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I am looking for a guy who is honest, hardworking and smart

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Sahra

Monday, January 15, 2001 - 07:14 pm
Hi ppl
My name is Sahra, I live in New Jersey, USA for the past 15 years.I live with my family,24yrs old
I am a student at the state university, majoring economics.. I am great looking, honest, tender heart with tough mind. My looks are great..at least I am being honest with it.. I have great feature, beautiful smile with pretty brown eyes, light skin, and most of all athletic. I play tennis, and soccer.. I listen to music, read mystery novels and travel around the world. I want to meet a great somali guy with great personality... and he should be hard working guy. I know most somali guys are not hardworking...or maybe the ones I have met. I hope to find the right one..coz I don't want to marry an American.Please don't waste my time if you are not qualified for these requirements..Thanx

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e-male

Tuesday, January 16, 2001 - 03:54 am
Hi sahra:

Great girl with bright future! oops, I don't have some of these above qualifacations, but incase you could not find that one, drob me an e-mail and ask more about myself. deal?

(I live in Holland)

e-male@onebox.com

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Ziham

Tuesday, January 16, 2001 - 11:18 pm
Woow sis your'e fine lady don't worry you will find someone soon.
but lett me ask you why looking for mystery ppl
when you can meet, those around you? or your'e attracted ppl you can't see?.

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gurey jr.

Wednesday, January 17, 2001 - 06:39 am
Judging from your description, it's honestly troubling for me to understand why in the world you can't find a decent, harworking, sensetive gentleman. Did I miss appoint that you described!. I agree that their are plenty of jack asses out there and you have to be exremely caucious about the choice you make about a successful long lasting relationship with a quilified soul-mate.
If you are serious I might perfectly fit the criterias that your looking in a man.

holler at me, because you are a princess that I'm looking forward to hearing from.

sonof_anartist@hotmail.com

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mr4wives

Wednesday, January 17, 2001 - 11:32 am
first, Non can be honest unless being honest to Allah, so my question to you:

Do you pray your five times daily?

what would you say about a man over 30?

would you go with him wherever?

LET US SEE IF YOU ARE HONEST...

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Sahra

Wednesday, January 17, 2001 - 09:07 pm
Hey Guys
I was just being honest for my choice, I think that I have a choice to look for my soul mate. All of you guys think that I could find one honest, hardworking and smart... well I cannot find all of 3 traits together..there is always 2 out 3 traits that I am looking for are being found. So don't try to just holla at me for no reason. I believe in love more than just flop marriage for all the wrong reasons. Coz most of our somalian people marry one another for all the trouble excuses. Therefore, I believe one thing..that is a man should marry a woman that he loves and can spend the rest of his life with her rather than getting her pregnant and having babies for him.

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Sahra

Wednesday, January 17, 2001 - 09:32 pm
MR4WIVES
For your questions, Honestly, I pray five times
a day. I say that It depends on how much 30 yrs and over he is. No I would not go with him because who knows he might become a Dracula...or what you say..killer to kill me. I am sorry but I am not that naive to go with someone whom is older than me close to 10 yrs.. I am not made out like that..
by the way.. What kind of a name is MR4WiVES??? I hope you are not looking for your a forth wife, but if you are.... then I would say one thing...
GOOD LUCK..KEEP LOOKING..BYE

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Yaabow

Wednesday, January 17, 2001 - 11:02 pm
How is man who cannot read and write but uses the computer to write and read for him everything he wants. Do you consider to marry such a man? You are in a unversity majoring Economics and this man as at home majoring Electronic Engineering. How is that possible for him, since he is illiterate. Yes, he call himself an illiterate, yet he will be called an Elecronic Engineer in few years time.

Just let him know if you want that man since he can do whatever you want.
thanks

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jamaal

Saturday, January 20, 2001 - 11:03 am
hi sahra,
how are u,its great to find someone of ur choice but i really don't know ur choice of men,iam asomali boy really interested in long term relationship but couldn't find the right person upto now,i live in usa,north texas.mjoring computer,with nice personality if u wanna know more please contact through jamaal911@hotmail.com
take care.
jamaal

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Anonymous

Saturday, January 20, 2001 - 07:12 pm
Sahra it is lovely to see how harworking somalian girl you are.Well educated an atletick.One thing killed me though , when u said u read mystery books.All mystery books talk about horor stuff, killing, raping, robery , stalking, strangeling,assisinations, murder, cold murder, suacide ,homecide,are u out of your mind? Who will be approaching to u then? what makes u to have such an apetite of reading a horouble books? I wanted to talk to u or perhaps to ask your email, but now am runing away from your add contents. It is really misserable thing to read.
see ya

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mohamed

Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 03:01 am
To Sahra
Thank you very much for your introdaction/proposal letter. it was very interesting the way in which you presented your self. No wonder, th way you stated you demand or specification indicates that you have read the classical and noeclassical theary of economy. And I am very happy that yuo are that person in states who looking for a honest and hardworking. I am honest and hardworking, and I optimly utilise my available time thus, laisure is the opprotunity for gone,
Smart. in fact I am very very smart not necessary the way in which I dress but the way I organise my daily activities. Becouse if I am not mistaken the word smart is
S= systematic
M= measurable
A= achievable
R= recordable
T= time bound
Hey Sahra I have all the above qualities plus good personality and I am well educated and willing to be mr right but I have a problem and that is I am in Africa, so how willing are you to be my friend.
I wish I could been in states.
Mohamed

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Maxamed

Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 01:49 pm
Hello Sahra,
I am suprised to see a sister seeking for what i think are common personality traits- offcourse,these traits u seek my personlity. I am college student, work hard and have big dreams and ambitions. As u know without sweat there is no sweet, so a brother has to work even harder to get ahead.
I will be happy to get to know u sis, and u can reach me at moka@techie.com
Peace

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Samatar

Monday, January 22, 2001 - 04:52 am
Hi Sahra,
I never new there were other Somalis in Jersey. So why are u looking for a man ? You are young and in school. You have a lot to see out there. I am 23 and I haven't thought about settling down. I have a lot to see and explore. My goals are to get my masters degree, get a better paying job and to buy a nice house of my own. Sister, marriage can be a major setback. The best time to get married is when you have accomplished all of your goals and can provide for your family.
Right now, I live by myself and work at a major company out of Newark, NJ. I am saving up for my masters and hopefully, I'll get accepted into one of the NYC Biz Schools. My goal is to work abroad somewhere in Africa, the Middle East or Asia. Relationships and your goals in life have to be balanced. You must get your goals while you are young because once you get married and have kids, Life goes down hill from there.
15 years in NJ ? Wow what an accomplishment..... I have been here for 7 and I want to head out South.
Ciao 4 Now,
Samatar.

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Anonymous

Monday, January 22, 2001 - 02:38 pm
To mohamed,
Wow what a brave and naive man!!!!!!
This is not whre smartness is measured, and do u think this so called girl is smart or damb? U simply made your way honesty,but the big question is who gonna buy your qualities and remarks. Will she buying it? I dont know, maybe, next mellinium .Is she the one holding such a traite, u tell me? Any ways ,good luck, to me, you are brave man who will knock every door,even if he is poured waist water. take care

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MOHAMED from africa

Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 09:50 pm
TO ANONYMOUS
THERE IS A SAYING IN SOMALI THAT U DO ANYTHING IF IT IS IN YOUR INTEREST. THE SDAYING GOES LIKE THIS "SLEEP ON A DEAD DOG'S SKIN IF U HAVE NOTHING ELSE TO LIE ON". NOW I DON`T KNOW WHERE U COME DRAWING SUCH CONCLUSIONS ABOUT ME, BUT I SAY THIS TO U, IF IT MEANS THAT I AM DETERMINED TO GET WHAT I WANT IN LIFE AND THE OBSTACLES AHEAD AS YOU REFERRED TO AS "WASTE WATER", JUST BECAUSE I AM FAR AWAY IN AFRICA. SHAME TO YOU AS I COULD NOT UNDERSTAND NOTHING OF WHAT YOU WROTE OTHER THAN THE LAST SENTENCE.
STAY BITTER AND RUB A LEMON ON YOUR SOUR TONGUE
MOHAMED

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mohamed

Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 11:33 pm
To Somalinet team
I would like to thank you very much for desingning this wonderful platform which enables pple from different part of world to exchange edeas and freely express their inner feeling. Thank you very much for that social and technolical development, yet there is one big problem which hendered this development, and that is the misuse of this page.
for examble the other day, I have expressed my interest towords to young girl in States and all over sudden somebody who did not reveal his name for reason best known to him, has commented to my feeling and told me to be carry out thorough research before I made ony conclusion which is not bad to my side.
However, there was an other gentalman who also felt to respond to that person who told me to be careful, and what he did was what I failed to usderstand becouse he wrote his adeas while using my name plus my idear, and this is very bad in the sense that it creates conflict among the vievers and the originater. so please what can you do with that matter.
is it possible to remove that default/checks which allows one to make comment without revealing his or her name.
to last viever, would you mind if you stop this unciviled manner for impersonating with other pple this is crime and, it is against the rule of the law and principle of natural justice. It is act of terrority and outdated practice which is common to unciviled community.
To second to last viever,
It is pleasure to learn your comcern and I would like to thank you very much for that effort, eventhough it was indirect attack. Secondly I am obliged to inform you that it is more civiled to indicate your name whenever you want to air out your feeling, instead of using "anonymous".
thank you very much for reading and usderstanding this point.
mohamed
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MJ

Saturday, January 27, 2001 - 03:18 am
Hey yo this Mj. what I see Is people up In here judging, but this ain't our job let the god be that. the lady simply said what was on her heart and what she want from a man not a boy but real man so ya'll stop hating and If u think u are the one holla and stop com'n out here make yo self the jack ass.Babe girl I got none ain't but love for u and I'm the person u looking for but, sorry I'm in the air force so I don't have the time to dedicate to u and it would be a problem CZ I travel a lot and work hard. I'm a pilot I wish I could show u the moon and the stars CZ u disereve that. one love rakiim@blackplanet.com

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I hate Bitchs..

Saturday, January 27, 2001 - 04:23 am
The good girls aint come here. I belive that sahra is big bitch .. when she tired white and black dicks she turns da somalis. what so funny,
Those girls who wrote their names are no dignity with me.. bitch get a life..

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Anonymous

Sunday, January 28, 2001 - 07:41 am
To Zahra,


what is up, me is the guy you looking for, am harwordking, very hardworking, iam businessman too,
take care

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bitch-kicker

Sunday, January 28, 2001 - 08:40 pm
hi, all

i agree with I HATE BITCHS. It is true that most of these girls are what i called OUT OF SERVICE or HIGHMILEAGE.There is only one or two out of hundred. therefore, let's just heard them and don't trust most of them.

OUT OF SERVICE = BITCHS
HIGH MILEAGE = SINGLE-MOTHERS, OLDER THEN AVERAGE.

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Usher

Monday, January 29, 2001 - 03:49 pm
To Sahra:

i was glad to read your articles but i have none of the above qualifications, i'm hardworker
i'm computer literate, and whene it comes to S*x i have Unique techniques that has never applied
i'm lady's Man

bye ^^Usher^^

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laila

Wednesday, January 31, 2001 - 01:31 am
TO BITCH HATER

YOU ARE ONE SAD AND VERY BITTER BOY.

the EMPHASIS IS ON THE WORD BOY , YOU ARE NOT MATURE ENOUGH TO BE CALLED A man.

if you are not interested in what sahar has written then you should keep your vulgur remarks to yourself.

y2laila@arabia.com

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bashe

Tuesday, March 06, 2001 - 09:56 pm
HI SAHRA,
WHAT IS UR RELIGION STATUS,
one is that u pray five times a day
okay that good, do u wear the hijab? do u know how to read the holy Qoran?
Do u abide by the principals of our prophet S.a.w
I don't expect u to be a saint but are all this questions ringing a bell in ur eardrum?
if so, then drop me a line email aduale@hotmail.com for a dialogue. let all the wealth, education, and the worldly benefits be an advantage to u but what i wanna know is the true SAHRA below ur skin not by the way u look and what u tell us u are, I believe this few questions are enough 4 me to get a clue of who u are.
wasalaam allaykum

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