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     | Friday, December 29, 2000 - 10:59 am I am down to earth professional man who hasn't found his soulmate. Here is the scoop: I am 29 years old, 5'10" tall and average build (weigh 165lbs) with brown eyes and dark curly hair. I'm very active and adventurous, yet know my limits...(Wow, that's a mouthful, huh?) I'm looking for someone who's also active and adventurous, and I tend to be attracted on girls who have a positive outlook on life and who try to make most out of everyday and who is an excellent communicator. Basically someone who's upbeat, honest, caring and loves to laugh (a lot!) and appreciates finer things in life between the ages of 22-27. If this interests to you, pls. fire me an email and I promise to return the favor. Here is my email address:haadi66@hotmail.com
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| | Saturday, December 30, 2000 - 01:33 pm you havent mentioned religious the single most important character in a woman, oh hamza hamza dont fail yourself
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| | Saturday, December 30, 2000 - 03:13 pm Hamza it may be YOU we don't want
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| | Monday, January 01, 2001 - 07:11 am If you're all that good, then why you stay single? Maybe, you live in Anti-Artica, and I think no sis would settle in that god forsaken place.
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| | Monday, January 01, 2001 - 11:41 am Happy new year! I just wonder how come all the skeptics and cynics are keep stumbling on my ad and try venting me on their anger and frustrations?!..... Well, that said aside, I don't live in anti-Arctic, nor any God-forsaken place on this earth, but I live in the heart of USA. Then you might wonder how come I'm still single, and still searching a soulmate; matter of fact, I'm consumed by work and studies, which allow me little time for socializing and meeting compatible companion. So if this is not a good reason to suffice your curiosity, then why don't you put me in the test and I will make sure to prove you wrong about your cynicism, or whatever your intentions are.... Hamza
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| | Friday, January 12, 2001 - 02:53 am TO HAMZA WALAAL I THINK I MIGHT BE THE ONE YOU'VE BEEN WAITING FOR BUT I DON'T LIVE IN THE STATES I LIVE IN EUROPE SO IF YOU ARE STILL INTERESTING PLEASE E-MAIL ME AT PUREHEART2000UK@HOTMAIL.COM HEARING FROM YOU SOON ASIILI
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| | Saturday, January 13, 2001 - 11:05 am Hamza let me just tell you that you sound very interesting, sorry but iam from England (London) but i really wanna keep in contact with you E-mail me fowzia_suleman@hotmail.com. I really like the way you handled youself against the anomymous people, any why i hope you mail me cause i want to chat to you more
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| | Saturday, January 13, 2001 - 12:13 pm Thanks all the sweet girls from UK who took the time to respond my ad, which many others dismissed because it sounded too unreal, or exggerated. I should have moved there long time ago, so I can meet all of these open minded girls maybe they have something that US girls don't have. Ciao!
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| | Wednesday, January 24, 2001 - 03:53 am To: Hamza Well, looks like you found yourself some admires in the Uk Hamza. May you also find your long awaited companion amongest them. Anyway, just wanted to say I like the way you express yourself.
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| | Saturday, January 27, 2001 - 04:02 pm Berlulla, You're definitely one kind of a soul girl. I appreciate for your comments and sincere wish to find a soulmate in UK. Though, I wonder how come you didn't try me, or is it you're already hooked! (lol) Hamza
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| | Monday, January 29, 2001 - 06:32 am To: Hamza lol, actually Hamza I am not hooked up, like you I sometimes wonder if I am asking for too much. And as to your opening comment I don't think you are asking for too much, I am sure that girl is lurking somewhere around in the world waiting for you so hope you don't give up in your search.
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| | Monday, January 29, 2001 - 05:57 pm Berlulla; A life of total dedication to the truth also means a willingness to be personally challenged and fully exposed. The only way that we can be certain that our map of reality is valid is to expose it to the criticism and challenge of other map makers. Thus, what one must do to find the very balance of life itself and living it. It certainly calls for a great challenge, which requires certain self sacrifice an dedication. I know that I am not alone in this world to fight for the restoration of that fragile balance in which our lives require in this age and in this world we're living. Though it may sound absurdity and elusive to the point I am getting at, but a life full of love is cathexis and full of pain. We know the world only through our relationships to it. Conversely, we must always consider our personal discomfort relatively to those we're seeking to make partnership and at the same time avoid hurting feelings. Such an adjustment and challenge to trully transcend to whom we realy wanted to be with calls for a certain idiosyncrisity. I certainly see myself continuosly facing the shadows of others who put me into frequent challenge. Berlulla, pls. keep your windows of opportunity open and who knows what might the winds of the atlantic bring to you...... Hamza
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| | Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 10:08 pm To: Hamza Thanks for the advice, it was really nice of you. Well, Hamza any luck so far... (lol) if you know what I mean. Salam
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| | Wednesday, January 31, 2001 - 05:50 pm Berlulla; I am noticing a pattern in your inquiry and keeps me wonder wether there is substantial compatibility between us. But first off, I would like to know if you are just curious and want to use me as a guinea pig and test me if these system works or not. The other assumption is wether you want to put a pass on me and afraid to ask me directly, so my dear be plain honest with me and I will shoot you a straight answer, OK?..... Hamza
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| | Wednesday, January 31, 2001 - 09:47 pm To: Hamza To be honest with you I don't know why you think that I am making a pass at you and that what I write here is just a disguise. I suppose you have misinterpreted my friendless as something else. Well, actually it must have been my fault for initially writing those words in ther first place anyway you seemed nice and friendly and I guess that is why curiousity got the best of me. I hope this clears any doubts you may be harbouring.
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| | Thursday, February 01, 2001 - 12:10 pm I was so intersted about you from the begining My advise to look for your soulemate in the arab countries. if you want let me know.
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| | Thursday, February 01, 2001 - 04:39 pm Berlulla; I'm so sorry if I offended you in any way because that wasn't my intention. However, I didn't get the idea of hitting on a man can get so outlandish and shameful. Since you mentioned that you weren't "hooked-up" with anybody, then I just thought you're a bit too shy and hesitant to check me out...... I guess a lot of our Somali women always assume that it is the role of men to put a pass on women and the other way around is a sin and any girl who crosses that line should be castigated!!!...... You are not the only girl(Berlulla)who tried to tempt me in disguise of curiosity while concealing their clear and present intention of asking me to be the candidate of my choice. In fact, our Somali girls have came a long of the days when they were traded as objects by their beloved parents who thought they knew who was best for them. Still our Somali girls are trailing with those early customerly cultures and are afraid to ask out any guy who attracts them. I think it is a great tragic when our girls have developed such broad mindedness for other civics and bussinesses in this western world, but get wary of who they would date, or mary the man they would spend with the rest of their lives. I'm sure many other girls might disagree with me on this issue and assume only that I am trying to break old taboos, which are ingrained in our cultures and religion. However, I wouldn't be surprised whether someone else would think that I am pushing my luck for expecting girls should come in flocks to me and ask me out on a date......... Berlulla, pls. don't get me wrong and think I am coming too hard on you, but it is just a strange pattern that I've been observing ever since I have posted my ad on this page. I hope that I didn't crash your image of me as "a nice and friendly guy" We still can be nice and civic and exchange ideas, so don't hold any grudges on me and assume that I am such a prick!....OK? Azmiralda; Thanks for the offer, but I am not interested anyone who lives in Arabia, but good luck. Hamza
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| | Sunday, February 04, 2001 - 12:02 am To: Hamza Well, Hamza it seems like nothing I say will make you change your mind, it obvious that you're still convinced that I have some hidden agenda in mind. In your last message I think you are categorizing Somali women by the actions of a few. Just because you have come across some in your time doesn't mean all are like that. I don't know how many girls have made passes at you by what you call " a disguise of curiosity" but I think it is unfair of you to think all would do the same. Not all girls like to plays games Hamza. Having said that, I personally don't have anything against a girl making the first move and I probally wouldn't hesitate to do so if I was attracted to someone. But just to make things clear I wouldn't be attracted to someone by just a few words they write, I prefer meeting someone face to face and if that makes me old fashioned then let it be. I am still not sure why you are so confident that every girl wants a piece of you but maybe that is the impression you have of Somali girls and that is what you expect from them.And in that sense I feel you are being prejudiced. Anyway, I think I have taken up enough space of on your ad and probally in the event discouraged some. Wish you all the best.
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| | Sunday, February 04, 2001 - 02:08 am Good on you Beer...Lol. I like the way you represented! Deqa
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