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Monday, March 12, 2001 - 03:18 pm Me, very light skin,5"7 125 pounts,brown eyes, long curly medium brown hair.Very attractive(like they said). Hobbies; travelling, aerobics,reading novels,cooking etc. Just letting in life however it comes with the faith of Allah. somalian_lady@yahoo.com
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Tuesday, March 13, 2001 - 10:42 am Dear Sister, Why are you looking for just very light skinned guy. what happened to romance, sense of humour, The colour of your skin is nothing to do with Love, I do recommend you to find nice somali man regardless of his skin colour. Good luck sister. Mo
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Tuesday, March 13, 2001 - 12:48 pm to: only Hibo here is the guy you are dreaming about. I really have the color you have mentioned that your ideal man should have. Besides the color i have a lot of other good things which i'm sure you will smile with, so give me go ahead to contact you. hear you!
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Tuesday, March 13, 2001 - 10:58 pm salaan hibo It's good to ask what you looking for but I think it will be better if you be honey. I think you are looking opposite color who will contact you and who know what else too
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Wednesday, March 14, 2001 - 01:50 am beauty is more then skin deep for example i am light brown yeah and it has been said that am beautiful but i would be really angry if it had nothing to do with my personality, what i though was important in life, my faith in Allah, etc. y2laila@arabia.com colour is nothing , it does not dictate what is really important in life, and i will leave you think about what that is.
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Saturday, March 17, 2001 - 01:31 pm To:y2laila,,,,my dear sis why can you not create your own conversation instates of advertising in here, putting your e-mail address which is telling you also want a light skin guy Lol, you know you want it girl.Critisighn me huh, stop being a hypocrite that is all I can say to you. To: bright like a spotlight,I do not think that my dream guy does exist, light skin doesn't make him to be my dream guy, just for the record to all of you, ok.Everyone of us has a taste, first is the outside beauty than the inside beauty. For me the inside is very important, hey why not a very handsome light skin guy with a good character and a good Muslim is that MUCH to ask? I don't think so.
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Saturday, March 17, 2001 - 01:43 pm Aswad Man VERY DARK FELLOW Iam very dark fellow ,what is wrong with that, u need someone makes u happy, dont u? color is nothing but a cover,right? Tell me what u need from a man? i will tell u if got or not lol Alaab weyn waan lee yahay, oo garuun oo kale ah. take care
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Saturday, March 17, 2001 - 01:45 pm I know I qulify in any man's dream,however I wait the man to make his move. Bright like a spotlight!
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Saturday, March 17, 2001 - 01:53 pm To: Anonymous thanks But no thnaks! Keep your opinion to yourself, Dooq is Dooq ok, light is my dooq(my type), don't mean to insult you so take your anger same where else. thank you.
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Saturday, March 17, 2001 - 02:44 pm LIGH MAQABNO GOOD LUCK
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Saturday, March 17, 2001 - 10:50 pm to hibo sister there are couple things that a person should have to match with his/her soulmate which i believe you cannot express it properly but you will say yes there are they. 1. physical appearence 2.reputition 3.personality 4.good muslim do you think i possess some of that quality? sure i do all of them whether you take that as lie or not i mean it. so do you think i can be your dream man if i have all that i have mentioned above and more? if you don't think so you miss the gold opportunity and there is nothing else i can do for you baby
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Sunday, March 18, 2001 - 10:23 am hey what up somali boys and girls. i wanna know why girls are crazy about light skin guys????????????? iam a light skin dude, and every time my friends and i go to the clubs, i get the attention. to me i don't treat girls like the way they want it. and most girls i dated with them told me that iam not a good guy. so please try to find a nice guy who can take care u and his family and don't look color sis.
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Sunday, March 18, 2001 - 01:28 pm Aha hey mashel, listen to me very carefully we are muslims and we don go to clups so shut up and don try to advertise that stuff in here to get a little attention for the girls, On the other hand,Hibo let me tell ya some thing Honey, we are africans and we suppose to be real blacks, if one of us has a light skin is cool, but the average of somali guyz are Blacks, and i recommend you to go for the personality andt the person who knows how to treat and take care a lady with respect and Endless love. Peace ya 'all! Shamuuri
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Sunday, March 18, 2001 - 01:35 pm Hi Hibo, hopefully,you may get the one that you are looking for(i mean the guy who has a very light skin )but what you gonna do if he has a bad attitude,not giving u any respect,chewing qaad(jaad)everyday,completelly not obeying the rules of God(Allah)and also not a man enough to take care of you sissy.will u be marry that kind of man Hibo?absolutely not> even if he's avery light skin,he doesn't deserve to be with you baby.so next time Hibo be good yourself and choose the right man. yuor truly Muslim brother Abubakar.
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Monday, March 19, 2001 - 06:59 am JUST FOR THE RECORD!!!!! I don't think that you guys understand me so for the record I am looking for: A LIGHT SKIN WELL EDUCATED TALL and handsome ofcourse GOOD PERSONALITY GOOD MUSLIM. Those are the things that I am looking for a man, though I know the average somalimen are dark.But still my guy must be somewhere in there.I hope you guys understand my point now, so please if you are not in that category stop criticism me thank you.
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Monday, March 19, 2001 - 08:45 am Hibo, Take this as Guidance, not criticism, Now that you know, that the average somalimen are dark,You are not that far, you are In the HOUSE as they say,But UR still looking for 100% person and that's hard to get or you can't get at all, Normaly if you get the first 3 your so lucky i mean,The skin, education, and Tallness,then you have to compromise for the rest, and that's the way of life, if you llok into yourself, you are not 100%, and i don't mean by saying that in a bad way, it's the way of life again no one is Complete, (Allah is Greatest & has got the Completeness)Ok, and i really disagree the way you line it up, So, let me try to rearrenge you if ya don't mine. Top 3 : Important 1, Good Muslim. 2, Good Personality. 3, Well Educated Not that Important but nice if you can get one of them, 4, Light Skin. 5, Tall. 6, Handsome. So this's how i put it, and to be honest am not in the race. i am Bro out there, who wishes the best for you. Peace and respect ya'all! Shamuuri
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Monday, March 19, 2001 - 07:23 pm My godness..what we got here is whole lot of insecure dark skin guys. Just because Hibo prefers a lighter skin dude that doesn't mean every Somali girl want light skin guy...so chill out and relax. Hibo I've dated a lot of light skin guys they're good looking but not really as smart as darker skin guys. I'm not differencialting anything but everyone has a right to find and say what they look for in the opposite sex. I like a guy who isn't lighter than me..and I'm light. Good luck Hibo girl
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Thursday, March 22, 2001 - 06:36 am Thanks kandi & shamuuri still where is the one for me let me describe my dream man, besides him being a good Muslim, well educed friendly person and open mind person.The handsome stuff? uhm let's see, every one of us has a beauty that is giving by allah.Nobody is ugly by the eyes of allah.to my eyes nobody is ugly. Allah created different kind of human being you can't never say that one is ugly, because you will be insulting to Allah's creation.But you can always prefer of one of his creation,for me saying light skin was in first place to catch your attention, indeed I did, though it is still what I like from a man, I wanna a man who's lighter than me. I am tried of being the light one, for once I want to be the dark one.
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Thursday, March 22, 2001 - 09:33 am yeah, that was very incredible, hope that you get the right one, be optimistic and keep the faith, Peace,
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Thursday, March 22, 2001 - 11:21 am Man did u saw me before or what, i could swear u discribing me... very light skin,BA degree, doing my MBA personality. waw that is my middle name. and did i mention i pray...and also very caring. but everybody has a dark side...mine is I am a player ..so if u r the one that will make me settle down, i am yours. And i am talking to the lady of the topic Hibo... and this the future of ..... latter
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Thursday, March 22, 2001 - 12:24 pm you are so closed minded person you need to get over the fact of looks. Maybe a light skin man will play you and leave you heart broken.
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Thursday, March 22, 2001 - 05:15 pm I am a first time visitor and astonished by the depth of mantility of this sister.. color of skin is just like window dresser.. it realy doesn't matter... since brevity is the soul of wit; siser: what u need is love, caring, security, and culturely strong...
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Saturday, March 24, 2001 - 10:18 pm Hibo dear, you got some serious issues you need to work out. You say you qualify as any man's dream or something to that affect, but trust me when i tell you that I don't dream about any girl who dreams about complexion of who she wants to be with. That's really a shallow ideology and you need to address these issues in a serious manner.
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Sunday, March 25, 2001 - 05:44 am I don't think Hibo really knows what she wants right now... Some guy just put her down and now she needs someone to tell her how beautiful she is to make her feel better. It seems hard for her to find the right man... Sister, it seems like your beauty is not enough to keep a man, so why brag about it? Now THINK! What are you doing wrong? Maybe it is your attitude? Maybe it's too early for you to seek a new man? Why not give yourself some time to heal first? Another thing guys; We all have different desires in life. What's wrong with Hibo searching for a light skin guy if they are the ones she gets most attracted too?? Personally I prefer dark skin guys, I think they are the most sexy guys on this earth! Now; is it wrong of me to say so?? Don't be so damn sensitive about your skin colour! Hibo; I wish you good luck in your search, but you should give it some time.... Then maybe you wont get hurt again... (just a friendly advice...)
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Tuesday, March 27, 2001 - 01:25 pm U find me hiba i am here stop looking
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Thursday, March 29, 2001 - 02:47 pm somali maddow
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Thursday, March 29, 2001 - 03:06 pm Hi Hibo, I guess what, that man was me roughly 6 years ago. When I came to this country my skin color was as fair as Arabs. But I don't like Arabs and I liked white women, so I tried everything to darken my skin colour in order not to look like Arabs and attract as many white girls. And, it did work for me. However, I never regretted before today; are you telling me you need a bright Somali man. Man this is new era, right? Everyone used to say whiteman is not a real man, I guess all that change. Therefore, I will get my skin color back and get back to you honey!!! c u, Born Bright
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Friday, March 30, 2001 - 08:57 am Born Bright, what's wrong with a brain? Let me know when you need some brain surgery, I will do it for free!
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Friday, March 30, 2001 - 09:33 am To anonymous,Who is barging about it, not me!! It seems to me what you wrote is what happened to you in your life and you are looking for someone to compare with your situation, just to feel O I am not the only one !! anyway thanks for your advice.But no thanks. It is not hard for me to find the right man for your information,if am willing to give a time my right one will be there.But I am a very careful person to everything I do in life including the ones that I let to my life!even me saying now I like lights guy does not make a lightskin guy easily to come to my life, ok. Nobody needs to tell me how beautiful I am coz I know it, it is the beauty that Allah gave to me Alxamdulilah.I hope you will find the dark guy that you prefer and I hope I'll find the light guy that I prefer, insha allah. Asalamocaliekum
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Friday, March 30, 2001 - 09:33 am To anonymous,Who is barging about it, not me!! It seems to me what you wrote is what happened to you in your life and you are looking for someone to compare with your situation, just to feel O I am not the only one !! anyway thanks for your advice.But no thanks. It is not hard for me to find the right man for your information,if am willing to give a time my right one will be there.But I am a very careful person to everything I do in life including the ones that I let to my life!even me saying now I like lights guy does not make a lightskin guy easily to come to my life, ok. Nobody needs to tell me how beautiful I am coz I know it, it is the beauty that Allah gave to me Alxamdulilah.I hope you will find the dark guy that you prefer and I hope I'll find the light guy that I prefer, insha allah. Asalamocaliekum
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Friday, March 30, 2001 - 12:27 pm Hey, don't be so sensitive, I didn't mean to insult you. Beauty is good, Brain is better, Both is best. You picked the first, I picked the last.... Good Luck!
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Friday, March 30, 2001 - 06:26 pm TO HIBO, How are you sweetie I'd like what you posted ,and I think I am your dream man! why you might ask! well I am all that you described and a bag of chips! I am tall 6'3' 200lbs very fit my hobbies are weight lifting,sports ,music ,reading, traveling and so on .. -wait and did I mention romantic! LoL I currently live small city in the us and there is not any Somali girls in this town, I am at work right now and don't have much time so contact me soon ..my name is Ali by the way.. Take care walaashiis.
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