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     | Friday, January 19, 2001 - 08:55 am hello bro/sis why is that when you meet a nice somali man he turns out to be a little kid. i have met a lot of somali guys who you would think they decent unfortunately they have the brain of a 15 yr olds. if any one agrees I would like to hear ur views!
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| | Friday, January 19, 2001 - 05:49 pm I don't agree with you because I think am majure!! Bye
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| | Friday, January 19, 2001 - 07:32 pm Assalamu calaykum Sis Asha I disagree but I guess I can not comment on my disagreement because if I understood correctly you want the people who agree with you only to comment. good luck
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| | Friday, January 19, 2001 - 08:16 pm From cyber cop, Maybe u met only kids and that was your luck at the times. Try not to make a generalazation. U think a decent man will be haunting in the net? Try to think rationally.Were u among the girls made their pathetick add in matemornial section and u recieved Bunch of jag asses' s reponses. Try to post your marriage mindend adds where it belongs, whre any body does not have the accesses only the members who pays fees. I guess this will help you, you young lady.
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| | Saturday, January 20, 2001 - 08:14 pm To asha ahmed sister nothing to be genralized becouse we can't say all our brothers are bad but I confuesed the style of dating the know sometimes i wonder why the youn gentlmen who live this world today don't change the old style had nothing benifit in our youth today like dishonest,physical attack,abuse and alot criminal cases which is not good for human rights. I got shock when every i met lairs and most of the somalimen belive they need suport of that becouse if they tell excatlly who you are it might not work with your mission but to hiden is better and every one can understand how effect is when you tell someone something which is not true also i my self I'm appriceted how they comminicate the girls when they pretent a lover they don't even know motivition words and appriecation in order he explain this person he sharing his life. sorry i don't like to write to much but you can particapent the discuion please feel free to say your opion with out using a filty languege.
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| | Monday, January 22, 2001 - 03:26 am This one goes out to Asha Axmad. When you met that guy and he turned to a little boy. I understand that girl. Whenever a guy acts wierd is that he doesn't find you atractive and that's cleared. U don't have to blame him. You are the one who is acting wierd, believe me girl cause I know.
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| | Monday, January 22, 2001 - 04:28 am Asha.... U and Somali women are the reason why I only see Foreign women. A young educated, professional brother like me would rather marry a foreign woman than a woman like u. Asha, you drive away all the Good Guys.. But there are plenty of women out there so your loss. Jama
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| | Monday, January 22, 2001 - 03:00 pm To zumayo Sister am not a hard hitter or hardliner like Juma and the other boy. me was the man called him self anonymous and posted the earlier response to Assha. Now call me Daud. I talk about why somalian men lie to their women, simply somalian women dont buy the true stuff.They like to be lied, i dont know why? If you are wadaad religious and nice guy they will be calling names," Dhoore" "miskiin" "Allow sahal" but when you are very tricky and deception minded, they like u. Every woman will try to have a piece of you. Before you girls blame us, try to fix your own problems by knowing what is good for u. Ok, make your minds. take care
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| | Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 03:36 pm To Daud. thanks for your comments firstable,second you said what ever you thing is exist among then our youths. well i'mnot dening that there is some true going that issue but one thing is for sure specilly in the overseas dating and marige going on our community people start lairing one onether couse alot problem. May be some one had a fair or marige before he/she come this world we are and when he/she saw how things different strated to change his/her mind mostly happen that kind of lairs not only one side but both sides. what iam experinced is most of the guys i met never told me true history if they talking about they history before or how wants to deal with me is kind preteding and i hate that sing and i mostly tell when i met make sure everthing you said is honest and they said definetly it's and then is oppiste. i think some how they belive tell lair the womens some they think if he tell the truth the girl says simply no and some guys hate the nagtive and feel kind emmbaresment. so guys belive who you are lair is nothing but makes you dumb. thanks participents peace alwys there and politeness.
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| | Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 06:40 pm From Daud To sumaya, Now you are coming step by step, when we tell the truth ,nothing but the truth "girls say no", yeah they do, they like something worked out properly,something fabricated, they want from us to say, "we are engineers, computer geeks, pilots, doctors or perhaps friends of BILLGATE ,when we are not". Infact there are somalian individuals who hold such positions but not the whole society. I dont know if this is a sign of mental weakness ,lack of intellegence would be a sufficient way of describing it. The other interesting thing is,when u fabricate this plain lie, they will believed it at first and question u later, when the goal is being reached. It is really sad thing. You girls need to think while your two eyes are open. Sumaya, keep up the good debate, i hpe i will see ,a fanatic girl who will be challenging me
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| | Wednesday, January 24, 2001 - 03:02 pm To Daud, brother I'm wishing you have a good day,and i had the same one,second thanks the nice conversation you said,it meanigfull but the question is who has the most problem and couzes alot of trouble going on in our ppl specificly the dating and marige problems you didn't said we do and i have still some proof for you to accept. Did i tell you yet the horouble things you couse to soamli-women.You guys you have 1-irosponsilbe alot guys they like to have a family which has no constitution. you know every style has his own problem alot guys they like to party and still have a fun or where he use to go,if his wife originaly came from that place he like to tell her please don't go any more you become wife now and you must look wife and he wants to himself,he doesn't mean as religon or to show the kids good raise but just feeling emabrass if his wife still with him to party just his friends to tease him or he might use his technical support of iam not marige guy iam single please bleive me and his issue is only that night his happiness. that is one of the things you do i think some girls go their party but only differnt is if she is marige she says iam wife but i came here for fun,but guys alwys avialbe. If he isn't marige he has more than three love to handle he loves more than three he can't belive his girl treating him as king. but like to cover alot. also they are not hard worker becouse most of the live in northamerica is working at least 8hrs to survive women doing great job for that as business people of ALBARAKAT AND DAHABSHIIL represnts said most of our business depond on somaliwomen bring us every month from $600 to$800 to send back home or other neiborcountries. and you can see alot of somali families taking welfare while the dady sleeping and when the inspeciton came all his staff and him going out the home within 5mintues only his car. so due to that i belive you guys need to up date the life style and help the poor women. i hope you will agree with me Daud all the facts i have with you,belive me iam one of the community service.
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| | Thursday, January 25, 2001 - 03:10 pm To Zumayo From Daud Indeed i would agree, like nimanka soomalida mashaqaystayaal u badan yihiin, very true, however, some of your thoughts i dont agree with u. Sister am not working for American Human resource Agencies, there fore i can hardly know who makes the most income in america , somalian men and women. Using my common sense, i would say, men, becaue somalian women are out numbered in that area. Am not saying somalian women dont work at all, infact they work, some of them are hardworking, two thambs up for them lol.Come on whre somalian woman can work, which kind of environment? Albarakaat and other money tranfer agencies can not say women are the only back bone of somalian economy, what a surcastick report? Maybe they saw women sending money on behalf of their husbands, sons, brother and so for.lol I wonder why somalian woman would go to parties if she is married and challenge with her husband? Faxshi is not good for both women and men, but it is more serious for a woman. U know that ,dont u? lol Take care zumayo
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| | Thursday, January 25, 2001 - 03:51 pm Hi daud well it looks like we get alot of commen and most of my points was men drive us in risks and hoplesness iam glad you found that. I will be watch out what every they doing I know alot weakness they have. I can know when he sits by me and look gentlman dress well and smell good and peretend like a well educated man has very good awerness and willing to have bright future and looking his match, but still using his techincal support. I smile and show kindness and tell who he is and i gave him very tough quziz he never excpect somaliwomen get and he supriesdly open his eyes and told me wow girl you are outstanding,intellegent girl where are my other sisters had good hurt to trust gentlman like becouse you are so curuisotiy. I don't like people like you like to know everythink and you know if you want behave like this you will had long time to find and I said well he is coming by nice to meet you I knew you won't fit this possion but nice try. lol, lol, Would you mine daud if you tell me how many lair you told the girls when you realy want to get that place? it's normal becouse no one is perfect we all said some i mean none of us can said never but some people get use to and like to do any time. by enjoy your time.
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| | Friday, January 26, 2001 - 10:49 am Hello Zumayo U r not asking me if i did lie to single or many somalian girls? Well i did not, Am not good at making up stories. Fabricating stories need experience and i dont have such an exprience. I wish to have lol. Sumayo u seem very tough woman,how many guys failed your personal quize? I mean how many you tol to hit the road when you found they are liars. And what was the worst lie you exprienced so far? lol TAke care sumayo.
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| | Friday, January 26, 2001 - 02:05 pm Asalamu caleykum. Daud well said brother,i could't igree with you more,and i am soo happy in wiilasheena somaliyeed adigoo kale ku jiro.Brother keep it up, your next to my husband xaga smart nimata.
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| | Friday, January 26, 2001 - 03:51 pm From Daud To gabar Xaas ah Kix kix,kix kix, kix, kix,kix. Iam all ready dead for a laughter.I like such kind of humour, i really do, my attention was not finding out your status in life. All was i doing is to have a decent chat about our society and who should to be blamed. I hpe u do understood me, take care
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| | Friday, January 26, 2001 - 06:09 pm TO Daud. i saw your long loud lough you had well iam not quite unerstood what gabar-xas said but i can see your emotion, any way it's good willing and compliment to you what you recived lol.lol,lol. you asked me the worest i met it's unacountble number what i met so some of them i got off my head awy becouse i want my mind works and kept altot important thing so i can realy write if i take amarican funiest i will make a money. lol lol. any way daud hard to belive you never ever used please don't shy allah will see you if you think not you still have chance to quit so i can understand the last time you quited. by now take care daud.
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| | Friday, January 26, 2001 - 07:58 pm To Zumayo, Hi again, it is me, am posting too much things tonight,i thought you the one named herself Gabar-xaas ah. There is nothing i can proof though,except the quick conclusion u came up, such mentioning me being emotional, Mybe your not, mybe you are, who knows? One thing for sure, that person's name was weird and questionable. Why did she told her status? Did she thought Daud is here to find a girl, therefore signal him out not to talk her sincerely. Iam human who talk to every body the same way. Iam not here to find a girl, just to talk to my fellow somalis, that is all. I wish she could read the title name of this debate forums, therefore she would have known what we are talking about all days long, before naming her self such a name and would respond to Daud. Did i lie to somalis, offcourse not,like i said before, not all men can lie, only the masters of deceptions. I would need school though.lol.lol Take care zumayo.
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| | Sunday, January 28, 2001 - 03:53 pm HI DAUD, I understand all your thoughts but sorry to tell you you failed completly your guess. Firstble you don't havn't complaing what a girl says that is freedom choice so she can choose any name she wants, also you need to respect for the idea. secondble she was describe herhusbans quality and said you are close matcher to him so is that makes feel bad. I don't realy get it what makes you to confuse. you make me up set how you complaing for someone no reason. my understadning b/w you and her was the girl was agreed what ever you said,i can even say she was completly supporting you your idea. I wish you oppoligze to her.once again no one intrest privete details either you and me or her. So I don't why you brought us this topic in here,and we shouldn't have that isn't ? Sorry for the inconvinence from your side.
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| | Sunday, January 28, 2001 - 08:53 pm Iam glad i did not say it was u for sure,Guessing can be wrong or right, yet no one sure lol. Truthfully speaking i did not complain something she said about me maybe i will in this posting, I did not writte an offensive things about her ,therefore there is little or nothing i can make an appology. If u insist, me to do so ,am more than willing to do in my next writting. lol Indeed pple have the right to call them selves whatever names that they desire, but sometimes other pple interperate things into different thing, perhaps am among those pple. The girl' name look to me weird. For god's sake why this name. Couldn't she find other prettier one. Infact she said postive things but yet am suspected about them, these things she said did not sound to me something to be proud of or to be delighted. That is me, and how i felt. How would i know wether her husband is smart, and how did she know my smartness? cajiiib!!!!! What am i so different the other somalis? In writting she made a positive remarks ,however when you transilate abstructly, it is not something to be liked? u know what i mean? lol lol,lol Zumayo is cadee heee, xarash yaan la isku tuurin lol take care sis
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| | Monday, January 29, 2001 - 11:01 am TO Daud, that was wonderfull iam glad you well understood all my pharases. I'm appriceted all your postive toward the conversation we had. I realy liked and I enjoyed all. It make sense when you said she has no clue about my smartness,she might said different way but my be languege barier. any way who knows that you smart or not? could you please let me ask you I-Q Questions. lol, lol,lol,lol,lol,lol.just for fun not serious.
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| | Monday, January 29, 2001 - 12:43 pm Daud it's me again. i saw someone complaining about you and I told what he deserve did you see it if you see the person response was me.
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| | Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 10:05 am From daud to Sumayo a language barier? It is seems it was u then, lool loll Yeah u can ask me a question any time. Sister,i saw this person who was complaining about my pressence in this forums, dont worry about him/her, pple need to release the stress when they are so bored or dont know something to write or say, this is cyper syndrome,a sickness, lol. Am not gonna respond to him/her. Thanks for your support. Bye sis
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| | Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 11:10 am Daud Use the flowing tricks Don't let any girl know about your objectives otherwise they will spoil it by giving themself different names and applying different make-up and at last make you wonder and confuse all buetiful times. "Durwaaga naagta ah Arigoo dhan ayey ceyrsataa markii ay rabto in ay neef qabsato hadii ay gaari weysane caruurteeda ayey u dirtaa. Xagaad ku fakani. Hadii aad naag soomaali rabtid is ticmaal tusaalahaan. Gabadha:Nabad masheegtey Wiilka :Intaan-ogahey G :Cunto marabtaa W :Horta Faraxal ii keen G :Ma dharagtey W :Awowgeyba hal-geel kuma dhargin G :Maseexaneysaa W :Cishihii baa igu jira Warkaaga haduu intaas dhaafo dhib aad ku jirtaa Intii ka horeysana lixdan waad gaartaye iska siidaa oo u dir guriga xanaaneynta. PS Daud if you dont understand this last quatos, please print and get some one to translate for you thanks
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| | Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 03:49 pm Hi Daud, Well I Mentioned millions times what you suspected,I'm sorry i can't help you to belive that so it depon on you how you make understand by your self. I do respect what ppl says. we have no time to debate is that you ? isn't me. let's have some benif discousion,and others enjyod too. that is all i can say today. have nice evening.
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| | Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 07:15 pm when you said all somali men that includes your father brother.uncle and allmost avery somalian men let me say this birds of futher group fly togather that means you choooze some one just like you and you blaming him if you meet 10 of them your allready second hand so need need of complain just cry to the last one he will help you just maybe
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| | Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 08:31 pm TO DAUD AND SUMAYA DON'T WANNA BE RUDE AT ALL BUT U DRIVE ME CRAZYYYYY. PLEASE GUYS DON'T ACT LIKE IGNORANT. YOU ASKED EACH OTHER PERSONAL QUESTIONS AND LET OTHER PPL SEE YOUR DETAILS. I AM NOT SAYING GOTTA ROOM LOL!!!!BUT PLEASE AND PLEASE EXCHANGE YOUR EMAILS. IN THAT YOU HAVE A TIME TO DISCUSS YOUR ISSUES WITHOUT LETTING OTHER PPL TO SEE THEM. LET MY PPL TALK OR DO SOMETHING AND THAT IS MY ADVICE TO WHICH GOES ALL YOU FOLKS.
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| | Wednesday, January 31, 2001 - 11:17 am From Daud To Xigte, Waad ku mahadsantahay, qoraalkan, runtii qosol dartiis fixdii baa iga dhamaatay, dhaqanka soomalida miyiga waan ku xumahay aqoontiisa,laakiin, hada waan bartaa oo waxaan suallo weydiiyaa xigtada iga waa weyn ee nasiibka u yeeshay inay ku koraan miyiga. Masheegi karo dumar iyo rag kaa tahay, laakiin fadlan bal ii yara sharax, tusaale yaasha quruxda badan eed ii soo qortay, adigoo ku mahadsan. To Akhyaarta ka leh, Idinka ku mahadsanid fikradahiina, laakiin aniga iyo zumayo sheekada uunbaa halkaas nala gaartay maahine, there is nothing serious in between us, we know how to ask another our emails, that is not something you guys to remind us ,if we intend to so ok, Thank u once again
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| | Wednesday, January 31, 2001 - 06:10 pm Asallmu allykum. waa idin salamey dhaman aqyarta nagu soo biirtey. pagenkan waxaa ku doodi jirey aniga iyo daud. daud ninyahow xitaa salantii waad ila dhaaftey markii layna soo booqday also waa ka helyey sidaad martida ugu jawaabtey. waa gabadhii shaxshaxley ahayde. shaxshaxley see kaa noqotey wlaalo ma dad laysu tilmaama baa nahay, mana aanan garanwaayin laakin aduunka qof walba fikaradiisa waala dhegestaaye. daauud baa kuu jawaabey ana waa la qabaa. weli waxan la hadlayaa marita xigtow waan ku salmey oo anigu salanta ku la ma dhafin teeda kele ninyahow roomka waad noogu timi imana aadan salamin xaalkeeda qaado adiga maxase ninyahow aad dhinac uga soo jeestey aduunka maanta miyaanad ogayn inlaga ciribtiry comminest oo loo batey democrey waa nidamka iqualityiga la dhaho inaan laka sareyne, ma caleysh guubaadada gabowday waa laga baxay.ee bawadow yahow dib ha celin dadkan soo bararugey. aduukani waa hayaan hirdoogla lagu socdaa hogaankuna waa casriga, hankagana lama hagrado kheyr ka har waa habaar. intaas xigta iyo miyaga uu kayimi baa leh. daud heye bal ii wad sheekada.
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| | Wednesday, January 31, 2001 - 06:42 pm To zumayo, Waxaa hubaal ah, inaad soomaliga aad ugu fiican tahay, kol hore maxaad iigu sheegi wayday, soomaligaaga baan ba ka helay, Murti baa kaa buuxday, wow, zumayo, waad igabatay, waxaan kuu qabay, gabar meelahan ku kortay, hada baan buraashada soo dhaansan, lol , u know what that means,dont u ? Salaanta kula ma dhaafin een martida baan u jawaabayey. take care iyo sheeko wacan. Waana la isku keen qalqaaliyey ee bal ii soo qor emailkaaga, lol
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| | Wednesday, January 31, 2001 - 07:22 pm from Daud, to xigte, hada baaan si fiican u fahmay xoogaa , tusaalayaashaada, laakiin saaxiib dumarka maanta waxay u baahan yihiin sheeko badan iyo more details, hadii aad siiso short answer dhibweyn baad la kulmi, they are so curious to know more about u and what u intend to do. Marka waxaan ka baqay inta aan fikradaan qaato inaan booraan iyo jabad ka dhaco,ileen dumarkan iyo kuwii hore farqi baa u dhexeeyee lol,take care
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| | Thursday, February 01, 2001 - 04:48 pm ASAALMU ALLYKUM. daud waan ku salaamey salaan ka dib waxad mooda in pekan inaan waqtibadn ku limaney,islamrkaana ay akhristayaal badan ay raaligelisay qaarkoodna ay fikardo kale aynagu dhlainyeen. dadkaas aad bay u mahdasnyihiin. sida wanagsan ee aynoga qaybqaten edebta peka. waxaan u jawaabayaa walaashey shaxshaxleey ee shaxshaxleey argtideedii waxan ka leeyahy shirbaan ka qaadanynaa aniga iyo daud hadii aan doorbidno inan waxka qaban karno argtidaa dadweynha, daud raga bilaaba sidii dhaqanku ahaa ee bal soo qor kaaga adigoo mahdsan aniguna waa ka soo jawaayaa sida ugu haboon.
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| | Thursday, February 01, 2001 - 07:09 pm From Daud To akhyaarta, waan idin salaamay dhamaan meelkasto ood joogtiin, barasho wanaagsan, aniga waxaan joogaa canada, idinka isa soo sheega. Ku mahadsanid fikradihiina. To Zumayo salaan ka dib, i thought in westren world, pple say " ladies first" lol lol lol,lol. Dhaqankii somalida baad ila tiigsatay ok, no problemaato.My mail is nuradiin@yahoo.com take care
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| | Friday, February 02, 2001 - 03:21 am Sister i heard ya n' everywhere that i turn i see sisters conplaining and i was like Gosh it all must be true aight. Some dudes that I met ain't have no decency at all and i don't know the reason, Sisters our brothers are becoming more like ...i don't wanna make enemies here, but the truth is guys it's normal to ask the expert if ya lacking out of anything, and please you all need to understand relationships are more like controputing not competing.. anyone who wanna to talk write to be @ la_brownsuga@hotmail.com and be nice butties..lol
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