     Anonymous | Wednesday, March 14, 2001 - 05:25 am
This is Mohammed again:
First of all, I wanna answer your question: No, it's not simple. But it's not a big deal neither. It's like this: 2 people met on the net. They exchanged e-mail addresses and phone numbers. They called each other and wrote mail to each other. After a while, when they were keeping in touch through the phone, one of them ask if it's possible to meet each other. They meet each other in Sweden, Denmark, UK or wherever it is. They meet each other's family and relatives. That's how it's working. I'm not saying it is easy, but it ain't difficult neither. It just if the to people wants to get married they can. No doubt about that. End of story.
Now to the second part of the message:
Have you considered getting married, or did you just reply this message to get the previous answer. If you are willing to get married, then I'm happy for that. If you don't mind, can you leave your e-mail adresse, so we can keep in touch. I'm not saying that we are getting married. All I say is that we will see were how far this conversation can go. We will learn each other well, after that only God knows what's gonna happend, right??
Yours Sincerely- Mohammed |
| WhitegirlNorway | Wednesday, March 14, 2001 - 11:54 am
Hi Mohammed and Yasmin! I found this story in General Discussions. Please read it and be careful... Good Luck! I hope you find love...
"Cyberlover, your story really hit me. Because I know exactly what you are talking about... And I am also prepared for harsh words here... I met a man for exactly 2 years ago and we became very close. I fell in love with him even though I could see that he was not a good man. He stepped on me, and not only me, so many times, but no matter how hard I tried to forget about him I just couldn't. We talked on the phone almost every day, and also spent several hours chatting online every single day. We laughed, argued and talked about life in general, but mostly about his problems... And religion...
I caught him in lies almost every day, but he was good at defending himself and talk his way out of it. Yes, he was good with words, and he knew exactly when to turn on his charm and use his fake nice words... And I, stupid fool, chose to close my eyes to it every single time even if I heard the alarm bell ringing almost constantly.... And I supported him. Over and over again... BECAUSE; I got addicted to it, his e-mails were like dope to me. I almost forgot about my family, my child, my man, my everyday life. My life was narrowed down to the few hours
I spent online daily talking with him. My computer became the most important thing in my
everyday life. I got depressed if I missed one day online with him. To make a long story short, I moved from my man and finally we could meet. I couldn't understand why I didn't feel any passion when I finally got him in my arms.... Because I did love him, didn't I?? We live far away from each other and we continued to e-mail each other after he got back home. But something had changed... I thought it was him but now I know it was me. When I finally found him out here and saw what a gameplayer he is (as if I didn't know!), I realized that I had never loved him. I actually fell in love with my computer, and not the person. I was hooked in a dream world. Carried away from my boring and normal everyday life.... To a world full of fantasies and unattainable promises.... What a waste of time...and tears... It's bitterly to know that I wasted 2 years of my life on a loser... Well-well-well! WELCOME BACK TO REAL WORLD! "No man is worth your tears and the only one who is will never make you cry"... That's my new motto in life, and I will follow these words like a slave! You never know who you meet out there, so please folks, promise me that you will be careful! And don't forget your REAL life! The right man/woman for you is probably not in cyber but in your own neighborhood somewhere.... In the REAL WORLD! I know, because I have finally found him (I hope!). Right here in my own neighborhood. And guess what; This may sound strange to you after reading my story, but I met him here on Somalinet... Nothing wrong with meeting a person in cyberworld as long as you get the chance to meet the person in the real world the same day.... So I guess I should be grateful to my ex cyberlover after all, huh?
After all he was the one who guided me to this site... Well, more correctly, his nightmare so kindly did....
So my advise to you Cyberlover; Cut the cord, and do it NOW! Or you will end up like me! And believe me, IT'S NOT WORTH IT!" |
