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Hijaab girls or none hijaab girls..which on would u go for boyzzz

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Queen

Thursday, February 08, 2001 - 05:17 am
hey hijaab woman or none hijaab woman..which one boyzzz..and all the reasons why

p.s. write in english only

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kamal

Thursday, February 08, 2001 - 05:35 am
Why English?

I vote Hijab...

-physical attractivesness is not nearly as important as someone with IMAN. Not saying that hijab girls are less attractive...
-hijab does take the descition which otherwise is based on appearance to a higher and more meaningfull level
-Truely imagine a husbad who is the only one who knows the form of his wife. Shame some girls wear tight cloths though.
-There are many temptations and a desently dressed sister is doing us guys a great favour, not to cause us any discomfort...tnx
-Any guy who goes for a non-hijab girl is basing his decision on what he sees, soon something finer will come along... so i guess hijab girls avoid these jerks... unless they are wearing tight garments

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laila

Thursday, February 08, 2001 - 05:48 am
what is the point of this question. If the boy has iman then he will go with what Allah has commanded for women.

If he does not then he will go for women who do not wear hijab

Are you going to confirm to the image people on this site want you to . if this sound a bit harsh it is because i wear hijab( head scarf) because i want to not because i want to attract boys.

It is all about identity and knowing who you are, making your peace with Allah and simply being content.

y2laila@arabia.com

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KW

Thursday, February 08, 2001 - 11:50 am
Depends on what kind of relationship you want. for short term relationship, u know what i mean, dating, going out, in general what they call boyfreind, girlfreind, we "guys" like non-hijab girls. for real relationship, the long term one, no daubt we love the girl with hijab with "indhashareer", for a lot of reasons. even we give a lot of respect the girl with hijab, but not that much for non hijab girls, i mean we do respect them but not as much as we do the girls with hijab. no matter how wild the guy is, gives more respect the girl with hijab. one more thing when it comes for a marriage who wants to marry the girl with no hijab, even the guy who used to go out her doesn't want to? every guys says i am looking for "a wadaad girl". if u wanna know why, it is simple ask urself! if u stil don't get it, then u r a -------.
ur bro

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izzy

Thursday, February 08, 2001 - 01:34 pm
i tell u what, most boys like the non hijab.
i mean when u r in the western world , u want to get married to a girl that u know and probably your girl friend. and it is very hard to approach a hijab girl, i mean u afraid she might slap u or something.
so i say, if u want to get married the old way ,
u will go and find a hijab girl and talk to here family about marriege, but if u want to get married to a girl u find and know here u for the non hijab... i am not saying that is right....
but the hijab girls they intimidat u to approach them

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All We Want

Thursday, February 08, 2001 - 02:13 pm
All We Want is a girl that has not dated before
So no one will say I did her, bcos if some one do you then is embarasing to go out with you not to mention to marry you for real.
To me i feel sorry for the guys who are married to my ex's (just for the record I dont have ex's)

Again I wanna make clear of what I said i mean date must be longer than seeing that person 2 weeks That is out of control
but for one night fooling around or couple of night I dont see a big deal it happens. we human we have to try everything but at the same time control ourselves.

peace out
tawakal cala laah

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Rocket

Thursday, February 08, 2001 - 02:41 pm
To queen

What is motive behind your questioning us about this specific element?

As a man i would say, i would go with any girl whom i see as god fearin person. Not she is wearing veils. fake veils and doing all crapy stuff. Not also some one follow her desire and wants to act as Eurpeen and american girls.It is had to know what in side of a person. U can never know which one is good unless u studdy her first. Not all girls who are not wearing Hijab are bad, maybe they dont know yet the importance of hijab,there fore they need religious adecation.


Does that answer your question.

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Faarah

Thursday, February 08, 2001 - 05:01 pm
Asalamun C.,

Ok, we like Hijab girls and we prefer them for marriage and everything. So what have you got for us in store Queen. Do you just wanna find out if there're guys out there who still love their religion and Hijab women.

If that's the case there you go, you've got punch of guys who're all fans of yours. However, possibilties are you want to decide between Hijab and without Hijab life, this's may suggestion if that's what's in your mind; go for the Hijab, you're the winner every where, get it...take may word.

Allah bless you our women,

Faarah

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kabaweyne

Thursday, February 08, 2001 - 09:40 pm
THE NON-HIJAAB FOR PLAYING AROUND WITH AND THE HIJAAB GIRLS FOR MARRIAGE LIFE.

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Sista

Friday, February 09, 2001 - 01:55 pm
Salam
One could still marry non-hajib girl. ANd he could bring her around, help her practice religion etc.. But if one gives up on these non-hijab girls, where are they gonna end up? So U see Muslims suppost to help one another.
Tell me why is it allowed for a Muslim man to marry a non-muslim women? Because he could make her see that Islam is the true religion. Therefore, she could convert to Muslim. But note- it can't go the other way around. Meaning muslim women can't marry nonmuslim men.
For the Guys- Please don't use the non-hijab sisters. Meaning that Dating, fooling around with them and also taking advantage. though you are committing a major sins. They are your sisters too so respect them as you restect you flesh sister.
wasalam

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GACALIYE

Friday, February 09, 2001 - 03:02 pm
A/alaikum
guys Hijaab is an important rule in our religion.
though most of the somali girls are muslims, some do wear Hjab and some dont, that doesnt mean those who dont wear are evils, but it means they acted against the orders of Allah, so they should be adviceD and educated as well, knowing they are our sisters.
interms of marriege A muhajaba might have been a non muhajaba before being muhajaba or a non muhajaba might hava been muhajaba for a while which is rare, you know what i mean, so every one should go on his oun desire, but should always keep in his mind the God fearing women will be the suitable for you if you are a God fearing man.
if you are not so, i advice and suggest you to act and move now to the right direction you will get some help, (insha-Allah).
w/alaikum.
by GACALIYE

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shaakir

Friday, February 09, 2001 - 03:56 pm
Assalaamu Alleykum:
It seems Hijab proponant is the trend for this discussion. As always There are't anything that makes you dislike the Hijab for its advice of all_wise all_knower,allah, to the muslim sister. However, let me point out something here going back some of the sayings that not all muhajabts are good. First of all there isn't such thing flawless human but sisters with Hijab display that they are obedient to the will of Allah which can in turn be sound indicative of being descent noble partner. Hijab is what ever man is yearning so sisters keep up the duty of allah and don't abondon the Hijab as it is your identity.

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Muslim sis

Friday, February 09, 2001 - 06:30 pm
Queen why are their opinions really important to you? Whether they like it or not it's allah's command and wearing hijab for a muslim woman is a must, so abaayo hold up that head high and walk with dignity coz whether they like it or not you're a MUSLIMAH......

For the bros:
For those of you who said they like to marry muhajabats good for you and for those who said they like to mess with non-muhajabats and keep them as girl friends FEAR ALLAH.

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A.M

Friday, February 09, 2001 - 06:36 pm
Queen,,,some brothers on this site are just plain stupid, its best to ignore them, they are not real muslim men, they are better described and N@gger wanna be somalis, the ones who say (yo yo) instead of assalamu Alaikum. We need more Queens on this site, and less yo yo's.

Take Care.

somalibrother@hotmail.com

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abdirahman

Friday, February 09, 2001 - 10:06 pm
asalamucalaykum pple
first I'll try to answer this question in my knowledge.the hijaap is the only cloth but it depends the person who has that cloth. if you take the cloth for the seek of alah and believe that is the alah order in his religion. Then that is the real meaning of hijaap and that what makes sense. alah said in quran the world woman have to wear their hijaap and order for the messenger mohamed (swcm)his wives and daughters have to take the hijaap. sis there is no deference hijaap and without. Moreover a difference is be a good person and willing to marry good person. the person has to have a faith and separated him/her self and "sina". My conclusion pple be believed allah do what religion order. You have to Remember the life hereafter.peace and blessing be upon the once who follow messenger mohamed footstep.
sorry my pour english

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salimm

Monday, February 12, 2001 - 06:50 am
A.M, try to be on the topic instead of braging about yo's yo's and sit. My second point, i go with the hijab woman. Those are the queens.

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Elias

Tuesday, February 13, 2001 - 09:40 am
I Will go for the hijab one I hope I will find one. I said that because they obey the word of Allah and they fear Alaha. Therefore those with the hijab could be your lifemate the mother of your children and she is the one will teach how to talk, read, and behave so it is better to with jijab one in order to save your kids and your family.

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abuzuhayr

Thursday, February 15, 2001 - 07:30 am
Hi aslaamu alaykum to my sister queen, can u answer this (hal yastawiladiina yaclamuuna waladiina laayaclamuuna inamaa yatathakaaru ulil albaab)sadaqalaahul cathiim

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nagma

Friday, March 02, 2001 - 05:54 pm
queen,
u probably posted this so there would be an interesting conversation but there isn't
i'm a non hijab wearing somali girl
and i don't think they are better or worse than the hijab wearing ones....why??? this could start a new topic so i won't go there....
so....back to the ?........i think the guys should go with what they like and stop refering to the non hijab ones as one night stand,etc...
cause that's haram....
and sista if ur taking a poll to see which "girls"
get more men or whatever........
then if u wera the hijab it would be for all the wrong reasons.......
wasalam

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cabeyow

Saturday, March 03, 2001 - 04:35 am
this is totaly out of questions let every one go for his choice .Allah kwows best

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gentleman

Tuesday, March 06, 2001 - 09:32 am
I vote for hijab.

Qofka su,aashan soo geliyey pagekan waa qof aan soomali ahayn doonayana inuu tashuush ku furo ama muran dhex dhigo dadka soomaalida ah.Waxaana iska cad inay jirto ujeedo ka danbeysa qoraalkiisa.

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gentleman

Tuesday, March 06, 2001 - 09:38 am
I vote for hijab.

There is great wisdom behind the Hijab.If we apply our mind let take as an insatance the non-Hijab girls are very attractive to the guys,they are often subjected to harrasment.The real muslim girl is the one who covers her body "Owra".

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Muslim_Brother

Tuesday, March 06, 2001 - 10:22 am
Nagma,
You shouldn't be here in the first place.The Muslims are having a debate here not the KAFIR wannabes.
If you don't wear Hijaab, it means you don't take Allah's teachings seriously, it means it is something that you can do or not do, it means you can take whatever you want from Allah's laws and throw away the rest.
Fear Allah and don't defend something that's completely against the teachings of Islam....

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KAAFI

Tuesday, March 06, 2001 - 07:29 pm
Salam all

Queen Let me put you under the harmer and asku a question, which side are you? and which side u may be my favoutare is in NO doupt HIJAB is my choice and 2nd to none. you see u it the internal part of the fruite NOT the external (quubka) getting my point.

ALLAH na wada hadeeyo all of us.

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Jamaal

Wednesday, March 07, 2001 - 03:36 am
To muslim brother,
salutations first, brother the "hijab" is a piece of clothe that only covers the apearance of the woman, not the bad deeds or the good deeds. No-one has yet suggested that this is for only guys who favour girls with hijab. As most of us know, everyone is entitled to their own opinions(that is the basis of all debates). The truth is most people do things they dont like to do but they do it just please the eyes of the society, but deep down their hearts they feel different. I as an individual would only go for the girl that my heart deisires, whether she is a hijab wearing somali or a non-hijab girl in the hood. so guys choose only the girl you think is your soulmate.

PS: please dont take my opinion into account and might you not be offended by my suggestions. ...The important thing is a girl should have faith beneath the cover, i love that..
w/sallaam

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