Kaif | Tuesday, March 06, 2001 - 11:45 am to samawado walal waad salaman tahay balse su,aashadii hadii aan isku dayo inaan kaaga jawaabo inkosdoo qof waliba u wax sigaar aha u arko, anigu hada waxaan kuusheegin sida aan wax u arko ama aan samaynlahaa if i was you! first let me not confuse you. iam female.ok here is my opinoin, #1 if i had a crush with some one i would defnetley say it to who ever i have crush with. #2 I would advise you to confront your feeling about that person, He/she will understand it, #3 if he/ she says NO there is nothing will happen to you, you are whom you are and still the same person. and don't have to feel guilt of NOTHING. #4 you said why somali ladies not telling their crush and try to confront their crush like the guys? well, some of them do try to say about their feelling wheather it works or not but bassically somali men blieve they should be the only ones that can confront their feellings or crush to that person. but it is all up to that person she/he and that is not absoletlely for men only, any one who ever has a crush with some one should say to that person, and as i say before if he /she says no there is NOTHING NOTHING WILL HAPPEN TO YOU, YOU SHOULD KNOW THAT and TRY to share your feellings to that person, ok and i wish u all the best and good luck. let me know what that person say to u if u take my advise iam waiting to hear from u walal, take care now. peace kaif |