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     | Sunday, January 21, 2001 - 07:09 pm Asallmu allykum. wallalahayga soomaliyeed ee nasiibka u yeesha iney soo booqdan bogaan waxaan ka codasanayaa iney tixgaliyaan adaabta marka hore oo aan la iigu qorin cay iyo aflagaado marka hore,marka xiga waxaan rabaa inaan ka helo walaalahayga soomaliyeed ee iyaga waxgarka ah iney iigu qoraan fikaradahooda islamarkana ay iga caawiyaan argtidaya iyo go' aanka xun een gaarey marka fadaln waad ii qori kartaa fikardada waayo waan u baahanay taldaa. waxaan ahay gabarsoomaliyeed dada deeduna tahay 25sano waxa aan deganahay norway, waxaan weligay iyo laga bilaabo from 19yrs kaygii ku fakari jirey amaba long dreem ii ahayd inaan la kulmo my dream husban or nikii mustaqlka aan ku riyoon jiray waxaan la kulmay one of the greatest man one the word or i expact to get one day. you can imgine how happy and excited i was the time,he was excately my right person to me and not only me but the whole worl said,including my family,my friends and who every knows me and knows him. then our relationship was strong and getting biger and bigger untill we decieded to marie,we both decied to marry. couple days later I got opproutinty to come in europe and that time i was woried about my decition going in europe becouse he was very up set and i was too but main thing cousing me i had no choice to stay becouse we were in eithopia and hoplesness. We both relized this is opportinty for us and we will help each other for ever and we will keep the promises and our heart will never be away. that moment was my hardest part i ever met.it was pain full and every one can understand when two lovers will expect they will miss alot. We both made big promise and I said i will never hurt you,i will never broke your heart and i will never leave you in my whole live you are the king of my heart and i will work hard to bring you where iam what ever it takes no matter how long it takes to me and how far you are i wil try insha allah. then i left the place and was nightmare to me the lastnight i said by by we had tears made wet our clothes and alot pple around us looked us badly. I came to norway and i started to keep work all the promises and i did most of them we use to talk every weekend some weekdays which wasnot enough. I was doing my part greatly, honestly and compasiont. it took me long time to get the document of the country becouse i came teenager and had to get eveything. after one year i heard a bad news which is coming from his part saying that he hang around and he almost getting maried,i heard that news but i couldn't belive and my family were there and told me it's true and you have to belived even his famliy told me too. I ignore for evevry body and nothing stoped me the person i choosed,and i asked him to trust he told me don't ever blive our enenmy from everwhere and belive me I wil keep the promise. any way he got oppourtiny to come in united stats from his family. and we still had a good relationship which was very differnt then we had before beocuse we all expact to see each other. He came to me in europe and see me and i told hime i don't have any docmunet to come united states please will you stay with me here and live with me or stay with me untill i got my own document.He become up set and he said i wana go back in usa and i will start school and get opportinyt over there and we will see each other at the summer time i was so up set badly but i decieded to let him go out inseatd i make him up set. if i talked about the moment he was with me was wonderfull .His reaction was unbeliveble love and i forget whatever i hear we had a good time toghether even though was short to us becouse the visa i had was month and have I had a big time. I was so happy how my husband was made me pleasent love and get along with each other happinest, with romance, and i use to love my husband more than everything and i wonder how lucky iam.He was my favorite husband and every moment i was with him i felt comortable. this was long stroy and long story to make a short after the promises he got maired a girl in usa after one month when he left me and i heard the worest news my heart hear i got depresion and heartbroke and sadness. i couldn't belive he did but i realized the true untill he said from his mouth i decied to forget that love and quite even though i face verey though time i belived i need so survive but the bad news was he still told me he had all the feeling we use to had and loves me alot and wants to maka me happy but takes long time to me to make happy right now. i hard a hard time to turst all somali men in my whole live i will never ever belive their love i will never make comimtment some one else and trust me it's my first year of the broken hurt and i choose that i don't how my furture gone be so my dear brothers and sister am i wrong with that to say and i will prepare to write a book to write whole story truely and you will see that i haven't decied the name yet. sorry the time it take you to read .
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| | Monday, January 22, 2001 - 12:06 am Asalamuclaykum walal way dhacdaa taa iyo midka daran ba lakiin waxaan kugula talinayaa in aan raga somaliyeed oo dhan anay ahayn sidaa lakiin calaf kaga uu unoq day iminsaa dumar ka somaliyed sida iyo sii kadaran ay ku sameeyeen nin intu doonay oo dhibaato usoo maray hadana markii ay eurupa timid iska furtay marakaa dee way sika dhacdaa ee illahay samir iyo imaan ha ka siiyo waxaan ku leyahay walal wayoragtimo hakuu noqoto I hope one day you will met the right one .Waxan ku waydiinaya maxad igu la talin lahayd anaa iminka tagaya wadankii lakiin uma tagayo in aan kasoo gursado lakiin hadan dee inan i cajebisa aan helo maxaad i odhanlahayd waxaan tegayaa 28/01/01 thanks if you want to reach me here is my e-mail adrees www.s.musa@spray.se
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| | Monday, January 22, 2001 - 11:18 pm TO Walaashay Siman Walaal salaan kadib, runahaantii aad iyo aad baan uga walaacay ugana xumaaday ninkii sidaa kuugalay, balse waa aduun iyo xalkii Mida kale aad iyo aad baan ugu farxay inaad tahay gabaryar oo hadana waxbaratay( taasi waa siidii aan ka arkay qoraalkaadee). Markaa walaal waxba hasiraacin nin noqday OPPROTUNITY AMA COIN MAN) Waxaaba sooro gal ah in uumarkii hore uu kuguraacay maal iyo xoola aduun oo uusan aheen nin yahaana jaceel xuquuqul insaanka. talo Markaa waxaan gugula talinlahaa inaaday rijo dhigin oo aadan rag oodhan uga caagin ninkaa kuxumeeyay. Waxaa nasiib kuu ah inaadan waxba aadan udhalin ninkaa, walina aad heeysatid gabadhnimadaadii oo aynan jirin caruur ku daba ooyaya oo uudhalay ninkii ku xumeeyay. markaa noqo qof kasalgaara hamigiisii. dont give up to achieve your goals you are still gabar markaa hada biloow nolal cusub. Mida kale aniga ahaan waxaan qabaa inaad tahay gabar aad iyo aad unasiibbadan oo Ilaah baaba waxkulawaday. Kawaran hadaad ogaan laheed markaad dhasho shan iskuma qada ah Siman hanoqan qof diciif ah, tusna inaad tahay qof meel ismarinkarta, noolaankartana la aantii, hana joojin jaceelkii aad uqabtay nin, ninka/ naagto waa mahiim. hadaad qaatatid go aanka ah To HELL man, then the guy in states will be winner, markaa kasooqaad in waxba dhicin (social life) raadso sidii aad kaga bogsan laheed dhibaatadii uu kusoomariyay ninkaa laciyaaray calooshiisa. Markaa walaal hadii aad qortitid boogaa waxaan kuubalanqadayaa inaan iibson doono at least one copy of your book. raali iga ahoow hadii aad lakulintid dibaatooyin xaga akhriska ah abdle
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| | Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 12:08 pm ASallmu allykum. walaalyaal aad iyo aad baad u mahadsantihiin aragtidiina Saalax iyo Abdalla waxaadan i tiraahdeen wixii u qor wax garad ahi i oran lahaa. aad iyo aad beyna iiga caawin kartaa my stress of life and scare i have to my furture. thanks for everthing i hava still the pain and i will appricated who ever is share with me. saalax walaal waxaad i su aashey arigtidaa hadii qabato wadankii ma xuma hadaad hesho qofku much gareeye taasan muhiim laakiin waxaad ogaata inaad marey xaalad adag sidey ingriiskuba yiri out of sight is out of mine. so if you are not quite sure to take that responsibly it will be risk becouse you might hurt someone or you get hurt your self too so be carefull before you do. that is my idea let me know if helps you brother. and good luck for the advanture. Abdale thanks for your idea about my book too. by yours siman.
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| | Tuesday, January 23, 2001 - 07:27 pm From Daud To siman. I read your sad experience even though it was quite long and told only one 's prospective. To me, i will not only say you are a victim of betrayal, but also a victim of a wrong time. first of all, you experiencefd this love situation when we were all somalis in deep crises and every one was so interested only his /her survival, therefore u missed the chance to ask whether this love was down rooted one. you were a kid, i believe, and still consider 17-19 ages a teenage period. Infact ,this guy only wanted to use u by reaching his goals of coming to Europe or america. Unfortunately ,he came on his own way, then told him self, why waist a time ,this girl u wanted only the harsh time, she is not your type or fulfuling your desire, what ever. It is not only femeles who experience such a deception and betrayal , males too experience similar one, even meaner and more expensive damages. How many guys expent all their hard earned income on women they trusted, bringing in from somalia and the surounded poor countries, hoping these women would be their loyal wives, and when the women reached the american or european soil said to their masters, "kiss my ass" or hit the "raod jagg " " this westren world" "it is not you whom i wanted to reach" To make respond short, i would say, dont hate or mistrust somalian men, but also blame your selve and also reflect the time, from there ,make your own judgement. If u willing to write a book, please dont make your self the only victim because the story will only be one sided one. Dont reveal your gender, just act as somalian person experiencing this horouble love event.thank u. God bless every moslem
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| | Wednesday, January 24, 2001 - 03:52 pm To Daud, thans brother for you comments, in my understanding so far your comments is you think i did some mistakes about time of marige or i had the invole only by my self. if it's brother I was 22 almost behaving my self in good way and have strong basic live which is very important. I'm very carefull person and iam not complaining my self i made fast movement i was very patiant and responsible my role. But based on my experinces i understand human differncess and how me make a mistakes about the live everyday. Well it's good thing to have experinces about live and once too. I want educated the youths from my community. Human's gain among them benifts and sharing the ideas as other ppl do. brother if you get somequestion about the story please feel free to ask becouse i can imagine some pple like to to know more details so iam ready to help that too. thanks for every think. Sinceryly, siman.
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| | Thursday, January 25, 2001 - 02:44 pm from Daud To Siman I guess you are now stronger than ever before. I hpe so,and u should be. What would it be the title of your book? Do u yet found suportive publishers? Did u start or finish the draft of the book? Are u emotional? I mean puting together the whole story to make more serious? are u living in norway still? you can disregard the last question, if u want . Cause i would say Norway is a lonely,cold world whre some can make story even if it did not happen? i mean even if the stroy is fake. lol you are not faking at all ,are u?
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| | Thursday, January 25, 2001 - 04:46 pm TO daud. thanks for your questions you asked and i will appricated all your work and your time too. well I haven't decieded yet the title the name of the book,also I'm working hard to contect some outhers and agnecess to help me my book. The other hand you asked me about emotional I'm sorry i can't describe my emotion in this page whatever it's but we can only imagine the feeling someone lost his dream,and got heartbroke and still woried alot in the coming time. the last one I have a great maner to explain that I already added my title of the page either you belive or not. so it's nice woried someone guess. some pple in eroupe have alot waste time but it depond how you make planed your self. so brother good think to make sure if it's right one. i think that is enough for you if you got some let me know.
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| | Friday, January 26, 2001 - 04:20 am Hello Siman I am very sorry to here about story, sister my heart goes out to you and wish you luck in future love. Your story really scared mr, you see i was on holiday in somalia last year, while i was there i met a great guy. Since i live europe, the only way we get together is if we get married and i apply visa for him to join. But read your story really scared - my question what if he leaves me? I don't think he will, please let me know what you think since you have already been thorough this. thanks hope to hear from you soon.
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| | Friday, January 26, 2001 - 10:35 am To siman No more questions for you,good luck for your book, and thanks sharing with us such story. Bye
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| | Sunday, January 28, 2001 - 07:44 am What a disghusting story, dont tell us such a bullshit stuff, We are not indians ok
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| | Monday, January 29, 2001 - 05:36 pm Salaam all, Hi sis Siman,First and foremost I am really sorry,heart broken myself,I feel ya sis and my heart goes out to u big time and much love sis. About the future,that is something we can't predict sis,it's in Allah's will not in our hands and what was ment to happen will happen sis. You should never give up faith sis,no one is perfect and no one can tell u they will fullfill ur dreams to the maximum but we try sis.I feel like killing that man who broke ur heart walaalo but sometimes we should not give in and we need to be strong for our own sake.Not all our brothers are the same sis like I said all individual are tottally different even identical twins are different when it comes to personality. Therefore sis my advise is not to let that guy get to you and interfere with ur future,u r abright young girl and insha-Allah u will find a man who deserves u just as much and lead a remarkable future sis,so work hard and may Allah give u firm iiman to withstand all weakness amiin. Lots Of Love sis. ps: Let me know about the book,I would love reading it.....take care sis. Salaam.
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| | Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 08:49 am i'm sorry sister. i hope you will meet the right person some time and if you publish your book anytime even after decades will you send where i can find it and emai address is ilhaam47@hotmail.com. thanks
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| | Tuesday, January 30, 2001 - 03:23 pm TO HOODA. Mahdsind walaalo sida qiirada leh eed iigu soo jawabtey adiga iyo Gabdha kale ee isku magacawday annaymous. siter take care you know the problem of long distance marrige and relationship. it needs alot patiant and carefull. i will advice you scare if you don't have good that strong to defence.
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