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     | Unrecorded Date She calls me all the bad words and dictates when I can and cannot see my children, my own blood. She threatens me with every imaginable legal suit, crime and civic suits. To add salt to the injury, the government labelled me as a deadbeat father after I skipped only couple of payments. Amid all of this, I love my kids very dearly and I am in this world for them no matter how bad they lie to my them. The good news is that i am not alone, almost Somali woman you see is devorced once or more. Where are all the guys who devorced them? The anser to this question depends on the person you ask. From the ladies' perspective, these deadbeat guys know only how to chew qat and stand infront of coffee shops! Is it true? I don't think so! Many dads are hard working men who try to make ends meet for them and their children. What's wrong with these guys then? their only problem is that they cannot get along with the mothers of their children. These women use children as weapons because they know we, somali guys love our chilren very much. Not only the devorcees face this problem, there are thousands of Somali guys who live with their wives only because of the children. There are also others who leave the house temporarily very often because the the children became a bargaining chip. I opened this thread so my fellow Somali guys who have been abused by the one they married can vent-out their anger. A brotherly message to all the brothers who did not get married yet: These women are very sweet until the moment you say I do. I am not here to scare you but please be very careful with whom you trust your manhood with. This world is very dangerous and we are very far away from our country.
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| | Unrecorded Date ahahahaha miskiin iska adkeeyso abaa what goes around comes around meeqaa naagaha la rafaadinaayey oo xaqooda lagu tumanaayey waa ka xumahay walaahi ones somali men were kings but now they are like scarry little pupies and treated so bad waa jiraan naago meeshaan ku waashey oo gaalo iyo freedomkeeda qalad ka fahmey waxeey ku kacaayaana aad u foolxun qaar iyagoo meher xalaala ku jira rag kale la tumanaayo they are ignorent diintoodi iyo dhaqankoodiba wey ka tageen tu gaalona ma eysan gaarin aduunyo waa isku dhabaqsantahay somalia marki la joogey baac walba iyo qeeyru masuul walba naag aa iska asturaneeysay oo dhaheeysay ninkeeyga meeqaa naaga masaakiina inta toban caruura lagu daadiyey ey muufo duboow iyo tinaar faraha ka gubey qaarna ey suuqa yaanyo ugu gadi jireen si ay caruurta ku korsadaan ilaa ninki naag kaloo yar buu ku ruxaayaa xaq feerahuu ka dilaacaa baa la yiri dalki iyo diintiba idinkaa ku caasiyee ha baroor diiqina tashada oo noqda rag ilaahey ka cabsada oo dadkoodi dalkooda ku maamula diinta islaamiyada ama qurbaha ku dul wareega naagaha ha idiinku talieeyn saa caruurti iyo naagihiiniba gaalaa romodal u noqotaye hada iyo dan ISLAAM ISLAAM ISLAAM ISLAAM RULE YOUR COUNTRY,PPL YOUR WIFES UNDER ISLAAM OR xaarka saas haloo qasto no more cry babies
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| | Unrecorded Date Bashka. Ilaahey hannaga najeeyo furriin horta. Marka xigta afsoomaaligaa lagu qoraa waxaanoo kale waa ceeb meeshana ajnabi baa aqrisan kara. Marka hore nin ilaahey ku xiran noqo adiga oo meelaha waanada wanaagsan laga helo iyo caqlli celinta oo masaajiddada ilaahey ah tag. Waxaad kaloo ogataa qof dhemmeystiran ma jiro oo qof waliba nuqsaan waa leeyahay sidaa daraaddeed waxaa habboneyd waanadii rasuulka inaad raacdo "haddii waxaad dhibsato aad ku aragto xaaskaaga, wanaaggeeda kale eeg oo ugu dulqaado" ama hadal sidaa ugu dhow ayuu yiri. Walaalkiis, Hadda naagahaa la tuugaa oo la baryaa wax dhibaato ahna malahan. Marka calaacalka intaad iska dhaafto mid kale guurso oo ka taxadar inaadan furin. Nin wax furaa ma fiicno saaxiib anna walaashey nin furiin badan waan kala baqi lahaa oo masiiyeen. Marka horaa guurka la isu diyaariyaa adiga iyo qoftaad guursaneysidba. Dhaqanka diinta wax ka wanaagsan malahan. Ciyaal macno maleh meesha haddey noqoto la iskuma raago ee saaxiib talo waa tii rabbi, ee marka hore diinta baro. Halkaanna xaaskaagii hore ha uga sheekeynin oo ma habboona xag diineed iyo shaqsiyadeedba. Khladna ha ii fahmin. Meesha waxaad u furtey rag wax furey ama la furey sida hadda sheekadu tahay, Aniguse waxaan u imid inaan waanadeyda rito waana ka baxay. wasalaam. Again write in somali.
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| | Unrecorded Date Salaam Bashir Abdi I really admire your thoughts and ideas. You have given excellent advice to any man and woman that can think clearly. Bashiir, aboowe, I can understand what you are going through. I do not know the details of your divorce but I have been divorced and it is a painful experience. Especially for the children. Even though I hated the idea of raising children without their father living with them, I made the choice. Do I regret it? Not one moment. However, I made a choice and I am appealing to all Somali mothers that are divorced and raising children. I know it is difficult to be a single parent. No matter what happened between the spouses i don't think it is fair to involve the children. My ex-husband and I have an excellent relationship. We did not get along well as husband and wife but he is a GOOD father who loves his children. I could never take that away from him. He does not live in the same country as his kids now but he calls them all the time. Sends them gifts and letters. He sends money and when it is tight at his end I understand. I NEVER tell negative things about their father to my kids. They are not illegitimate children. They carry their father's name. How can one in good conscience refuse a child to communicate with his/her father? The divorce in itself is painful enough, don't drag the kids into it. And what is money? Believe me ALL I make goes to my kids. I don't complain. Whatever he sends I always make sure to tell my kids I am buying this or that because Aabe asked me to. And just the smile on their face is enough. They feel proud and tell everyone: look what Aabe got me! Children need their fathers. My father is in my eyes the best father ever. How can I cheat my kids of that experience? So sisters, please overlook the financial situation and what happened between you. Allow your children to have their fathers. As for those fathers who NEVER contact their children, you are missing a wonderful experience. Bashir Abdi, I am sorry aboowe, I don't write Somali. To all always keep a smile on your face!
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| | Unrecorded Date Optimistic. That is fine. And I hope bashiir didn't get me wrong.
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| | Unrecorded Date Optimistic what a woman keep on sis you are a drop of water in the desert.KEEP ON MY SISTER MAY GOD BLESS YOU AAMIN.You have given me hope that out there lives a honest somali woman in sea of blackmailers, rude and arrogant somali women who are in the majority.Again keep on sis.
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| | Unrecorded Date Waan ka xumahay inaan ingiriis ku soo qoray. Waxaand areemay gabdho badan sida meeshan iyo qaybo kale ka muuqata inay aad ugu faraxsanyihiin dhibaatada dhextaagan qosyada somaliyeed iyo nimanka gurigooda ka baxaya. Somali men were kings? bal arinkan ila fiiriya qofta waxaas soo qortay ama mid lamida ninka ku khaldama oo guursada ka warama? reerahaas maxaa u danbeen doono? Hadaba, somalida kaliya mahine dhamaan raga ay xaskisa isku xumaadaan waxaa ka dhexeeya bond sababtoo ah nin waliba adunka wuxuu ugu jecelyahay cariirtiisa laakin niman badan waa la guumwystaa si uu caruurtiis ula noolado. hada ka hor ayaan soo boqday nin caruurtiisa haya xaskisuna qayilaad ku maqantahay. markaan waraystay sababta uu ugu ogolaadayna wuxuu iisheegay in tasi caruurtisa dan ugu jirto. Wuxuu ii sheegay in hada uu caruurtisa la joogo uuna tusaleyo waxa xun iyo waxa wanagsan lakin haduu maamada la dagaalo guriguu ka baxayaa dadkay lasoo qayishina gurigay la imaanayaan caruurtayna iga fasahaadinayaan. markii aad ayaan ula yaabanaa laakiin runtii waa nin caqli badan sababtoo ah anigu hada caruurtayda inaan wax u sheego iska dhaafe anay aduunka iigu necebyihiin sababtoo ah hooyadood ayaa khalad ka dherjisey. Bashiir.
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| | Unrecorded Date to:bashiir I'm sorry bro...let me gues are you from CANADA... WALLAHI i feel really sorry for somalian females oo isku mooday they can do everthing even without no reason...WHERE IS THE RESPECT I WONDER????
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| | Unrecorded Date BASHIIR walaal anigana taa aad sheegayso mid la mid ah ayaa igu dhacday 3 caruur ah ayaa gabadh aan soomaliya ka doontay ii dhashay anigoo is leh ka fogow kuwan kibray ee food stampka mooday inay family u noqonayo. caruurtaydii aan ifka ugu jeclaa dawladii saacado ayay ii qabatay, i love my children so dearly. ma doonayo inay sida African Americanka aabo la'aan koraan oo markaa hadhow daroogada suuqa ku iibiyaan waayo ilmaha hooyo kali ahi koriso waynu naqaanaa waxay ku dambeeyaan wadankan. ciil iyo murugo habeenkii ma seexdo, iminka waxaan ku fakarayaa inaan wadankan iskaga tago oo aan dhulkaygii hooyo reerkale iyo caruur kale oo aan caqiidada islaamka ku koriyo oo aan ku ababiyo soomlinimda tabcado. Bashiir bi'waaye haweenkii soomaliyeed mid ilaahay u naxariistay mooyaane halkan ha hungurayn mar dambe! kuwan ilaahay baa calafkooda haya, iskaga haajir walaal oo awlaad cusub oo aad naxariista islaamka ku abuurto somaliya ku dhal. kuwana sida ay kuu sheegtay walaasheen Optimistic lacagta iyo hadiyadaha u soo dir ha helaan ama iyadu ha cunto! laakin waxad samaysaa ilmahaaga waligaa qalbiga ku hay oo farxad iyo wanaag iyo kalgacayl ula dhaqan. Markay waynaadaan iyagguba way garan inaad nin xun ahayd iyo inaad akhyaar wanaagsan ahayd. TO IGUJI AAN GABAR CAD DHALEE walaal waxaa nasiib daro ah inay haweenkii badankoodii fahmi kari waayeen inaanu welfare cadaabna ka baajinaynin, gabawna ka baajinaynin nina u noqonaynin! hadii aad mooday in ilmaha oo aabahood loo diido oo lacag lagu doonto ay maslaxad awlaadaada u tahay ha i soo marin!
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| | Unrecorded Date Bashir, Saxiib, arin xun baa horta kuugu dhacdey oo aan ilaahey ka baryayo in anaga iyo cid walbo oo kale uu naga najeeyo. War nin yahow anaga waxaan kuu qaban karno ayaaba iska yar marka hore. Laakin waxeynu is wey daarsan karnaa fikrado iyo sidee waxaas oo kale looga hortagaa. Ninman yahow, I believe this issue has nothing to do with religion. There are compelling reasons to believe that. One of them, longest living couples in the world are not Muslim. This is just an example, although 1000's more can be recalled. Its social issue and it needs common sense and family background education. We men shouldn't go for precipitate marriage. This is absolutely wrong. On the other hand, there are two ways men get married, those who love and those because of children. The twos Combined takes longer decisions and its very difficult one to combine them. However, it's not secret that in history of mankind it's men who always made most critical decisions. I mean in order your marriage to survive you must take into account these factors and you must make sure their convergence before marrying: 1) You should be more better off than your wife in all means educationally, financially etc. 2) The environment surrounding you should be where both of you feel middle class if not part of higher class. This is a woman they become more exhausted whenever they feel the gap between her husband and those men surrounding her (actually this is what is happening is west, more successful western men are around and more and more Somali men that have nothing much compare to their western counterparts (whatever the reason might be)). So we men must have the common sense to realize where we are first, can we compete in this environment? If you feel you are far worst than your environment don't try to get married in these societies, 911 was created for you and you might end up no where, no children, no wife, nothing at all. Go to Somalia or third world countries. Remember a lot of people are living well without ever coming to west. I really don't want those Somali sisters to misunderstand me, if you are really educated and financially good, then what I am saying is that one better than you will be the right man.
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| | Unrecorded Date War dhibka weeynu kawada simanahay ee sidee looga baxaa, 911kan baasna sidee beynu ka yeelnaa. Nambarkaas uun baa anigu nacay.
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| | Unrecorded Date lol@@911 Ragga qurbaha waa ku haysaa!
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| | Unrecorded Date ala maxay idinku fiican tahay 911 in niliigu yero oo sidii oday biiqay aa duleedada waregtaan mac sonkor
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| | Unrecorded Date xaasid sanaa sabaax walaalkaa iyo aabahaa haloogu waco 911 ee banaanka qaboow haku dilo. weeba isla fiican tahay waji wanbar waaxid
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| | Unrecorded Date sabaax aroos ma rabtaa macaanta? macmacaani@aol.com
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| | Unrecorded Date TO; hebel hadii aa rabtid inaa kugu waco 911 imow hee
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| | Unrecorded Date 911 wa lugugu jeclaaday lee maahinoo? abuufaas ha igu noqon sanbaatiya aan kaa diyaarinooyaaye.
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| | Unrecorded Date Dear Bashiir and Ducaysane Waan ka xumey dhibaatada guur iyo hoygiina burburay. walaal intaydaan somaalia mid kale oon noloshan qurbaha fahmin u doonanaysaan, invest to be better those kids that you had with your ex! How about trying to stablish a rapport relationship with your ex. so you children will grow in a health environment where both parents play a role in their needs for growth and develoment. Please do your best to open a communication pathway for the sake of you children to part of their lives. Burry the past and the bitter details of your divorce and create a peace from your side. Convince her that you really want to see your kids as often a possible without minding her bussiness or lifestyle. Dawladdan iyo maxkamadan ka baxoo sidii caadadu inoo ahaan jirtey laadqabo ujeedadaada fahamtey u dir. Meaning you don't want to get back with her but rather your kids. Goodluck p.s i beg your burden if i made no sense to your piece. i am using the internet at work and due to triple double shifts in a raw i sound tired. kadra
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| | Unrecorded Date To Elmi I am rebuking of your believe that inorder for a marraige to survive through trails and difficulties that "somalimen should became more succesful and better off than women". Well i disagree to that, i think it all depends on good communication and undersanding to problem solve. To have prosperious marriage:two people should have the same lifestyle, goals, hoppies, and interest as well as loyalty, love, trust ,respect to one another and patience to tolerate ones fault.And by the way i make more than my husband earns and we have the best relationship. we share the greatest teamwork. Waanu isu hagar la,nahey dhinac walba. Markaa wiilasha calaf raadiska ha niyad jebin gabdho nolosha iyo guurka qiimihiisa iyo shaqsinimadda qadarinayaan way buuxaan qurbaha. Qaadka kuwa ku maqani waa qaar sheydaan qaatey. happily married somali woman(farahsan) kaan doonayay helee Rabbow ii siyaadi. Kuwa deydayayana lamaanoohooda sii noloshu laba ayey ku macaantaye!
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| | Unrecorded Date To Elmi I am rebuking of your believe that inorder for a marraige to survive through trails and difficulties that "somalimen should became more succesful and better off than women". Well i disagree to that, i think it all depends on good communication and undersanding to problem solve. To have prosperious marriage:two people should have the same lifestyle, goals, hoppies, and interest as well as loyalty, love, trust ,respect to one another and patience to tolerate ones fault.And by the way i make more than my husband earns and we have the best relationship. we share the greatest teamwork. Waanu isu hagar la,nahey dhinac walba. Markaa wiilasha calaf raadiska ha niyad jebin gabdho nolosha iyo guurka qiimihiisa iyo shaqsinimadda qadarinayaan way buuxaan qurbaha. Qaadka kuwa ku maqani waa qaar sheydaan qaatey. happily married somali woman(farahsan) kaan doonayay helee Rabbow ii siyaadi. Kuwa deydayayana lamaanoohooda sii noloshu laba ayey ku macaantaye!
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| | Unrecorded Date khadra you can ask any psychologist, he/she will tell you marriages which survive long enought are through compatability and dependent from one other, you can logically deduce from this that, somehow to be on the safe side, man should be earning little bit more than women. well, its good for you to earn more than you, but i can never manage a women who earns more than me. because to make such decisions which are sometimes very crucial women cannot naturally see them and generally they disagree.....and this time starts this western style 911 business. ragow khadra is nice women, laakin yeesan bad idin gelin mid aad ka awood badan tahay raadsada dhinac walba. bye
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| | Unrecorded Date To Ok, Elmi got ya! you want to be the BOSS. how about if she makes more than you but you manage all your money and the household bills like the morgage, loans, car,house insurance, investments and soforth. there is probably bouts of " oh ya i am doing 90% of the house work and also bringing the bigger pay check ,what you think i am?" and that is allowed to vent out exaustion and frustrition. I would agree with all other things but i don't think money is the key to a happy marriage. Money comes and goes right!
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| | Unrecorded Date Khadra, Girls like you are second wave of immigrants'. That is really nice of you. But Khadra don't you know sister, in this world there is always a leader BOSS. Etc. There must be someone in charge always my dear. Sometimes overruling is very crucial tool. To frank with you, I would love to see my wife be one of the greatest women in the world but not greater than me. You know what I mean. You see the word "BOSS" some first wave Somali women immigrants misunderstood and they just look for the negative side. I would rather suggest to see from positive point view, you also have BOSS in work why not at home? It makes no different right! Anyway, things are a lot closer than they seemed a while go. atleats you r smart chic.
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| | Unrecorded Date Walaalayaal Waad Salaamantihiin. Bashiir waxaan leeyahay mid tii aad kalategteen ka fiican Allaah kuugu badalo. Caruurta kudadaal in aad la xiriirto dhibkasta ha kugu ahaato. Gabadhii aad kalateagteenna waxba ha kasheeg sheegin waa walashaa aad gogol wada qeybsateene. To optimistic: You are very special with great wisdom and intellegence. Please keep on educating our brothers and sisters who are brain washed, ill-informed or simply ignorant. Elmi iyo Khadra: isku heer matihiin (you are talking from different bands FM and UHF. Anyone of you is correct depending on the spectrum you are transmitting from. Just Khadra is little bit offset, out tuned and rather amplified but not out of order. I hope you are not puzzled with my technical words. Eng Omar Abdinur from UK.
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| | Unrecorded Date Salaan dhamaantiin Meeshaan wax kuma qoreen laakiin jawaabtii Eng. Omar Abdinur baxiyay ayaa aad ii cajibisay. Aboowe runtii si fiicaan baad u hadashay. Siiba tan Kadra iyo Elmi aad u qortay baan aad ugu qoslay. Weligay wax ka qosol badan oo hadana RUN ah ma arag. You have a wonderful sense of humor aboowe, keep up the good work! Walaashaa
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| | Unrecorded Date IEEIE Eng. Omar, lol. we are both transmitting from the same spectrum, just because fft is a discrete approximation to continuous transform we encountered misplaced harmonics and to avoid "aliasing", i will make sure next time the signal has finite bandwidth and the sampling frequency is at least the twice the bandwidth (Nyquist frequency). I hope you are convinced now Eng. Omar.
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| | Unrecorded Date elmi iyo omar wax lawada fahmayo soo qora, technical words u dhaafa iskuulada. here we must use simple english. thank you.
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| | Unrecorded Date Salaam Mussa Ahmed and Eng. Omar, brothers, I would like to thank you for your kind and encouraging words. That is my point of view. In all honesty I have looked into the matter of divorce and its effect on children. They will always lack having both their parents in the same home. I wish things had been different for their sake. May Allah help us all at all times. Ducaysane, calaf can be anywhere and it is not fair to say that all women living in foreign countries are bad and all women living back home are good. Personally I was never raised in Somalia and my ex-husband was however I am 100% more religious and traditional than him. Also, let us not forget the number of men that are nor good fathers nor good husbands that somali women are supporting and tolerating on a daily basis. So let us pray for someone good for our brother and all those that are sincerely looking for a spouse. Elmi, I must admit that I agree with you. In a marriage it is always best that the husband be the main provider and more educated than his wife. The husband is the leader/imam of the family and as such should be respected at all times. Some men can handle a more educated sister but not all. I believe most Somali men are too sensitive and insecure to handle a woman that is more educated and sophisticated than them. All of you keep a smile on your face even when in pain!
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| | Unrecorded Date sheegkada hablaha soomaaliyeed ee halkaan ku daabacan waxaa kilifay jaab marnan raga soomaalida iyo masuuliyad daro taabatay dhamaan raga iyo dumarka soomaalida. calaacal xal maahan ,xisaatan ceeb maahan .
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| | Unrecorded Date Asalamu Calaykum. Cilmi iyo Cumar, sida ay Hibo idiin sheegtay dadka waxay fahmayaa u soo qora(anigoo aad ugu qoslay sida aad u asiibtay ENG Cumar fikradaha kala duwan ee Cilmi iyo Khadra), hadana dad badan ayaan fahmeynin kalmadaha technogy ah ee aad adeegsateen. Sidaas darteed hadii aad rabtaan inaad ka hadshaan waxaas anigaa laygaa sugayaa shaqo guri next week oo ku saabsan Analaysing and Simulation to basisbroudsystems for digital comminacations (wireless communications) kaas oo lagu xalinayo Mathcad Version 8, marka bog noo fura aan uga sheekaysano oo halkan ahayn iyo technolgy walba oo cusuba. Asalamu Calaykum.
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| | Unrecorded Date To Eng. Hussein iyo Eng. Elmi, Aad ayaan ugu raacsanahay fikrada Eng. Hussein iyo walasheen Hibo in laga daayo kalmadaha farsamo (technical) oo aan dhammaanteen takhasus noo wada aheyn. Waxaan kaliya oo uga jeedey maqaalkeygii ugu horeeyey in aan si diblomaasiyad ah utusaaleeyo doodda dabadheeraatay ee Eng. Elmi iyo Abbaayo Khadro. Waxaanse ka xumahay in Engineer Elmi ii fahmay si qaldan iiguna soo jawaabay sidii waxmagaradka caanka ku ah xishood darida. Waxaan rajeynayaa in cilmugu wax inaga badalo kana fogaanno doodda iyo muranka una horseedno walaalaha kale asluum iyo xishood. Walaalkiin Eng. Omar
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| | Unrecorded Date Asalamu Calaykum. To: Eng-Omar. Engineer Cumar salaan ka dib aad ayaad ugu mahadsan tahay sida wanaagsan ee fikradahayaga u fahantay una qaadatay, waxaana illaah (swt) ka rajeyneynaa dad badan oo waxbartay waxna fahmaya sidaada oo kale inuu nasiiyo. Eng Hussein
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| | Unrecorded Date To ENG-OMAR Stop applying this technical language here like you working on some sort of an electero-magnetic field using how radition and xrays transmitted whether it is megahertz, kilohertz, gigahertz or high and low frequences gammarays, UVL, FM, AM bands or short waves, none of these spectrum interest me so a Physicist or becaming an Engineer is not my field of interest either.I am an oncology nurse so how would you feel had i written to you on all kinds of medical termonology that you are not familiar with!.
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| | Unrecorded Date sorry not radition (radiation). kadra
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| | Unrecorded Date qadra, sheegadii oo dhan wey badalantey oo waxey noqotey in meesha foodo laga dhigo, idinkaa marka hore bilaabey technical words hadan mis-understanding ayaa dhacey. anyway, you guys its good that you all agreed not to use technical words. Omar, well, when i wrote that i was just keeping the jokes going, but didnt understood u, anyway, lets all get back to the topic with out tech words.
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| | Unrecorded Date war ikeena naagaha kibrey anaa ka shqeyne markii horeba naago hagaagsan meydaan guursan ee waxaad guursateen mid aan diinta waxba ka og´een talo waa tan!!! 1.caruurtaada labixso oo soomaaliya gee. 2. shaqo raadso. 3. diinta islaamka bar caruurtaadda. haddii kale ku daa wadanada gaalada . ILAAHOW CARUUR GAALO AH HA ITUSAN
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| | Unrecorded Date Ok Elmi,by the way iam not a chick i am a wife and i have no problem my husband being the boss. He is a good financial planner and he takes care of all our investiments and bussiness,but as i mentioned earlier we both participitate on decision making and problem solving.Respect and communication is the foundation of our relationship.
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| | Unrecorded Date kadra are u trying to pick up the guy? he never said u were a chick. ar soomaali maryooley! ar hus dheh!
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| | Unrecorded Date Well understood, well received. No more comments!! Eng. Omar
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| | Unrecorded Date salam to all and eid mubARAK JUST SURFING
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| | Unrecorded Date In my poin of view waxaanoo dhan waxaan u arka ku tiri ku teen ee shaqo radasaadoo meesha waqti haysakaga limuninaa. waa wallalkinn Ali libaax sanka tabtee. all the best
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| | Unrecorded Date everybody read LIBAAX'S mail,its of the hook the somali he is using is worse then his english thank you libaax.you made my day,now i'll be laughing all day. peace ya'll. olanda out
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| | Unrecorded Date This was rather stimulating thread, I utterly enjoyed the way it was going. Khadra: you are Nurse who looks after the cancer patients huh! That is throughly admirable job. I remember before I have applied to the medical school that I am at now, I had to do some sort of work expriance and I worked with A&E department, and I assuredly tell you that the nurses there were splendidly educated compare to their junior and SHO Doctors. I am elated to see all these Somali profetionals. Mohamed Mahamoud Jama Boston
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| | Unrecorded Date Dear Mohamed mohamoud Jama Thanks for acknowledging, not many people are aware of the kind of work we do as nurses which involves meeting the physical, psycological,medical care needs of a patient. It is the nurse who assess,plans,implements and evaluates the pt's condition,illness or treatment. They spend more time with the pt than Drs' are :. they know more about the pt and establish a pathway of communication between the pt and the Dr. to meet the pt's goal of care.
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| | Unrecorded Date assalamu alaikum warahmah, bashir i'd like to state ma sympathy for you and your childeren...bashir abdi brother i really couldn't agree with you more...well except the somali part...no i'm playing you've really made a clear and concise statement to the brother...i believe that many of our marriages start out wrong, hence end in wrong...when you get married for the wrong reason then you're obviously not gonna like it...not only like it but would probably try to destroy it... i honestly think that many of the problems that married couples face are linked to lack of islamic knowledge...we emphasize so much on worldly knowledge that we forget our main reasoning of being here in this world was to worship allah...worldly knowledge is a good thing if it's combined with the religion...ok i thinki've drifted away from ma point and i do apologize for that...ma point was the imams need to change the way they perform their weddings...i really think that can make a big difference as far as the marriage is concerned...if wheneva couples wanna get married the imam does pre-marital counselling with both couples there ofcourse in a islamic manner...it can trulymake a difference...give the couples different scenarios and ask them how they'd handle it...ask them over and over what their main reason for getting married is? i mean try to make their irrational thoughts rationalized...see most of the times when couples get married they believe they're in love...when they actually aren't...the best love is the one that comes withing the boundaries of a marriage and that's the one that would last... to the couples pray istikharah when you wanna get married, try to realize that it's a big step and not a minor one...and if you have already made a mistake learn from your mistakes see what was wrong with your prior marriage (s) and how you can change that so it doesn't affect you again... and neva seek help from the kufars cuz they'll mess you up even more...trust me the gaalo psychologist need mental help themselves let along helping others...so guys pls think about it b4 you make a mistake that'll haunt you for the rest ofyourlife and even maybe the life to come... ohh b4 i forget there was someone who said something about being from canada has something to do with women mistreating their husbands...or something to that affect...amm let me tell you this dear no matter where we are you'll find some that're goo and some that're bad so canada has nothing to do with it... ohh i've said so much i'm so sorry guys i really am oops!!! wassalamu alaikum warahmah
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| | Unrecorded Date Dear Bashir Abdi: Your piece was well written, well detailed, well crafted and your words were words that are capturing and invading both the hearts and the minds of its readers coming deep in from the heart of a honest disappointd dad. Believe me, you commincated to us and you conveyed all your genuine feeling t us. And thanks for sharing for this honest experience of yours. I, for one, have never been there(married), but some of your words like "children become bargaining chip", will haunt on me many years downt the road. It is beacaue i saw children used as a diplomacy-gunbaot. I saw those scenerios where the many dads' love of their children been exploited by veciuos mothers. i saw dads being blackmailed day in day out. I saw divorced women who date every Tom, Dick and Harry from every race just to make feel bad their former husbands, the fathers their children. So, i am asking you, do you think it is about time that somali men realize this tactic and act like they don't care the kids?. i know it is cheap question, but i came to conclusion that most somali women are very vindictive who have no morals whatsoever. , they will lose everything just to make you feel bad. I saw some wadaads whom after being divorced abodaned the hijab and turned to be the nastiest humans species just to torture their former husbands. kaahin
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| | Wednesday, June 28, 2000 - 10:53 am WALAAL BASHIIR AAD IYO AAD AYAAN UGA XUMAHAY ARINTA KUGU DHACDAY. LAKIIN WAXAAN KU LEEYAHAY KU SAMAR SAMRAA SAD HELA, MIDA LABAAD ISKU DAY INAAD MARKASTA ILMAHAAGA XIRIIR WANAAGSAN LA YEELATO. WAXAAN KALOO LEEYAHAY WALAALAHA WAANADA QALDAN BIXINAYA OO LEH SOOMAALIYA GABAR FIICAN KA RAADSO WAXAAD OGAATAAN QOF WALBA WANAAGIISA IYO XUMAANTIISA KUMA XIRNA MEESHUU JOOGO. WALAAL WAXAAN ILAAHAY UGA BARYAYAA IN INTII ILAAHAY GUUR WANAAGSAN SIIYEY UU U SII KORDHIYO INTTII KALENA UU SIIYO GUUR QAYR QABA OOY KU NASTAAN. WAXAAN AHAY GABAR SOOMAALIYEED OO XAAS AH, NINKAYGUNA WAA SAXIIBKAYGA KOWAAD EE AAN WAXAAN KU DOORASANAYO JIRIN GABAGABDII WAXAAN LEEYAHAY DADKA IS QABA QALBIYADOODA ILAAHAY HA ISKU WANAAJIYO
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| | Friday, June 30, 2000 - 02:48 pm salaam all. it seems the place was hot. thought less has been written lately. taqwah, religion and traditional has nothing to do with these topic. of coarse emotional decisions religion carries behind might help but not always. on the other hand, long marriage it seems not muslims but chiristians are managing to have life time marriages and some muslims so no religion values are playing any significant part. for the rest it seems we came to sort of close conclusion bye for now
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| | Thursday, February 15, 2001 - 01:07 pm INTIINAN MEESHA KUWADA QORTAYOOW WAXAAD TIHIIN 80% DAAROOD, WAANA KAXUMAHAY INEEY MASHAQADAN QURBO IDIINKEENTAY... GOOD LUCK IS ALL I CAN SAY.. WADAN BAAD LEEDIHIINE WADANKIINA KU NOQDA HADII KALE NOLOSHIINA MISIRIBLE KU DHAMEEYSTA.. DAAROODNA IGA MAXIGTAAN.. LAAKIIN RUNTA BAA AH.
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