own way of what to do when it comes to dating, but personally I'm an easy sistah to understand. If you were thinking about doing a walk in the park the whole night, I would be thrilled, a movie, elated, a WRESTLING MATCH, WILD AS A BULL, any kind of sport show, YOUR MY KING FOR THE NIGHT.
C-YA: |
| anisa | Tuesday, January 09, 2001 - 12:13 pm
frist |
| Anonymous | Tuesday, January 09, 2001 - 12:33 pm
first I will tell you what women like but I will ask you why Somali man are sooo close mind not all of them but most
o,k women like when the guy is open mind and like to lessen what the wamen have to say. second they like when the guy care about them like say when is holiday they have to by some little think can be any think it doesn't have to fancy you now what I mean some think that you can by trust me on that,when she sick by her some think like cord or show her that you really sorry. because Somali man are not that sweet and they think kissing is every think about relationship.
I will finish next time now I have to go back to class |
| kamal | Friday, January 26, 2001 - 03:06 am
I think this issue is soo bleached out i don't think it is visible any more...
guys
Stop the
-name calling only shows your frustration
-stop asking what do girls like n b impulsive
-take a rejection like a punch on the chin
-speak as little as you possible have to keep em guessing where you coming from if they figure you out you dead and out the game.
-play mind games and make sure you know your subject or they will twist you arse up and bin yeh
-take em serious they ain't fragile or weak
-don't ever under estimate em or you lost already
-be just makes you a better looser if you do
-be a little un honest when required
-be carring even if not in your nature
-be what they want 1minute then switch personality and play their mind like a guitar
-be a man
-be brave
-be strong don't ever say i will die for yeh
-be you most of all cos they catch liers...
Lots of things there contridict each other but i gave a general advice you choose what works for you.
girls
Start
-carring for your bros
-giving them a chance
-keep em near so as not let em have them cheap prostitues
-be gentle
-be kind
-be a woman and act femanine no man wants a shemale
-practice your mothering skills early cos men don't help much
-state your intentions so as cause least confusion to bros
-don't ask for what you wouldn't perform
-don't judge
-don't manipulate
-don't act too smart cos only the dumb think they are the best
-do smile a little
-do be happy with yourself cos it ain't no mans fault you at that time of month
-do be just what goes around come back around only a bit faster
-do beleive everything i say i say no vested interest, i gain nothing from what i shared with you.
-do call me a lier cos i just made it all up as i wrote.......hehehe
Well i need to cool you all down with something after all that...... hmmmmm
*cogh*
Only true rule is be a good Muslim and you will be happy with yourself and Allah will be happy with... If you seek Love seek the love of Allah[SWT] if you seek Friendship seek the friendship of Allah [SWT]....Give all your Love to Allah[SWT] and Allah will give all his Love in return
seek not
-love of another, Allah will send Mr/Miss right
-acceptance of anyone other then your muslim bro/sis
-worldly riches it will comsume all your time and then you will leve it all behind to 2cat and a dog named greed..
salamu calycum
-remember you will have a son who will pay the price you set |
